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Bernard Kaufman Obituary

Bernard Kaufman Jr. Beloved patriarch of a large family and revered physician, died peacefully at home in San Francisco on July 9, 2008. The cause was pancreatic cancer. He was 93 years old. Born in San Francisco in 1914, Bernard spent eight years living in Vienna, where his father, also a physician, went to study and practice medicine between 1923 and 1930. He was deeply affected by those years of rising fascism and anti-Semitism. His involvement in the Vienna Jewish Boy Scouts, his Bar Mitzvah, and his Zionist activities became formative experiences. He returned to San Francisco at age 16 and graduated from Lowell High School. He attended Stanford University where he played soccer, and he earned his medical degree at Tulane University Medical School. He was a major in the U.S. Army Medical Corps and participated in five campaigns during World War II, serving as a physician. He took part in the Normandy invasion in 1944 and was among the U.S. troops who liberated the Buchenwald concentration camp in 1945. His fluency in German and Yiddish, learned in Vienna as a child, enabled him to communicate with camp survivors, slave laborers, and German doctors and soldiers in his medical work. He returned to San Francisco in 1945 and went into medical practice with his father. He practiced internal medicine for 53 years and was an Associate Clinical Professor at University of California San Francisco. He was an active member in the American Medical Association and many other medical organizations. He was a senior attending physician at Mount Zion Hospital. A lifelong Zionist, Bernard was a president of the San Francisco District of Zionist Organization of America and a founder of the San Francisco Israel Bond Organization. He was a member of the Board of Directors of the San Francisco Jewish Welfare Federation. He was a member of the Jewish War Veterans and served on the Board of Trustees of the Judah Magnes Museum. During the 13 years of his retirement, Bernard remained active in community affairs and wrote a history of his family in the form of stories and memoirs. He is survived by his daughters and sons-in-law, Sharon and Seth Kaufman, Rabia Joan and Benjamin Van Hattum, and Deborah Kaufman and Alan Snitow; eight grandchildren; special friend Frida Koppl; and numerous cousins, nieces and nephews. He was the husband of Shirley Kaufman Daleski of Jerusalem and the late Edith Schoenberger Kaufman, and he was the brother of the late Joy Belmont. Funeral services will be held on Friday, July 11th at Sinai Memorial Chapel, 1501 Divisadero St. at Geary Blvd. Contributions may be sent to: Judah Magnes Museum, 2911 Russell St., Berkeley, CA 94705, or Jewish Community Endowment Fund, 121 Steuart St., SF, CA 94105.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jul. 10, 2008.

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Willis Good

July 11, 2008

I've only gotten to know Dr. Kaufman from about 5 years of telephone conversations. He was one of the most clever, sweet and patient persons I've known. I will miss our talks.

My heart goes out to his family.

david norris

July 11, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of your fathers passing. He was an extraordinary, thoughtful and kind man. He and i became very close as we talked quite frequently over the years and I will miss him. My deepest sympathies go out to the entire Kaufman family.

Robyn Harris

July 11, 2008

I didn't know him well, but he clearly was a wonderful man. He was sharp as a wit and exuded charm. Sarah always spoke so highly of her generous and loving grandpa and every time I saw him, I couldn't wipe the smile off my face. He always made you feel so good.
So sorry for your loss.
Love, Robyn

Fred Postel

July 10, 2008

I am very sad to hear of your Father's passing. He was our family doctor for many, many years. He cared for my Grandmother, my Father and my Mother. Your Father was, kind, caring, competent and a gentle person. I'm proud to have known him.

Hannah & Daryl Cohen

July 10, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your very sad loss.
We have such fond memories of happy days spent with your father,both in Melbourne and San Francisco.
We wish you all long life and may you know no more sorrow.

Carolene Marks

July 10, 2008

I was saddened to read about your father's death. I am especially sad that he suffered from pancreatic cancer.What a fine person he was personally and professionally.He did so much to help others.

I admired his caring and his ardent support of causes in which he believed. He truly made our world a better place.

My family joins me in understanding sympathy. My husband, Milton, died ten years ago.We think of him always.

May Bernard's name be inscribed for a blessing.

Carolene

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