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Wayland Hubbart
March 6, 2014
I met Aaron when I joined a men's support group shortly after I moved to Olympia in 1988. Aaron was always the steady one, he was a good listener, and a good friend to all of us. I also have a picture of Aaron in my mind, running his circuit around Capitol Lake no matter what the weather. Carry on my friend!
February 23, 2014
I was Aaron's secretary while he worked for a policy research think tank in Minneapolis. It was an extremely fun job, a slice of the times (early 70s). One of my fond memories is of Aaron writing in his office -- the whole place, including the walls, covered with hand writing on lined tablet paper (his way of cut and paste before word processors and computers). . We wore jeans and Saturday clothes to the office, worked long long hours - I remember a 19 hr day, then going out to the airport to put a grant request on a plane; no Express Mail yet. At one point, I was a courier. He put me on a plane over a weekend to deliver grants to DC, Philadelphia, New Haven and Boston - what fun! Because he respected as equal partners all who worked with him, my self esteem grew and eventually he persuaded the organization to pay for me to go to night school at the U of Mn.
All of Aaron's six kids were very young then and sometimes he brought them to work. One time he brought 3 of his kids, the dog (an extremely big, furry, drooling beautiful Black Newfoundland named "Eloise Largely Lowin"), and a huge turtle that had found its way (or did the dog drag it?) from the lagoon near their house to take up residence in their bathtub. I'll never forget this image coming off the elevator!
Through Aaron, I met so many interesting people, learned about a whole new culture of family, food and friends. He epitomized "Friend", a lesson for us all. I became close to his wife, Miriam, attending night school and yoga together. We still remain friends with her also instrumental in encouraging me toward further education -- I love you for this, Miriam! And how I love their children, each and every one of them! They will forever remain dear to me -- what interesting and loving adults they have become! I felt like a member of the family, maybe a sister neither Aaron, nor Miriam had, and auntie to my dear Neil, Dave, Peter, Amy, Nikki & Colin and will always see myself that way. Even though there were many miles between Minnesota and Washington state, Aaron knew and befriended my husband and children. The kids have fond memories of Aaron, referring to him as the "Where's Waldo guy".
I am also so grateful that he found his wonderful Linda who helped this very complex man find peace.
Goodbye dear friend, rest in peace, and thank you.
Mary Kay
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