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Melodi Zanone-Friend Obituary

Melodi Zanone-Friend

Mystic - Melodi Annika Zanone-Friend was born in San Diego, Calif., Feb. 28, 1992. In true form, Melodi earned her angel's wings long before the rest of us mere mortals. Our beloved daughter, granddaughter, niece, cousin and friend passed away Jan. 9, 2019, in San Diego.

Melodi grew up in Southern California before moving to Las Vegas. There, she attended Saint Viator Catholic School, and then Del Sol Academy of the Performing Arts; she graduated with honors in 2010.

It was at Saint Viator that Melodi first learned keen chess-playing strategies, outwitting friends years later with what she merrily described as three basic opening principles.

Thanks to a solid foundation in math and reading skills, she was encouraged to take the SAT for college readiness when she was just in the sixth grade. Sitting for the test at the University of Nevada Las Vegas, Melodi was amused when a fellow tester wondered whether she was a child genius, asking her, "Are you like 'Rain Man' or something?"

As a child, Melodi loved to do watercolor painting with her Grandpa Zanone. Later, that talent would earn her several awards in school art contests. She also excelled in photography.

Mel's wanderlust took her to farther places with camera and paintbrush in hand. After graduation, she moved to Eureka, Calif. to pursue her art interests.

Following the lead of her Uncle Paul, Melodi developed an interest in "eating green," and had a talent for coming up with new recipes for healthy yet delicious dishes. She loved to bake gourmet desserts for friends and family, and had a great flair for decadent cupcakes and small cakes with big flavor. Spending two summers in Mystic, she introduced her gluten-free brownie recipe to the local ice cream shop.

Strong and courageous by nature, Melodi is remembered boldly jumping into a freezing cold swimming pool, or singing at the top of her lungs (Queen's "Bohemian Rhapsody" being a particular favorite), and a number of other daring exploits.

Often assuring her mom that "not all who travel are lost," Melodi continues her journey of the soul, to a place prepared for her by Our Lord.

Melodi is survived by her mother, Joanna (Dave Reindel) Zanone-Reindel, of Mystic; her father, Roger W. Friend, of Carlsbad, Calif.; stepfather, James R. Pucci, Las Vegas; grandmother, Josephine M. Zanone, Rialto, Calif.; grandmother, Lynn Friend, Prescott, Ariz.; grandfather, David Friend, Prescott, Ariz.

Aunts and uncles include Monica Havins, San Bernardino, Calif.; Cissy (Rock) Hasenberg, Goodletsville, Tenn.; Gina Mountain, Redlands, Calif.; Ricky (Cindy) Zanone, La Mesa, Calif.; Charles (Melissa) Zanone, Redlands, Calif.; Serena Walsh, Riverside, Calif.; Paul Zanone, Rialto, Calif.

Cousins are the first friends we have as children, and Melodi had many, including James Havins, Jeffrey Havins, Danielle Padilla, Jennifer Suarez, Lauren Havins, Jonathan Havins, Mara Wiley, Christie Kretsinger, Diana Tuxford, Barry Hasenberg, Anne Engels, Kathleen Saller, Roxanne Baker, Joseph-Friedrich Hasenberg, Bryan Mountain, Joel Mountain, Kevin Mountain, Greg Mountain, Katie Mountain, Celeste Zanone, Elena Kunkel, Madeline Antoinette Zanone, Kent Walsh, and Mari Alyssa Walsh (LIFELONG BEST FRIENDS!).

Melodi is preceded in death by her grandfather, Richard C. Zanone.

A funeral Mass will be celebrated at 11 a.m. Friday, March 22, at Mary Star of the Sea Catholic Church, 7669 Girard Ave, La Jolla, CA 92037.

Should friends desire, a memorial gift to the Melodi Zanone-Friend Memorial Fund may be sent to 1 Enders Island, P.O. Box 399, Mystic, CT 06355, or made online at www.endersisland.com/tribute.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Mar. 17, 2019.

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Chace L

June 8, 2025

So sorry to hear of melodi´s passing. She was a friend when I was in school. Always very kind.

TC

September 9, 2024

Randomly thought of you today and I just found out you're gone. Hope you're doing well up there, friend

KM

February 28, 2024

Happy Birthday Melodi. You have been on my mind all day, I miss you cuz.

Mom

February 28, 2022

Dear Melly,
It´s hard to believe you would have been THIRTY years old today! When I was 30, I had just had you...you were just 3 months old and had your whole life ahead of you. I never knew our time together would be so short. Even so, I couldn´t have loved you any more than I did and do.

Aunt Melissa

February 28, 2022

Happy Birthday Melodi!
You are the forever and loved cherished daughter, precious granddaughter, best of cousins, most talented baker, whisperer for all animals, creater of beautiful art, silliest of sillies, and one the very favorite nieces to all aunties.
We hope you feel us celebrating you today.
I love you, think of you always and Wish I could hear your sweet giggle right now
Can you feel my hug?

