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Michael SHENSTONE Obituary

MICHAEL SHENSTONE, CM It is with great sadness that the family of Michael Shenstone announces that this devoted husband, father and retired Canadian diplomat died peacefully on September 9, 2019, in Toronto. He was 91. Born in Toronto in 1928 to Allen and Molly Shenstone, Michael spent most of his childhood in Princeton, N.J., where his Toronto-born father was a lifelong professor of physics at Princeton University. He attended Ottawa's Ashbury College during the war, then studied history and modern languages at Trinity College in the University of Toronto. It was at Trinity that he met the ever-sparkling Susan Burgess, a fellow member of the class of '49, who would soon become his wife and much-valued partner in his long career with the Canadian foreign service. (Michael died a few hours after their 68th wedding anniversary.) After receiving an MA from Cambridge University and marrying Susan, Michael joined the Department of External Affairs in 1952, and was soon sent to Lebanon, first to learn Arabic and then take up a post at the Canadian embassy in Beirut. It was the start of a distinguished career that saw him become one of External Affairs's foremost experts in Arab and Middle Eastern issues, at a time when such issues were becoming of paramount importance. Michael and Susan's three children, Thomas, Barbara and Mary, enjoyed peripatetic lives as the family moved from Beirut, to Ottawa, to Cairo, to Washington, back to Ottawa and on to London and Geneva. Michael's first ambassadorial posting came in 1973, as Ambassador to the Conference on Security and Cooperation in Europe, in Geneva and Helsinki. In 1974 he was appointed Canada's first resident ambassador to Saudi Arabia. Back in Ottawa in the late 1970s, Michael played a significant role in the "Canadian Caper" that saw the rescue of six American diplomats during the hostage crisis of the 1979 Iranian Revolution. As Director-General of African and Middle Eastern Affairs at the time, Michael was intimately involved as the key point of contact in Ottawa for Ken Taylor, the Canadian ambassador in Tehran who spearheaded the top-secret operation. Michael later served as Assistant Deputy Minister of Political and International Security Affairs, and then, in 1985, he and Susan embarked on their final -- and endlessly fascinating -- overseas posting, in Vienna, where Michael served for five years as Ambassador to Austria, Head of Delegation to the talks on Mutual and Balanced Force Reductions in Europe and Permanent Representative to the United Nations's agencies in Vienna. In 1992 he retired from the Department of External Affairs after 39 years. Among his many post-retirement activities, he co-founded and chaired an Ottawa-based human-rights organization, Action Canada for Population and Development. He was appointed a Member of the Order of Canada in 2002. A truly dedicated public servant, Michael was blessed with a rigorous intellect, a wide-ranging curiosity, a lively sense of humour and a passion for books, history, language and, of course, current affairs. He was perhaps never happier than when sailing on the Annapolis Basin at the ancestral family cottage in Smith's Cove, N.S. Michael leaves his beloved wife Susan, his cherished children Thomas (Brenda), Barbara (Belinda) and Mary (Christopher) and four grandchildren of whom he was immensely proud, Amy and Leith Shenstone and Sarah and Claire Shenstone-Harris. He will also be much missed by his cousins and legions of friends, in Canada and around the world. The family would like to thank Michael's personal support workers, Tashi Lhamo and Dawa Kyizom, for their care and tender devotion, and the long-term-care staff at Meighen Manor in Toronto. An informal memorial service will be held at a later date. If desired, donations in Michael's memory may be made to Trinity College or the charity of your choice.

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Sep. 14 to Sep. 18, 2019.

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SULTANA AL-QUAITI MBE

February 22, 2021

The Friends of Hadhramaut would like to offer their deep condolences to Mrs Susan Shenstone and family on the death of her beloved husband, AmbassadorMichael Shenstone who joined our UK registered charity in 1998.

James Taylor

September 21, 2019

Dear Tom, Mary and Barbara, We were very sorry to read of your fathers death . He was a delightful man with so many interests and such a zest for life, and held such a distinguished and respected position in the Foreign Service. We were very glad that we were able to visit your parents last February when we were in Toronto. We send you our deepest sympathy at this sad time.
Si and Mary Taylor

September 20, 2019

I knew Michael Shenstone many years ago when I was a junior Foreign Service Officer serving at the Canadian UN Mission in Geneva in the mid-1970s. Michael was a highly-respected diplomat and was in Geneva (with his family) as Canada's ambassador to the European Security Conference.
He was a sterling representative of his country, a serious and scholarly diplomatist and in every way a fine gentleman. Many years later, I was pleased to have worked with his daughter Mary here in Toronto.
I send condolences to the entire family.
Larry Herman

Jean-Guy Saint-Martin

September 19, 2019

Michael fut non seulement un grand diplomate mais aussi un homme gentil, serviable et dévoué. Je regrette profondément son départ. Mes plus sincères condoléances à Suzan et à la famille

Marina Laker

September 16, 2019

As a junior officer managing Canada's nuclear disarmament and non-proliferation policy white paper, he was a calm voice and inspiration about how to be a good diplomat. An inspiration and lovely human being.

