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Colleen Lavin
March 8, 2024
My god, you have been gone 16 years...how can this be? You are still in my heart, and I think of our classes together and all that I learned from you. You will always be missed.
Leonardo Mercatanti
November 2, 2021
Thank you Bob for taking care of the publication of "Seventeenth-Century North America" by Carl Sauer.
Jim Duran
March 7, 2021
I still have the two published issues of Callahan's Irish Quarterly on my shelf. I think Bob would be very pleased with all the ongoing cultural activity.
Colleen Lavin
March 5, 2021
Another year gone by, Bob, and this was one that I'm glad you missed.
It is still so new & all we see is
the empty space,
but that is not how it is in
the landscape of the heart.
There,
there is no
empty space
& he still laughs
& grapples
with ideas & plans
& nods wisely
with each of us
in turn.
We are proud
to have known
him.
We are proud
to have called him
friend.
Thank you, Bob, for nodding at me in turn and giving me so much.
Gadget
October 31, 2019
I think of you often. Thank you for your kindness, friendship, and generosity. The folkways collection is still with me.
Colleen Lavin
March 5, 2019
Still missing Bob after all the years gone by.
Nina Ellis
August 13, 2018
A quick note from a postgraduate student in London
I should begin by saying that I never met Bob Callahan... But I am researching Lucia Berlin for my thesis, and I could not be more grateful to Bob and Eileen for Turtle Island, and for publishing Berlin's first collection, ANGELS LAUNDROMAT. It's one of the most beautiful things I have ever seen, and without it, who knows? I might never have had the chance to read and study Berlin's work.
So thank you, Bob. You have left an important and enduring legacy!
And deepest condolences to your family and friends: Bob was clearly a wonderful and beloved man, and I am so sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Nina Ellis
Ken Huggins
December 6, 2017
I met Bob, or "Cal" to me, in the spring semester, 1965, at Columbia School of General Studies. We were both taking a political science course and that brought us together. We were very close friends, and ushered at each other's weddings, his to the Noble and former Eileen Grace Rooney of Shippan Point, Stamford. CT.
After they moved to S.F. we corresponded for many years, lengthy letters on the state of the country, of the world, and of the Forty-Niners.
We finally found that our lives had become so different that we had little to say. I thought that he would eventually become a "man of letters" and so I had saved all of his. When it finally occurred to me that I could go on-line to find out what he was up to, the first thing I saw was "Obituary". Ach, the rush of feelings and memories that overwhelmed me! Cal, you weren't supposed to go so early!
I subsequently talked with Eileen, who had also been a great friend, and sent her all of his letters. She told me of his illness and how she took care of him. After all the arguments, fights, reconciliations, departures, etc., they were still together at the end. Kudos to Eileen! Your tribute, Noble One, was beautiful.
Cal sired so many literary ideas, many of them ahead of the times, so he never achieved the recognition he deserved. "Rapid-fire synaptic flashes" is a good term to use in describing his mind. It also describes his emotions, which could flash just as rapidly, but ultimately were positive toward all. At least all who deserved them. No, not you, Tricky Dick I could always see his emotional growth in his writings.
Cal, I miss you and the times with you, at Columbia coming up with a list of incontrovertible sayings, e. g. "No matter where you go, there you are." All the letters were so important, as we observed each other's development and growth, which never stopped.
Hail to you, Noble Cal!
Eileen Callahan
June 10, 2017
I met you when I was 18; we married when I was 19, and you, 25. I loved you then, I love you now: so many years after your death, I love you still. What a long, wondrous and sometimes difficult time we had of it, all those years, and yet without reservation we came out at the end in love with each other! And what an unexpected and wonderful, gift to each other and ourselves our last years together were! Who would have imagined such a thing and we lived it, deeply, in each other's arms.
Eileen Grace O Malley Callahan
Jim Duran
May 10, 2016
After 8 years of absence, I made another trip to California and to New Mexico to see old friends. I could hardly get around to see everyone -- California is too spread out and the public transportation is not the best. Still, I'm glad I could see so many friends.
Some places in California have really changed -- I didn't recognise San Jose at all, save for a few buildings and trees, but north Berkeley is basically unchanged, with the normal cast of characters still living there. Still, Berkeley is mainly a place in my memories.
We're all getting on in years, and it won't be that long before we join you, Bob. I broke a tooth today while eating a piece of steak. That was a surprise, and a reminder that we can't always do the things we used to do.
Hasta pronto,
Jim Duran
Hasta pronto,
May 9, 2016
Bobby, just now, so, so late, happened to see the notice. I will always remember our fun days, good times, and hilarious antics as kids joking about St. John's, roaming into and about the social events in the Cove, discussing literature and art, teaching "Lord of the Flies" to kids in the Upward Bound Fairfield University FURST program, and just being good friends.
I still treasure the inscribed Yeats poetry collection you gave as a wedding present. We did have some times. See ya in eternity,
buddy.
Russ Gaudio (5/2016)
"Before us lies eternity; our souls
Are love, and a continual farewell."
April 22, 2016
April 22, 2016 --- Your birthday tomorrow and our wedding day today: : reasons to celebrate your memory and our life together and so no wonder I've been thinking about you all day and night for two days! But I gotta be honest here: Yup, I'm STILL pissed off that you left before we were through talking and indeed I intend to take this up with you when we meet again. I mean, really: why DID you have to go? Ah, I'll find out: we'll talk, and we will, and we will, and we will talk then, and then, and then again, until the end of time. I miss you terribly. Love, Eileen
Jim Duran
July 30, 2015
(I just wrote a message, but it disappeared, so here is a second try.)
