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April 4, 2013
I just became aware of Paul's passing, but I wanted to say something in his memory. 40 some years ago I had the pleasure of coaching the best youth football player I was ever too see, at Waite Park. I realized then that I was coaching not only a great player, but also an amazing person. Over the years, we would attend the same functions at Edison banquets or St. Anthony football games, and Paul would always seek me out to chat and share memories.
I am so sorry for your loss, and I will remember Paul as one of the greatest I have ever known.
Rick Ballot
John and Julie Fellegy
January 4, 2013
A treasured friend left us and he left an imprint on our hearts and souls of light and love. Paul was truly a fun loving person with an incredible personality. His pride for his boys was always evident. And his gift for telling a story along with sound affects, hand gestures and facial actions will remain in our hearts forever. He would often bring little gifts when he came over with a little story about them. We will treasure those items forever...like we will treasure his friendship. We love you Paul and we will miss you forever.
Sue (Lenart) Schlegel
January 3, 2013
I cherish the good times I had with Paul. He had a gift for brightening the world around him, and that's what we'll hold in our hearts. My prayers are with his loved ones.
Mary Brandes-Griffith
January 1, 2013
May perpetual light shine upon you my precious boy.
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Dennis & Patti (Tousley) Graves
January 1, 2013
Margaret, David and the rest of the Brandes family,
We are saddened to hear of your tragic loss. Please take some comfort in knowing that the thoughts and prayers of all are with you during this very difficult time.
Dave Anderson
December 27, 2012
Dear Brandes Family,
Extremely sorry to hear about the loss of Paul. He was a really good guy/classmate/friend at St. Charles & Edison. Admired by many because he made everyone feel like each of us was his best friend.
May God be with him and your family.
December 26, 2012
Dawn, Mitch, Preston,
What a shock to hear about Paul. Now he is at peace, no more problems. Now he can do all the hunting he wants to whenever he wants to. It will be tough to get thru things, but God has a way of helping!
Take care and we love you,
Shelly Standke and Dana and Dan Enzenauer
Mary Bob and Kevin Niznik
December 24, 2012
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Paul Smith
December 24, 2012
Dear Brandes Family,
My heart goes out to your family about the loss of Paul, he was a very special person and I wish I would have had more time to spend with him. May the Angels bring you comfort in these trying times and may the pain of your loss also be comforted by the Angels.
God Bless You All
.
Lesli and Jeff Asher-Yates
December 23, 2012
So sorry for your loss. Our sons played hockey together and Paul was always soo much fun to be with during the games and tournaments. Our thoughts and prayers are with his sons and family.
December 22, 2012
The best to you all. It was a shock to hear about Paul's passing. He will be missed as a neighbhor. Loretta
December 21, 2012
Dear Brandes Family,
Although I did not know Paul well, the one thing I do know is he lit up a room with his smile and charm. I am so sorry for your loss and no words can really comfort your pain, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers for peace and comfort. Love and hugs to you all,
Chris Lenser
Steve Antolak
December 21, 2012
I am so sorry for the pain your family feels upon losing Paul. I pray that your family is comforted by all the warm memories of Paul in much better times and that the deep pain that took Paul from us is past. May Paul rest in peace and God help you all in this difficult time.
December 21, 2012
To Ray, Lucy and the whole Brandes Family: Our family sends prayers to all of you during this very difficult time. We have wonderful memories of Paul from his childhood to the present. He will be missed...we are so very sorry for your loss. Wayne, Marge, Denise, Sue and Lisa Szczeck
Jim Dooley
December 21, 2012
Dear Brandes Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Paul's passing and your loss. My history is filled with many fond memories of Paul. You have my deepest sympathy.
God Speed Paul....
sherri & brett sweeney
December 21, 2012
we are so sorry to hear of pauls passing,we will never forget our time with you guys at hockey and being one of bretts coaches,and watching our boys play hockey for together for years.I am glad we had the pleasure of knowing him.He was a great guy.rip mr brandes.
Katie Eaton
December 21, 2012
The Kelly family extends heartfelt condolences to the Brandes family. We are so sorry for your loss.
