Rosemary Ann Scalzo
1923 - 2020
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Rosemary Ann Scalzo

Although young at heart, Rosemary Ann (Gai) Scalzo, 96, passed away at her home the morning of May 4, 2020. Every one of her days was spent building a life of love, family, faith, and community.

Born "in the bakery" on June 10, 1923 to Giglio and Cicilia Gai. Rose and her brothers, Henry and Phil Gai, grew up in their two-story home that served as their first family bakery. In 1941, her parents bought Seattle French Baking Company. Gai's Bakery later moved over to its current location at South Weller and Jackson Streets.

After attending Garfield High School, Rose married Victor Scalzo where they started their family on Dearborn Street until they settled in Yarrow Point to raise their three children, Marlene, Steve, and Debbie. Her home was open to all, whether it was a festive Fourth of July party or a sunny day on the lake, it always served as the centerpiece of her family.

Rose was a part of the fabric of any community or organization she touched. She was a dedicated parishioner at Sacred Heart Parish in Bellevue. She and her husband helped build the Clyde Hill church and school facilities where their family spent every Sunday attending mass. Her Italian heritage was able to shine when she started the first Sacred Heart Parish Italian Dinner. She founded the Cicilia Gai Orthopedic Guild and the Eastside Chapter of the American Cancer Society and she spent countless hours volunteering at Overlake Service League, Catholic Childhood, Children of Mary (Forest Ridge School), Ryther Child Center League, and the Seattle University Mother's Club Board. She was always the first to raise her hand when the cause was for education and community. With her dear friend, Victor Rosellini by her side, they started the Forest Ridge School Auction and the Seattle Preparatory School Auction in 1965. Many schools nationally followed her footprint. She was graciously acknowledged by Forest Ridge School with an Outstanding Service Award in 1985 and honored as a SPREE Honoree by Seattle Preparatory School in 2009.

Rose enjoyed life and she loved to travel. She and her husband had many adventures during his time as President of Associated General Contractors (AGC) representing his second-generation family business, Thomas Scalzo Construction and Heavy Hauling Company, which he owned with his brothers Joseph and Robert. She also never missed an opportunity to vacation with family on the beaches of Maui and the warmth of Palm Desert. But, she was at her best when she could entertain at her home. She hosted Italian parties, Fourth of July parties, and countless birthday and dinner parties. Everyone wanted her ravioli, meatball, and cookie recipes. If she wasn't prepping the next big Italian meal for her friends and family, she found time for the golf course, playing bridge, or cruising the Puget Sound on the family sailboat, RoVic. She was a longtime member of Overlake Goff and Country Club and Meydenbauer Yacht Club. Those who spent time with Rose will have their own experience of how she made them feel special: her warm greetings, her open arms, her sharp wit, and her determination for living every day. She will be deeply missed by her family, friends, and the community she loved.

The family would like to thank Doctor Teng and Doctor Su for their many years of care and concern, as well as her caregivers Rose, Robia, and especially Martha for her gentle touch and caring heart.

As the Matriarch of five generations of her Italian family, Rose's legacy is revealed through her children, their families, and many nieces, nephews, great nieces, and great nephews. She is survived by her children Marlene Miller (John Jr.), Steve Scalzo (Angela), and Debora Centioli. Her grandchildren John F Miller Ill (Sally}, Crissey Miller, Alicia Wilmoth (Jon), Shelley Brown (Chris), Annemarie Scalzo, Lauren Centioli (Rebecca) and Cicilia Marjanovic (Nemo). Great grandchildren Johnny Miller, Jamie Miller, Brooke Wilmoth, Vivian Wilmoth, Calvin Brown, Malcolm Brown, Maximus Marjanovic, Theodore Centioli, and Joseph Centioli. In addition to her parents and siblings, she was preceded in death by her husband of 70 years, Victor, and her daughter-in-law, Angela.

Rose will be laid to rest near family she cherished and loved, in a private ceremony at Calvary Catholic Cemetery. Rose's family will plan a Mass of Christian Burial and a celebration to honor her life when it is safe to gather.

In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to Forest Ridge School of the Sacred Heart, 4800-139th Avenue SE, Bellevue, WA 98006, or visit ; Seattle Children's Hospital, PO Box 5371, M/5 5-200, Seattle, WA 98145, or visit ; or Seattle Preparatory School, 2400 11th Avenue East, Seattle, WA 98102, or visit www.seaprep .org .

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Published in The Seattle Times from May 17 to May 19, 2020.
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July 8, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. Rose was a friendly, wise, kind and dear person I had the grace to know through her friendship with the Faye, and the Allen family. Going to games, cruises, celebrations or movie nights, Rose was a bright light in the group. I will miss her, and so give my condolences to her dear family. Blessings, Barb (Ingram) Alexander (of Barb and Tom Ingram)
Barbara Alexander
May 26, 2020
We are very sorry to hear of the loss of Rose
She was a very accomplished lady and will be missed my many but especially her fantastic family
We remember her from Sacred Heart and Forest Ridge and all she helped with
She will have a great place in heaven
John Visich and Family
john visich
May 18, 2020
The Gores Family is very saddened to hear the news of Rose's passing. We have wonderful memories of our times with Rose, especially those delicious Italian dinners with pasta and meatballs that she made so well. She was a delightful hostess with a warm smile to greet you at the door and a quick wit to make you laugh.
We were blessed to be included in her many family gatherings over the years. She will be greatly missed by us all and remembered always in our hearts and prayers. Rest in peace, Rose.
Ann and Tom Gores
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