Paul Bartishevich Obituary

Bartishevich, Paul J.

Paul J. Bartishevich, a bull of a man at the summit of his powers with a loving family in his charge, perished some time Friday morning at home, apparently of a heart attack. He was 53. Bartishevich, of 7615 Willow Creek Road, Trumansburg, leaves a legion of grief-stricken friends, colleagues and admirers, all of them in a state of stunned disbelief, in the wake of his sudden departure. Paul was born with an affinity for journalism - and particularly broadcast radio, the latter to become both his avocation and his professional calling card. The son of Charles and Ruth (Austin) Bartishevich, he began his lifelong love affair with broadcast radio at Lyons High School, where he learned to modulate a sonorous authoritative presence behind the microphone reciting the school's morning announcements. Throughout his teens he worked as a disk jockey in Newark and Rochester, NY and went on to earn a Bachelor's degree in communications from SUNY Oswego in 1981. Three short years later he married Karen Youngs, his high school sweetheart, and in 1984 the couple settled in Syracuse, NY, where Paul began his broadcasting career in earnest. He served a stint as news anchor at WSYR Radio there in the Salt City before taking a related job at Cornell University. An entrepreneur at heart, and an intrepid one, Paul founded his own business in Ithaca in 1987: Finger Lakes Productions International (FLPI). He served as its chief executive officer of FLPI to the hour of his unexpected death - two dozen years of solid performance in a variety of radio formats that comprise a resume full of innovation, excellence and competence across a variety of wide-ranging fields. FLPI produced and distributed daily radio programming to more than 120

countries and territories via the Voice of America and American Forces Radio, as well as programming for National Public Radio affiliates nationwide. These include many programs that are household names to area residents: Bird Watch (later expanded to Nature Watch), Animal Instincts, Ocean Report, which evolved into Our Ocean World, EnvironMinute, Microbeworld, and a slate of others that represented Paul's deep commitment to public education in the areas of science, nature and technology. He recruited the best local writing talent he could corral to assist in his goal of breaking-down complex concepts in science, technology and the environment into language listeners at all levels of education could understand -- often in less than 60 seconds. His relationships with contacts in advertising, government and academia were long-lived and based on trust and mutual admiration. FLPI, often on a shoestring budget, produced some of the finest work of its kind anywhere in the field of broadcast journalism. A staunch believer in the power of Public Service Announcements, Paul's enterprise also produced campaigns on behalf of the National Interagency Fire Centers; the Women's Institute for a Secure Retirement; the American Red Cross, New York Forest Owners Association, Welvista (topics on the importance of long-term care planning), and the Kicks Count Campaign (preventing still-births), which won a Hermes Creative Award. FLPI also was selected, during the Bush, Sr. and Clinton administrations, to lead corporate sponsorship and privatization initiatives on behalf of the Voice of America. In 1998, FLPI founded and launched the Radio Voyager Network (RVN), which became the first English-language commercial radio network to broadcast throughout Europe. Paul moved FLPI into digital publishing in 2010 with the launch of www.HearTheAnswer.com, an integrated marketing initiative. Paul's most recent dream was the formation of a new company, which he named after his long-standing friend and mentor, Howard "Chavo" Bell. Chavo Digital Media was incorporated by Paul in May 2012. On Paul's passing, Bell, past president of the American Advertising Federation and Chair of the National Advertising Review Board, said "there was no one for whom I had more respect as a business executive, a sentiment shared by many leaders in the industry. He was an inspiration to me and so many others for his passion to do good deeds and good work." Paul's relationships continued well beyond his work at FLPI; he mentored young people and with unparalleled enthusiasm, shared his experience sponsoring internships and job interview training sessions. Each of his interns was presented with a copy of Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich," an inspirational business text Paul turned to again and again in his quest to succeed as a small businessman in a cutthroat industry. He also served as an inspired guest lecturer at both Cornell University and Ithaca College, where his singular talent for communications energized hundreds of students and listeners. In addition, Paul led innumerable community volunteer and fundraising efforts, often combining these events with his mad-love of cooking. Paul was a foodie and it brought him great pleasure to serve as chef d'haute for large groups of people, fostering with food and refreshment and camaraderie, a deep sense of community. One of Paul's favorite events was the annual church picnic at the Bartishevich family barn for members of the First Presbyterian Church of Ulysses, a clamorous bout of fun and good cheer that all members enjoyed tremendously. Too, he was famous for orchestrating gatherings with his extended family where his legendary exuberance and joie de vivre made so many of these get-togethers cherished memories. Paul also went out of his way to perform small but quiet kindnesses for those in need. He relished bringing comfort food (borscht was his specialty), red roses (his favorite), or kind words of encouragement to people whom, he learned through the grapevine, needed a boost. And he was gifted with the ability to somehow cheer the glummest heart and uplift the discouraged. While Paul cared deeply for everyone in his life, his central focus and deepest commitment was to his wife Karen, and four children, Benn, Jay, Alec, and Anna Bartishevich. Paul was an ever-present and lively spectator at his children's many sporting, musical and school events. He was a proud husband and father and was quick to share a picture or story about his children's many activities or accomplishments. Paul's love of music spanned all genres from rock to mood music, to oldies and classical - and he liked his music LOUD. He loved (and excelled at) music trivia and was a collector of antique radios. He adored his family pets; his dog Myla held a special place in his heart. A student of local and global current events, Paul thoroughly enjoyed a spirited political debate, providing articulate - and vociferous - opinions, while managing to maintain a healthy respect for opposing viewpoints. Finally, Paul loved his family's rustic country home, Pinecliff Farm, and frequently said he felt privileged to live in one of the most beautiful places on earth. He was a dynamo, a passionate family man, and loving husband. He will be missed by all who knew him and all whose lives passed within the sphere of his good influence. In addition to his immediate Trumansburg family, Paul is survived by his mother, Ruth Bartishevich; brother, Sergei (Paula) Bartishevich; sister, Lynne (Loren) Maslyn; five nieces and nephews, Charlie Bartishevich, Staci Santelli, Amy Kemp, Erin Maslyn, and Brian Maslyn; a number of great-nieces and nephews, numerous cousins, two wonderful aunts, and many dear friends and business colleagues. He was preceded in death by his father, Charles, and brother, Richard Bartishevich. The family will be present to receive friends from 5 to 8 p.m. on Wednesday, June 6, at the Ness-Sibley Funeral Home, 23 South Street, Trumansburg. A Memorial Service will be held at 1 p.m. on Thursday, June 7, at the First Presbyterian Church of Ulysses, 69 E. Main Street, Trumansburg, with the Rev. Cheryl Peeples officiating. Prayers of committal will immediately follow in Grove Cemetery. The family asks those who wish to remember Paul in the form of a contribution to kindly consider the American Red Cross, 201 West Clinton St., Ithaca, NY 14850 or the American Cancer Society, 13 Beech St., Johnson City, NY 13790. For additional information please contact the funeral home at 1-888-534-5446 or www.ness-sibley.com.