Mark, Katie, Mary Pat, Mike and Anne
Bruce and Laurie Gebbie
December 21, 2012
To Paul's Family, We are friends of John and Laurie Kuduk, so we knew Paul through them. We got to see him as recently as Annie's wedding. He was a good man with a big heart.
Mike Stellenberg
December 21, 2012
I would like to extend my sympathy for your loss of Paul. I met him through my brother and I used to run into him down in White Water State Park while hunting. I had a lot of laughs with him and I will miss him dearly. I'm sorry but I won't be able to attend your service for him but I will keep you all in my prayers and thoughts. May God bless Paul and all of you. With deepest regrets, and best wishes.
December 21, 2012
Brandes Family - Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Kaia Jackson and Christopher Hill
Dick Dooley
December 21, 2012
Brandes family, so sorry to hear about your loss. I have not seen Paul for several years but have many fond memories of him. He was a great guy and will be terribly missed. My deepest sympathy
December 21, 2012
To the Ray Brandes Clan,
Dear Uncle Ray, Aunt Lu, Mary, Jean, Steve and Margret,
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. We will miss Paul's never fading smile and gentle presence. He was truly a great guy.
Take care of yourselves and remember your best times with Paul.
Mike & Betsy Brandes
December 21, 2012
We are so saddened to hear of Pauls passing. We loved seeing him at the hockey games and loved his contagious smile!! He will be missed. We will keep you all in our prayers during this difficult time.
Barb, Doug, Dillon, Derek and David Loahr
Dona (Cudo) Anderson
December 21, 2012
So very sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I talked and laughed with him at the 35 year class reunion. The world is missing one heck of a great man! Prayers and peace to the Brandes family!
Sean Canney
December 21, 2012
I am very sorry to hear of Paul's passing. We always delighted when we knew "Pauly" was coming to our farm he so elequently named "Ground Zero" - you get the picture. Paul was fun to be around and always enthusiastic. He is our hunting and fishing buddy who will be deeply missed. Hold your strength and delight in the many fond memories of Paul.

December 21, 2012
Julie (Schweikert)Christiansen
December 21, 2012
To the Brandes Family,
My heart is so broken for your loss. I know words can not take away your pain. May it comfort you to know we are thinking and praying for you all.
God Bless you.
Matt and Anne Fray- Kuduk
December 21, 2012
To the Brandes family,
Our deepest condolences and prayers for comfort during this time.
Bob-John and Don Leitschuh
December 21, 2012
We were sorry to hear the news about Paul. He would always stop to visit my parents whenever he was walking by. I had a chance to talk with him at the reunion. He was a great guy and we will miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
December 21, 2012
Steve, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Kevin and Peggy Petrowitz
Margaret Cahill
December 21, 2012
Margaret and Brandes family,
I am very sorry for your loss, please know you are in my heart and prayers.
Margaret
Ed Murzyn
December 21, 2012
Brandes Family, I will always have treasured memories of Paul as a good friend. An Edison High School Football teammate always available to give support and advice. Wonderful memories at the cabin. A radiant smile that will always be with me. God speed, Paul.
Steve Tomczyk
December 20, 2012
Mitch, Preston and Brandes Family:
Paul was a great dear friend - it was an honor and a blessing to have known him. He brought something special to every situation he was in. He had a heart as big as the outdoors that he loved so much. He loved his sons and was very proud of the fine young men they've become - and the strong men they will continue to be - with God's help and love, and the love and support of their family and friends. My love, support and prayers are with you all.
December 20, 2012
Dear Dawn, Mitchell,Preston and the entire Brandes family, Our hearts are with you during this rough time. Many prayers are being said to comfort you, for it is never easy. Paul is at peace now, with Lord. We are here for you in whatever capacity you need us to be. Peace and love to you all,
Tom, Mary, Katy, Molly and Thomas Gorrilla
Stahel
December 20, 2012
Brandes Family:
We are very saddened to hear about your loss. He was a great man all around. He always had a bright smile on his face! May he rest in peace. Your family is in our prayers over the holidays.
The Stahel Family
Larry & Jody Rossi
December 20, 2012
We were so fortunate to just visit with Paul three weeks ago, his smile, laugh, and story telling will be missed. Nordeast will never be the same. Rest in Peace Paul.
