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Bridgette Salama Obituary

BRIDGETTE MARIE (GROSE) SALAMA
1968 - 2009

Bridgette was born to Christina F. (Kelly) Grose and Kenneth L. Grose on March 21st, 1968 at Arroyo Grande Community Hospital, Arroyo Grande California.
She grew up as the youngest child in the family with six other siblings all of whom were at least five years older. She was truly the "baby" of the household and was nurtured by all.
In the years eight through seventeen she excelled at softball as a catcher. By her 12th year all of her brothers and sister were grown and Bridgette and her father Kenneth lived in Santa Maria where she attended Lakeview Jr. High and graduated from Righetti High School as an all CIF catcher.
Bridgette was married in 1988 and a beautiful baby girl was born to Bridgette and Bill Duggins. Her name was Ashley Elizabeth and she was greatly loved by Bridgette. As a mom Bridgette was always busy with Ashley at every point in her life - preschool to her now sophomore year in high school.
The essence of a kind person is a person that NEVER says anything bad about anyone, and that was Bridgette.
In the year 2006 Bridgette became re-acquainted with Charles Salama, an old childhood friend. After an extended illness Bridgette and Charles Salama began their new life together on May 26th of 2007, at the "View" of Morro Bay Golf Course. This beautiful couple became "soul mates" in marriage and worked hard together to overcome their health hardships. Bridgette loved cooking and wanted to be a chef.
Bridgette was preceded in death by her loving older brother Mark de Mandel, March 14th, 2008.
The Angels are joined by another as Bridgette leaves us bodily, but not in spirit.
Bridgette is survived by her daughter Ashley E. Duggins, mother Christina Kelly, sister Kimberly Okerson, brothers Eric and Jack de Mandel, brothers Keith and Kenny Grose, father Kenneth L. Grose, her dear husband Charles Salama, son C.J Salama and numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews.
A memorial service will be held 1:00 p.m. Friday, February 20th, 2009 at Marshall~Spoo Sunset Funeral Chapel, 1239 Longbranch Avenue, Grover Beach, Ca 93433. (805) 489-5552.

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Published by Santa Maria Times on Feb. 19, 2009.

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Randy Kemish

March 11, 2009

Dear Charles,

It has been nearly 30 years and I have recalled you often in my thoughts. In this difficult time I am especially reminded of how much warmth your personality radiated, enveloping those of us around you with a sense of wellbeing. I am so sorry for your loss and hope that you find solace and comfort in the knowledge that you leave an enduring impression on those you love which they will carry with them forever.

Dennine Munoz-Crowley

March 3, 2009

Dearest Ash, Charles & Ken...

I am going to miss her forever. I will hold the memory of all our good times with her in my heart...
She was my friend, and I love her...
From the first day we ment in 8th grade I knew that we would always be close.. Didn't matter if we talked two minute's ago, two weeks, or two months.. it was always "Hey Girlie What's up?". She was always one of those people who when you saw her and she smiled you knew she was genuinly happy to see you..
I called her "Brooke" that was the nickname she got from me in 8th grade. Mr. Bush's Science class as she layed across three tables and procraimed. "You know what get's in between me and my Calvin Kliens? ...nothing!?" the spoke's person for that was Brooke Shields..
In honor of that my child's middle name is Brooke..
Oh how honored I was to be Invited to her wedding. and it was beautiful..
I count myself as one of the lucky few who got to have her in my life. We left nothing unsaid, and she knew how much I loved her..
I love you Brooke , don't forget.k..

Rebecca Perske

February 24, 2009

Dear family and friends,
(bgbbc v scxc nbmn) the words of Bridgette's grandson Rylee -aka- Bug.
I will always remember and never forget how amazing Bridgette was as a mother to her daughter, stepchildren and animals. Bridgette has always been the kindest sweetest woman I have ever encountered. I will always have her with me in my heart. My thoughts are with you all.

Debbie Snowden

February 20, 2009

Dear Ken and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I wish I could be there...I cherish the memories I have of you and Bridgette and the time you both invested in my life. I love you both dearly,
Debbie Nix Snowden

Donna Gorman/ Rench

February 19, 2009

Keith and family,
I am really sorry for your loss. i know your pain.Try to hang hang in there. I will be thinking of you.

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