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Solomon Butler
August 6, 2024
John was my friend, John was my friend I could make that same statement a thousand times because John was my friend and in this world we live in they are hard to find, I miss the humble giant, the restaurants, the laughs, but most of all John was a true man of God who loved God first. John loved his Cheryl who they were partners and,sweet hearts, Big John loved his babies like a father should he was,always concerned for their well being and would had travel to the moon and back to make sure they were ok. I still miss my buddy I thank God for the time we had together I guess we will catchup when I see you him in Heaven. Cheryl thanks for being there for me I miss you much, love you always Solomon and Donyale
Allen Wehr
August 4, 2020
I got to know John (and his family) when he was in 9th grade and then had the privilege having him attend a weekly Bible group of guys when in High school, that I led. Lots of Memories flood my head of John's life. We were in contact the rest of his life. He was wonderful man, was a wonderful husband to Cheryl and Dad to his kids and most of all, He Loved the Lord....Blessings....
Charlie McMurray
September 9, 2010
Cheryl, I was saddened to learn today that John had passed last month. He was a great guy and always made me smile when I saw him. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Skeet Chadwick
September 6, 2010
Cheryl,
It's been far too long since I spoke with John, but as you know, he and I enjoyed a great friendship during our days at PHH. Those who knew him well while you did your "tour" in MD will miss him greatly.
John was a great man. His integrity was beyond reproach, he always had the courage of his convictions, he could laugh at adversity AND himself and was genuinely caring about others.
Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss.
Skeet Chadwick
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Judy Marks
August 14, 2010
Cheryl,
I am so sorry to hear of John's passing! Ever since I heard, I have been praying for you, that God would give you the comfort and peace that you need to keep going! Heaven is so much sweeter when those we love have gone on ahead to wait for us. John is now one of the "great cloud of witnesses" and he is cheering you on until you finish your race! You are greatly loved!
Love,
Judy Marks
August 12, 2010
Cheryl, you will continue to see the essence of John every day in your kids. john gave your kids the same integrity, love of family, love of friends, and giving nature he showed to everyone!
Tom
Julie Hokanson
August 12, 2010
Dear Cheryl, I am so sorry to hear of your family's loss. I am praying for you in your grief today and in the days and weeks to come. Love to you!
August 12, 2010
John was a friend and client. I have fond memories of John. He will be missed. Bob Rinek
Mark Daigle
August 11, 2010
I only met John eight months ago, but in that time he became a dear friend and trusted advisor. At work he always told me to "just pick up the phone" instead of emailing.
One of my favorite memories of John was the time I texted him on his phone and asked if it was OK to text him as a form of communication. He promptly replied that he only texted with his son (which I thought was SO COOL of him to keep tight with all of his children!). What a special dad those kids had!
I am so sad that John isn't here, and besides missing him I will also miss his practical advice for life's seemingly complex situations. What a special guy! I know John is with Jesus now, and we WILL see him again, but he is missed dearly already.
With many tears,
Mark
Ethylon Brown
August 11, 2010
We send you our love and prayers. My brother, Solomon, has a way of making sure we (his family) got to meet any of the people whom he embraced as friends and fellow Christians. You mean so much to him and his family. He refers to the Withams as "family" --"brothers (John and Solomon) from another mother..." I was personally blessed to hear John speak of you, Cheryl, with such esteem and pride. He impressed me as someone who truly loved his wife and children very deeply. In his absence, I trust that you will sense the prayers and care eventhough my brother and Donyale may not be able to be with you this week. I would be honored to attend services on Thursday. Your family has blessed ours and we thank you so much.
Respectfully,
Ethylon Butler (E.B.) Brown &
William Brown
Solomon Butler
August 11, 2010
To my family,
I am so hurt that I have lost my big brother he was a real friend. This is so hard to do right now because I can't believe he is gone and won't get to hear say I love you. Cheryl I know you and the family are being strong right now because that's what big John would want, but I want you to know that I am praying for you and the family. May God keep you and may His blessings be upon the Witham family.
REST IN PEACE BIG BROTHER I WILL SEE YOU AGAIN!
Pastor Solomon & Donyale Butler, Sabria, Aaron, Solomon and baby Kristen
Brad Thompson
August 11, 2010
John made a huge difference to those of us in the entrepreneurship community. I also knew him through Bible study to be a teacher and a role model. We will miss his irrepressible optimism, creativity and quick smile. Peace and Blessings to all.
Diane Courtney (Morawski)
August 11, 2010
Cheryl,
I was so sorry to hear the sad news of John's passing. I considered him to be a very influential person in my life and I consider myself lucky to have known him - both as a professional mentor and personal friend. I am grateful for his efforts, which he most probably didn't consider efforts at all, in helping create a special bond that all of us who had the pleasure of working and playing with him share. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.
