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Theodore Jabour Obituary

Theodore Jabour and his identical twin, Arthur, roamed the streets, parks and creeks of a much smaller Austin as boys. They fired anti-aircraft guns side by side in the Pacific theater in World War II, stood together in front of an Eastern Orthodox priest as they married cousins in the early 1950s, and spent almost four decades together running an East Sixth Street package and drugstore that was an inspiration for the Twin Liquors Fine Wine & Spirits chain. Theodore Jabour, described by his son as "a beautiful man," died Monday. He was 88. "Anybody who came across him would immediately be captivated by his gentle face and kind voice and sparkling eyes," David Jabour said Wednesday of his father. It was that ease and joy in being with people, David Jabour said, that explained how the Jabour twins were able to successfully compete on an East Sixth Street business strip that at one time had 26 liquor stores. And the same qualities immediately drew Theodore Jabour out of a brief retirement — the brothers had closed Jabour's Package Store in 1981 — when, in February 1982, sons Ralph and David and daughter Margaret opened a liquor store at Seventh and Red River streets and named it Twin Liquors in honor of their dad. That store, still open, was the seed for what is now a 59-store business from San Antonio to Temple, the largest wine and spirits chain in Central Texas. Theodore Jabour told his son David that the retail business "comes down to service and people. Dad would painstakingly spend endless amounts of time with each and every customer." The Jabours were among a number of Lebanese families that settled in Austin in the late 1800s and early 1900s, many of them opening small businesses downtown. Theodore Jabour's parents ran a mercantile store in the early decades of the 20th century, then expanded the offerings to include liquor after Prohibition ended in 1933. The brothers took over the business after leaving the Army — both were sergeants, David Jabour said — in the wake of World War II. They traveled in 1953 with their mother to Lebanon, where both met girls who just three weeks later became their wives. Helen Jabour survives her husband. "Dad saw her coming down a staircase, and it was love at first sight," David Jabour said. Arthur Jabour died in 2004. Theodore Jabour's eldest son, Ralph, died in 1990. David Jabour said his father, despite a weakening heart and kidney disease in recent years, continued to be active in the business until about nine months ago. Even in his last days, Jabour wanted to know about the recent opening of a new store. "His mind was brilliant until the final hours," David Jabour said. Aside from his wife, son and daughter, Jabour is survived by five grandchildren, a fourth generation who, their parents say, have shown interest in the family business. Theodore Jabour's Eastern Orthodox faith was central to his life, his son said, and he spent countless Sundays as the official greeter at St. Elias Antiochian Orthodox Church on East 11th Street. Visitation will be 5 p.m. Friday, followed by a 6 p.m. service at the church. The funeral service will be 10 a.m. Saturday at the church.

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Published by Austin American-Statesman from Nov. 25 to Dec. 15, 2009.

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Jimmy LaFrance

December 12, 2009

I met the Twins in 1954 I last see Theodore Oct.2000 when his twin and I were in Seton hospital at the same time he has always been a friend...My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

frieda eagan

December 6, 2009

I met Mr, Jabour many ,many years ago he was the most pleasant person you ever met, family he was a very good man frieda -Randle eagan

Emile Sayegh

December 6, 2009

Uncle Theodore will always remain in our memory as one of the most considerate, sweet, honest man we have ever met. Always smiling, always positive, even when things were tough. Uncle Theodore always had the faith of a saint.

My family, beginning with my grandparents, to my parents, to me and my wife, to our children are lucky to have known, and been touched by this wonderful man. Together with Uncle Arthur, Uncle Theodore welcomed 1000s of visitors to St. Elias, us included, with his wonderful trademark smile that never faded even in his last days in the hospital.

Uncle Theodore,
we love you, Memory Eternal. In David, and Margaret, and the grand kids, You have left behind an incredibly awesome family that will continue in your footsteps and continue to make you proud for generations to come.

Daniel alicea

December 5, 2009

i took care of mr jabour till the end at the hospital. i just wanted to say he was the sweetist man i have ever met. may god bless him and his family.
Daniel

Ned Russo

December 3, 2009

Margaret and David & family,
My prayers and thoughts for you and your family during this difficult time. Your father was truly a 'beautiful man' and so kind to all he touched over his years.
Life passes to the next generation for all of us. I am sure your dad will keep a watchful eye from above on the entire Jabour family.
My thoughts and prayers, Ned Russo

Jodi Kirksey

December 2, 2009

David & Margaret - I am praying for God's comfort for you and your family during this time.