Cindy Morin (Ringdal)
December 20, 2012
Margaret & family, my heart broke for you when I got the news of Paul's passing. It is always hard to lose a loved one but at this time of year it is especially difficult. I will pray for comfort and happy memories for you and your family.
December 20, 2012
To the Brandes family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I am going to miss my duck hunting buddie and the best football player I ever played with.
Bryan Vernon
Shannon Hammer
December 20, 2012
Dear Brandes Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father, brother, uncle... You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Lisa Rekuski
December 20, 2012
Dear Brandes Family,
My heart and prayers go out to all of you. Paul was a wonderful friend. The last year we spend alot of time together and I loved listending to him talk about his sons, he had such a huge smile when talking of the two of you, whether it was about sports or just hanging out together. He loved spending time with you and was so proud of you both and loved you so much. I will miss his smile and his warm heart.I will never forget him.
Mrak Stein
December 20, 2012
I was so sorry to hear about Paul. I will remember the good times we shared at the cabin.
December 20, 2012
Paul was a very good friend and devoted family man. I am going to miss him and his friendship very much. I enjoyed sharing memories with him of Saint Charles grade school and growing up in Northeast. My deepest sympathies to his family. I know he loved you all very much.
Kevin McNulty
Kevin O'Rourke
December 20, 2012
Brandes Family,
My heart and prayers go out to you. Paul had an infectious smile and the fun didn't end there. Anytime I was with him I knew it would not take long before he had me doubled over in laughter.
We will miss him,
December 20, 2012
I am deeply saddened by this news. I recently visited with Paul and always cherished moments with him. He was a good man with a very kind heart. He was a treasured St. Charles friend that always had a big smile for me. I wish I could have helped...
-Brandes Family, my thoughts and prayers go out to all of you and your wonderful family at this very difficult time.
Liz Bray
Maria Caram
December 20, 2012
Dear Brandes family,
Our hearts go out to you in this time of pain and sorrow. May you find comfort in the cross, peace in the manger, and through the intersession of our blessed Mother Mary and father St. Joseph, may you find the strength to go on with unshaken faith.
Sincerely,
Maria Caram and Nicho and Peter Roessler.
Roger and Mary Fran Schwartz
December 20, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
December 20, 2012
My deepest sympathies to all of Paul's family.
He always had a smile on his face, whether it was at a sporting event or just running into him at Cub! He is at peace now.
Sandy Blosberg/Kubes
December 20, 2012
I am so sorry to hear of Paul's death. I just saw Paul at the 90th all school reunion and was very hapy to catch up with him. I know he will be sad;y missed by everyone. He was a great guy but please ake comfort in knowing he is in a better place
Mitzi Lynch
December 20, 2012
Dear Mitch, Preston, Dawn,and Brandes Family,
We want you all to know how sorry we are for your loss. Paul was such a good friend and neighbor at the cabin. Always willing to help whenever we needed a hand hauling refrigerators to the loft (Ray, Mitch and Preston did most of the heavy lifting!), or lending a hand with our many building adventures. Playing yard games, fishing contests, snorkling and swimming were some of the fun memories that we will always have of Paul. He made our cabin trips so much fun when he was up there, with his humor and stories. Our family has always felt a part of the Brandes family, so we feel like we have lost one of our own today. Mitch and Preston, we watched you grow up into the most amazing people. Your Dad was so proud of each of you. Never forget that.
Words just can't express the pain we feel for all of you. Our hearts go out to you at this very difficult time in your lives. We will never forget what a great person Paul was to all of us. We will miss him dearly.
Much love to you all!
Mike, Mitzi and Family
Dave Mach
December 20, 2012
I'm grateful for getting to know Paul over the last several years. What a big heart and smile! I'm going to miss my old classmate.
Tom Johansen
December 20, 2012
Stunned and saddened. You've lost one of the truly good guys!
My deepest condolences.
December 20, 2012
I am so sorry to here of your loss. Paul was one of God's children! So many people suffer alone. May God's promise give you all faith in the future
Janine Christensen
December 20, 2012
Our prayers are with you all during this time of loss.
Michele Jacobs
December 20, 2012
Dear Mitchell, Preston and Brandes Family,
We are so very sorry. Paul was always so kind and we will never forget the compassion he showed our family when Mike died. You are in our hearts and prayers through your days of grieving, healing and change.
