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for Thomas McHale
Thomas E. McHale
November 13, 2009
It always gave me a kick to see him play especially when he came to the Eagles. Deepest sympathy for your loss.
Ken Phillips
October 29, 2009
Dear Lisa,
I mentioned Tom's name today when I was at Longhorn Steakhouse and I was informed that Tom had passed away. I was so surprised and saddened. I was the Health Inspector that helped him open his restaurant. I really liked Tom, and liked eating at his restaurant. He treated me more like a friend that an inspector. I had a great appreciation for him and we became buddies When I was laid off by Jeb Bush; I went by to tell Tom and he picked me up and hugged me. I am not a small person either. I will never forget that. He had a great love for his children. He told me about them the first time I met him. I will certainly miss him. I truly hope that you are in peace and your children are well.
Anita DeStefano
January 28, 2009
Dear Lisa,
I only learned today of Tom's passing. Seems like yesterday that we were at Cornell together. May God provide you and your boys strength as you move forward. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Diane Couchman Batchelor
June 1, 2008
Dear McHale Family - words cannot express how my heart yearns to swallow your grief. Tom was such a special person. Margie, Tom and I grew up together in Montgomery Village. I was a Digging Road person that encroached on the Breckenridge folks for a while. He was one of my first "boyfriends" in adolesence. He was such a classy gentleman even as a young man. Though we lost touch over the years, his smile, kindness, and easy confidence are still etched in my memory. I wish Tom the Lord's eternal peace, and I wish all of Tom's family the Lord's comfort and grace.
Tammy Barnes
May 30, 2008
As I remember Tom, I think about all our long conversations; mostly about cooking and food which led Tom and I wanting to eat and Mark into a state of boredom. Tom always made you feel at home, and I will never forget him. Lisa- I can only imagine how painful this must be for you and the kids.However, in time there will be a silver lining. Thanks to you both for being part of my life. Tammy
Mike Moschkin
May 30, 2008
Hi Lisa and Family,
My sons Michael and Chris worked for Tom and that is how I first met Tom. Thus we became friends and he would stop by the house to just sit and chill out a little. He indeed was a gentile giant and a good friend, as my son Michael said recently talking to his friend Brad that Tom knew a thousand people and had a thousand best friends is the best I can sum it up. I pray for the McHale family in this time of great sorrow. He was more of a son to me, as he acted like an older brother to my son and advised him well. The world was a better place because of him.
Love from the Mike Moschkin Sr. and family
Eunice and Arthur Mosher
May 30, 2008
Our hearts are full of loving prayers for you and your beautiful family to carry TOm in your hearts while healing begins and memories become inspiration to live fully.
Joe Caixeiro
May 30, 2008
I will never forget Tom's smile, especially when standing over the grill. My heart goes out to his family. May God give you strength to endure in these trying times. Big Tom, you will be greatly missed. Rest in Peace friend.
Debbie Figueira
May 29, 2008
Please accept my sincere sympathy and prayers. My thoughts are with your family at this very difficult time.
Nancy Baker
May 29, 2008
My prayers and love are with you all. I have many wonderful memories of Tom and good times in Lighthouse point with the family which will always be treasured.
Cathy and Bruce Barkley
May 29, 2008
It is sad to hear the news about Tom. We have fond memories of the boys growing up and playing sports together in Montgomery Village, Md. We enjoyed following his football career and were fortunate to be able to watch him play a few times.
Our thoughts and prayers are with Joan and family and Tom's wife and children.
Bruce, Cathy, Bruce, Jr. and John Barkley
Paul Morrison
May 29, 2008
We loved Tom for his gentleness and
great personality. He was truly a gentle giant of a man. We miss him greatly, but trust he will find peace with Our Father in Heaven, forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with the McHale and D'Alessandro families, especially for Lisa and the three wonderful boys. Hilda & Scotty
Jennifer Germain/Most Insurance Agency
May 29, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. May God give you the strength you need to get through this difficult time.