Published by Ithaca Journal from Jun. 4 to Jun. 5, 2012.
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I went to herkimer c.c.c. with paul and became good friends.I wish we would have stayed in contact over the years.I hope karen and her family are doing well.

Larry Amo

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October 24, 2019

I remember you as a wonderful funny and inspiring person. My thoughts too your family and close friends-

Ken Barnhart

June 20, 2012

Karen, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Dawn and Sue Boeheim

June 20, 2012

Karen and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of loss. I got to know Paul when he was in Hawaii attending the U of H. I hold fond memories of some shared fun times. I remember him for his smile, laugh and friendly outgoing personality.

Karen Lehn

June 15, 2012

Paul was a neighbor from childhood. We rode the same school bus and belonged to the same 4-H Club. I was shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. I will always have good memories of the character that was Paul. May God Bless his soul and comfort his family at this very sad time. RIP, my friend.

Sarah Gansz

June 13, 2012

My prayers go out to Pauls family. I think it is a country song lyrics that says something like 'live like your dying'. It sure sounds like Paul did just that!
Darien Ross
Ruidoso, NM

June 11, 2012

Gone way too young,,deeply missed.

Tina (Bryant) Loller

June 10, 2012

I have broadcasted Paul's short form features in NW Florida and East Alabama since 2005. They are all first class and bring a unique listen to many things in life. It was an incredible accomplishment to create and produce such gold standard audio. I've been in radio for 40 years and never heard any production better or as dependable as his service. I am sorry to hear of his passing and thoughts are with his family and friends at this difficult time. He sure left a great legacy and I hope his staff will find a way to keep his special sounds alive for radio listeners everywhere. He made a lot of life more interesting. He must have really been amazed arriving at heaven's door.

M.D. Sawyer

June 9, 2012

I am so shocked to learn of Paul's passing. How I enjoyed crossing paths with him through the years, chatting and catching up on area happenings. He was always so pleasant and cheerful! I am so terribly sorry for your loss and I keep you all in my thoughts.
Sincerely,

Gay Huddle

June 8, 2012

I was so shocked to hear of Paul's passing. We went to school together in Lyons,N.Y. ,have many great memories of him. He will be missed.

