James Edward Backus

1941 - 2019

James Edward Backus obituary, 1941-2019, Tacoma, WA

BORN

1941

DIED

2019

James Backus Obituary

James Edward Backus

Beloved husband and father, James Edward Backus, born February 9, 1941, and passed August 22, 2019. Lovingly present were his children Dean, Emily, and Sara Backus, sons in law Jonathan Thalberg and Dwayne Ivey, and granddaughters Camilli and Amaya.

Jim was born in Stockton, CA to Joyce and William Backus. Early on, the family spent summers in South Dakota. Jim was adopted by the Sioux tribe, and aptly named "Soldier Boy".

He and brother John grew up in Seattle, both attending the University of Washington. There Jim met his cherished wife, Johanna. Jim's army ROTC career took them to Germany, where Dean was born in 1966.

Upon returning to Seattle, Sara was born in 1969, and Emily in 1978. Jim taught grade school at Charles Wright Academy in Tacoma for close to a decade, then returned to active duty in 1984, working in logistics and ROTC management and teaching at Seattle University and Pacific Lutheran University. He retired as a lieutenant colonel in 1998; he then earned an MBA and was a civil servant in military deployment until 2002.

His love Johanna died in 2005. He devoted himself to volunteering, and selflessly cared for Jo's mom Frances, who died at 100 years of age in 2009. His dedication to her was a testament to his huge heart and tireless ability to serve, embrace, and honor those in need.

Jim's profound impact is remembered by many. He embodied kindness, love, patriotism, service, and integrity.

A service will be held next spring at St. Andrews Episcopal Church in Tacoma, WA. Contact [email protected] for details. In lieu of flowers, please donate to any organizations that honor Jim's values and legacy.

We love you, soldier boy-

at ease, and rest in peace.

We will miss you always.

Sign Jim's online

Guest Book at www.Legacy.com

Published by The Seattle Times on Sep. 15, 2019.
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I remember Jim Backus because of his ties to the community at Charles Wright Academy. He was a great teacher at at the CWA Lower School. He was a good father and husband. I attended school with his son, Dean, and daughter, Sara. God bless Jim always!

David

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March 16, 2021

We are so sorry to hear about Jim's passing. We know you all miss him so much. His happiness must have been complete when he had the grandchildren. We will come to the memorial if we receive word of the time. Would love to see all the. Family. Gini Clark and I found out today about Jim, so if she can get a day off, I know she will be there.

Hope to see you all soon, Nikki and Jed Casey

Nikki Casey

October 2, 2019

To the Backus family. I give thanks for knowing Jim over the years. Hope all of you are doing alright. Bob Parker

September 15, 2019

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