James Lyon Obituary
James David Davis was born to Anna Cathryn Davis on April 4, 1933, in Utica. Shortly thereafter, he was adopted by Jay and Eva Lyon and became known as James Davis Lyon, also known as Bud Lyon. At the age of 8, Bud and his parents moved to 63 North Main St., in New Berlin. This is where he resided throughout his lifetime.
Bud graduated from New Berlin Central School in 1951, where he was active in all sports. He also sang in the school quintet that entertained both on radio and in school.
September 1951, he joined the Air Force and served four years during the Korean Conflict, stationed in Okinawa.
Upon arriving home, he eventually began working for A.C. Neely Fuel Company for 11 years. After obtaining his license to sell life insurance, he went to work for Metropolitan Life and remained there for 21 years. In April 1989, he went to work for New York Central Mutual where he worked for 16 more years.
Bud was a member of the New Berlin Fire Department and also a dedicated member of Frank H. Arnold American Legion for over 50 years. In addition, Bud was active in New Berlin Little League coaching, he was the Youth Days parade announcer for nearly 35 years, and also participated on the board of Dollars For Scholars at New Berlin Central, currently UV Central School.
One of Bud's favorite things was spending time in Beaver River and being a part of the New Berlin Sportsmen Club. Much fun was had hunting and camping with the guys in Beaver River for over the last 50 years.
Another favorite past time was racing, both dirt and NASCAR. He was a part of the pit crew for "Pop" Wilcox and always followed racing closely.
Bud most enjoyed playing cards with the guys down to the Legion, coffee breaks with Gordy and Jerry, and "board meetings" down to John's Barber shop.
But most known about Bud was the joy he got from his friends and acquaintances. Whether it be in school activities, at work, in the community, with his family, or just having visits along the streets of New Berlin.
Bud is cherished by his wife of 41 years, Mary (Houk) Lyon. He is also survived by his son and daughter-in-law, Jay and Amy Lyon; his daughter, Jannette Lyon; and his two grandchildren, Clayton James and Derek Jake Lyon. In addition, Bud is survived by many loving in-laws, cousins, nieces and nephews. He will be dearly missed.
Calling hours will be from 5 to 9 p.m. Wednesday, Sept. 30, 2009, at the First United Methodist Church of New Berlin.
The funeral service will be at 11 a.m. Thursday, Oct. 1, 2009, at the First United Methodist Church. Interment with military honors will follow in the Fairview Cemetery in New Berlin.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Frank H. Arnold American Legion Post 348 of New Berlin, the New Berlin Volunteer Fire Department or the First United Methodist Church of New Berlin.
Arrangements are by the Dakin Funeral Home LP, New Berlin.
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Patti Osborne
October 8, 2009
It's great to see so many fine tributes to Bud. He had such a positive impact on so many lives. Bud was always clear about what was important in his life. He was so proud of Mary, Jay, & Jan & felt as lucky to have them in his life as they felt to have him in theirs. Bud's family, friends, & community will miss him dearly - he was an inspiration to all who knew him.
Love,
Patti (Turnbull) Osborne
Vicki Folger
October 6, 2009
Mary and Family,
Ralph and I were sorry to hear of Bud's passing, but glad to have spent a very nice afternoon chatting with him recently. I know that he was a wonderful person and will be missed.
Love you, Vicki
Penny Hendricks
October 5, 2009
Mary, Jay, Jan and Family,
I was very sorry to hear of Bud's passing. He was such a pillar of the community and a wonderful person. You could always count on a smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless,
Scott Gage
October 5, 2009
Lyon Family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
May God help you through this trying time and may your cherished memories with him be vivid and joyous.
The commmunity of New Berlin should feel grateful to have had such a wonderful, involved citizen as Bud Lyon. He helped make it a great place to grow up.
God Bless,
Scott Gage
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Jeff Gage
October 5, 2009
I'm so sorry to hear of Bud's passing. He was a good man that often thought of others above himself. I remember one high school baseball season that was nearly canceled when there were no takers to run the team. "Coach" Lyon stepped up the plate and took over the reigns. That was the most fun a lot of had playing any year of high school sports. He will be dearly missed.
