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Barklie Eliot
May 6, 2020
I worked with Peter at Saint Edward's School for many years. He was always concerned about the students and committed to the well-being of the school. His energy was impressive, as was his generosity. I remember going to faculty Christmas parties at his house on the river and relaxing with wonderful food and drink in a welcoming environment. That was his gift: to create a community.
Dudley Teel
May 3, 2020
i served as chairman of the Board at St.Eds for several years and to say Peter was amazing would be a true understatement. He always had the student's best interest as his guiding principal. He was honest, forthright and principled. You never had to wonder what he was thinking but knew whatever his comment, thought or decision was made in St. Edwards best interest. It was an honor serving with him. He will surely and already is missed.
Dudley Teel MD
Kate Downes
May 2, 2020
I served on the Andrus-on-Hudson and Helen Andrus Benedict Foundation boards with Peter and I will never forget how he started almost every sentence to me with, "Thank you for..." What a gracious and effective communication tool I will always cherish.
Karl Stein
May 1, 2020
I taught for 45 years under 7 headmasters. Peter was the biggest influence on my professional life. He was a giant in his field . May he rest in peace.
Jay Gibson
April 29, 2020
Peter was a great mentor andfriend. I knew him as a teacher and Head of school, and I am a teacher because he let me have an internship at St. Eds in 1986, then hired me next year. His leadership, constant support, encouragement and focus made it exciting to help grow St. Eds. I will always remember that booming laugh and excitement around the campus. Susan and Jake join me in sending love and respect to Nancy and the family.
Darcy Lewis
April 28, 2020
My grandmother was Dorothy Curzon, an art teacher at St. Ed's for years. I remember Mr. Benedict very fondly, and I know my grandmother so enjoyed working for him, and the community he built there. He was an amazing man and will be missed. - Darcy Lewis
Joanna and Agustin Salina
April 28, 2020
Nancy, we are so sorry to hear of Peter's passing. He lived an extraordinary life. He's leaving a lifetime legacy and will always be remembered for his efforts on behalf of education and his many other good works. Our sincere condolences to you and your family.
Megan clem
April 28, 2020
My grandad always taught me to strive to be the best me that I could be. He gave me the gift of relentless determination at a young age that i have never forgotten. He was so strong and steadfast in everything he believed in but also so kind and gentle at the same time. Thats how I will remember him. Lots of love being felt right now.
April 28, 2020
I have so many memories of Peter. He was simply amazing. He held all his employees to a very high standard. If you were called to his office, you needed to be prepared to have the answers to his questions. I can remember when the US library was being built, and I was pushing for technology. I had finally gotten permission for all the wiring etc. and now we needed the computers. Peter told me to write up a proposal...which I did. Then he told me to rewrite it with only what the library absolutely had to have. Which I did...and then he told me that it had to be 3 sentences or less. I learned how to revise, edit, rewrite, and be very specific very fast! He once told me that if I started a company, he would be an investor as I was a great salesman! Peter never forgot a person...a name perhaps, but not the person. He was pleased when he ran into one of his past employees and always interested in knowing what they were doing in their retirement years. Peter also had a wonderful sense of humor. I can close my eyes and see his plane roll upside down and do loops over the ocean. One of the very best talent shows at St. Eds was when Bruce Wachter and Peter rode their motorcycles on stage. The crowd went wild. Peter touched the lives of so many, he will be missed. I am so blessed that he hired me to work at Saint Edward's School. Under his leadership, it became the amazing school that it still is today. Prayers and condolences to all his loving family.
Laura Kelley
April 28, 2020
My condolences to Nancy and family, It was such an honor to work for Peter-a bright light and leader.
James Denmark
April 28, 2020
Mr Benedict always made me feel very special from his handwritten notes he sent by mail to his resounding, "Hi Jim Denmark" every time he saw me. I cherish my time with him and only wish I could be as good a person as he wanted me to be. Fair Winds and Following Seas!
April 28, 2020
So many memories. I will share a few.. when he challenged the senior class with push ups and did them in assembly... Running on the beach and fun run...
Rick Hartley
April 27, 2020
An amazing man, boss and friend. He led by example; had high expectations and refused to accept mediocrity. I only have the utmost respect and admiration for Peter. Peter changed the policy for owning a dog and living at the LS for Winston. He allowed an air conditioned dog house behind the US library for Winston also. Peter even allowed me to put a roller hockey team together and use the tennis court as our rink on the US campus. He came to two of our games. Too many wonderful memories to share. Julie and I send our love and condolences to all members of Benedict family.
Renee Green
April 27, 2020
No one had such energy and enthusiasm for Saint Edwards as Peter Benedict. I loved working at the Upper School under his tutelage. My condolences to Nancy and all of the family. He seemed to be unstoppable.
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