Reuben Helms Obituary

Reuben Dewayne Helms, 70, passed away Thursday, January 6, in Tallahassee. Visitation will be held 2:00PM-4:00PM, EDT, Sunday, January 9, 2011 at Culley's MeadowWood Funeral Home, Timberlane Chapel. Funeral services will be 11:00AM, Monday, January 10, 2011 with interment to follow at MeadowWood Memorial Park. Reuben was born October 12, 1940 in Cairo,IL, the son of Reuben Lee Helms and Grace Temple Helms. He served four years in the Air Force and lived in Tallahassee since 1961. He was in office equipment sales for several years prior to beginning his career in state government with the office of the comptroller, from which he retired in 2005. He was of the Baptist faith. Survivors include his son, Bryan D. Helms (Kirstin) and Paul H. Helms (Jenny), and his daughter, Jennifer H. Touchstone, all of Tallahassee; his brother Harlan T. Helms, Havana; and his sister Eleanor H. Wood, Tallahassee. He is also survived by his five precious grandchildren, Brandon Helms, Haley, Colby and Kinley Helms, and Jake Touchstone, all of Tallahassee. Reuben was preceded in death by his parents, Reuben Lee Helms and Grace Helms Pace. Flowers will be welcomed, or those desiring are encouraged to contribute to Big Bend Hospice, 1723 Mahan Center Blvd., Tallahassee, FL 32308 (850)878-5310, in Reuben's memory.

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Published by Tallahassee Democrat on Jan. 8, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
for Reuben Helms

10 Entries

Sandra Kirkland

January 29, 2011

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Leigh Lashley

January 12, 2011

Kirstin,
I was so sorry to hear about your father in law's passing. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Much Love,
Leigh

Kirsten Matthis

January 10, 2011

I only had the opportunity and privilege to know Reuben for the past three and a half years, when I moved in next door to him. Reuben was a kind man, and a great neighbor. I will forever fondly remember our chats, his good nature and his laugh. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Helms family, and know that he will be deeply missed on Winifred Drive.

January 10, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with all your family during this difficult time.
Lynda O'Brien

January 10, 2011

Dear Harlan and Family,
I was very sorry to hear of Reuben's passing. Please know that you all are in our prayers.
Pam and Jack Keller

January 8, 2011

Dear

Eleanor, Harlan and family,
Please know that Kathy, Mother and I have you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. we wish you peace and comfort in the comming months.

Love to you all,
Kyle

Jimmy & Donnakay Johnson

January 8, 2011

You all are in our prayers. John 14
14 1"Let not your heart be troubled: believe in God, believe also in me. 2In my Father's house are many mansions; if it were not so, I would have told you; for I go to prepare a place for you. 3And if I go and prepare a place for you, I come again, and will receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also."
Jesus also promised a new body---Reuben
is a "home" and rest and reunited with
his wonderful parents!!
Our Love, Jimmy & Donnakay Johnson

Donald Hirst

January 8, 2011

Reuben was my next door neighbor for more than 38 years and I couldn't have asked for a better neighbor and friend. On a daily basis We would walk and over the years we shared stories of our lives. He was there when I needed help and I tried to be there when he needed help. I will miss him and I know all of his family will too! Don Hirst & family

January 8, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers go to the entire Helms family at this time. May God grant you comfort through this time.
Terry & Jolene Bruce
Shalimar, Florida

Anne & Joe White

January 8, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Reuben will be missed by his Brandt Hills neighbors.

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