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Dan Wolch
January 3, 2011
I remember John from when we were students playing trombone together. John was my TA for the summer band program in Bellevue. He was a talented musician with a beautiful sound on the bass trombone. It had been a long time since we have been in touch, but I remember I how nice he was and terrifically talented. It made me very sad to read this. My condolences.
Kim P.
November 8, 2010
So sorry to hear about your loss. I am shocked to hear the news. John was a friend of mine in college. I am so glad he called me a year ago after not talking for 15 years. He was in MS. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Steve Wolfinbarger
October 5, 2010
I'm so sorry to hear about John. He was a good friend and a great trombone student of mine here at Western Michigan University. Very talented. He'll be missed.
Joyce Mitchell
October 2, 2010
I would like you and your family to know what a sad week this has been for me also. John was part of my life through Jim and Bob, and I saw him most weekends when he would drop by to go for a walk or just watch a movie. He and I talked often and he helped decorate my Christmas tree one year, put up the flags and the decorations for my 4th July party - and it was thanks to him that Jim came (reluctantly) to my 75th Birthday Party. One year when I was leaving on my annual trip to India he surprised me by calling me on my cell phone just as I was about to board my plane, to wish me "bon voyage" and tell me he would miss me. I was so touched. He liked my food and would be happy to sample my spicy dishes but would always go home on Saturday nights to have dinner with you all. I often passed your home on my walk after Church, and would see his little car parked near your driveway. Many years ago when he and Bob practised music across the street at the Northwest Center, (John on his trombone and Bob on piano), they made a tape for my husband of a tune they had composed especially for Joe's Birthday. It was a truly generous gesture since it was the last birthday Joe spent with us - he was suffering greatly at the time and it brought him a lot of joy (even though both boys admitted it was not "the greatest"!) I will remember John and I grieve with you and your family.
John at Mom's house last Chrismas, eating curry after our drive back from Mississippi
Jim Mitchell
September 29, 2010
I was at Chinook Jr. High with John, but we didn't become friends until we were in college. John drove his little Honda Civic down to Berkeley, and I packed up all my things and he drove me home after graduation. John had great taste. He's the one with whom I saw Pulp Fiction one afternoon at the theater in Factoria, which turned out to be a "top-5" movie for both of us ever after. He introduced me to Whit Stillman's and David O. Russell's films - part of the great independent film movement of the 90's. I introduced John to the Stones, and he became an huge fan. We cheered on the grunge movement, popularizing the Seattle sound we'd all grown up with. We ate sushi and drank micro-brews, and argued about politics. I never lost touch with John for more than a couple weeks in the past 20 years, as he went from Pacific Lutheran to UBC to U of Texas, to Mississippi, Duquesne in Pittsburgh, to UW Graduate School of Music, Western Michigan in Kalamazoo, SF, home, back to MS, and back home. I was at his wedding to Olga, and had the chance to spend time with them at their happiest, simplest moments. John kept my interest in music alive when it flagged, burning his own creation: "Exile on Graffitti Street" and many other CD's for me over the years. He kept me honest, correcting me on facts he'd somehow gathered and stored from his neverending internet perusals as I ranted about my left-wing, radical political opinions. We went on long walks the last couple years, his favorite was the walk from Madision Park to I-90 and back - the "Cobain walk", because we passed Kurt Cobain's old mansion. John was a great buddy of mine, and I've thought of him every day since Thursday, 9/16 when I last talked to him on the phone at 10pm. Thank God he called - we were good, all our misunderstandings and mistrust and character flaws forgiven and understood and laughed off. We were supposed to have lunch on Friday. Thanks, John, for all your advice, your caring for my well-being, and all the memories, good and bad. I'll miss you very much.
Mr. and Mrs. Zand
September 27, 2010
Sorry for your loss. Please accept our deepest condolences.
Maia Hansen McQuillan
September 26, 2010
Very sad to hear the news about John. I'm thinking of your family and send my condolences.
Susan Zand
September 26, 2010
We were very sorry to hear about your loss. Please accept our deepest condolences. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Becky Smith
September 25, 2010
Uncle Ed and Aunt Jane - Sharing the spot of the youngest in our respective families I always had a special spot in my heart for John. My soul grieves with you at this time of loss. The entire family is in my thoughts and prayers. May God help you and comfort you and blanket you with the peace that only He can give.
Dariush Zand
September 25, 2010
My deepest condolences to the entire Reifel family.
September 25, 2010
Aunt Jane, and Uncle Ed and family, I'm so sorry for you loss. John was such a wonderful person and he will be missed. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Denise Snelson
Sandra Carroll Hughes
September 24, 2010
Reifel Famly - Please accept my heartfelt condolences. May you find comfort in your memories and the prayers for peace that embrace you. I knew Susan years ago through my sister Angela, her former husband Hooman, and his best friend Daruish.
September 24, 2010
Uncle Ed, Aunt Jane, Bill, Sue and families,
My prayers and thoughts for you are constant, memories fond, tears full.
Pam Knight (Buckley, WA )
Ronna Tillman
September 24, 2010
I was John's current employer... My heart and prayers go out to the family. I have gotten to know John over the past 3 yrs through employment and have grown great respect for him. He always put his best foot forward and took pride in his work. He was an asset to our company and will be greatly missed!
Kathryn McCormick
September 23, 2010
Aunt Jane and Uncle Ed, my thoughts are with you during this time of sadness.
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