Lisa Slaga (Schoonover)
October 5, 2009
Mary, Jay, Jan & family
I was so sorry to hear of Bud's passing, he was such a joy to be around, he could always bring a smile to your face. I'm sure you have many wonderful memories that you can hold close to your hearts, and may they bring you comfort. he will always be remembered
Marilyn Andrew
October 4, 2009
Mary and Family, I am so sorry to hear about Bud. While we haven't seen each other in many years, time and distance disappear when we have the opportunity to connect in meaningful ways. I am certainly thinking about you and know that I care.
Marilyn Whiting Andrew
Kathy Carnrike
October 2, 2009
Jay all of us down here are sorry to hear about your Dad. I wish I could be there to give you a hug, but just remember, you and your family are always in our hearts no matter how far away we are.
Gene Johnson
October 1, 2009
Our condolences and prayers are with you Mary and your family. Although I hadnt seen Buddy in awhile although our paths crossed on occasion it was always a pleasure to talk with him as he was the type person you couldnt help to like an admire. I have many fond memories of the times we spent in high school playing sports and in the summer league and town league baseball. We apologize for not making it down for the service and will make it a definate point on next trip down to your area to stop in and see you. Again our prayers are with you.
Larry Boecklen
October 1, 2009
Mary and family - I am so deeply sorry to hear Bud recently passed away. I can imagine your grief knowing what a terrific husband, father and friend Bud was in his life. It is our task to accept God's will and rejoice in the 41 years you shared with Bud and the many great memories you have of those years. On my next to Edmeston I will look forward to seeing you. Gof bless you Mary. Bud was so fortunate to have you in his life. You are in my prayers.....Larry Boecklen
Christine Gubbins
September 30, 2009
Mary, Jay & Jan
Your dad was a very kind and loving man I will always remember him so very sorry for you loss
Christine Gubbins
Jon Parry
September 30, 2009
Mary and family, words can never say how much we will miss Uncle Bud. We have so many great memories of him. He is the only man I know that carried a Kodak instamatic camera with him at all times.He was a great listener and always offered good sound advice when called upon to do so. He lived an honest and caring life and had no enemies that I know of. The Town of New Berlin was a better place to live because of him!! There aren't too many kids that grew up there that he didn't have a positive influence in their life. I know that he and my dad and the rest of the boys are probably having one heck of a party up there, I would love to hear the deer stories!! You will all be in our thoughts and prayers over the next several weeks and beyond. We love you all.
Bill & Jayne Novak
September 30, 2009
Mary, Jay,Jan & family. I knew Bud from when he helped me become the home run leader in Little League for Sliter's Giants. He treated me with the same friendliness then as he did all through my 63 years. Your loss is immense but thank God you knew one of the finest guys on Earth as Husband, Dad and Grandpa. To know Bud was to love him dearly. Godspeed Bud.
September 30, 2009
Bud was a very kind hearted man. he was the voice of Youth Days.... He will be greatly missed...
Bud Bessenbacher
September 30, 2009
Mary,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Bud was one of those unique individuals that always greeted you with a smile and was willing to talk sports at any time. He was truly one of the nicest guys I've known over these many years and always enjoyed greeting him during my recent summer visits: "Hey, the other Bud."
He will be missed.
The "other Bud"
Bonnie Jean Bauer
September 30, 2009
Bud & Mary were among the first to welcome us to New Berlin six plus years ago. Its always been a pleasure to see him in church and around town. We will miss Him.
God Bless you in your days of sorrow.
Vince and Bonnie Jean
Dennis Fay
September 30, 2009
What a great guy Bud was. He is one of my fondest memories of growing up in New Berlin. Little league, Youth Days and just being Bud. Too young, too soon.
