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Carlton Theodore "Chink" Henderson Sr.

Carlton Theodore "Chink" Henderson Sr. obituary, Groton, CT

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Carlton Henderson Obituary

Groton - Carlton "Chink" Theodore Henderson Sr., 65, of Groton, was called home unexpectedly on Sept. 28, 2017.

Carlton graduated from Fitch Senior High School in Groton and claimed he had a diploma, but no one ever saw it! He was in the U.S. Army and did receive the National Defense service medal and badges proving that he could shoot a rifle and throw a hand grenade with the best of them! Carlton also stated that he was the national Army skee ball champion during his years of service, and was shot in the line of duty, only for his children to find out many years later that it was a scar from his immunizations! He worked in construction at Dow Chemical for many years.

Carlton was predeceased by his parents, Mary A Nicholson Henderson and Samuel Henderson. He was also predeceased by his beautiful wife, Joy Henderson, brother, Pruitt Henderson, sister, Maria Nicholson, first love, RoseMarie Das, and stepson, Nathan McQuany. Carlton will now also join two of his very best friends, Michael "Brute" Robinson and Mr. Elbert Perry Jr. to catch up on old times!

Nothing mattered more to Carlton than his family and friends. Whatever he was being called at that time, Carlton, Chink, Papa, Poptu hindu, old man, or Daddy, he would give you that look and say "YEAH!" Carlton was survived by a whole lot of kinfolk all over! He had cousins and cousins and more cousins!

He will be truly missed by his daughter, Tara Henderson of Groton; sons, Carlton T. Henderson Jr. (Brandy) of Pawcatuck, Marcus Henderson of Groton, Justin Henderson of Groton, Pernell Henderson (Katie) of Groton; and daughter, Anissa Henderson of New London. He will also be missed by his grandchildren, Tiyana Summersett (John Jr.) of Groton, Collise, TaNejha, Naquan, Jazzlyn, Kyla, Gavin, Javon, Cynthia, Marcus and Nova; and his great-grandchildren, MiaRose, MyaRose, and John III. His loving dog, Thor, will miss him dearly.

Carlton was one of a kind; he kept in close contact with his former wife, Cynthia Ellis of Colorado, his old girlfriend, Holly McQuany, and his current girlfriend, Faye Divita, all at the same time!

And out of respect for Carlton, he is survived by a brother, Gerald Henderson.

His family will greet relatives and friends from 11 to noon on Friday, Oct. 6, at the Dinoto Funeral Home, 17 Pearl St., Mystic, followed by a funeral service at noon at the funeral home. Burial will be private for the family.

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Published by The Day on Oct. 4, 2017.

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Crystal

September 25, 2025

I can´t believe the time we lost not having you here. How much Faye still has you in her heart

crystal lightfoot

September 25, 2023

the time the seems to slip by, seems like yesterday. RIP

faye divita

November 14, 2017

Baby I miss you everyday. I am so lost and brokenhearted without you. I will forever cherish the memories we shared together . You will forever be in my heart . I love you and I will look for you in our next life. Everyday is so hard without you because we did everything and went everywhere together you left a whole in my heart when you left but you truly imprinted my heart I have never known a love like ours. I am very honored and blessed to have had the time we shared together I love you dearly xoxoxoxrest peacefully my sweet love. See you when I get there. Always your girl Faye

SANDI FERRARO

October 10, 2017

DANG CHICO, SORRY TO HEAR YOU ARE GONE NOW. MY CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY. MY MOTHER IS VERY GREATFUL FOR YOU ALWAYS CHECKING UP ON HER AND MYSELF FOR ASKING ME WHEN YOU DID NOT SEE HER AND WILL MISS YOU DEARLY. I WILL DEFINETLY MISS YOUR SILLY SELF. XOXOXOX

Michelle

October 6, 2017

Prayers to the family

October 6, 2017

I offer my condolences to the family. Find consolation in the God of all comfort.

Katurena Cheatam

October 6, 2017

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

The Helme Family

Crystal Lightfoot

October 6, 2017

so sorry for your loss Faye, he loved you so much. You two did so much for each other. You saved his toes with all the care & love. Always being there for each other. He wanted to marry you, I have the ring. We talked about it. For all who loved Chico, I'm so sorry for your loss

Aubrey Fletcher

October 6, 2017

Pernell, Justin and Marcus, my prayers are with you during this hard time. I am so sorry for your loss

ann saunders

October 5, 2017

daddy u were great to be around am u will be missed very much so an always be remembered for the great laughs we had iam really going to miss u lots an love u

Heavy Fowler

October 4, 2017

Good-bye for now Chico.. Give my love to Brute.Rest In Peace My Friend..Until we meet again much love brother ~ Heav

Vanessa Hadley Hendrickson

October 4, 2017

Our condolences to Henderson family from Vanessa Manny and family

Crystal Lightfoot

October 4, 2017

so sorry for your loss Faye. I know how much he loved you & was planning on marrying you. You did so much for him, & cuz of you he would have lost his toes. You took such care of him, as he took such good care of you. Passing away that Thursday was such a shock. He is missed, loved. Our deepest sympathy to you & all who loved him

Yulonda Wilbur

October 4, 2017

To the family my family sends our sincere condolences..

Alarice reecie Noe

October 4, 2017

Lots of laughs, lots of love!! I will miss you big brother!!

Tammy Shuman

October 4, 2017

Our sympathy and condolences go out to the family. Much love and prayers ❤

Kim Winston

October 4, 2017

My Condolences To The Henderson Family

October 4, 2017

Our deepest sympathy for your loss
the staff of Howard Johnson Mystic

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