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Rebecca Heafner Obituary

SHELBY - Rebecca Ann Clayton Heafner, born August 2, 1939, went to her Heavenly home on Monday, August 31, 2020, at her home. "Becky" was full of life and love, and as colorful a person as the hats and shoes she donned, and the pocketbooks she carried.

She is preceded in death by her parents Ralph Sr. and Argie Clayton; and granddaughter, Stephanie Heafner. Becky leaves behind her husband of 61 years, Hal Heafner; daughters, Jill Heafner, Tina Greene and husband Gary, and Shannon Tomlin and husband Dewey, all from Shelby; son, Alex Heafner and wife Susan of Lake Lure; grandchildren, Dallas Tomlin, Matthew Tomlin, Elizabeth Heafner and Samuel Heafner; sister, Joy Lee Burns of Troy; brother, Ralph Clayton Jr. and wife Faye of Reidsville; several nieces and nephews; and many friends. Becky was a retired shift supervisor at PPG, and a member and Sunday teacher at Union Baptist Church. Funeral services will be held 2pm, Friday, September 4, 2020, at Clay-Barnette Funeral Home, with the Revs. Michael Shumate, Ralph Clayton Jr., Alex Heafner and Elliot Miller officiating. Visitation will be held one hour prior to the service, at the funeral home. Burial will follow in Union Baptist Church Cemetery.

Arrangements are entrusted to Clay-Barnette Funeral Home & Aquamation Center

Online condolences: www.claybarnette.com

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Published by Shelby Star from Sep. 2 to Sep. 4, 2020.

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September 7, 2020

May the God of comfort bring the family peace in this difficult time.

Linda Beaty

September 5, 2020

Worked with Becky for many years. Wonderful lady and great sense of humor. It was a pleasure to have known her. I pray your family finds peace in this time of need.
Linda Beaty

Sandra Gossett

September 3, 2020

I worked with her at L K she was sweet and so much fun to work with.The family is in my prayers.

Jessica Ward

September 3, 2020

Becky was such a sweet lady. I enjoyed being her nurse. She was definitely one of a kind. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.

Joyce Cook freind and co- worker

September 2, 2020

Becky was a wonderful Christian lady,I loved being around her..She was full of laughter and always put a smile on my face.I know she is so happy in Heaven. ❤

Doug Philbeck

September 2, 2020

Had the pleasure of working with Becky for 10 years. A sweet and wonderful soul.

Donn Stallings

September 2, 2020

May God bless you and your family and give you peace, comfort and strength !

David Queen

September 2, 2020

I work for Becky for many years. She was always cutting up and made an outstanding supervisor. She will be missed .

Bobby Buchanan

September 2, 2020

I loved Becky and so did everyone else! Worked with her for many years and she was always uplifting and very funny! I sure will miss her.

Judy Henderson Dulin

September 2, 2020

"Becky" was full of life, love and laughter. She was a joy to know and could always put a smile on your face. I am blessed to have know her. I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for God to give you peace and comfort during this difficult time.

Nancy Bumgarner

September 2, 2020

Becky was a fun loving person. I enjoyed work with her at PPG for many years. We had many good times. I will miss you sweet lady.

Nancy Bumgarner

Angie Conner

September 2, 2020

May God bless your family in this time of sorrow. Praying He surrounds you with comfort and fills your hearts with peace as only He can do.

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1401 W. Dixon Blvd, Shelby, NC 28152

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