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Captain Donald H. Lackowski April 2, 2020 Redondo Beach, CA Donald Harry Lackowski, 86, passed away peacefully on Thursday, April 2, 2020 in Torrance, California. An early riser, world traveler, adventurer, and hiker with a wry sense of humor, Don was blessed to have lived a full life. After attaining a Masters degree in Engineering and serving in active duty, he settled in San Diego working at Naval Ocean Systems Center and continuing in the Navy Reserve. During his 35-plus years in the Navy, Don served in Vietnam and had many accomplishments, including his work on four patents. After retirement, he served faithfully for more than 16 years logging over 6,600 hours as one of the original docents on the USS Midway. He was devoted to his family, the Navy, his Chicago roots, and his alma mater, the University of Illinois. He possessed a warm and easy smile, was delighted by children and pets, and relished story telling of his life and times. He was a good man. Don was preceded in death by his parents, Harry and Beatrice Lackowski, his sister, Patricia, and his brother, James. Family to cherish his memory include his daughter, Elizabeth (Liz) Ann Lackowski Seyferth of Redondo Beach; son, Dr. Douglas (Doug) Michael Lackowski and wife Jane Knechtel of Portland, Oregon; grandsons, David Alexander (Alex) Seyferth of San Francisco, Conor Michael Lackowski and Simon Douglas Lackowski of Portland; as well as his partner in life, Mary Katherine (Kay) Hathaway, of San Diego. Captain Lackowski will be laid to rest in the National Memorial Cemetery of the Pacific (Punchbowl), Oahu, Hawaii, with full military honors at a date TBD. A Memorial and Celebration of Life will also be scheduled aboard USS Midway at a date TBD. In lieu of flowers, donations made in his name to the University of Illinois at Urbana- Champaign College of Engineering (https://uif.uillinois.edu/give/), the USS Midway, or to a charity of your own choosing would be appreciated.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Apr. 12, 2020.

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John Kullin

March 16, 2025

Captain Lackowski was my CO on the USS Durham back in the early 1980s. Several years later we ran into each other at a Naval medical center getting our annual physical. He was always in great shape, and mentioned that he was getting an EKG and his heart rate was so low it triggered an alarm. Too bad there isn't some way for all of us to stay in touch.

Chuck and Sandy Bigsby

April 27, 2020

I worked with Don in our Navy Reserve Unit here in San Diego. Our unit met one weekend a month.
We would like to attend his memorial and celebration of life on the Midway. Please let us know when that will be.
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Laurie

April 17, 2020

Don will be missed at the Midway museum. Friendly and dedicated, with many generous years of service to a great cause. His legacy will live on.

Kelley Koul

April 13, 2020

I only knew Don for a short period of time, a few months, unfortunately. What a fun, kind, easygoing guy, with an impressive military career! We will miss him terribly, our love to you, Liz, and to Kay as well.

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