Search by Name

Search by Name

Nancy White Obituary

Nancy Jane White After a long illness, died Nov. 27, 2008. Nancy was born in Oklahoma in 1938. She is survived by her longtime partner, Patricia Ann Ramseyer, with whom she shared ownership of the Wildside West. Nancy was a respected member of the legal profession and well known for her love of animals and her compassion for all people. The Wildside West, with its secret garden and epic and eclectic art collection, is home to many regulars, gay and straight, male and female, where the refrain, "what are all these people doing in my living room?" is often spoken. The Wildside has been a delightful non-judgmental place of refuge created by these very special women. Nancy had many happy times singing Broadway tunes at the Wild Side West, surrounded by her friends and patrons. She and Pat worked very hard to create a place of wonder and magic. We will miss her warm heart and the way she made us all feel like part of her family. Nancy is survived by her sisters Thomasina Ryburn and Ann Jackson; her nephews Jeff White, Joel Ryburn and Tom Ryburn and niece Shannon White-Lamp. A Memorial in her honor will be held Saturday, January 17, 2:00 p.m. at the Wildside West, 424 Cortland Avenue in Bernal Heights, San Francisco. Donations to the San Francisco S.P.C.A. are welcome.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Dec. 6 to Dec. 7, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Nancy White

Not sure what to say?





Roddy and Kitty O'Connor-McCarthy

January 28, 2009

Thanks for being our friend Nancy its bin good to know you, our love and thoughts are with you and your family.

Marge Floria

January 27, 2009

Nancy was a true friend from the moment I stepped into the old WSW on Broadway 35 years ago. She always made me feel like I had a home, the same way she did with everyone she met. I will always treasure the fun times and conversations we had. Nancy, you are truly missed.

Bruce Werner

January 17, 2009

one day nancy expressed an interest in sports memorabilia so i ran home ( a half block away from the bar ) and got a baseball and all my odd pens and markers and covered the ball with faux autographs of ballplayers from every sport. a few days later she gave me classic old phillies (my hometown philadelphia baseball team) jacket. i treasure that jacket and the friendship it represents. she was generous and gracious. i am looking for her card 'attorney-at-last'!!

Margaret "Megscakes" Childress

December 29, 2008

Nancy White was a woman of substance and style. She was intelligent, witty, and oh, so debonair. A woman of many talents, she was a great singer and a terrific dancer. Her satiric humor, delivered with a slight Oklahoma drawl, left one amused or bemused, but always charmed. She was kind to strays, both animal and human and a steadfast friend. Nancy greatly influenced the person I am today and I will always be grateful. I adored her from the first moment I gazed into her Bette Davis eyes. Thank you, Nancy. I look forward to our next dance.

Joy Ursillo & Christi Wengerter

December 15, 2008

Time marches on everywhere...but it always seemed to stand still at the Wild Side. Nancy used to love those show tunes -- we remember standing around the bar and belting them out along with her; she'll be fondly remembered and missed by us both

Michelle Campillo

December 8, 2008

Nancy laughed, cried, drank and loved, all with the same intensity. I will miss running into her and talking both politics and gossip over a stiff drink. Vaya con Dios, amiga Nancy.
Much love, Michelle.

Beanie LuLu

December 6, 2008

Nancy sang with our band, the Gangband, whenever we played at the Broadway Wild Side. She always got a standing ovation.It has been a treasure to be her friends.
Love, Beanie and LuLu

Cathy Gouch

December 6, 2008

I will never forget Nancy?s generous spirit. She always made sure there was plenty to eat during holidays for everyone who found themselves at The Side on Christmas, New Years, Easter and Thanksgiving. She was an artist and appreciated art. She was a devoted friend, and cherished Pat, her love.
Thank you for who you were and how you helped shape and create WSW, the experience.

Showing 1 - 8 of 8 results

Make a Donation
in Nancy White's name

Memorial Events
for Nancy White

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Nancy's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Nancy White's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more