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Arline Joyce Montesi

1946 - 2020

BORN

1946

DIED

2020

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Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home

84 Montauk Ave.

New London, Connecticut

Arline Montesi Obituary

Niantic - Arline Joyce Montesi, 73, of Niantic, entered eternal life Sept. 16, 2020. She was born Dec. 23, 1946, in New London, the daughter of the late Arthur and Rhoda (Pierce) Fletcher. She attended local schools in New London. Later she married her high school sweetheart, Leonard Montesi, who survives her.

Arline was a loving and devoted wife, mother, grandmother and aunt. She loved spending time with her grandchildren, entertaining during the holidays and cooking everyone favorites meals.

Besides her beloved husband, she is survived by three children, Mary Beth Montesi, Lisa Collins and David Montesi; her six grandchildren: Nicole, Daniel, Ashley, Thomas, Alex and Jake. She was predeceased by a granddaughter, Crystal Collins; and two sisters, Linda Wheeler and Carol Kornmiller. All funeral services are private. The Impellitteri-Malia funeral Home, 84 Montauk Avenue, New London, has been entrusted with her care.

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Published by The Day on Sep. 20, 2020.

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Mary Beth Montesi

September 16, 2025

Its been 5 years and this day always hits hard. The family misses you. We remember and love you mom. Fly with the angels.

Jennifer Slater

June 21, 2024

She was a lovely woman, mom and grandma. I am searching for her daughter Mary Beth. It's Jennifer Slater 4752611114 love and miss you even over 20 years later

Mary Beth Montesi

December 23, 2023

Happy Heavenly Birthday mom December 23. Grateful for of all the birthdays and always missing you!

James Waldrop Jr.

October 18, 2021

I am so sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories running across the street to see you all as a child. One of my favorites was when your Mom came up to pull one of us out of the mud when she was pregnant with David. I would love to hear from you all.

Mike Thorne

October 1, 2020

Lisa, Mary Beth and family....So sorry to hear of your loss.

Paula Monroe

September 26, 2020

Lisa, and family, I want to send you all, our deepest utmost profound respect condolences with our outpouring indefinite thoughts and prayers with outpouring indefinite love support and hugs, please let me know if there's anything I can do, much love to you all, and may God help you all through this heartbreaking time

Deanna

September 23, 2020

David and Family,
She was quite an amazing woman. Continue to hold each other close. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers!

Pat Gates

September 23, 2020

I have wonderful memories of Arline and my niece Victoria Baker-Luich with Zoe Rose. Memories I will cherish forever.

Diane Williamson-Smith

September 21, 2020

God bless your family and friends as we all grieve your loss Arline. The memories i hold dear in my heart of you keep a smile on my face. You were the best, sassy, brassy, never afraid to mince words and the love you gave not only your family, but everyone who entered your house is unmatched. No one can ever make Apple Crisp like you! Philip and I will never forget you. Sending loving thoughts, hugs and prayers to your family. Rest sweet lady, you've done well and good to those lives you touched.

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