September 30, 2009
Mary, Jay and Jan
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Bud was a terrific man. I can still see him seating at the Edmeston Baseball games the year the boys went to states. Or at the Red Apple eating toast. He always had a positive word to say. Always asked about everyone. You all have so many cherished memories that will help you. Bud was very proud of all of you! All of you are in our prayers.
Danny, Jodi, Barrett, Jared and Clayton Hawes
September 30, 2009
Mary,Jay,Jan and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss- but please remember how lucky we all are to have had Bud touch our lives in the way that he did. He had such way about him that no matter what was going on in your own life- you looked at him and saw pure joy. You all have this gift in you to carry on and we know you will always make him proud. Thank GOD we got the chance to know just a little of the man you were blessed enough to call Dad, Grandpa, Husband. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Mike, Sue and Quinn Rose Schoonover
Kristen Parry
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jan and Jay,
i am sorry for your loss! Uncle Bud was such a wonderful man! I"ll never forget all the rides to the races with him and all the support at my basketball games!!! I'll miss him greatly!
Your all in my thoughts
Love you all
Sharon & Gordie Schrag
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jay & Jan
We are deeply saddened and sorry for your loss. Bud was a very special person and we will think of him often. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and in the days to come.
We hope you can find some comfort in the memories you share. We will miss him.
Richard Sweet
September 29, 2009
To "BUD'S" Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you, and I know it's never enough when you lose someone you love. Bud was my little league coach, he sold me Met Life Ins and he was one of my favorite fans when I raced. It was always a pleasure to see Bud's smile. He made a difference in my life, and I'm sure he made a difference in many others. We all will miss him as it was such a pleasure to know him and we will never forget him. Bless you all.
Ellie Olsen and family
September 29, 2009
Dear Jan, Mary, Jay and all the family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always as you face this sadness. There isn't a phase of life that I don't remember Bud being there. New Berlin will never quite be the same, but all the wonderful memories will continue to bring joy to us all. God Bless you Bud. God Bless you all.
Ian, Susan & Kyle Starr
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jay & Jan,
Im so sorry to hear about bud, he was a great family friend and I know he is going to be missed by all. Wish I could be there like you were for my family.
I have alot of memories that I will keep with me like playing at the house, camping at beaver river, bud's grizzly bear snooring.
All our love,
Ian & Susan Starr
Chris Fitch
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jay, and Jan:
I'm so sorry for your loss and the pain you're feeling. I remember he always being present for our sporting events. He was so supportive even when there wasn't a whole lot to cheer about. I still have the miniature laminated replica of my high school diploma he and another individual provided for free to all of us from the class of 1987. Rest in peace, Mr. Lyon.
Connie Chase
September 29, 2009
Mary and family
We are very sorry for your loss. We will all miss Buds smile.
I have many wonderful memories of Bud and my Dad sitting on the porch on South Street talking. Probably having a beer. They are possibly having a "cold one" now. Another memory is of your wedding. What a wonderful day. We will always have smiles as we recall the memories.
Our sympanthy to the entire family.
Pete and Connie Chase
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jay & Jan & kids,
No words will relieve the pain you're feeling at this time of loss but please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers at this time. He was a very special person and has touched many lives through out his life.
U. Bud was my main man when I was a young chick. He came to visit every Tuesday night for dinner and to watch "Gunsmoke". Well, I wanted to make him and my dad supper. I did--it was spaghetti--it was more like spaghetti made to look like lasagne noodles. He ate it and did it without letting on that it wasn't quite so good. I think I loved him for that the most. In any case, as the years have gone on he's never failed to say "Hey Shar, do you remember the time you made me spaghetti". I do and I always will.(Jack told him I hadn't changed much) I'm sure he and my dad are up there laughing themselves silly right now over that terrible dinner. He sure will be missed.