Christopher Thompson
August 11, 2010
My condolences to the Witham family concerning your loss. You'll be in my family's prayers.
Andrea and Matt Tande
August 11, 2010
Our hearts goes out to everyone in the Witham family and we will keep you all in our prayers. We hope that you are buoyed by the love and support of all those around you in this very difficult time. Peace to you,
Andrea, Matt, Micah and Mark Tande
Betsy Bendell Langmade
August 11, 2010
Cheryl and family - my deepest sympathies in the loss of John. My thoughts and prayers will remain with you in the coming days and months. May God surround you with His comfort and grace.
Karen Lange
August 11, 2010
Dear Witham family,
My sympathy and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.
Please know the St.Thomas community is thinking about you and praying for you.
Karen Lange
Dean of Students
University of St. Thomas
Stacey Anderson (Simenson)
August 10, 2010
Witham family,
You are in our prayers. I can't imagine what you are going through. I remember Mr. Witham as such a strong, loving Dad.
August 10, 2010
Dear Cheryl and family,
John walked the life of a man of faith. He was always gratious, friendly and kind.
I would run into him in the oddest places, he must have known everyone across town!
I am very sad for your loss, our loss of a man who lived and loved life by example.
Love, Melanie Kremer
August 10, 2010
Cheryl and Family,
It was with great shock and sadness that I learned of John's death. He was a realy good person. I have fond memories of the years we spent working together at PHH. We were at a stage in our careers where we were establishing ourselves and our identities. At the same time we were raising our families. I always found John to be a fair person who wanted to do the right thing. He always had a smile and a positive attitude in addressing whatever issues that were in front of us. I was blessed and priviledges to have John as a friend.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you through these difficult times. He will live on in each of us in the ways he has touched us.
Phil Lange
August 10, 2010
To "My Lady" and family.....my heart is with you~Lynn
Georgie Camacho
August 10, 2010
Cheryl and family,
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. I am thankful for your husband and father in our lives. He was absolutely wonderful to my folks - Cheryl - both of you have been wonderful to them. John was an awesome guy and terrific cousin. He fought very hard to keep the extended Witham/Wehler/Bezanson/Bertelson family connected. We'll have to keep the candle lit. Family is to cherish.
John will be missed.
Kim (Vincent) Moran
August 10, 2010
Cheryl and family-
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. John touched so many lives in wonderful ways. I will miss him.
Kelly Yordy
August 10, 2010
Dear Cheryl, Rach, Andrew, Andrea, Matt, Matt, Anna, and Tim,
I am truly, deeply sorry for your loss. I have so many wonderful memories with John and your entire family, and will always cherish them. I have been praying for all of you, and look forward to being with you very soon!
Love,
Kelly (and Brad and Max)
Karen Anderson
August 10, 2010
Cheryl and family, while I know it is John's gain, I am so sorry for your loss. When I think of John, I smile through the tears, as I remember his sense of humor. I am praying for you. Love you...
Gail Turek
August 10, 2010
Starr phoned and we are stunned by John's sudden passing. He and I were playing phone tag on Friday. Although we have been separated by many miles for years, he continued to be a guiding light in my life. Saying we will miss him terribly is inadequate. Cheryl, you and the kids and his Mom and brothers and sister are in our prayers. He was a giant in so many ways, a giant soul, a giant laugh, and giant voice, but first and foremost ALWAYS, he was a HUGE family man and he was so happy and proud to be among you. I just can't imagine. Gail Turek
August 10, 2010
Andrew and Rachel - so sorry to hear the news about John. We remember him as being so gracious and welcoming at your wedding. Cherish your memories with him and it will help you thorugh this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both. Paul/Vicki Rader
Allen Wehr
August 10, 2010
John was a wonderful friend for 45+ years. I will miss his words of encouragement and positive outlook on life. It was a privilege watching him grow to be a man, chose his life's partner in Cheryl and raise his family. Most of all though, I admired his deep love for our Savior, Jesus Christ. John will be missed by his dear family and so many others that he had contact with.
August 10, 2010
Cheryl and family,
My heart goes out to you all and i join you in grieving John's passing but also celebrating his entry into heaven to live forever with Jesus.
I'm fortunate to have become friends with John these last few years during our Tuesday night Bible study group with the guys and as my new golfing buddy this summer. John's love for you, his family, and the practical way he lived out his walk with Jesus will always be a model for me. I love him and I will miss him greatly.
Bob Schoenbaum
August 10, 2010
Cheryl and kids--
John will always be remembered for so many wonderful things. He was generous, helpful, caring and always made you feel welcome. Scott and I want to express our deepest sympathy but know John is in a good and comfortable place. We love you all and please let us know if there is anything we can do for you all.
We will be there to celebrate in John's wonderful life with you in the coming days. Take care and we love you all!
The Fryklund's
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