Bob was wonderful at bringing bold ideas into reality, largely through bringing creative people together to work on a common project. Callahan's Irish Quarterly and the Turtle Island Foundation are two excellent examples of that. His leaving us so early in life was tragic, but his friends are continuing his creative work in many different ways. You've left your mark, Bob!
Jim Duran
July 30, 2015
Bob will certainly be remembered by those who knew him. He was a fine example of a person who pursues bold creative ideas, and a master at bringing people together to give birth to a common project. Callahan's Irish Quarterly and the Turtle Island Foundation were excellent examples of that. It's really a tragedy that we lost him so soon. But those who knew him are carrying forward projects that Bob would have backed enthusiastically.
Colleen Lavin
July 29, 2015
Year after year...still on our minds and in our hearts, Bob. Wherever you are, I cannot believe you are resting in peace...still too much for you to do!
July 27, 2015
Well, you still haven't come back yet and I'm still waiting : damn it, where ARE you? I miss you every day, and always will. We were, and are, each other's soul mates through the most difficult of times and then the best: the end of your life was nothing more than miraculous to me. We found each other again : and fell in love, for the second time. I cherish deeply your days with me at Buena Vista : at the end, we watched a lot of news together, arguing and talking right through it all - you were one of a kind, to be sure, and us together. . . through all those adventures. . . .. well, damn, Bob: I wish you would come back. I miss you terribly. No one like you. No one.
With all my love,
Eileen
December 31, 2011
Bob -
I can't stand it that you're gone somewhere / where we can't talk. Ok, I'm supposed to say other things, but this is the truth: You're dead. I miss you. I can't stand it that you're gone. Where ARE we supposed to talk? HOW can we do that? I miss you so much. I have talked with you since I was 18, and you were 25. We are very much older now, and you can't be found. Come back. I miss you so much.
Love,
yr pal,
\
Eileen
Steve M
August 13, 2008
Rest in Peace Bob C.
Wendolyne Ervin
March 22, 2008
Bob's friendship, wit, and words were electric satin gifts that made my weirld a wider, stranger, brighter place. We shall meet again someday at the Dark Hotel and then oh boy will the angels tremble!
James Duran
March 21, 2008
Dear Bob,
I was thinking about you lately and wondering where you were. Now I have an at least an idea of where you are. It would have been really nice to give you a phone call and trade news, or even better, drop by when I visit California this August for the first time in 10 years. Still, we'll be in touch somehow.
Life has been as busy on this side of the Atlantic as it was for me in California -- a continuation of the Silicon Valley world that replaced John Steinbeck's rural landscape in Northern California. But I'm at home here too, in several senses of the word.
I pray that all your friends and family cherish your memory and draw comfort from memories of you.
Your friend,
Jim Duran
Colleen Lavin
March 16, 2008
My mentor, my friend, my inspiration.
Sean Folsom
March 13, 2008
I am sad to hear that Bob has passed away. His commitment to
all things Irish and American-Irish,
and all the flights of mind that entails...was extraordinary.
In the 1980s, Bob was a frequent visitor to my home in Oakland, attending "Celtic Insititute" Gaelic classes with Dr. Jim Duran.
We had some wonderful Parties,
with many writers and poets,
who were members of Bob's
intellectual "Salon" "Callahan's
Irish Quarterly " was one of many
of Bob's great works that came out in this period. It only had two
issues, but Oh ! What Issues They Were ! Ta anam usal BOB !
Sean Galvin Folsom
Sharon Devlin Folsom
Margaret Wellington
March 12, 2008
This photo is exactly how I remember Robert
He was always Robert to me
Eileen and Robert
From their first small apartment on Mayflower
to the house on Bush St
to the forever home on Buena Vista
Eileen and Robert and David
Always the charmer
His laughter and
Friends near
And Love to all,
Love to his wife, his son
And now…with heavy hearts
A grand send off for the man of Ireland
mary rooney
March 11, 2008
The smartest thing Robert Callahan ever did was marry my sister Eileen Callahan. No lie. They were great companions, tough and hardy with each other, and very loving in the end. All of us should be so lucky to have such a life mate. And they produced David Callahan, who is the spitting image of his Dad, and a very kind and sensitive man in his own right. All of us will miss Robert, but he has left a legacy, and we will celebrate that this Sunday, and remember him always. love, mary
Jain Hutzell
March 11, 2008
He walked in the beauty and the power of the word. He will continue
to inspire us all.
Rick Newby
March 11, 2008
I didn't know Bob Callahan during his later immersion in Irish-American texts and comix, but I have known his pathbreaking work, with Max Milton & Eileen, since the 1970s. And the Turtle Island Foundation list of marvelous and hitherton unheralded or forgotten American works profoundly shaped my thinking as a young writer & reader. I only met Bob once, at Max Milton's place here in Montana, and we spent a raucous evening, talking talking talking & reading aloud the poems of Hugh McDiarmid. Many thanks to Bob (& Max & Eileen) for leading the charge in a necessary broadening and redefinition of American literature, from Jaime D'Angulo to Zora Neal Hurston, Carl O Sauer to Paul Metcalf, Edgar Anderson to Simon Ortiz. We need more Bob Callahans in this world!
Lynne Callahan Scalia
March 11, 2008
It touches my heart to see my Dear Uncle Bob. We were best friends as children. I will always love and treasure our times we shared. I'm sure my Dad, (Eddie), Vinnie and Bob are already sharing stories.
Randall Roberts
March 11, 2008
Thank you, Bob, for Turtle Island, and for your very special presence among us. You helped transform my life from a black-and-white snapshot into a technicolor movie.
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