November 30, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in this sad time of loss. God bless your family and comfort you
michelle Chittim

November 30, 2009

Tom and I send our deepest sympathies to all of you during this sad time.
Jamie Whittington

Gussie Wright

November 28, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Angie & Harry Jaffers

November 28, 2009

A truly gracious, kind friend has passed.How can we ever forget the happy individual who greeted us on Sunday mornings at St Elias. He made us feel that we were each very special. Our love and prayers are with you Helen, Margaret, David and family.

Sakakini

November 28, 2009

Rest in Peace uncle Theodore and may your memory be eternal. We will always remember your smile and warmth. You made church very special, you touched the lives of many new comers to Austin, and made us feel at home at your beloved St. Elias. Thank you for your service and dedication to orthodoxy.

To aunt Helen, Margaret, David and family; we extent our deepest sympathy, God rest his soul and Allah Yerhamou.

Khalil, Samar, John and Haneen

Larry Nohra

November 27, 2009

To the dear family of Theodore,
We would like to express our sincere condolences to all of you at this time of your great loss. So many sweet memories of Theodore come to our mind as we remember this wonderful man. He always had that cheerful smile and twinkle in his eye. We remember, with great fondness, the times he visited us with all of you, at our home. Our prayers and love are with you. May the many warm memories of his life bring you comfort. God bless all of you.
Larry and Margie Nohra

Richard Moczygemba

November 27, 2009

Mr. Jabour was a very memorable person, with a kind and engaging personality. I remember meeting him only once, in 1973, when I went into the 6th St. store to purchase a bottle of wine. He certainly made an impression on me, that lasts to this day. Please accept my condolences on his passing.

Scott Capes

November 27, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Robbie Johnson

November 27, 2009

god bless you theodore!!

Emma Linn

November 26, 2009

The Jabour family first came into my life in the 1960s. I moved to 6th Street and was immediately welcomed by Mother Jabour, Teddie and Arthur. We became fast friends and the three of them gave me a Lebanese name, "Yumna". We spent hours talking and telling stories about 6th Street in earlier days. Mama Jabour proudly showed me the letter she had received in response to a letter she that she had sent to President Roosevelt when her twin boys were entering service in WWII. A policy existed that disallowed brothers from serving at the same place. In her letter, she had written "My two boys were born together, and if they die, they should die together. Please let them serve together". President Roosevelt, touched by her words, agreed and they were stationed together. And that's the way the twins lived, always together. Through the years we shared may happy times and sad times. We were all heart broken with the death of Ralphie and now we are saddened by the passing of Teddie. I am so proud that the two of you are carrying on the family tradition and I greatly respect the vital part that the Jabour family has contributed to the city of Austin and that you are continuing in that tradition. Thank you so much for such a wonderful family. I will remember Theodore with warmth and I will miss his presence. Emma Lou Linn (Yumna)

Emma Linn

November 26, 2009

David and Margaret: The Jabour family first came into my life in the late 1960s. I met Mother Jabour, Teddy, Arthur, and Freddie at the store on 6th Street. I became fast friends with them; we would sit for hours telling stories. The twins gave me a Lebanese name, Yumna, that I will always treasure and still use with our common friends. Mama Jabour showed me the letter that came after she had written to President Roosevelt when the twins were about to go to war (WWII). A policy existed that disallowed 2 brothers from serving and being stationed in the same place. She wrote to the president saying "my boys were born together and if they should die, they will die together". The president agreed with her, was touched by her words, and they were allowed to serve together. Through the years we shared happy times and sorrows from great losses. The death of Ralphie broke our hearts. And now both twins are gone. A wonderful time in my life will still linger in my memory. I'm so happy that you two are carrying on the family tradition. Thank you and your parents and grandparents for being such an important part of Austin's history. I am out of town and won't be able to return for the funeral, burt know that my thoughts are with you and the family. Emma Lou Linn (Yumna)

Jim Worley

November 26, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

The Jabour's were great o Shriner's

November 26, 2009

Cheryl Morris

November 26, 2009

Over 30 years ago, my husband, then Warren Morris and later to become the V. Rev. Fr. John Morris, and I came to the doors of St. Elias Orthodox church and were greeted by Theodore. His smile, kindness, and helpfulness drew us into the faith, and made us feel like part of the family. Because of this initial impression of Orthodoxy, I feel that St. Elias was able to welcome many converts to the faith. We love him and his family. May his memory be eternal.

Denise & Jerry Conway

November 25, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Greg EASLEY

November 25, 2009

Margaret, I was in high school french class with you and remember going by your family's store. I am so sorry for your loss

November 25, 2009

I remember the family from my childhood growing up in Austin.
I am 55 and the memories are in my heart forever.
May you rest in peace.

Sincerely, and with fond memories, Marilyn Rivera-Spielman

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