Edda Held

September 16, 2019

I became good friends with Michael and Susan when he was Ambassador to Austria and lived in Vienna.They invited my daughter for two summers in Canada.
I came to Canada later to visit friends and met my partner, Bruce Paisley. We will never forget the visits in N.S, Ottawa and Loughborough Lake.
Our condolences to the family.
May he rest in peace.

September 16, 2019

September 16, 2019

Michael and Susan became very good friends while he was ambassador in Vienna. They invited my daughter to spend two summer with them in Ottawa and Digby N.S. I arrived in Canada later where I met my partner, Bruce Paisley. We will never forget the visits in N.S. Ottawa and Loughborough Lake. May he rest in peace.

Dr Edda Held and Bruce Paisley, Inverary Ont

John & Linda Noble

September 16, 2019

Michael was one of my first bosses in External Affairs and I benefitted immensely from his wise advice and counsel. He was never afraid to tell truth to power. When he told Foreign Minister Allan MacEachen what he thought of the idea of what became the Trudeau Peace Initiative, MacEachen told him "you are an apostle of defeat"! (He didn't say he was wrong!!) Our paths crossed many times in subsequent years in Ottawa and Vienna. In retirement Michael and Susan were active members of RHOMA, including two trips to Victoria. To Susan and the rest of the family we offer our most heartfelt condolences.

Peggy Mason

September 16, 2019

He was one of the first diplomats I worked with at Foreign Affairs. We worked again together for many years as members of the foreign policy NGO the Group of 78. A wonderful, brilliant, generous, humble man, he personified diplomacy based on constructive engagement. It was a privilege and honour to have known and worked with him.

Rosie Szentirmai

September 15, 2019

He was my Ambassador in Vienna 1987 to 1989 and I was afraid to tell him I was pregnant and would have to leave post.... he said this is fantastic news!!! Will miss him truly .. great to work with him

peter larson

September 15, 2019

I considered Michael a friend and mentor. His passionate sympathy for the unfairly treated Palestinian people shone a light into a world that preferred to forget them.
His advice and counsel will be missed.

etti held

September 15, 2019

when i had the chance to stay with you and your family in ottawa in 1991...
it was you, michael, who saved my blueberry cake, which didnt come out the way it should - for some reasons, i had troubles with your refrigerator and the oven. YOU told our guests(i guess, the mackenzies), that this actually WAS a typical austrian dessert... and everyone loved it. thanks a lot, michael, what a great diplomate you were.

thanks for having had the chance to know you!!

love, etti

September 15, 2019

i'm sorry too, although i haven't met you personally.
but i've heard a lot about you and only good things from etti, my wife..
rip! udo

September 15, 2019

i am so sorry for you, michael, my canadian dad, who taught me that the salmon was the fish withaout the "L". rest in peace, miss you

love to susan, etti from vienna.

Ruth Archibald

September 15, 2019

So very sorry to read of Michael's passing. He was ending his diplomatic career as a I started mine. I worked with him on his post retirement interest on Population and Development. I benefitted greatly from his experience, his candour and sense of humour. With condolences especially to Susan.

Wally Brown

September 14, 2019

Michael was a terrific boss, and friend. We were fortunate enought to stayin touch with him and Susan for years after our posting to Vienna. May he Rest in Peace.

Wally Brown

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September 14, 2019

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September 14, 2019

Dear Susan, Barbara, Thomas and Mary: Though I haven't seen Susan and Michael since they moved to Toronto, they were dear friends as well as colleagues for many years, and I remember so many occasions when Michael's wit and wisdom enlivened the proceedings. My heart goes out to all of you at this loss. With deepest sympathy. Ruth Brown

Guillaume Bissonnette

September 14, 2019

To Susan, Thomas and the whole family. Jane and I were most upset to read about the death of Michael. We were really moved by the obituary which summarized so well what a remarkable man he was. He had a truly ''well-lived life''. It brought back many fond Ottawa memories about our two families' long friendship. Please convey our deep sorrow to the whole family. Jane Lamb and Guillaume Bissonnette.

Chris Greenshields

September 14, 2019

Michael was a great diplomat and a terrific boss. Our sincerest condolences to Susan and the family. Chris and Margaret Greenshields

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