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Barbara O'SHAUGHNESSY Obituary

O'SHAUGHNESSY, Barbara

Barbara Jane Streeter O'Shaughnessy 1922-2014

Barbara J. O'Shaughnessy passed away peacefully on September 20, 2014 at the age of 92 surrounded by her children. Born on July 5th, 1922 in Austin, Minnesota to Clara and Clifford Streeter, she spent most of her youth in St. Paul, Minnesota. She attended Mills College in Oakland, CA and graduated from the University of Minnesota in 1944. After graduation, Barbara volunteered for the US Army in California scheduling transportation home for soldiers on leave.

Barbara married Donald E. O'Shaughnessy in 1946 and moved to Midland, Texas in 1950. She was very active in various aspects of the community in Midland from St. Ann's Church and School to the Midland Community Theatre where she performed in numerous plays. She also served on the boards of the I.A. O'Shaughnessy Foundation, Midland College Foundation and was a Governor Emeritus of the Midland Memorial Foundation at Midland Memorial Hospital. A natural athlete, Barbara was an excellent golfer and tennis player. She and Don enjoyed traveling, and she remained curious and up to date on local and world events until her death.

Barbara (Mom OSh) was a surrogate mom to many and a genuine friend to all. She leaves a lifetime of treasured memories and a legacy of love, laughter, wit and grace. Barbara will be greatly missed by all who knew her. She is survived by her six children: Karen, Steve, Mike, Dan, Peggy and Kaki O'Shaughnessy, 18 grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren. She is preceded in death by her beloved husband of 49 years, Don, and her granddaughter, Nicole DeBerge and grandson, Chance DeBerge. The family would like to thank all her thoughtful and loving friends and those caretakers who have compassionately helped care for Barbara, most recently including: Simona and Nohe Gonzalez, Raquel Gonzalez, Lucy Gutierrez, Kim Claiborne, Teresa Zermeno, Griselda Gaytan, Bill Britt and in particular, Hospice of Midland.

A funeral mass will be held on Wednesday, September 24, 2014 at 11:00 AM at St. Ann's Catholic Church followed by interment at Resthaven Memorial Gardens at 12:30 and a reception at the Midland Petroleum Club from 1:30-4:30 PM. In lieu of flowers, the family gratefully suggests a contribution to one of the following: Midland Memorial Foundation Endowment Fund, Midland College Endowment Fund, Oblate School of Theology in San Antonio, Texas, or any entity involving the betterment and care of animals.

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Published by Austin American-Statesman from Sep. 24 to Sep. 25, 2014.

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Candie Cummings

September 25, 2014

My sympathy to the family...I have fond memories living across the street from Barb..God Bless you all!

Sharon Edwards-Portis

September 24, 2014

Danny and Jeanne my family sends our sincerest condolences on the passing of your mother. Our prayers are with you and family.

Adelle Dowling

September 24, 2014

I know that Jim is smiling while he welcomes his "other mom" into heaven. Barbara was always a beautiful woman, inside and out, and I know all of you will miss her everyday. May God continue to bless you all with wonderful memories.
Adelle Tarwater Dowling

September 23, 2014

To the family of Mom O'Sh, I am so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing to her eternal life. She was a great Mom,Grandmother,& Great Grandmother; she was a wonderful, warm, friendly person who made everyone feel important & good; she was a great lady! She will be missed as much as she was loved! With Love & Prayers, Sheila O,Shaughnessy

Lee Cummings

September 23, 2014

Karen, Steve, Mike & Dan, as you know, your mom was my Bedford Drive Second Mom. I know she rests in peace. My condolences to you all.

Lee Cummings

Lucy A. Gutierrez

September 23, 2014

It was my pleasure to have known such a beautiful lady as Mrs. O'Shaughnessy I enjoyed working for her as her caregiver till her last day.. I've had many clients but none like her.. I will miss her dearly she was a beautiful person indeed. .. love you always....your love will continues through your beautiful family Karen, Steve, Mike, Dan, Peggy and Kaki....love you always

Martin & Kim Kennedy

September 23, 2014

To the family that this wonderful woman left behind I would like to say it was so much fun to be around Mom OSh as I was growing up down the street, she was always full of laughter and gaiety and surrounded the people she knew with her love and faith. I can speak for the Kennedy clan she is in our hearts and prayers.

John & Cindy Wahe

September 23, 2014

Hoping that the knowledge that your Mom touched so many lives will give you comfort in the days ahead. Know that she will live on in your hearts and memories and that she is home with our Lord and her beloved husband.

Condolences to your entire family.

September 23, 2014

Love to all of you as you plan the passing of your Mother. May you be carried through all of this with the appreciation of having been blessed with a wonderful person that was so much a part of your life. See you before long to celebrate Barbara!

Michele and Mike

September 23, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with Barbara's children, grandchildren, and great-children in this time of sorrow. We celebrate a life so well lived and the kindness and generosity she showed to all she knew. Her Family is a living testament to a wonderful women and Mother.
Karen and Terry O'Shaughnessy (Chicago, IL)

Brooke Mayes

September 23, 2014

Dear O'Shaughnessy kids. I am SO sorry for your loss. Another long time Midlander gone but not forgotten. God bless

Patricia Golding

September 23, 2014

What wonderful memories I have of Barbara while growing up in Midland. She was such a delight to spend time with and what a role model to so many who loved her. Sending prayers to her children as they prepare to celebrate her life tomorrow!

Wanda Sewell

September 23, 2014

Ken and I send our love and prayers to Barbara's family. She was an inspiration to so many people and will be sorely missed by the Midland community.

Kim Claiborne

September 21, 2014

I am so thankful for the beautiful life of Mrs. O'Shaughnessy! And that I've been blessed to know her. Love and prayers to each of you- Karen, Steve, Mike, Dan, Peggy and Kaki. And your families.

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