Tina Bryant-Loller

June 7, 2012

I was so shocked to hear of Paul's passing. We went to school together in Lyons,N.Y. ,have many great memories of him. He will be misses.

Tina Bryant-Loller

June 7, 2012

I was shocked and saddened to hear of Paul's death via church email. Though I have been gone from Trumansburg these past twelve years I have happy memories of the church picnic at the farm and always looked forward to it. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this great time of loss. Joan MacGuire (Sharps Chapel, TN)

Joan MacGuire

June 7, 2012

I saw Paul at Wegman's during the week, heard his proud descriptions of each of his children's accomplishments and current activities, and commented how nice it was that we bumped into each other from time to time. In typical charming fashion, Paul snapped his fingers, said, "I'm just a man about town" and put a smile on my face. I will hold that last memory dear.

Nancy Emerson

June 6, 2012

On behalf of the staff and volunters of KSQM 91.5 FM located way out west in Sequim, WA - we send our prayers to family and friends over the very unexpected loss of Paul. As a non-profit community radio station, we aired some of Paul's programming which was superior. It's unfortunate that at Paul's passing we learn even more about the breadth and depth - the richness that Paul brought to our indutry and to your community. We wish that we could have had more time to engage and partner with Paul.

With warmest regards and thoughts.

Robert Spinks - Exec Director/General Manager
KSQM 91.5 FM
Sequim, WA. 98382
www.ksqmfm.com

Robert Spinks

June 6, 2012

So very sorry for your loss. I remember Paul from High School. I don't remember a day that he wasn't smiling and saying hello to everyone he met. Blessings.

Marylou Emmel

June 6, 2012

Employer, Mentor, Friend. Your legacy will live on through everyone who was touched by your ethics, kindness, and generosity.

June 6, 2012

Employer. Mentor. Friend. Your legacy will live on through everyone who was touched by your ethics, kindness, and generosity.

Dan Updike

June 6, 2012

We will miss you very much seeing you at basketball games and supporting all of the sports teams but prayers to the family Karen, Jay, Ben, Alec, and Anna im so sorry for your loss if you need anything just let me know!

Jennifer Hoffman

June 6, 2012

Karen,
I am so very sorry.
May the Blessings of God bring comfort, peace, and healing to you and your family.
With sincere condolences,

Lori Mike

June 6, 2012

My deepest condolences to the entire Bartishevich family. I was a fellow student with Paul all throughout school in Lyons. In looking back at those days, I don't believe that I ever heard anyone say an unkind word about Paul. He always had a smile, a friendly wave, and was always talking (which I see paid off in later days!). How many teenage boys would be proud that his Mother was the high school nurse (our beloved Mrs. B.)? Not many, but Paul was. He was loved deeply by a teriffic family and he shared that love in return with all he met. We were all the better for having known him.
God Speed, Bart!

Cheryl Tyler Fabino

June 6, 2012

Karen,
Our deepest sympathy to you, your children and Ruth. May God be with all of you in this very difficult time and always.

Bonna Heidenreich McMahon & Family

June 5, 2012

Karen and family: We are so sorry to hear about Paul's passing. We will always remember running around Owego with Paul, to donate a huge amount of clothes after the floods there. We eventually stacked them in Pastor Jeff's garage, after a lot of phone-calls and dickering on Paul's part. He was kind, respectul to all, funny, and had a huge heart for anyone. Our prayers go out to you all during this very sad time.

Dave & Karen Drumheller-King

June 5, 2012

Paul made this world a better place for so many. We will miss him.

Kathryn Boor

June 5, 2012

My deepest sympathy to Ruth,Karen and the entire family of Paul. He will surely be missed by everyone that knew him.

Bob Norman

June 5, 2012

So shocked by the loss of such a dynamo person! thinking of you all.

deb herrmann

June 5, 2012

Paul was a wonderful young man. His older brothers left a huge positive mark on our lives. I regret everyone's loss of such a fine man, that the boy I knew has become. larry earl wraight.