All our love & deepest sympathy,
Sharlene(Prentice)& Jack Curtis
Jason, Allison, Liam & Madelyn Novak
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jan, Jay, Amy, Derek and Clayton,
We loved Bud as a second Dad and he always treated us as we were part of your family. He has touched many of our lives and will be truly missed. Warmest regards,
Toni Joyce
September 29, 2009
Mary and family, Sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you all at this time. Toni Beadle Joyce
Jim & Liz Wood
September 29, 2009
Dear Mary, Jay & Jan,
We are so sorry for your loss of "Buddy". We will forever remember Bud for his dedication to family, our time as neighbors, Bud's deer hunting trip to the south end of town, the fun on the golf course, just sitting around and chatting, and the trips to Myrtle Beach (remember the toll booth?), but most of all we will always remember Bud as a very special friend. We loved Bud and will miss him very much. Our prayers go out to you.
Deneen and Mark Lilley
September 29, 2009
Mary and Family,
Uncle Bud will be so missed. We will never forget him,his smile and Hugs..
We all have great wonderful memories of him.
Love Mark and Deneen(Deeder) Prentice Lilley
Jim & Robin Lloyd
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jay, & Jan,
We are deeply saded and sorry for your loss. Bud was the greatest! We will miss him dearly. I still remember Bud always being at all our sporting events and our boy scout camp-outs. I also remember him and his golf partner Carl playing in the Wednesday night golf league with us for many years. I'll alway cherish those wonderful memories. You are in our thoughts and prays.
September 29, 2009
Jay and family, so sorry to hear of your loss. He will be greatly missed. Loretta (Warren) Beckwith and family
Kelly Hill
September 29, 2009
Dear Mary, Jay and Jan,
I am so sorry to hear about Bud's passing. He was a joy to know and he was kind to everyone. I will always remember him. He made me smile many times when he would "sneak" a piece of candy from the candy dish on my desk at New York Central. I have no doubt that he and my Dad are sharing stories and laughs right now up in Heaven. You are in my thoughts today and in the days to come.
Denise "Brown" Talbot
September 29, 2009
So sorry to hear of your loss. He was a great man and will be missed!
My thoughts are with the family.
amy wells
September 29, 2009
Mary and Family,
Our loving thoughts go out to you in your time of grief. I know Bud touched many lives in a most positive manner. I also know he was loved dearly and will be missed, but is survived by a rich legacy which will be cherished.
September 29, 2009
Dear Mary & Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
How sad it is to learn of Bud's passing. He was a friend from childhood - even after I hit a baseball through his front window at the age of 9 or 10. We grew up not only participating in all the sports New Berlin had to offer but also dancing, singing and spending lots of time together. He was an "extra special person" that brightened the lives of many. Visiting New Berlin in the future won't be the same. We will miss Bud.
Dave & Faye Brennan
Fort Wayne, IN
Joe & Theresa Ray
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jay & Jan~
Joe & I are so sorry to hear of Bud's passing. He was a good person & we are blessed to have known him. Please know you are all in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. God Bless You "Bud" and your family.
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jay & Jan~
Joe & I are so sorry to hear of Bud's passing. He was a good person and we are blessed to have known him. Please know you are all in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. God Bless you Bud and your family.
Joe and Theresa Ray
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jay & Jan~
Joe & I are so sorry to hear of Bud's passing. He was a good person and we are blessed to have known him. Please know you are all in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. God Bless you Bud and your family.
Charles Johnson
September 29, 2009
When I moved to New Berlin as a freshman,it was Bud, a junior, who took me under his wing. Bud will always live in my heart for this act alone. As time went on, we became the type of friends that time apart was nothing. We could plug in and know each other as if we had parted the day before. May God take him into his loving arms and give him greater joy in His realm. Charlie Johnson
Jim Wells
September 29, 2009
Mary,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. Bud was a pleasure to be around and I will still think of him often. My prayers are with you.
Lash & Darlene Camenga
September 29, 2009
Our prayers and thoughts are with your entire family during this very difficult time. "Bud man" will be missed by everyone. He always took the time to chat awhile and was an inspiration for many - always a smile to brighten the day for anyone who came in contact with him. May your many great memories of him comfort you now and in the future. May God Bless you all with His loving and comforting Holy Spirit!
