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Steven DeLillo Obituary

Steven Walter DeLillo, affectionately known as Boe, passed away on September 27, 2017 at the age of 27. Kind-hearted and sharp-witted, Boe's charismatic nature was infectious, and he invariably won over any room he ever bounded into. His friends and family will forever remember the charming boy with the crooked smile, the straight-A student too smart for his own good, the athlete who towered above just about everyone. But they will also remember the dark path that ultimately took his life. The painful cycle of drug addiction and the constant battle to get clean was a struggle that consumed Boe in entirety, the specter of his addictions extinguishing the bright light of this brilliant young man far too soon. He is survived by his darling daughter Layla, best friend Katelyn Blume, mother and stepfather Beth and Dennis Tweed, brother and sister-in-law Joseph and Domenica DeLillo, grandmother Elizabeth Fitzpatrick, and a heartbroken extended family. Funeral Mass will be held at St. David's Catholic Church at 10:30am on Friday, October 6, 2017. There is no greater tragedy than the potential of youth snuffed out before its time. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Boe's memory to www.Shatterproof.org, so that our pain can prevent another family from feeling this devastating loss.

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Published by Sun-Sentinel on Oct. 3, 2017.

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Addy (Layla's Friend)

February 25, 2025

Sorry for your loss, Layla and her family. From meeeeeee

Layla DeLillo

February 21, 2025

miss you dad xoxo
your beloved daughter, Layla~~~~

Layla DeLillo

February 21, 2025

miss u dad

~ Love, your dear daughter, Layla

Janice Keetch

September 28, 2021

Gone but not forgotten. Xx

Donna Bello

September 27, 2021

It´s been 4 long years since you gained your wings. You are missed and never far from my heart

Janice and Allen Keetch

September 27, 2020

Time passes and the love deepens. Xx

Janice and Allen Keetch

September 27, 2019

Beth, thinking of you today and know that you are always in our prayers.

Donna Bello

September 27, 2019

I will always keep Bo in my thoughts and ❤ heart! In the time that I knew him he was such a sweet young man who was so proud of his beautiful daughter whom he loved so much. So sad to have lost him so young. Forever young. Hope his soul is at peace

Jennifer Izaguirre

July 21, 2018

Boe was such a nice guy. Very sweet and genuine. He will be missed.

Alex A

November 25, 2017

I had the privilege of meeting Bo along his journey through sobriety. I know the despair that comes from staring into the abyss. I was heartbroken to hear of his passing. My heart goes out to his friends, family, and his lovely daughter who I had the pleasure of meeting. Rest In Peace, my friend.

October 19, 2017

My sympathy goes out to the family during your time of grief.May God's loving kindness comfort you and help you though this difficult time.-Psalms 119:50,76. LL

Sharon Offley

October 18, 2017

Beth,
I remember Bo adventuring across Kauai to leap into hidden lava rock pools, all elbows and knees....
Im so profoundly sorry. You are in my thoughts and on my heart every day. I hope you can feel some of the love that surrounds you near and far.

Jean Orimenko

October 13, 2017

I didn't have the privilege of knowing Boe, but I've known Beth since we were teenagers, and her Mom, also.
I know you blessed him with a loving family.
I'm so sorry that something overtook him that prevented him from fully embracing the beautiful life you offered
May his soul rest in peace
Much Love
Jean Orimenko Patrick

Connie Haas

October 9, 2017

Beth,
There are no magic words to comfort you, nothing anyone says will ever fill the hole that is left in your heart. You can call me or email me if you ever want to talk, I know your pain. I will pray for you. your cousin Connie Lawless Haas

Mary Salter

October 5, 2017

Beth and family, I will always remember the fun kid at the lake with the crazy ideas. I'm so sorry for your families loss and heartache.

Janice and Allen Keetch

October 5, 2017

Beth, Dennis and family,
Our heart breaks for your loss. We don't know why things turn out as they do yet one thing we know for certain is Boe was loved. Beth you were a great Mother and gave your love unconditionally. We are so sorry for your loss and are keeping you in our prayers and hearts.

Jane Terry (Forand)

October 5, 2017

I was sorry to hear about Boe. He was such a cute little boy running around during boy scout meetings. And he was a wonderful young man. He will always be fondly remembered.

Angela and Bobby North

October 4, 2017

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May God bless you in this difficult time.

SWS

October 3, 2017

May you find comfort in knowing that God can empathise
with parents who have lost children to death. Since his son died he understand your pain and offers to comfort you. Isaiah 51:12

Donna Bello

October 3, 2017

Boe I will always remember your outgoing personality and how incredibly smart you were. You always seemed at your best around your beautiful daughter Layla evident by the wonderful pics you posted and how much the two of you played for the camera. Layla is definitely your mini me. Addiction is real and am so sad that it took another beautiful soul. I will never forget you. You are at peace now.

October 3, 2017

We are so sorry to for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

Love Susan and Vince Marino

May they rest in peace

Mary Tochtermann

October 3, 2017

Deepest and heartfelt sympathies to all his family for such a sudden and tragic loss. May the care and love of those around you provide comfort and peace to help get you through the days ahead. May Boe finally find peace.Much love and prayers..Mary Tochtermann

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