larry wraight

June 5, 2012

Hi Karen and children. I am out of state and unable to see you. But I want you to know how much my heart goes out to you all.Sudden loss is so so hard....but there is hope, Karen, though maybe after some time has passed. Karen ,It has been 8 yrs since I loss my brother suddenly.I remember your kindness when I saw you after the event. I can only say to you that it took a long time for me.., but I want to offer you hope.In feeling all there is ...in such an awful unjust event I was able to accept and process what was, and able to(as someone else in your guestbook commented)" think of my brother with more of a smile than sorrow." We all experience our oun process of grief and I encourage you to allow yourself to experience your individual path of grief. I care about you and your children and wish you peace. A Memory: I remember Anna coming to preschool one day in the most adorable homemade looking dress. When I commented to you about it Karen, you told me"Paul wanted to buy Anna a beautiful dress from April Cornell on the Commons for a special event. I was so touched at the thoughtful expresion of love for his daughter that your husband had and happy for Anna that she had a loving adoring father.I wish Alec ,Anna and the rest of you all,the best.
Love Ms Pat Bauer

Ms Pat Bauer

June 5, 2012

It was a privilege to have known this great-hearted soul, and an honor to have worked with him. Much peace and strength and healing from our family to yours.

Elissa Wolfson

June 5, 2012

Paul's star shone very, very brightly. I will miss him greatly. Karen, love to you and the kids.

John Henrehan

June 5, 2012

I remember talking with Paul when he came to pick his kids up from summer camp. He was always upbeat and a pleasure to chat with.

June 5, 2012

Karen,
I was shocked and saddened by this news. I hold very fond memories of Paul.
I will keep you and your children in my thoughts and prayers.
Regina O'Brien

Regina O'Brien

June 5, 2012

Karen, you, your kids all all the Bartishevichs are in my thoughts and prayers. So sad that such a good, kind man has passed.
Marylou Ferndino Gokey

June 5, 2012

It's not just the shock but the loss that will ripple through my life. Paul was so filled with his love for challenges, his pride and love of family, and the joy he found in the development of creative content while working with creative people. His ideas and vision inspired many from Finger Lakes Production and others to create engaging stories and informative segments that have reached millions of listeners. I will miss his energy and enthusiasm he shared with every meeting, or bumping into. Karen, your loss is great, but his love persists. You both have raised wonderful children that echo your's and Paul's devotion to community and each other. May the outpouring from the wide community you all have touch, give you strength and peace as we all gather to honor Paul. And when his friends and family scatter back to their lives, please call if only out of frustration because the grass has grown to tall or some hard to reach light bulb has blown again. Peace be with you and the family. Love to all.

Eric Gasteiger

June 5, 2012

Ahh that smile and upbeat greeting across the grocery store parking lot...they ride in the airwaves now, never to be forgotten. RIP my friend. JB

JB GRAVES

June 5, 2012

To Paul's family - I'm so very sorry for your loss. Paul was such a huge personality that it's difficult to believe he's gone.

Laurie Howell

June 5, 2012

Karen & Family, so very, very sorry to hear of Paul's death, he was a great class mate. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you,
Kathie Daugherty Stevens

June 5, 2012

Karen and Family - Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Paul will be greatly missed by the Kraus Family. Love -

Jerry, Lori, and Kids

June 5, 2012

So sorry to hear of Paul's untimely passing. It's been quite a few years now since my last contact with Paul, but I will never forget my time working with him and FLPI/Radio Voyager. His enthusiasm, his persistence and his persuasive charisma were truly unique.

Brian Hewitt

June 5, 2012

I've known Paul for many years and had just talked to him on Thursday afternoon. We were going to meet on Saturday to talk about some projects at Ithaca Festival. This is truly a loss to the community, the region, and to the world. His radio work touches public radio listeners worldwide. My thoughts are with his family during this sad time.

Michael Black

June 5, 2012

Dear Karen, I've always been touched by Paul's love for and devotion to you and your family. He was a true gift to our community. I'll miss talking Music and Radio and Kids with him. Love to you all from an old fan.

John Simon

June 5, 2012

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Joel & Mindy Wilson & Family

June 5, 2012

Truly shocked at this news. Such a great loss of a good, kind man and Father. Please accept my deepest condolences to you Karen, Jay, Benn,Alec and Ann. Peace - Jon Keagle

Jon Keagle

June 5, 2012

To the Bartishevich family, I'm so sorry for your loss, and I pray you can find some comfort in knowing how many people Paul touched and inspired in his time here. Paul's passion for life was evident, and I knew him as a colleague and friend for 20 years or more. RIP, my friend.