Donna & Jack McDonough
May 29, 2008
McHale Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Donna & Jack McDonough
Debbie Wadsworth
May 29, 2008
Lisa, we are so very sorry to hear about Tom. He was a wonderful person and we feel so fortunate to have known him. Please find comfort in your memories and your children, which will always be a very important part of him. Maybank and Debbie
Kathy Dzamba Blackburn
May 29, 2008
To the McHale Family: My heart is heavy and my prayers and love are with you all. Tom was such a special, special person who touched so many people. I have many wonderful memories of growing up with Tom in Montgomery Village. My heart and my tears are with you during your time of grief. May the Lord keep you close.
Shirley/ Denny Williams
May 29, 2008
Dear Family,
We met Tom last year and just enjoyed being with him, talking and laughing and "serious" talks, too!!! We are so very sad for the loss of such a wonderful man. He was the "gentle" giant; and for many a supportive friend. God be with Tom's family. I know that Tom is now "at peace" with his "Higher Power"!!!
Trish Macejko
May 29, 2008
So sorry for the loss of your husband and father. All of you are in our prayers. Deepest Sympathy to all of you and Dave & Stephanie
Trish & Don Macejko
Terry Matan
May 29, 2008
We are so very saddened with the death of Tom.
We send our love and prayers-
Terry and the Matan Family
Barbara Robinson ( Dinwiddie )
May 29, 2008
A Reminiscence
YES, thou art gone! and never more
Thy sunny smile shall gladden me;
But I may pass the old church door,
And pace the floor that covers thee.
May stand upon the cold, damp stone,
And think that, frozen, lies below
The lightest heart that I have known,
The kindest I shall ever know.
Yet, though I cannot see thee more,
'Tis still a comfort to have seen;
And though thy transient life is o'er,
'Tis sweet to think that thou hast been;
To think a soul so near divine,
Within a form so angel fair,
United to a heart like thine,
Has gladdened once our humble sphere.
By Anne Bronte
The Poetry Foundation
Tony & Dot Trimacco
May 29, 2008
Lisa, we will always remember Tom's warm personality. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Janice Jenny-Hauge
May 29, 2008
Lisa, my heart broke for you when I heard the news. So very many years have gone by since we've seen one another, but you have always remained in my heart, thoughts, and prayers as such a wonderful, first best-friend. I will pray for you and your family, that the Lord will give you strength and wrap you in His love.
Larry Rhodes
May 28, 2008
From the sillyness of boys, to the sweat we shared on the field of play, to the seriousness of boys becoming men. Each of the three "S' bring about fond memories that I shared with Tom over the years. Time spent on Breckenridge playing as we would, miscevious at times, but always being boys. To tee ball, to south park, to GHS, honing our skills to becoming better athletes. Sharing our joy as well as our failures. To finally becoming men, sharing thoughts and feelings about the world, our interests, business affairs and families. These are some of the many things that race through my mind only wishing their was more to come. To all who knew him we all feel a deep loss. You knew when you were in the arms of Tom as he hoisted you up high.
To Lisa and the boys to Joan, Jim,Mary, Nora, and Marge our thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
Lucy Patsko
May 28, 2008
Lisa, TJ, Michael, Matthew and family - our family is so sorry for the loss of a great man. Lisa I know that Tom had a strong relationship with the Lord and is now in heaven face to face with our Lord and Savior. Tom also loved you and the boys very much. On the couple of occasions I got to talk to him all he did was talk about his 3 wonderful boys. Lisa please know that I am here for you, Lord knows you have been there for me the past year. May God continue to comfort you, the boys and your family. Lucy, Joe, Connor & Caroline Patsko
Boris & Lorraine Davis
May 28, 2008
Dear Lisa: Boris and I are sadden to hear of your loss. In the days ahead know that you are not alone and that the Lord is with you always even until the end of time. We love you. You are in our prayers.
Chris and Family
Chris Marino
May 28, 2008
I lost a brother..... I have known him since I was 9... We played football all through grade school and 2 years at Maryland together... We won a Regional Track Championship in High School and an ACC Football Championship in College together... Tom will always be in my heart....I could write a book about my life with Tom... God bless you buddy...