May Paul rest in Peace...
Michele and Gabrielle Jacobs and Family
Randy and Sadia Peterson
December 20, 2012
Our thought and prayers are with the Brandes Family.
Julie Chapman
December 20, 2012
Dear Mitchell, Preston and Ray and the rest of the Brandes Family,
While we are deeply saddened and filled with grief over the loss of such a wonderful friend, know your Dad is now at peace. His zest for life and his energy and his fun filled times will fill our empty hearts and live on with us forever. I am so sorry and want you to know we surround you during this most extremely painful time.
Susan (Brown) Farmer
December 20, 2012
Prayers for Paul the the Brandes Families
Larry Stellenberg Jr
December 20, 2012
To the Brandes family,
I am sorry for your loss. Paul was a great person and the memories he has left will be cherished. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
The Ryans Patrick, Janet, Nikolas and Angela
December 20, 2012
Preston, Mitchell, Dawn and family, We are so very sorry to hear of Paul's passing. We have so many great memories of him from hockey; he was a wonderful man and will be truly missed, not only by his immediate family, but by the "Irondale hockey family" as well. Our thoughts are prayers are with the family at such a difficult time. God Bless.
December 20, 2012
Dear Brandes Family,
Our family is thinking of all of you at this time. We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Beanie Suek and Zukowski Family
Jillena Lenser
December 20, 2012
To the entire Brandes Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May Paul now rest in peace. Love to you all
Cindy Saba-Stoewer
December 20, 2012
So upset to learn of this. I reconnected with Paul this summer and enjoyed two fun-filled events with him that we both happened to be at. Paul is a great person and will definitely be missed. God Bless the family. My sympathies.
Randy and Sadia Peterson
December 20, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Brandes family.
Jeffrey and Stephanie Rosener
December 20, 2012
To the family,
You are in our families thoughts and prayers today and forever. Paul was so kind and will be greatly missed. We are sorry for your loss.
Pamela Kuduk
December 20, 2012
To the Brandes family, so sorry to hear about your loss. Peace to you and your family. Pamela Neuman-Kuduk
Dede Hering
December 20, 2012
Dear Margaret,
I am sorry sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and to your nephews. God's blessing to you and your family as you go through this difficult time.
Dede
Jillena Lenser
December 20, 2012
To the Brandes Clan,
My thoughts and prayers are with and for all of you. May he now rest in peace.
Kim Rueb
December 20, 2012
Margaret and family,
I'm so sorry for your lose. You are in our prayers.
Jane Canney
December 20, 2012
Dear Margaret and family,
All of you are in our thoughts and in our hearts at St. Thomas. So sorry about your loss.
Patty Johnson
December 20, 2012
Dear Jean, Mary & Family
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all.
Patty (Neuman), Danny & Nicole Johnson
Kathy, Howard and Jack
December 20, 2012
Mitch, Preston and Brandes family, we are thinking of you during this difficult time. Paul was a dear friend of ours and we only have great memories of him. Take care.
The Daleki's
December 20, 2012
So sorry to hear about Paul. Thoughts and prayers for your family
Tim Peterson
December 20, 2012
My thoughts, and prayers go out to the Brandes family. So sorry to hear about Paul.
December 20, 2012
Brandes family; I'm deeply sorry of the loss of Paul. Mitch & Preston, your father was a respected and good person besides a treasured friend of mine. I hope you can take away all the positives from him. I'm praying for you two and the rest of of the wonderful Brandes family. John Kuduk
December 20, 2012
Dear Lucille, Ray, Mary, Jean, Steve, Margaret and entire family,
Our deepest sympathy to all of you at this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Moses Family
(Patty Janie Shelley Jackie and Nicki)
Nancy Stachowski
December 20, 2012
Ray, Lucy, Mitchell, Preston, Steve and Family -
I'm so sorry to hear about Paul. I have many memories of our fishing contests up at Mitzi & Mike's cabin and also Paul throwing me in the lake several times - - I think I got him back a couple. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with all the family at this very difficult time. Love, Nancy
Tim & Bonnie Dickson
December 20, 2012
Steve, Sue, Trisha & family,
So sorry to hear of Paul's passing...our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time.
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