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jay, and Jan,
Words can't express our feelings for the three of you. We remember all the joyful times like your wedding the birth of Jay and many others.
Please know that we are so sorry for your loss.
Ronnie and Phyllis Beadle
Rock Hill, SC
Marci & Joe Novak
September 29, 2009
Dearest Mary, Jan, Jay and family,
Our hearts go out to you all as you and so many people mourn the loss of Bud. He has touched the lives of so many people and we will never forget his cheery self, always his smile and jokes. Please know ourthoughts and prayers are with you now and in the days to come. May memories of good times with him help you all.
In deepest symapthy,
Joe and Marci Novak
September 29, 2009
To Jay & Family
Jim and I wish to extend our sincere sympathy for the loss of your Dad.
You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim & Rose Benjamin
September 29, 2009
Jim and I wish to extend our sincere sympathy for your loss and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
In Sympathy -
Jim & Rose Benjamin
Fred Page
September 29, 2009
My condolences to Mary and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Bud was always a friend and will be greatly missed by all that knew him.
September 29, 2009
May the comfort of friends and family be your strength now and in the days ahead.
Please accept our deepest sympathy and heartfelt thoughts.
R.J. and Sharon Anderson
Kimberly McCann
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jay, and Jan,
I am very sorry to hear about Bud. You were all such a big part of my life growing up, and it makes me sad we have lost touch over the years. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all.
Kimberly (King) McCann
heather anderson
September 29, 2009
Dear Mary, Jay and Jan,
My thougths and prayers are with you and yours during this time of great sorrow. A devoted family man and treasured community member has gone on before all of us, paving the way.
I will always remember as a child riding my bike down the street and he telling me to be careful; or marching in the Youth Days parade looking up to see his smile as he announced us (Jay you do your dad proud), baton twirling with Jan, and as I grew older the memories were just as cherished, such as the long days at Motocross serving hamburgs and hotdogs with the legion, New Berlin Fire Department numerous activities, and just being himself, concerned for his community who he thought of as his extended family members.
God bless you Bud and God bless your your family. The memories of your will last a lifetime and beyond.
LYLE CAMP
September 29, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Allan Burdick
September 29, 2009
My condolences go out to Mary on the loss of Bud. He was an exceptional man, a fine friend, and he will be greatly missed. Bud was an outstanding athlete and he and I went to the 1949 baseball allstar game at Ebbetts field. We had a blast--16 years olds loose in NYC. One of my greatest memories.
Mort Parker
September 29, 2009
Mary & Family
You have our deepest condolences and are in our prayers. Bud was one of the nicest man that we were lucky enough to have known. Love Mort & Bonnie Parker
September 29, 2009
Dear Mary and Family, So sorry , with deepest condolences, His smile will be missed. Cindy Brazee
Cheryl Hoxie
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jay and Jan ~
No words can ease your sorrow right now. Just know that you are all loved, and will be in my thoughts though this tough time. Keep your chin up, as Buddy boy is smiling down on us!!
Love,
Scooby
September 29, 2009
To Mary, Jay and Jan,
All of our love and prayers go out to you at this difficult time. Uncle Bud will truly be missed. We will remember him always.
Love Brian(Boo) & Nancy(Murph) Prentice and Family
Kelly Welch-York
September 29, 2009
Mary, Jay, Jan & Family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
September 29, 2009
Mary and Family,
We are very sorry for you loss, know you are in our thought and prayers. Bud will be missed.
Dale & Margaret Hunt
ken Cassidy
September 29, 2009
so sorry Bud was a good person
Regina & Kip Pylinski
September 29, 2009
Kip and I were so sorry to hear of your loss. Bud lived a full and fun life. He will be truly missed by so many.
Eunice Prentice
September 29, 2009
My Thoughts and Prayers are with you all. Bud will be greatly missed. He was a wonderful friend and always smiling.
September 29, 2009
Bud,I will miss you very much
Russ(no neck)Carpenter
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