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John Xavier Durusau

John Xavier Durusau died peacefully in his sleep on Sunday, December 2, 2012. He was the light of his family's life. John was born with Down Syndrome at a time when few people expected him to live and thrive. Thanks to his wonderful parents, Sherman and Clarence Durusau, he grew up in a loving home. His family was among the founding members of The Arc of Caddo Bossier, which opened the door to many of the opportunities that allowed John to live a rich and full life.

John attended Line Avenue School and was first employed at Frost Industries in Shreveport. He moved to Baton Rouge in 1990 and for 22 years he worked at Arc Baton Rouge's Metro Enterprises.

He is survived by brother, Joseph Durusau of San Antonio, Texas, brother and sister-in-law, Patrick and Carol Durusau of Covington, Georgia; his sister and brother-in-law, Mary and Barry Erwin of Baton Rouge; and niece, Elizabeth Durusau of Athens, Georgia.

Visitation will be from 10 to 11 a.m. Saturday, December 8, 2012 at Rose Neath Funeral Home, Marshall Street, followed by a service at 11 a.m. Burial will be at 1:30 p.m. at Church of the Nativity in Campti. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to The Arc Caddo Bossier, 351 Jordan Street, Shreveport, LA 71101.

Published by Shreveport Times from Dec. 6 to Dec. 8, 2012.
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Sorry to learn of Johns passing. I knew him from years back and he was always friendly and a pleasure to be around. His passing will leave a void that will not be easiely filled. But his memory will always be with his family and those who loved him. May he rest in peace . Fred Holt

Fred Holt

December 9, 2012

Pat and Mary---I was so sorry to hear about John---he was just an angel---Pam went to be with Jesus 4 years ago--I am so lonely without her--George lives in Colorado---come to see me or call me--I live at Azalea Assisted Living on Flourney Lucas Rd. My phone no. is 798-5004--love you both-

Elaine DeVault

December 7, 2012

Pat and Mary---so sorry to hear about John--he was just an angel--Pam went to be with Jesus 4 years ago---I am very lonely without her--I live at Azalea Assisted Living on Flournoy Lucas Rd==George lives in Colorado--come to see me or call me at 798-5004---love you both--Elaine DeVault

December 7, 2012

Dear Mary,
I am sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. I pray that God will bless and give you strength for this difficult time. I remember you from our Shreveport days.
Love,
Mary Ann Satcher

Mary Ann Satcher

December 7, 2012

Mary, I was so sorry to hear about John. He & your whole family were such wonderful neighbors. I will always remember John and his singing while in your backyard swing-what a joy it was to hear him! When I think of growing up in our neighborhood, one of the fond memories is of John. He was truly an inspiration. My thoughts and prayers are with you & your family. Love, Anita Davidson

December 7, 2012

John was truly the most amazing person. I don't even know where to begin in describing his worth to our family. We all loved him so much and how he loved each of us. He made each one feel like we were the very one he was waiting to see. It was a celebration each time he came for a visit, it was truly all about family. He kept us, who didn't see each other often, connected because though he asked how so and so was doing he always knew more than we did. Mary I want to thank you for what you did to make sure that John got to see all the people he loved and that loved him so much. We will miss him but our great loss is certainly heavens gain. Cousin John loved reunions and just magine the wonderful reunion that has gone on in Heaven over the past few days. Wow!

December 7, 2012

The South Louisiana Dumas (and Callais) family is saddened by the loss of our much reveered cousin. But be assured he is in Heaven already keeping notebooks with memories of everyone that is there with him. He's turned on that brighter light up there, and will be eternally loved.

Greg, Donna, Brandon, Courtney, Kristen, Hal, Molly, & Trip

December 6, 2012

Mary,
The Duman Reunion will never be the same! John was always so faithful in attending the Dumas Reunion each August. He loved his family. What a blessing he was to so many!

Jerri Lynn Courville

December 6, 2012

Mary and Barry,
I will always love hearing stories about John. What a wonderful, kind person he was to all of us. I know you'll miss him but his memory will live on forever in your heart. God Bless and much Love, Pud'n

Pud'n Waller

December 6, 2012

Mary and Barry,

I am so sorry for your loss. John was definitely a light in so many lives. He had the best attitude of anyone I've ever met. May God comfort you and all of your family in the days ahead.

Rhonda

Rhonda Vardeman

December 6, 2012

My sincerest condolences to the Durusau family.

Jerry Bufkin

December 6, 2012

Mary, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Mr. John will be greatly missed by all of us at Metro Enterprises Prescott location. He was a great employee to work with and just a fun loving person to know.
In loving memory, Detra Fairley

December 5, 2012

Sorry to hear about John, I worked at the workshop with him. He will be missed everyday by many.

Chris Rayborn

December 5, 2012

Dear Mary and Barry,
My prayers are with you and Barry at this time. I am praying for Brother John. He is smiling in God's arms.

Nancy

Nancy Chesson

December 5, 2012

What a meaningful and rich life your brother lived. I am praying for you and your family during this time.
Very Sincerely,

Amy Nesbit

December 5, 2012

Please accept my sincere condolences to you and your family.

Jon Moss

December 5, 2012

you and your family will be in our prayers-Spring Street Museum Shreveport

marty loschen

December 5, 2012

our prayers are with you and your family-Spring Street Museum

December 5, 2012

I knew john through aunt carol gray. I remember how john always had a notebook and took names and addresses and other info. I also remember when he would sing they would tell him not so loud john. John was such a sweet man and will be missed by so many May God comfort the family.

michelle (Gray) Shaw

December 4, 2012

My love and prayers to you and your family. John was indeed a wonderful loving spirit and a teacher to us all.

Evangeline Welch

December 4, 2012

Mary, so sorry for Johns passing.I have fond memories of coming to Aunt Sherman house and seeing John.I hope to attend his memorial.

rachal dumas-eason

December 4, 2012

Mary,
So sorry about your loss. Just today, I thought about his notebooks and business card collection. He will be truly missed. Love to all.
Audre and Donald

Audre Carter

December 4, 2012

Ms. Mary, I worked with you at the bank and I remember how fond you were of your brother. I will pray for you and your family during this time. God Bless

Knesha Mason Morgan

December 4, 2012

It is with great sadness that I have learned of John's death. His positive spirit was infectious. My deepest symphathies.

Bill Snider

December 4, 2012

Mary and Barry, I'm so sorry for your loss of your beloved brother. My prayers are with you.

Beth Sheets

December 4, 2012

So sorry to hear about John's passing. I know he means so much to you and Barry, and Pat, Carol, and Elizabeth, too. A sweet and loving soul he always was, and I'll always remember him for that.
Love.

Kathy Holt Martin

December 4, 2012

Mary and Barry -- Sincere sympathies to you and your families. John Xavier will be missed at the Cathedral! What an inspiration John was to so many by his faithfulness and indeed, his life. May his soul rest in peace in the presence of God who sustained him throughout earthly life.

Tommy Darensbourg

December 3, 2012

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