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Edward McCabe Obituary
WESTBOROUGH - Edward Thomas "Thom" McCabe, Jr., 76, of Westborough, passed away on Friday, October 30, 2020 at the UMass Memorial Healthcare-Memorial Hospital in Worcester. He was the husband of Judith K. (Schlott) McCabe, with whom he was happily married for 54 years.
Born in Framingham, he was the son of the late Edward Thomas and Vivian (Gaudet) McCabe. He was raised and educated in Worcester and was a graduate of St. John's High School, the last class to graduate from the Temple St. location in Worcester.
Thom was the owner of the former Red Barn and Tom Foolery's Restaurant in Westborough. He was a former member and past president of the Rotary Club of Westborough, and during this time inspired Rotary Club to sponsor the Festival of Lights celebration which takes place during the holiday season in the town center. He was also the past president of the Massachusetts Restaurant Association and was a Paul Harris Fellow. Thom was well respected in the community, a generous man, and a man of great wit.
In addition to his wife he is survived by one son, Sean K. McCabe and his wife, Eliana, of Westborough; one daughter, Tara A. McCabe of Key West, FL; seven grandchildren and one great-grandchild. He was a beloved husband, father, and grandfather.
One of the quotes that Thom is most remembered for, "As the twig is bent, so grows the tree." will resonate in the hearts and minds of all that knew him.
At this time services and burial in St. Luke's Cemetery will be private.
In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to St John's High School, 378 Main St., Shrewsbury, MA 01545.
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Stephanie Motta
October 28, 2023
Sending my love to the family on this anniversary...........RIP Thom, you have your Judy now... xoxo
Claire Muise (Lawrence)
April 20, 2022
Just today came across this sad news. I really enjoyed working for Thom when he owned Thom Foolery's. Incredibly brilliant but he could always explain things in the most basic terms and didn't hesitate to share his knowledge. When I left, he gave me a book on the Natural History of Canada - I cherish that gift and still have it, signed June 30, 1989. He was always a real gentlemen - fair to everyone and very kind to me. May you rest in eternal peace Thom - it was a pleasure to know you.
Gus Giordano, Steeples and Sir Morgan’s
November 8, 2020
We are all slowly coming to the end. Sorry for your loss.
Gene Amato
November 6, 2020
Thom was always a great friend to me. I chose Thom as the best man in my wedding for numerous reasons. We had been friends and business colleagues for decades. Thom was a great entrepreneur and an extremely savvy business owner! We had many memorable times together. He will be truly missed by all of the Amato family!
Tom LeFave
November 4, 2020
Many memories at St. John's. Always in our prayers.
Bill Hall
November 4, 2020
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Cheryl DelSignore
November 3, 2020
Judy and family,
I am so sorry to hear Thom passed away. My sincerest condolences to you all.
Cheryl DelSignore
Todd Johnson
November 3, 2020
Great man and my heart goes out to his wonderful family and my friends.
Paul L. George
November 3, 2020
Tom, was a client then friend. As his personal IT Guy I shared his interest in electronic toys. I would set them up and he would play with them. We also shared a taste for good scotch. I will miss him and those memories over a dram of scotch.
God’s Speed my friend I will miss you.
Dave Padavano
November 3, 2020
I enjoyed being an employee of Thom’s at Tom Foolery’s in the mid 80’s. He created a great atmosphere to work in and was fun to be around. My sincerest condolences to the family.
Bruce & Lynda Chansky
November 3, 2020
To Judy and Family,
Lynda Rose and I send our Deepest Sympathy's.
Thom was a Great and caring man. His smiles, laughter and generosity made him the man people came to know and love. He will be GREATLY Missed.
Peace an Much Love,
Bruce & Lynda Rose
Noreen (Nagle) Bisceglia
November 2, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Tom was a cousin, and a friend who shared memories together made each other laugh, he was a joy. Rest In Peace Tom...
Steve DeBoer
November 2, 2020
Sincerest condolences to all the McCabes. Thinking of you all during this time.
Sincerely,
Steve DeBoer & family
Natalie Motta
November 2, 2020
Dear Judy, Sean, Tara,and family,
We are so saddened by Thom's passing. Sending our heartfelt condolences to you, my dear friends. Thom was a true gentleman who gave so much to everyone who knew him. His quick wit and
charming smile made him the wonderful man that he was. May Thom Rest in Eternal Peace in God's loving care. Sending prayers of comfort and love to you Judy and your family. Love, Natalie Motta ❤
Noreen (Nagle) Bisceglia
November 2, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
May Ann Manion
November 2, 2020
Ed and I are sending our heartfelt condolences to the whole McCabe family... we have been friends for a long time and Thom’s passing makes us very sad. Love and prayers to Judy, Sean and Tara.
Mary Ann Manion
Frank Vermes
November 2, 2020
The Vermes families deepest heartfelt condolences to the McCabe family. I have so many fond memories with Mr McCabe and Red Devils football.
Carol Kalil-Hamilton
November 2, 2020
McCabe family
Remembering Tom from rotary in Westborough. Also such a nice person
May he Rest In Peace
His memory be eternal
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