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Mary Jo Christensen Shartsis

Born August 10, 1942, died January 2, 2021, from Alzheimer's. A woman of great intelligence, beauty and style, Mary Jo's life was a testament to the American Dream. Raised with two sisters by her single mother in South Gate, California, she worked her way through high school and college, eventually graduating from U.C. Berkeley. Working as a secretary at the Berkeley Law School while in college, because of her obvious ability and intelligence, she was encouraged to attend Berkeley Law by a number of faculty members when there were very few women attending law school. She distinguished herself academically, serving on the Law Review.

Mary Jo went on to be one of the pioneers of women in the law. She was the second woman to be asked to work for the very prominent McCutchen firm in San Francisco, focusing on antitrust litigation. In 1975, along with her husband and Robert Charles Friese, she founded Shartsis Friese LLP, which became one of the premier mid-sized firms in the country. She practiced at the firm for over 40 years, specializing in large scale complex litigation. She served as the President of the Berkeley Law School Alumni Association, was on the Dean search committee, represented the Law School on the U.C. Berkeley Foundation, and headed the Boalt Hall Fund. In 2020, she received the Citation Award, Berkeley Law School's highest alumni honor.

Mary Jo served as President of the Legal Aid Society of San Francisco and President of the Association of Business Trial Lawyers of San Francisco. She was active in Democratic politics, with a focus on increasing the role of women in politics. She was a co-author of Matthew Bender's Federal Pretrial Civil Procedure in California. The American Jewish Committee presented her with the prestigious Learned Hand Award. Mary Jo travelled with judge and lawyer delegations to a number of foreign countries to present American approaches to the law to prominent judges in those countries.

Mary Jo was a devoted wife and mother to her three sons. In the summers she would go with her family to their cabin on the North Fork of the Snake River in Eastern Idaho to fly fish for trout. On weekends and holidays her family would spend time in the Napa Valley, where they grew world class Cabernet Sauvignon in the vineyard they owned together with life-long friends. A brilliant chef, Mary Jo would always provide wonderful meals. When the Shartsis home burned in the Oakland Fire, she still managed to maintain the stability of family life during the one year transition to a new home.

Mary Jo was charitable and compassionate. She was deeply offended by social injustice. Her philosophy of giving led her law firm to be recognized as one of the most charitable businesses in the Bay Area.

She is survived by her husband of 49 years, Arthur J. Shartsis, her three sons Alexander, Matthew and Benjamin, her daughters-in-law Kim and Melanie, and four grandchildren. Donations in her memory may be made to the Legal Aid Society of San Francisco.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jan. 4 to Jan. 6, 2021.

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Linda Baker Stanley

December 7, 2021

Art, I'm researching old acquaintances for a book I'm writing on the Bay Area, incl. Berkeley, 1947-2021. Looked you up and read the sad news. What a wonderful lawyer she was! I remember seeing you with this beautiful young woman on a bus on College Avenue as I embarked, and I'm so glad she was able to go to law school as most of us had to be satisfied with MA degrees and teaching. I'll try to get to you the Question I have for people like you and alums Helen Marcus, Mike Murakami, et al, who are on Facebook. I uphold the liberal Old Blue outspoken tradition on Twitter, too. Best memories, Linda Baker Stanley, Danville, CA [email protected]

Tauna Tuokkola

July 1, 2021

I am very sorry to hear about the loss of Mary Jo. I wish I could have known her as an adult and am saddened that I will never know this part of my family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Beverly Guettler

March 6, 2021

She was a friend from high school and a part of our girls group. Very nice to everyone and very attractive back then.
So sorry for your loss. God bless

Kirsten Niesar

January 18, 2021

So sorry to hear about this loss of a wonderful human being. Many of my childhood memories involve time spent with Art and Mary Jo, and while we have not had contact for many many years, I still remember Mary Jo as a kind, beautiful person. Reading her history makes me proud to have known her. My heart goes out to the whole family.

Denise Alter

January 12, 2021

A beautiful tribute to an amazing woman, inspirational colleague, accomplished lawyer, and dedicated humanitarian. My thoughts are with the Shartsis family. Rest in peace, Mary Jo.

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Mayumi Krause

January 7, 2021

My favorite memory of the firm’s last Halloween bash was not knowing for entire party the identity of sunglass-wearing BIG Afro hairdo woman until awards emcee Bob Friese mentioned that Mary Jo was finally having a good hair day - her wild, playful side!

Sharol Duenas

January 7, 2021

I worked with Mary Jo indirectly at the firm, but will never forget her elegance, style, grace and wonderful personality. She was an amazing woman. I worked at the firm during the 90’s. She was an impeccable woman in which I admired. She will always be remembered. My deepest condolences to Art and their family.

Jerry Engel

January 6, 2021

Mary Jo was a kind collaborator who welcomed my wife Shirley and I into her home and with her husband Art showed us how grace and friendship could be shared. May her memory be a blessing and lasting lesson in kindness.

Kimberly Reiley Clement

January 6, 2021

Mary Jo's style and elegance were unrivaled. As a neighbor and fellow lawyer I saw her in every iteration. Brilliant and giving, she was a model for all of us. My condolences to Art and the boys.

Lloyd E. Scott

January 5, 2021

Sad to hear about the passing of Mary Jo. She was a caring, dear and kind person. We were birthday twins. Rest in paradise, dear lady.

Kay Lucas

January 5, 2021

Like a flower among thorns, Mary Jo was a trail-blazer whose gracious and gentle manner stood out amidst the hard-nosed trial lawyers. Her competence, generosity and good humor inspired those of us who followed in her footsteps. A life well-lived with an enduring legacy.

Lloyd Scott

January 5, 2021

Sad and shocked to hear about Mary Jo. We were birthday twins. My first wife worked for Shartsis, Friese & Ginsburg years ago.

Mary Jo will be missed. Rest in paradise.

Mary Morrison

January 4, 2021

Mary Jo Shartsis was my boss for several years during the early 2000s. She was an extraordinary woman and I greatly admired her. Mary Jo was highly intelligent, sharp, witty, worked extremely hard, was a brilliant mother and loved her husband and family. She was a great cook and we used to talk about French recipes we enjoyed making. Mary Jo was gracious, beautiful and dressed impeccably. She was involved in so many worthy causes -- social, political, community-based, and professional. When I worked for her, she was very involved in Kamala Harris' 2003 election for Attorney General of California. Her victory was much celebrated. Now, Ms. Harris is VP Elect.
It was a pleasure working for Mary Jo. May God speed. My deepest condolences to her amazing family.

Sally

January 4, 2021

I worked with Mary Jo for many year at Shartsis, Friese & Ginsburg. She was a very caring and wonderful person. I am so sorry to hear of her passing.

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