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David L. TORREY

1931 - 2019

David L. TORREY obituary, 1931-2019, Toronto, ON

BORN

1931

DIED

2019

David TORREY Obituary

DAVID L. TORREY 1931 - 2019 He was my North, my South, my East and West, My working week and my Sunday rest - W.H. Auden David Torrey died peacefully on July 16, 2019 in the Montreal General Hospital surrounded by his family. David was the loving father of Heather, John (Tanya), Bruce (Jo-Ann), David (Kerri), grandfather of Kate Murphy (Tony), Celia, Owen, Julia and Reid, and great-grandfather to Quinn and Bridget. He was predeceased by his sister Barbara, brother and best friend Bill, mother of his children Maggie and his beloved daughter Diana. He is survived by his younger sister Jane. Born in Ottawa in 1931, to New England transplants Arthur S. Torrey and Josephine Torrey (née Leonard), the family moved to Montreal and David grew up a stone's throw from the old Forum. His siblings formed a merry band of brothers and sisters. His education took him from Roslyn School to Vermont Academy to St. Lawrence University to the University of Western Ontario. This most unpedantic of teachers remained a lifelong student. David had an outstanding career as an investment banker at Pitfield McKay Ross, Dominion Securities and RBC Dominion Securities. The hallmarks of his career were trusted advice and longstanding relationships. Always exceptionally generous with his time and resources, he took particular pride in his decades long relationships with the MS Society of Canada and St. Lawrence University. David was one whose acts of kindness, large and small, went unnamed. Helping others and giving back were natural reflexes that he exercised his entire life. Discreet, elegant, charming and successful, what defined him most was his dedication to his family, the true center of his life. He was the most dedicated son, brother, father, grandfather, great grandfather and uncle. To all that knew him he was engaged, loyal and caring. David was a man of great intellect and curiosity. About the past. About your present and future. Nothing gave him more pleasure than to sit around a dinner table with family and friends. The family's much loved childhood home. Poole, Jeroy and Tar Islands. Angler. Lake Champlain. His bespoke but well-worn running attire. His newspapers. His cribbage board. His eyeglasses. He was a man of constants. And he was a constant. At hockey arenas, school plays, concerts, graduations, piano recitals and ballet performances. No distance was too far for any event involving family. David was a pumper of tires. Over the decades, he repaired more than his fair share of flats. He counted himself lucky. We count our blessings. If the spirit moves you, a donation in his name can be made to the Multiple Sclerosis Society of Canada. David's family would like to thank the capable and caring staff at the MGH, caregivers Jilma, Chris, Sushmita, Marrie May and his long-term doctors/friends Dr. Michael Churchill-Smith and Dr. Colin Chalk. A celebration of his long and full life will be held in the early Fall.

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Jul. 20 to Jul. 24, 2019.

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Weldon Paton

June 17, 2020

I was very saddened to just learn of David's passing last year. We were school mates at Roslyn school and Westmount High. When he went off to St Lawrence college I was at McGill, but went there to see him with a case of Molson beer which his fraternity brothers loved.
I suggested He accept a commission from the Royal Canadian Navy as a Sub Lieutenant, which he did and assisted me as my Best Man at my wedding in Toronto. He and I remained long distance phone friends over all these years but seldom got together as when I was working in Toronto he was in Montreal. When I moved to Montreal he was in Toronto. We usually called each other about twice a year over the years and the last time I saw him physically, was a visit to Montreal and he took me to the Royal Montreal golf club for lunch about 10 years ago. I was a godfather to Diana and a friend to his wife Maggie.During our teen years I spent many wonderful visits to the Torrey summer home in the Thousand Islands and in that wonderful old mahogany Chris Craft power boat.
If I could get an address of one of the children I would like to send a couple of photos that might be of interest to them
email

Cynthia Caldwell

September 2, 2019

The memories of visiting Tar Island remain special..the sailing races, the meals ,the last visit in August 2018 when e remembered mom. Though the years passed, the memories never failed..thank you for making a difference in my life.

Marrie May Sarabia

July 29, 2019

I want to express my deepest condolences to the torrey family. I am heartbroken knowing that i wont be able to see him again. Even in a short period of time, i am very thankful that i have given a chance to know mr. Torrey. Such a very nice person and the whole family are so amazing. We will surely miss your kindness... Thank god for allowing me to be part of your family who treated us (caregivers) welcomed. Mr. David Torrey wherever you are, i know that your in good hands of our almighty god. No more pain and suffering... Be happy in heaven.

Gary Kelly

July 24, 2019

When I started at PMR at age 17, I was immediately impressed with Mr. Torrey. I only knew his Father by reputation, which was enormous. Three years after joining and a (very) young floor trader, I chose to returned to university and, upon graduation 3 years later, he asked to see me (he was kind enough to employ me each Summer). He said he would hire me without me asking..........but recommended that I continue my studies and become a CA, and then return with more credential (instead of just being at kid who was Harold Kelly's son). This I did and it was advice that changed my life.

I remember him very fondly.............being called to his office by his Secretary (Mavis ?) on a number of occasions and being awed by his presence, carriage and demeanor (and, yes, those glasses)...........he was somehow overpowering yet kind, concerned, firm, professional and gracious all at the same time. He exuded class, including shirt collars that were separate from his shirt !!!! ........pretty impressive for a "barrow boy" to see. I remember walking with him and, although younger and athletic, I could not keep his pace.

I am better for having known him, will never forget him and I owe him a debt of gratitude for his interest in me.

Gary Kelly, CPA
Windsor, Ontario

Greta Brown

July 22, 2019

To All the Torrey's: Sons, daughter, daughters-in-law, "grands"

He was the love of my life in 1950 as only a nineteen-year-old can love! Fortunately for me we continued to be friends. Can't begin to tell you how incredibly sad I feel to lose this so caring companion. He was a wonderful uncomplaining man even when he endured much that would make a lesser man fume. When I asked him how he was feeling his answer invariably would be "I am just fine". You all were always mentioned whenever we got together; his pride in you a constant. He leaves a big hole in my life.

Jorge Alvarez

July 22, 2019

I want to express my deepest condolences to the Torrey family. My career development has promoted and enriched by visionary nature of Mr. Torrey. I will always be thankful for his kindness and wisdom.
Rest in peace dear Mr. Torrey.

Norm Emblem

July 22, 2019

My deepest condolences. What a beautiful tribute to the patriarch of a great family who I remember well from Town of Mount Royal.

David and Patricia c. 2014

Patricia (Reekie) Washchyshyn

July 22, 2019

Patricia (Reekie) Washchyshyn

July 22, 2019

I am heartbroken. I was David's secretary for many wonderful years at Pitfield Mackay Ross and later at RBC Dominion Securities. His family was his greatest wealth and I was honoured to have been a part of their lives. I was privileged to have known this great man. My heart breaks for Heather, John, Bruce. David and his family but I also know there is a joyous reunion with his Diana. I shall never again see his like. Rest In Peace dear David. You will never be forgotten.

Janet Smith

July 21, 2019

David will be missed. HIs witty and wonderful letters. His sense of humour. His friendship.

Mitzi Shipton

July 21, 2019

I was one of the lucky ones to have known David Torrey.I started working for the family 23 years ago and although we only met In person 3 times in all those years ( once at the beginning and twice last year ) he always treated me like family.Always making me feel invaluable and respected.David Torrey had a heart of gold and although I wish he was still with us I am so grateful he had the years he did .For a man who spread so much love deserved at least 87 years.My deepest sympathies to the Torrey family

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