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May Macnab Obituary

May Kihara Macnab

Our courageous, beautiful, world-traveling, mother, grandmother, sister and aunt passed quietly on August 19, 2018 at the age of 78.

May was born in Seattle to Yoshito and Yoshiko Kihara. At the age of two, along with most of the Japanese in the Pacific Northwest, May and her family were sent to internment camp at Minidoka, Idaho.

Returning to Seattle after the war, May went on to graduate as Valedictorian from Garfield High School in 1958. She continued her education at the University of Washington and graduated Magna Cum Laude with a B.S. in Microbiology in 1962. She was inducted into Phi Beta Kappa and Phi Sigma. May left Seattle to attend the University of California at Berkeley and received her M.A. in Microbiology in 1965. While there, she met and married Nicholas Ornston and together they became parents to Alexandra Gray.

May's career spanned forty-eight years and she retired in 2008 from Yale University as a Research Scientist in the Molecular Biophysics and Biochemistry Department. During her years at Yale, she met her second husband, Dr. Robert Macnab, who preceded her in death in 2003.

During her years at Yale, May was published in many different scientific journals. Her scientific contributions ranged from microbial physiology to biomechanics. She oversaw all aspects of the lab including the post-doctoral students working there. May soon became the surrogate mother to many of the students who had come from all over the world. She invited them for the holidays, found them housing and attended their weddings. At the same time, she served as Secretary of the CT State League of Women Voters and was the President of the PTSA of Hamden High School.

May returned to Seattle in 2008 and immediately became actively involved with Mercer Island's Friends of the Library, Team Survivor Dragon Boat Team, Garfield High School 1958 Reunion Committee, a Mah Jong group, a Lunch Bunch group, as well as taking many classes with Nikkei Concerns.

May was always interested in the pursuit of learning through reading and travel. May read four to five books per week until the time of her death. Her travels took her to all seven continents, most major landmarks and cities and introduced her to many new friends. After her cancer diagnosis, May continued to live with the same positive energy and zest for life. Illness did not interrupt May's love of travel. She ventured with her sisters to Charleston SC, Iceland, Oregon wine country and Whistler BC. She also took her granddaughter, Lana, on a promised trip to Yucatan and it was a great adventure for both. Before her illness, she traveled with her eldest granddaughter, Maya, to the Galapagos.

Of her many achievements, May received her greatest joy from her daughter and her three granddaughters. The pride and love she felt for them was known to all. For this reason, she traveled to Japan twice a year to visit them. May always marveled that Alexandra would so willingly and capably bring them to Seattle twice a year to visit starting when Maya was seven weeks old.

May is survived by her daughter, Alexandra Ornston (Makoto Ueda), granddaughters, Maya, Lana and Kaya, sisters, Helen Saito, Alice (Shuzo) Takeuchi, and Joice Masuda and numerous nephews, nieces and cousins.

The family would like to thank Seattle Cancer Care Alliance, Evergreen Hospice and Helping Hands for their care and compassion.

In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to Planned Parenthood, Seattle Cancer Care Alliance or the League of Women Voters.

A private memorial will be held at a later date.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Seattle Times on Aug. 26, 2018.

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Joan Slonczewski

December 16, 2018

I remember May at Yale in the 80s when I was a graduate student in Bob's lab. May taught us to make figures using a French curve and pantograph, inking the letters one by one. She kept the lab running, and was model for me when I had to start my own lab at Kenyon. Will always remember.

Patrick Nolan

October 14, 2018

I just learned of May's passing from a mutual friend, and send my deepest condolences to her daughter and her entire family. I met May in 1978 when I became the business manager of the Department of Molecular Biophysics and Biochemistry at Yale University. For the following 30 years plus May became a dear friend but also an integral part of our MB&B family. She was always ready to help our staff and others in so many ways. At Christmas time, May and her husband Bob would make a gift to the local Food Bank using the names of our office staff in the contribution. (This meant far more to all of us than any material gift.) It was just one small example of May's kind and caring nature. She was so much more than a brilliant scientist, she was a loving and lovable human being.

Fay Wang

August 30, 2018

I met May several years ago when we were both members of the Friends of the Mercer Island Library. We worked together on a number of book sales. May was good with numbers (we were also cashiers), well organized and diligent when setting up books, and knowledgeable about the many donated books. Soon she became the Secretary for our group. We respected and liked May and kept her position open for her after her diagnosis until later when she said she could no longer serve.

In our conversations I learned a little about her Berkeley education, Yale work experience, and years of living in Connecticut. She felt it was a good decision to return to the area after her husband passed away, especially since her three supportive sisters and families lived nearby. What a coincidence that I remembered her niece Laurie Saito who knows my oldest daughter from their MI school days. May felt fortunate to have her family and friends nearby. She also spoke about her Garfield class reunion/get togethers.

May spoke often and warmly about her daughter and grandchildren, and about the time she spent with them even though they live in Japan. She appreciated that her daughter facetimed with her every day during her illness.

The last time I dined with May, her caretaker pushed her in her wheelchair to nearby Mio Posto as she was in the mood for Italian food. Even then she still enjoyed reading as I noticed the open book she was then reading in her home.

Lisa & Henry Rawas

August 29, 2018

May was truly a truly extraordinary and courageous person and loyal friend. We will miss her dearly. Sincere condolences to her family.

Jackie Toma

August 27, 2018

I will remember May's generousity, warmth and free spirit. She paddled with me on the Vintage Sake and Sake Fusion Dragonboat teams and played Mah Jong. She is my idol, someone I aspire to be.

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