Gail Whiting
May 28, 2008
Dear McHale Family: We have such wonderful memories of Tom and Mike Simmonds when they first came to Tampa to play with the Bucs. I still remember them eating complete London Broils at Bern's Steakhouse with their "dates", Sr. Roberta and Sr. Anne Dougherty! What a guy! The world will miss him and so will we. His family will be in our prayers.
Blessings, Gail and Paul Whiting (Jamie Simmonds' Aunt and Uncle)
Dusty Rhodes
May 28, 2008
Dear Lisa, children, Joan and the Mchale family. We loved Tom as one of our own and will keep our wonderful memories in our hearts. The many days of our being neighbors in Gaithersburg and the years that followed.
We send our love and prayers that God will comfort you and give you and the boys strength in the days ahead.
Tom will always be in our hearts.
Peg & Dusty Rhodes (Elon, NC)
Denise Del Vecchio Collins
May 28, 2008
The McHale family. There are not words here for me to express how deeply sorrowed I am. I grew up with Tommy in good ole' Montgomery Village. Life was incredible for us kids in Whetstone, we were so blessed and even more blessed to have each other and our families. What fun we had playing sports together on "our field" for endless days that turned into years. After Gburg HS we went on to UM together. Was so proud of him when he made it w/ the Bucs, etc. We kept in touch through out the years and he will surely be missed. God bless your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Alison Kelly
May 28, 2008
My heart just broke when I read of Tom's passing. He will always be a ray of sunshine to so many and I am grateful to have known him as a kind and humble friend.
Peace and prayers to Lisa and family.
Amy Kopas Drolet
May 28, 2008
Dear McHale Family -- I'm so sorry for your loss. I went to Gaithersburg HS with Tom and he was one of the kindest people I have ever met. He always had a smile on his face and a kind word. Individuals like him are few an far between and he will be greatly missed.
Pat Burgess
May 28, 2008
I have had the great pleasure of getting to know Tom over the last year and I can say that without him I would not be the man I am today. He was always there with a ear to lend or a kind word. I wish you peace Tom. If I can ever do anything for you Lisa or the boys just let me know.
Darrah (Smith) Seawell
May 28, 2008
My heart and soul goes out to the McHale family for your loss. I was deeply saddened when I heard the news. I have nothing but fond, loving memories of Tom and the times we all shared growing up in Gaithersburg. Your in my prayers.
Cheryl and Jamie Young
May 28, 2008
Lisa, I can't tell you how heavy my heart is right now. You and Tom are two of the sweetest people we will ever know. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and the boys during this difficult time. We are here if you need anything at all.
Love, Cheryl and Jamie
Quintin & Donna Paluzzi
May 28, 2008
We were so saddened to hear about Tom. Lisa, you and Tom welcomed us into your house several years ago, and were such gracious hosts. We will pray for both you and the boys, and know that you will be in our prayers during this difficult time.
Quintin and Donna Paluzzi
Christie Hurd
May 28, 2008
Tom, you will be greatly missed. My heart broke the day I received the news yet I know you are in a better place. Our friendship over the years has meant so much to me. Lisa, My deepest sympathy goes to you and the boys, you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
The gang at Bethany 1981
Bobbi Meyer Parra & Family
May 28, 2008
We will miss Tom's big heart & smile. We have so many great memories with Tom growing up in Whetstone, at Montgomery Village JH, Gaithersburg HS, Bethany Beach (the photo) and down in Tampa. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family.
Doug Lynn
May 28, 2008
Tom you will be missed. I feel fortunate to have reconeccted with you over the last few years here in Florida.
God Bless you and all of your family.
Monroe Davids
May 27, 2008
My very deepest sympathy to Tom's family. I was totally shocked when I got an e-mail today from Billy DiGiorgio in Tokyo. Tom was always one of my favorite students in 8th grade at Montgomery Village Junior High School. I followed his career and I was lucky enough to talk with him several times throughout the years. He had such a heart of gold and he was always such a great guy! I will miss him!
