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Shirley Carper

1937 - 2020

Shirley Carper obituary, 1937-2020, San Francisco, CA

BORN

1937

DIED

2020

Shirley Carper Obituary

Shirley Ann Carper
1937-2020
Shirley Ann Story was born August 17, 1937 in Galesburg, IL to Ray and Dorothy Story.
On August 30, 2020 in San Francisco, Ca our dearly loved mother went to be with our Lord and Savior.

Surviving are 3 daughters and a son, Kathryn Carper, Susan Grimes (Robert), Karen Arce-Carper, Steven Carper (Susan), and 5 Grandchildren, Kendra, Brent, Garrett, Grae, and Savanna.
Shirley was preceded in death by her beloved son, Gregory.
She was preceded in death by the father of her 5 children, John Carper

Shirley began her esthiology career apprenticing with the well-known Ron Bygum, Fabulous Faces. Her knowledge and expertise along with her special connection with her clientele propelled Shirley to create a business of her own, Faces Etcetera. Kathryn joined her in business in 1989. Both Karen and Susan contributed their special talents, as well. Faces Etcetera gained a reputation as a renowned SF full-service skin care salon. Shirley was highly valued and respected by her loyal clientele.

Faces Etcetera was most definitely a family affair. She brought all kids and Grandkids into the business. We have such fond memories of those times.

When Shirley retired in 2002, she continued to be in great demand with her clients. She and Gregory went on to create an online skin care product and counseling business which continued until weeks before her passing.

She was a true San Franciscan and always amused at the fact she shared her birth year, 1937, with the Golden Gate Bridge. We had a huge 50th birthday celebration (as did the GG Bridge).

Shirley was a hero to many and in 2007 received the Certificate of Honor from City and County of SF for the landmark victory of her case for housing discrimination. Shirley felt her case sent a strong reminder to landlords to provide reasonable accommodation to tenets with disabilities.

Shirley possessed a strong spiritual connection with Jesus Christ that grew as the years passed. She is an inspiration to her children, grandchildren and supported us in our spiritual growth. She was known for her deep love and commitment to her children and family.

Isaiah 41:10 Fear not, for I am with you;
Be not dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you,
Yes, I will help you,
I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.

A celebration of her life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, those wishing to honor Shirley's memory may donate to; St. Anthony's Foundation; 150 Golden Gate Avenue; San Francisco; Ca; 94102

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Nov. 19 to Nov. 22, 2020.

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Tom Young

June 6, 2021

This is one of those sad moments in life when you realize you let too much time pass before reaching out to a beloved friend!
Shirley and I lost touch in recent years but what I remember about my dear friend is that she always radiated kindness.
I admired the way she loved her children with all her heart and though Shirl had a life with many chapters she always kept a smile on her face and maintained her ever elegant persona! She was a true lady!
Shirley was was a loving soul and her presence in my life over years past was a beacon of light that I was blessed to share with her.
I'll cherish the memories and will miss her dearly.
Condolences to Steve, Kathy, Susan , nd Karen. I know how much you all loved your mom !

Christie Lorusso

February 4, 2021

Although my relationship with Shirley began only 10 years ago, I am grateful I had the pleasure of knowing her. She was a kind and beautiful spirit who warmed my heart during our skincare connection. Shirley awe inspired me with her impeccable skin and eclectic knowledge on products. I will miss her beautiful face, soft voice and the kind way she always showed me. The memory of Shirley will live forevershe will never be forgotten. With sincere condolences to her family,

Christie Lorusso, Client

Janice Etheredge-Brown

January 6, 2021

I was a client of Shirley’s at the beginning of Facesetc .
I loved my visits for a facial with her or Kathy,she was a professional and a wonderful person with a fabulous personality.She was also a friend.
I moved to London and then onto Australia but I always returned to Shirley .
We stayed in touch having lunch together upon my visits ,a phone call or e mail .
I am sad to read of her passing.
I send our love and condolences to the family .
RIP you were a special person always in my heart .

Robert Rosso

December 6, 2020

Some people's actions make life easier for others - that was what my friend Shirley was all about. Whether it was at her "Faces Etcetera" skin care salon, or offering someone a lift, she deeply cared about others. Seeing others who were unable to fight back being beaten down, made her even more determined to help. We all want to live in peace, and she was always there to help others. Her courage made her my hero. No greater love.

Olivia

November 22, 2020

When I think of Shirley Ann Carper, I can’t help but remember her beautiful skin, her always lecturing me about drinking more water for my skin/pores and her contagious laugh. I remember her wit, her sense of humor, and her beautiful clothes. She was one classy mom. She enjoyed nice things, especially her Biarritz Cadillac! But nothing was more important to her than her family! I will miss you Shirley but it won’t be for long. I will always love you and your beautiful family who will always be like family to me.

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