Barbara M. Albertoni
1934 - 2020
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Barbara M. Albertoni

Our dear sweet Mom, Barbara M. Albertoni, passed suddenly, yet peacefully, on December 16, 2020 at Santa Barbara Cottage Hospital following a very brief illness. She was full of vitality, life and determination every single day of her life, even until the day she got her angel wings.

Barbara was born on a farm in Iowa Falls, Iowa on April 28, 1934 to Andy and Gladys DeWitt, joining an older brother, Chuck. In 1940, Barbara and her family loaded up their car with all of their worldly possessions and made their way to California like so many others did before them. They were fortunate to have relatives in Los Angeles and spent time with them until Andy was able to secure a job as a ranch foreman in Greenfield California. After driving back to Los Angeles to pick up the family, they settled in Greenfield, moving between Soledad and Greenfield from time to time.

In 1952, Barbara married her best friend Oliver and they joined his family in the dairy business. Regardless of the fact that their high schools were fierce rivals, Barbara and Oliver were a great team in the dairy industry and in life for 36 years before Oliver's passing in 1988. Even as she raised four children, she acted as cook for the hired men and bookkeeper for the ranch. Additionally, she was a dedicated 4-H leader, high school chaperone, the best PTA Mom ever, and active in the local Catholic church. As a superb quilter and knitter, she loved to share her handmade items with everyone as gifts of love and friendship.

Ready for another life adventure, Barbara decided that after 63 years it was time to downsize from the family ranch home in South Monterey County and move to Solvang. She looked forward to a life of less work and more time to explore the things she was interested in. As a resident of the Valley for six years, she did just that by finding her new forever home in Rancho Santa Ynez Estates. She loved the Valley and all of its beautiful nature, the shape of the hills, the tree lined streets, her neighbors and all the friends she made at the Solvang Senior Center where she volunteered regularly.

Barbara was preceded in death by her husband, her parents Andy & Gladys DeWitt and her brother Charles (Chuck). She is survived by her four children: Nancy (Pat) Wirz of Hollister, CA., Jan Clevenger of Solvang, Joseph Albertoni of Waipahu, HI and Ellen Albertoni of Solvang. She is also survived by seven grandchildren: Donald (Alison) Wirz, Sarah (Sean) Fruit, Heidi Wirz and Esther Wirz; Brian (Tabatha) Jenkins and Brett (Ashley) Jenkins and Drew Barker. Additionally, she is survived by thirteen great-grandchildren, her brother-in-law Clem (Phylis) Albertoni, sister-in-law Emily DeWitt, several nieces and nephews and extremely special friends.

Once we are able to join together, the family will hold a small celebration of life and intern her ashes next to her husband in Soledad, CA. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests that donations be made to the Solvang Senior Center's Building Fund (1745 Mission Dr. Solvang, CA 93463) or Atterdag Village (636 Atterdag, Solvang CA 93463).

The family would like to extend their deepest gratitude to all of the wonderful folks at Atterdag Village, Dr. Gus Dascanio and the wonderful doctors and nurses at both Santa Ynez Valley and Santa Barbara Cottage Hospitals. Additionally, we would like to thank Fr. Bobby Barbato of Mission Santa Ines who helped fulfill Mom's final wishes and the Loper Family for their wonderful caring service.

Prominently displayed in Mom's kitchen was her favorite saying which she had cross stitched and framed. It was a reminder of what she strived for at the end of each day: "I done my best".

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Published in The Salinas Californian from Dec. 24 to Dec. 30, 2020.
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January 1, 2021
Dear Nancy, Janice, Joey, and Ellen...

So sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. She is so so very special❤

Growing up on our dairy in Greenfield, we frequently hung together as kids, running around the dairies, vacationing together in Arroyo Seco, and later meeting up at your beautiful cabin and pool in Arroyo Seco. I feel that we were close as children...but then as we grew, we each went our own way and generally ended up far from each other...but we always will carry those fond memories.

Barbara is very close to my mom (Jane Pasque Breschini). Easily I believe she is my mom’s best friend and so obviously she is saddened by Barbara’s passing.

I always enjoyed visiting Barbara with mom at the Albertoni Ranch...we always, always laughed and laughed...Barbara inevitably had some joke for us. Those are special times...and memories.

Barbara was a very strong had to be back in the 1950’s, 60’s, and 70’s living on a dairy and row crop farm...doing chores, taking care of the accounting, shuttling kids around, etc.

I last visited with Barbara and Joey in Honolulu I believe in 2009. She loved Hawaii. It was a fun catch up dinner.

Lately, Barbara happened to come upon some of my sunrise photos from Thailand...My mom always reminded me to send them to Barbara occasionally and I learned how very much she enjoyed them. I am pleased to know that I they made her happy.

As I went through my difficult times in life, as we all inevitably do, Barbara was always comforting to my mom, and to me especially, because she would say, “Jane...don’t worry about Randy....he will do the right thing...”. One cannot believe how much those words meant to me hold a special place in our hearts...we will so very miss you. Rest In Peace Barbara...yo so very much deserve to

Randy, Monicah, and Angel Breschini
Hua Hin, Thailand
Randolph Emil Breschini
December 31, 2020
I will always remember Barbara’s smile!
Pat Williams
December 31, 2020
Dear Nancy, Jan, Joey and Ellen,

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your mom, Barbara. I have the fondest memories of her as we were children and later as an adult.

Love to you all,

Julie Rubbo
Julie Rubbo
December 29, 2020
Very close and special friend since the 5th grade at Greenfield, Ca. We literally traveled many miles together, enjoying every bit with her great sense of humor. In later ;years the phone has had to take the place of in-person visits. She was my support during loss and illness and was looking forward to a new adventure when I last talked to her Sunday or Monday before her final adventure. My sympathy to all of her children and family. Love you much. Jeanette (Bianchi) Nelson
Jeanette Nelson
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