Monroe Davids
e-mail: [email protected]
Jeanne Carey
May 27, 2008
We all have another reason to want to go to heaven. The McHale family is in our prayers
Karen Kraus
May 27, 2008
Dear Lisa and family,
It's been quite some time since our days at Cornell and since we've been in touch. This is certainly not the way I'd hope to reconnect, but please know the Kraus family is thinking of you. Tom was a treasure, always smiling and spreading happiness to the people around him, but you are the one who gave him joy in return. I remember the way he looked at you as you walked down the aisle, and how I hoped to someday find someone who would look at me with such love and adoration. There are no words for how sorry I am for your loss. Be well.
Nick Russo
May 27, 2008
I had the 'HONOR" of becoming your friend over the last year "Big Tom". I can still feel the warmth of your smile and see the light that shine's from your heart. You touched so many people and I will miss you! I will miss your Big Bear Hug's..but now the ANGEL's will get them. My prayer's are with Lisa and the family. PEACE BE WITH YOU BIG TOM! Nick
Jill Logan
May 27, 2008
Dear Lisa and children, I am so sorry for your loss. Tom touched many lives and he will be remembered as a wonderful man by those who knew him.
Cynthia Cook
May 27, 2008
We met your family only recently in Tampa, and your kind and gentle spirit touched us. Our deepest condolences to you. Shelby, Mark & Cindy Cook
Linda Benjamin
May 27, 2008
I can only pray that you are at peace and in the arms of the angels. What a gentle and humble human being. I will miss you greatly.
Deborah Allison
May 27, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to the McHale family and to all who were fortunate enough to know Tom.
Michael LaGattuta
May 27, 2008
Tom will be greatly missed. He was a wonderful man. Lisa, TJ, Mikey and Matthew, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The LaGattuta's
Lori Olson
May 27, 2008
I was so sad to hear about Tom's passing. I worked with him about 10 years ago and I still have fond memories of him. He was incredibly kind, gentle, and warm - all tucked in that big body. He was a great person to work for and always had a smile. I still think of him when I hear Stevie Ray Vaughn and if I get a change to eat some good North Carolina BBQ! I know he deeply loved his family and I extend my condolences to you all.
Deb Moschkin
May 27, 2008
We knew Tom when our son worked for him in the restaurants, and we had many things in common (such as being from suburban Maryland). My words echo so many of those in this book -- how kind, generous, caring, friendly, and honest Tom was. I haven't met such a stand-up guy in a long time. What a loss to so many.
This is a very sad day for our family. I can't imagine how sad it is for you -- his wife, children, parents, brothers and sisters, and all of his friends in so many places. May God bless you all and keep you safe.
--
6th Grade Whetstone Elem 1975
Bryan Marshall
May 27, 2008
Tom,
You were always the gentle giant with the big smile. I always made sure to have a set of Redskins tickets every time you came back home just to see you play. The last organized sport Tom and I played together was when Tom played on my softball team during the draft , last at bat before getting the “call” was a shot over the fence and the road at Summit Hall Ball Park (320 plus feet) I said to myself wow we are going to miss him in the line-up. Now, we all are truly going to miss him. God bless to Tom and the family.
Jim Henning
May 27, 2008
Lisa, T.J., Michael and Matthew, Prayers are with you and your family, I'm so sorry and will miss the Tom we all know. I'm here for you if needed.
Gary Young
May 27, 2008
To the McHale famly, Please know that your family is in my famlies prayers.
Tedrowe Family
May 27, 2008
Dearest Lisa- know that you are in our hearts and prayers that you and your children find comfort and consolation in the days to come. We miss Tom, too, very much.