Katie Mountain

February 28, 2022

Little Melody, That is always how I will remember you. I don't care how grown up you are. You will always be my little Melody. That's the last time I saw you and to me, the most perfect way to envision you. So silly, playful, and innocent. Prowling around the house like a dinosaur. You are unbelievably missed and loved more than you could ever know. I miss you so much and think about you everyday. Seeing your smiling face all over the house gives me peace knowing that you are happy and safe in heaven. We'll see you soon shmelody. I love you baby girl, happy birthday.

Kathleen

October 20, 2021

Dear Melodi, Today is an ordinary day. You popped into my thoughts, so I decided to pick up my phone and read your beautiful life tribute. I was fortunate enough to be able to spend time with your mom while visiting California for my own mother's memorial service. Your aunt Cindy's. I hope you both are together. That thought male's me smile through my own sadness.
That is all. Just thinking about you cousin.
-K

Adrienne Holmes

September 19, 2021

Melodi, your mom popped in my head today so I looked for her. I was at your first birthday and your mama was in my wedding and you were already with her. Jojo I think of you often. I´m so sorry that you lost your bright light. Love, Adrienne

Julianna

July 8, 2021

I think about you every day. You were one of my first friends and I miss you whole heartedly. I love you Mel. I still have the drawings and books you gave me. I still remember that time you sent me on a scavenger hunt to your grandmother's house with a map drawn by you-even though I was right next door. I still remember all the times you taught me how to do origami or beaded animals. I still have the lizard we did together with the blueberry scented string. All the board games we played at your grandma's kitchen table. I still brag about how smart and talented you were at everything. I miss you so much. I hope you've found peace and that you're gardening with your grandpa up in heaven.

Mama

February 28, 2021

Happy 29th Birthday Mellow. We all miss you so much.

Me and you

February 12, 2021

Casper Owens

January 9, 2021

love you with all of me, eternally

Lisa Yurkunski

October 27, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss I just learned of it today surfing the internet

Mama

January 9, 2020

Dear Melodi,
It is hard to believe you have been gone for one entire year. 2019 was the saddest year of my life because you weren't in it. Why is it that the ONE day you died seems to cast a shadow over the bright and beautiful 9552 days you lived? I promise, from this day forward I will focus on only the 9552. I love you Baby Mine

You were ALWAYS happy, happy, happy. This is you with Santa in 1992. You were 10 months old.

Mommy

December 24, 2019

Your very first Christmas you were 10 months old. You were the best baby ever. You hardly ever cried. You woke up happy and went to sleep happy.

Mommy

December 24, 2019

Your second Christmas. You were the most beautiful baby in the world.

Mommy

December 24, 2019

I still have your little grey coat and hat

Mommy

December 24, 2019

Our Christmas card in 1995

Mommy

December 24, 2019

We BOTH had BIG hair this Christmas!

Mommy

December 24, 2019

Christmas 1997

Mommy

December 24, 2019

Christmas in our new home in California

December 24, 2019

I miss you so much. I see your name in stone and it is surreal.

Mama

August 16, 2019

Melodi-I am right here, close by...

Your cousin Katie Mountain

August 16, 2019

August 16, 2019

Mama

July 9, 2019

Dear Melodi,
It is hard to believe six months has already gone by since you flew to heaven.
There are just no words to describe how much I miss you every single moment of every single day.
Every time my cell phone pings indicating an incoming text, I still look at the screen with that hopeful feeling it will be a message from you.
Every single day I have memories of things we did together and special moments we shared. I can hear your voice so clearly in my mind and I smile inside and out remembering your laugh. That special laugh. You were such a happy girl.
You know that I talk to you and ask you questions all the time.
Can you see me? Can you hear me? Are you here with me? What is heaven like? Why did God let you into heaven so soon? I just miss you so much. I can only imagine how beautiful your wings are.
I love you so much.
Mama

Deborah Johnson

May 11, 2019

Dear Melodi,
I am a friend of your mom's and have met you several times throughout the years.
If your mother had to choose between the heartache and memories, or,
never knowing you,
she would choose
the loving memories every time.
Thank you Melodi for the light you shared.
Lovingly,

Mama

May 6, 2019

Dear Melodi,
This coming Sunday will be Mother's Day. I just feel like I want to crawl into my closet and cry until it is over.
Every other commercial on t.v. Is about Mother's Day, almost every sign in every store window is advertising it.
How am I suppose to uncelebrate a holiday I have celebrated for 26 years? The epiphany of realizing I will NEVER celebrate another Mother's Day is really sad.
My sisters (your aunties) all talk about how special it is that they are grandma's now, and it is even more special having grand babies.
Well...I don't suppose I will ever miss that because I had the GRANDEST baby from the very start.
I will try to think of things that made us both laugh when Sunday comes, so I won't cry so much.
I look for signs from you every minute of everyday.
I love you.
Mama

Casper Owens

April 20, 2019

Odi,
Not a day goes by that Im reaching for my phone to tell you something or to share a picture with you. You were the best friend Ive ever had, and the love of my life. I treasure the time we had together and the memories we shared. My heart aches every day. I see you in everything. I will live my life in honor of you. Everything I do is for you and always will be. You were my light on my darkest days. So much love for you. Sending condolences to the family. The world lost an incredible person and the universe gained an angel.
-Casper

Ian

April 5, 2019

Keep on being an angel ❤

IRIS Block-Frieling

March 31, 2019

Jojo your daughter seems to sound a lot like you brilliant loving funny and sometimes you also reminded me of Rain Man. She touched a lot of hearts. You did a great job.
I only met Melodi once, she was so little and so adorable.
Im saddened for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family
You two looked so much alike, both so beautiful.

