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Douglas M. Avis

1946 - 2019

Douglas M. Avis obituary, 1946-2019, Encinitas, CA

Douglas Avis Obituary

Douglas M. Avis June 16, 1946 - April 14, 2019 Encinitas Born in Oceanside, California, on June 16, 1946, Doug passed away at his home in Encinitas on April 14, 2019. A lifelong resident of north San Diego County, Doug attended St. Mary's elementary school and Oceanside High School. He was the quarterback of the 1963 OHS football team that won the school's first state CIF championship. A Pirate for life! During his youth he was also a City of Oceanside Lifeguard. He was a 1970 graduate of San Diego State University. Early in his career, Doug taught at the Carlsbad Army and Navy Academy and owned an insurance agency in Oceanside. He began his land investment career in the 1970s serving as a consultant on the North Coast Village project in Oceanside. Doug founded Benchmark Pacific, a land investment company in 1980. Over the last thirty-nine years the company's efforts have established numerous projects, which continue to set a high standard for livable communities. The Carlsbad projects include: The Villages of La Costa, Hanover Beach Colony, Waters End, Poinsettia Cove, Poinsettia Point, Poinsettia Shores, La Costa Greens and La Costa Valley. Doug was very proud of his involvement in successfully bringing California State University San Marcos to north San Diego County. Doug's company, which owned the land, worked with the City of San Marcos and state officials to site the university on the land that was formerly the Prohoroff poultry farm. The campus, known as CSU San Marcos, is a full, four-year university with an enrollment of over 12,000 students. Throughout his life Doug had a strong commitment to public service. He served on the Oceanside Planning Commission and was elected to the Oceanside City Council in 1976. As Oceanside's member on the San Diego Transit Development Board, Doug helped guide the effort that resulted in the North County Transit District system. As a member of Carlsbad's first Housing Commission, Doug was part of a very successful effort to bring more affordable housing to North County. After moving to Encinitas, Doug was appointed to two terms on the Encinitas Planning Commission. More recently he was a member and chairman of the Carlsbad Village Association. He loved to surf, fish, barbecue and travel with his wife Lori. Doug is survived by his wife of 21 years Lori, daughter and grandson Tracie and Max Avis, son and grandson Jake and Max Avis, sister Kathy Green (Tommy), nephews Brandon (Jennifer), Brett and Bryce Lucore, and great-nieces Lauren and Lindsay Lucore. He is also survived by his work family, Julie, Brian, Betsy and Rick. Doug was very grateful to have such a professional and dedicated group of people to work with over these many years. Doug was predeceased by his parents Donald Avis and Marjorie Avis. Doug was selfless in caring about family, friends and all those he touched. They will so miss him.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune from Aug. 17 to Aug. 18, 2019.

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Your Daughter

August 8, 2021

I love you Dad.

Greg Steen

July 3, 2021

I wish to offer my condolences to the Family of Doug Avis and all his friends, and those lucky enough to have met such a wonderful person.
I met Doug In the early eighties, when I met and started to associate with his daughter, Tracie.
Thanks Doug, and Joan, for rearing, and raising, my Best Friend Tracie.
I will always remember the stories Tracie related to me about the times she spent with her Father. Camping trips to Santa Barbara, and Catalina, Padre games, concerts. Going with us to watch Max play football and basketball.
He picked up Max every weekend to take him to lunch.
Tracie, I´m so sorry for your loss.
I know how much your Father was an influence in your life, and I can´t possibly comprehend how much you must miss him.

Phyllis & Robert Ellis

July 3, 2021

Our love to Tracie and Max. We will always remember the 50th wedding anniversary party you and your Dad through for Don and Marge. Our hearts go out to you both during this difficult time.

Noreen Bradstreet

July 3, 2021

Tracie, Your Father was so proud of you and Max. He lit up whenever he spoke of you. I hope you know you meant the world to him. He was a wonderful man and will be missed.

Nancy Lewis & Family

July 2, 2021

Our love to Doug's Daughter Tracie and Grandson Max. Doug loved you both very much. You had a very strong bond.

Robin Prestwood

August 20, 2019

The OHS Class of 1963 wish to express our condolences to Kathy and the Family of Doug. He was a popular "kid" at OHS. Well liked and remembered. He will be missed by all.

Once a Pirate Always a Pirate!!!

August 18, 2019

So sorry to hear of Doug's passing. I enjoyed meeting him for coffee in the Village, and talking real estate.

Jerry Ryan
Carlsbad, California

August 18, 2019

I enjoyed doing business with Doug. He was always a standup, honest guy, with a positive attitude. - PH

Eric Flodine

August 18, 2019

Doug was a role model for me in business and community involvement. He was a true gentleman, and is missed.

Ron Moffett

August 18, 2019

Remember Doug and his older sister used to visit our family in Vista, RIP.

Carlton Lund

August 17, 2019

Doug Avis was a visionary on land development!
He provided such well designed projects. I remember talking to him about the Waters End project and he felt so good about project as did I!

The beautiful communities that he so skillfully
created (with a great team) will permanently
add to the spectacular city of Carlsbad FOREVER!

Thank you Doug Avis and God Bless you and your family!

Sandy & Dang Horan

August 17, 2019

RIP my old friend!! From elementary school on, one of my heroes, just good people! God bless, you will be missed!

August 17, 2019

Doug wrote my first auto insurance policy back when I was a youngin!
He was definitely one of the good guys!,

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