Betsy Absher-Popeck
May 27, 2008
I was truly shocked to hear of Tom's death. I was a classmate at Gaithersburg HS for a couple of years and have fond memories that make me smile. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Pamela Reynolds
May 27, 2008
Lisa, words can not express how I feel right now. One thing that comes to mind is our experiences off the field. When I went into labor with my son who weighed 1 lb. and struggled to survive you were pregnant with TJ and also went into labor early. I came to the house with clothes from my son and they fit TJ perfectly. I remember Tom was so thankful and glad you had someone who knew exactly how you were feeling. But we always kept our heads up and encouraged eachother and now your young man is here to share with you the love of his father along with your other sons. Lisa if you ever need to talk, you let me know, it dosen't matter the hour. Jill has all my information and Lord knows I would be there in a second. Keep your hand in God's unchanging hand. I will pray for you and the entire McHale family. Love Ya!
Kevin Stowell
May 27, 2008
Lisa, we are all very sorry for your loss. There are very few words to express our sorrow for you and your family. Please accept our deepest of sympathy and condolences. Please let us know if there is anything that we can do for you, because you have helped us immensely.
Jennifer Rhodes Ford
May 27, 2008
Growing up with Tom and the McHale family in Gaithersburg...I have so many great memories. He truly was the nicest guy, with that great big smile and never an unkind word. To Lisa and the boys, as well as Joan, Jim, Mary, Nora and Margy...I am deeply sorry for your loss and will keep you in my prayers. He will be missed.
S. Plummer
May 27, 2008
To the Family of Thomas Mchale,
You are in my prayers and thoughts as you go through this time of bereavement. I am so saddened by this. Your son, TJ, is an inspiration to all of the students at our school. May God continue to bless and keep you all.
Q-bert Jones
May 27, 2008
Q-bert,
You were one of the few people on this planet with a REAL HUMAN SOUL - you will be missed beyond your comprehension.
Jim Browne
May 27, 2008
I would first like to send my deepest condolences and prayers to the McHale family. I played high school football with Tom at Gaithersburg. You wouldn't think that a pleasant guy like Tom could be so tenacious on the field. Tom always had a smile on his face and welcoming personality. I was one of many whom were blessed to be touched by Tom. May God bless you and keep you. Rest in peace Tom...Go Trojans!
Kate O'Brien - D'Andrea
May 27, 2008
I am so saddened to hear of losing Tom, my only consolation is that he is now hanging out with my late husband John D'Andrea. They only worked together for 1 year, but they truly loved admired and trusted one another. John respected Tom as a man true honor, and they had so much fun working together. Lisa my deepest sympathy to you and the boys. Know that Tom is always watching out for you. He was the kindest man. Kate
Andrew Gantt
May 27, 2008
I am deeply saddened by hearing of the passing of Tom. I am a member of the class of 81 at Gaithersburg High School and played football and have great memories of those times. Tom was a true leader and an inspiration to all who knew him. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayer go out to the McHale's for their loss.
Delores Smith
May 27, 2008
My sympathy goes out to Tom Mc Hale,family,sorry about your lost,GOD BLESS YOU,AND TJ.
Megan Hixon
May 27, 2008
Tom you will be missed greatly. You meant so much to our family and feel blessed to have known you throughout the years. May God be with you and your family in this time. We will always remember you and keep you in our hearts.
Brad Jung
May 27, 2008
Everyone that met Tom was lucky. He had hundreds of "best friends" and the most wonderful family. We will all miss you Tom. From one of your best friends, who will never forget you. Love to all the Mchale family
william cieslewicz
May 27, 2008
you will be deeply missed
Zach Chororos Julie Baumann
May 27, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you.
Sharon Gibbs Lewis
May 27, 2008
I am deeply shocked and so saddened by this. So many memories of all of us spending time together and growing up in Montgomery Village. To Margie and the rest of his family, May God bless you and bring you peace. I'm so sorry. What a terrific guy Tom has always been.
Sally Coleman
May 26, 2008
I will always remember Tom for the warmth of his personality and the respect he showed for others. His genuine character reflected the belief and faith that he had in our Lord and our God. My most heartfelt condolances to his family, may God be with you and give you peace in your hearts.