Melissa Zanone

March 26, 2019

My Dearest sweet girl,
It is springtime, and such a beautiful day. Im sitting outside wishing that I could say to you one last time Mel, come on now out of the water and dry off before going inside. One more tight long hug I want to give you. One more song from your sweet voice singing in my living room with the girls. I love you precious and you will forever be in my heart. I know you are with Jesus and you see Paradise in Bloom.

I will always be there for your Mama

March 26, 2019

Gina Mountain

March 26, 2019

Dearest Melodi,
The sweet memories I have of your infectious laugh, your creativity, especially your photography, your dream of one day opening Mel's and Mar's Diner will forever leave an imprint on my heart. Watching you play with your cousins is my favorite memory. One day we will all be together again in the kingdom of God!
Love,
Aunt Gina

We know you two are gardening in heaven!!!

March 25, 2019

Aunt Melissa hugged me REALLY TIGHT and do you know what?...you were right! She DOES give the BEST, fluffiest, hugs in all the world!

March 25, 2019

Dear Melodi, you are here with us. We feel you all around us...and that is a GOOD THING!

Dave

March 25, 2019

Your cousin Kent was one of your 4 SUPERHEROS that carried you into church

March 25, 2019

Katie and Melodi dressed as cheetahs for Halloween 1997

March 25, 2019

Your beautiful cousin Katie and handsome cousin Bryan

March 25, 2019

Mama and Aunt Serena

March 25, 2019

Deborah Kollmeyer

March 24, 2019

My condolences to you Jojo and your family. My heart broke for you when I heard the sad news. I can not imagine how your heart must hurt with the pain of your loss. Hold onto the happy times and fun memories, those will help you get through this sad time. I am a friend for you to rest your head on if you need to. Rest in peace Melodi. Deborah Kollmeyer

Dave

March 24, 2019

Love you, Melodi. - Dave

Elena Zanone-kunkel

March 24, 2019

I hope this makes you smile. I love you, Meodi. I miss you even more.

Zanone Family

March 23, 2019

Grandpa Zanone watercolored the sky extra colorful today for you at sunset to honor you on his birthday.
We all met at Dave and Mama's hotel room and had caramel corn to celebrate candy night!
We miss you more than words can say.

Your cousins came from near and far

Bryan, Joely, Greg & Katie Mountain

March 23, 2019

Mari hugging Mama

Mari Walsh

March 23, 2019

Grandma and Mama at your celebration

Grandma and Mama

March 23, 2019

Laughing until our tummy's hurt!

Cousin Elena Zanone-Kunkel

March 23, 2019

Jeff, Pam, Penelo

March 23, 2019

We love you, Melodi ...

Mommy and me

March 21, 2019

Mel's last night.

Roger Friend

March 21, 2019

To say I miss you is the biggest understatement of the century. You will ALWAYS be in my heart however and that gives me peace. Your light still shines bright! Love, Papa

Mommy

March 21, 2019

Dear Melodi,
Last night I was having dinner in a restaurant. There was a family at the table next to mine and the child called out MOMMY' to get her mothers attention. As all mommy's instinctively do, I immediately looked up as if it were YOU, my baby calling out for me.
It was at that moment that I realized I'd never be called Mommy ever again, and that was the second saddest moment of my life.

Baby Mine

Mommy

March 21, 2019

Natural beauty

March 21, 2019

I can't believe I'll never hold your hand again

Mommy

March 20, 2019

Baby Melodi with Great Grandma Sanchez

March 20, 2019

❤❤❤

Grandma Zanone

March 20, 2019

Santa's helpers

March 20, 2019

Until we meet again Angel, Salute

Dave

March 20, 2019

hugs and kisses

Mama

March 20, 2019

My Double

Mommy

March 20, 2019

Thing 1 and Thing 2 FOREVER

March 20, 2019

Mama

March 20, 2019

Nurse Ray

March 19, 2019

Odi, my deepest condolences to you,your family and friends... You opened my eyes to the human experience, and no doubt are doing the same at your next destination... You are loved and will be missed.

Shannon Deperry

March 18, 2019

JoJo so very sorry for your loss. Healing prayer to you .
Shannon DePerry

Jill Corr

March 18, 2019

Please accept our heartfelt condolences. May God take care of this angel until we all meet in heaven.

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