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Mary Whalen Obituary

Mary Lou Whalen Of Roseville, CA passed away on Sunday, September 25th, she was 70 years old. Mary was the eldest daughter of John and Wilda Chastulik, born in Burgettstown, PA and graduating from Burgettstown High School in 1958. Mary was married to William Whalen also of Burgettstown, PA. Mary was a loving mother of 4 sons and also an accomplished and award winning artist. With a caring heart and loving nature, Mary was an active volunteer with Al-Anon. Mary was part of the original group that brought the message of recovery to families and loved ones of Alcoholics to the people of Russia, a legacy of love and hope that continues today. Mary's love of food, both as a gourmet cook and an avid connoisseur was a passion enjoyed throughout her life. To those that knew Mary, all would agree that she possessed impeccable taste in design, style, and fashion. Mary is survived by four sons, Bill Whalen of Manteca, CA; Dennis Whalen of Mill Valley, CA; Tim Whalen of Roseville, CA; and Mike Whalen of San Francisco, CA. She is also survived by four grandchildren, Maggie, Madison, Annie, and William. In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting donations to be made to Al-Anon World Headquarters. A family graveside service will be held on Tuesday, October 4th at the Roseville Cemetery.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Sep. 30 to Oct. 3, 2011.

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Larkin Slater

October 5, 2011

I'm sorry for your loss - I will never forget my shared birthdays with Mary when I was little. She was always so great to us kids.

Pat Chastulik

October 5, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Dorothy Neal-Chastulik-Schmitt

October 5, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. She now is with her Mom & Dad in the heavens. Love and Prayers to the family'

October 5, 2011

Sorry to hear of your lose, your mom was always a kind and loving soul.
Chuck & Nancy(Chastulik) Bubenheim

Ruth Taylor Kilday

October 5, 2011

Always laughing, always up on the political scene, always supportive of others, Mary Whalen brought beauty, style and grace to those around her. She gifted me with a crystal shamrock for speaking at Bill's celebration of life and, while Mary wasn't Irish, she brought Irish sensibilities to the world. The shamrock will remind me of them as a couple and individually as distinct human beings.

"Three best to have in plenty - sunshine, wisdom and generosity." Irish Triad

My sympathy to the family...sons, daughters-in-law, grandchildren, sisters.

Peter Holter

October 3, 2011

I am so sorry for this loss - my thoughts are with each of you

Donna Chaban

October 2, 2011

Dear Maryann, Tim, Madie and William, I am so sorry to read of Mary's passing this morning. My thought and prayers are with you all.
Love,
Donna

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