Kim Hale-Carney
May 26, 2008
I grew up in Montgomery Village, Maryland with Tom and he was a good friend of my brother Clark (known then as Corky). He was one of my favorite buds of my brother and he kept his humility with all his successes. God bless his family and friends, Kim Hale Carney
Kelly (Holdstein) Biro
May 26, 2008
Lisa, TJ, Michael and Matthew, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know there is nothing I can say to comfort you, but please know, Lisa I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers, always.
Patricia Keith
May 26, 2008
I also worked for Tom for only a short while, but his kindness touched me. His great sense of humor, his love of the blues and wonderful food will always be with me. My heart goes out to you, his family. You shall be in my intentions.
Rodney Justo
May 26, 2008
I met Tom because of his restaurants where I was fortunate enough to get to know him a little.
People probably don't know that he was a BIG music fan, especially blues, and old rhythm and blues.
When he found out that I had been a musician,he asked me to make him CDs of old blues songs, and when I would come in, I would hear them being played over the restaurants sound system.
I was at lunch last Friday with two former associates, and Tom's name came up.
The topic centered around how when Tom shook your hand, you know that the deal was solid, and you knew that his word was gold.
Tom leaves a LOT of good memories, to a lot of people.
I'll miss you Tom..............Peace
Matt Rumbel
May 26, 2008
Tom was a gentile giant and one of the kindest people I have had the pleasure to know. He touched many lives and will be missed. My prayers go out to his family, and I will remember his smile forever.
Cecile Raynaud
May 26, 2008
My deepest sympathy to Lisa and her kids. I worked for Tom for a couple years and he was a very nice person. He will be missed.
George Hicks
May 26, 2008
My prayers are with everyone who was close to this very fine football player, as a fan of the bucs, I remember when I did comes to the games when I could. He gave his all God bless the McHale family
Giuliano Lucatelli and family
May 26, 2008
Lisa and the Boys,
We are all so sadden and shocked over Tom's passing. The world has lost a wonderful man. I think alot about the days we spent together and all the dinners and laughs we had when you two were in Ithaca and I cherish those days. How do you mend a broken heart, I don't know, but the thought of Tom and the good stories of times we had with him will always bring lots of joy to our hearts. Lisa, our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.
Eric Stoll
May 26, 2008
I had the distinct pleasure to watch you play Tom. I also had the even more gratifying experience of knowing you. Whether we were talking about history or the Redskins woeful choke to the Giants in week three, I always felt that you cared what I thought. It was humbling that a man I watched play as a kid, cared about what I had to say. But that was just the way Tom was. Tom loved people, most of all he loved his family. I know that my entire family sends our thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Former Buccaneer Equipment Manager Frank Pupello
May 26, 2008
A great player but above and beyond that a great guy and a great person. He made some of my most difficult days at the Bucs a little more bearable. I consider him one of the best representatives of the orange and white Buccaneers - a true Tampa Bay Buccaneer.
Tedd Webb
May 26, 2008
Anyone who met Tom loved him. What a loss for community.
Marsha Weimer
May 26, 2008
Lisa, T.J., Michael and Matthew…words cannot express how saddened we are at the loss of Tom. Our memories of Tom have been flooding through our heads all morning. All the good times we had as friends at all the parties and bar-b-ques…all the delicious meals we had at the restaurants…you and Tom giving Steve and his band their first “break” and inviting them to play at your New Year’s Eve Party…I will never forget Steve learning to play “Cold Shot” for the number one Stevie Ray Vaughn fan and Tom walking out from the kitchen and purely enjoying the music. Steve still plays that song today and it will forever be special to him. Tom was a gentle giant whose kindness poured from him. He always took charge of the food at our Christmas parties and made sure everything was at the right temperature, nothing had been sitting out too long and made it his personal mission to make sure everyone enjoyed the food and was having a good time. He was passionate about his family, friends and always made us feel welcome at your home and the restaurant. Lisa, you are one of the strongest people I have ever known…I’ve always admired you from afar at your strength with T.J. during the tough times…you amazed me. I know very hard days lay ahead for you and the boys and that your strength, your faith and your family and friends will help you and the boys. I think of Tom and know the world has lost a treasure…how I wish I could sit down with him right now and have a Salmon Chipotle Wrap…Marsha, Steve, Taylor, Sarah and Nick
Jim Maister
May 26, 2008
Tom was a big man with an even bigger heart. He has helpped me in many ways be the person I am today. Thank You Tom, You will be missed. My deepest sympathies to all that knew and loved him.
Dave Bailey
May 26, 2008
Our family has known Tom since his childhood. Two of our children consider him to have been their best friend. We all loved him very much, and will miss him greatly. We will try our best to comfort and support his mother Joan (my wife Shirley's best friend), his wife Lisa, and their 3 wonderful sons. We will always remember Tom as one of the finest individuals we have ever known.
Skip TURVAVILLE
May 26, 2008
We meet Tom this past year and
are deeply sadden for his wife and boys. Tom was a sweet man with a wonderful personality who loved his family and will be missed by all. May God comfort his family during this difficult time.
Skip and Linda
George Simpson
May 26, 2008
Tom. You had a huge heart and such a nice person. We will miss you a lot. Our prayers to you and your family. RIP
Michele Anderson
May 26, 2008
I wish to convey my deepest sympathy to the McHale family, my prayers are with you all in your time of grief. I know your lovely son PJ, as I am have ridden with him on the school bus. I am so very sorry for your loss. May the Lord bless and keep you!
Deb Rhodes
May 26, 2008
We were neighbors for years in Gaithersburg,MD. Our families have remained close all these many years. My sister just told me. I am deeply saddened about this loss of a great friend and family man. We so love you Tom and your family.
Bobby De Sapio
May 26, 2008
Im going to miss your gentle kindness, as well as your heart/spirit R.I.P.
NICCI T.
May 26, 2008
TOM, YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL MAN WHO WILL BE REMEMBERED AND MISSED BY MANY. THANKYOU FOR ALL YOUR KIND SMILES AND BIG BEAR HUGS. YOU HAVE FOUND HOME, GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. LOVE ALWAYS
Fred Allen
May 26, 2008
I had the good fortune to work with Tom as Frankie Pupello's Asst. Tom was always a gentleman, friendly and always had a smile. I know he will be missed by many. My prayers and thoughts are with his family. Fred Allen
thomas McHale
May 26, 2008
It's been a pleasure .
T Sawyer
May 26, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Connie Walbey
May 25, 2008
I worked with Tom McHale for a short period of time. I will always remember his kind and gentle spirit, and that wonderful smile he always had. My deepest sympathy to the McHale family, our prayers are with you all.
Vanessa and Tom Sawyer
May 25, 2008
I was sadded about the news Tom is a great person my husband worked with him when he had the resturants in tampa and i had the pleasure of knowing Tom when his church group would come into Bob Evans on Thursday Morning for bible study my heart and prayers goes out to his family and friends
John, Jennifer and Tony De Piero
May 25, 2008
We knew Tom and Lisa and their beautiful family thru St Mark Catholic Church. They were active in our PMI ministry and also played in the tennis tournaments. We will keep them in our thoughts and prayers.
Todd McNamee
May 25, 2008
Tom was a great friend and I will miss him. I am a better man for knowing him. He had a love for God and his family that knew no limit. God be with his family.
Lillie Williams
May 25, 2008
God bless this family with Peace in their time of grief
Marty Jackson
May 25, 2008
Tom was the most generous and loving person that I have ever met. Always their to listen and gave advise when needed. The type of guy who would put the needs of others before his own. My deepest condolences to his whole family.
You will always be in my heart and soul
I love you Big Tom
Dale McFarland
May 25, 2008
I went to grade school and junior highschool with Tom and always told everyone how he shined. I wish his family and friends my deepest sympathy. Montgomery village will always remember him.
Yvette Fuertes
May 25, 2008
He was a great player. We will all miss him.
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