Peter Knight

June 5, 2012

Dear Karen and family - I am still in shock upon hearing the death of a good friend who had never left my mind since I graduated from Lyons High School. Paul and I were in the Sr High Chorus together, participated in the high school Musical and Variety Show functions ( our small character parrts in "SOUTH PACIFIC" will always go down in our fondest memories with the line "There was a moon!) and, his serving twice as Student Council President which led him to doing the over-the-speaker broadcast of the school events. He wrote songs, mostly lyrics, but I promised I would teach him to compose the music. Sadly, my busy life of college, lacrosse and composing film scores for student films and lecturing across the universities hadmade it difficult. You had a wonderful man for a husband and father with a great sense of humor and I knew he would go as far as he did in his vocation. My sincerest condolences.
- Dr. William David Wilkinson (Class of 75 Lyons Jr/Sr High School)

Dr. William David Wilkinson

June 5, 2012

Dear Karen and family - I am so saddened to learn of Paul's passing. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for a man so full of life. I may be far away in Utah, but I have many fond memories of your family. May your memories comfort you in this time of sorrow.

Carol Nogle

June 5, 2012

I do not know the family well...but I have seen incredible affection & devotion when Paul joined his wife in church & put his arm around her 2 pull her closer to him for the services. This is a man who loved deeply and with open devotion. My thoughts are w/ all of you at this trying time.

June 4, 2012

There are people that touch our lives, that although we physically leave them, they never in our hearts leave us. Paul was one of those people. I am grateful to have known him, and to have worked with him. It was through my work at Radio Voyager that I met not only Paul, but a larger group of spectacular people who also remain very important parts of my life today. Paul is worthy and deserving off all the gifts of heaven. I am so sorry for his family and friends who must travel the rest of this journey without him. I send this message with all my love.

Diana Fox

June 4, 2012

Our VP Joe Biden spoke on Memorial Day and said something that I took to heart..this isn't an exact quote. "There will come a day, I promise....when the thought of (your loved one) brings a smile to your lips before it brings a tear to your eye. It will happen."
That is my hope for all of you. When someone you love is snatched away without warning, everything just stops. I hope your strength, your faith and your love for one another will help you through your biggest challenge ever.
Jill Ferguson

June 4, 2012

Karen, Benn, Jay, Alec, Anna - Angela & I think of you now and hardly know what to say. Recently, I've been scanning photos and among the ones of Benn when Angela was his daycare provider, I found one with both Paul and Karen. It brought back so many memories of your family. Please know that you all are in our prayers especially now.

Pete & Angela Northern

Pete Northern

June 4, 2012

To Karen and your kids. The Sutcliffes embrace you all, in love and friendship.

Scott Sutcliffe

June 4, 2012

I met Paul just twice. Once, in Ithaca, when I walked around the corner from my job at City Hall to FLPI's office on Cayuga Street to pick up some books on writing for radio that he'd offered to lend me. The second time was several years later, in Arlington, VA, when Paul visited WETA (where I was then working) to explore a broadcast partnership. The fact that I remember him so clearly and so fondly after two brief encounters is a testament to his exuberance and larger-than-life personality. Mere minutes in Paul's presence left an indelible, positive impression. What a remarkable man. What a tremendous loss. A life well and fully lived, yet a life far too short. My deepest sympathy to his wife, his children, and all who loved him.

Elizabeth Costello

June 4, 2012

Paul was an amazing boss and I was inspired to work for him during my time at Radio Voyager. What a tremendous loss of a wonderful man. My deepest sympathies to you all.

Mindy Ferguson

June 4, 2012

Dear Karen and Family
My sympathy for your loss. I wanted you to know how much Paul meant to me. He was a man of hope, ideas, and persistence; a man who cared deeply about his work, family, and friends who smiled easily and often. He never gave up on anyone or anything. I always regretted when he would leave the Smithsonian to head back to his beloved Finger Lakes because I could always use a bit more of his optimism and humor. His loss is a heavy weight, but knowing Paul and his irrepressible good will and optimism he would want us to continue to hope and look upwards… Sully
“Only that day dawns to which we are awake. There is more day to dawn. The sun is but a morning star.”
? Henry David Thoreau, Walden

Robert Sullivan

June 4, 2012

To Karen and the Bartishevich family our thoughts and prayers go out to you.Paul was always a sweet and happy man, he will be missed.
Greg and Teresa Youngs, Sodus New York

June 4, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss and hope that you are comforted by the love and light that Paul put into this world.

Bernadette Schoenwald

June 4, 2012

Karen & family.. My memories of Bart are ones of youth & happiness. While living in Hawaii,we shared many basketball games and afternoons catching waves on the beach. We would always have pupu's & some cold beers to help with the the post-game recovery program. I hope that you will always remember your husband & dad as I remember him and keep him close to your heart. He is still on the front line fighting for what he believed in... All our love & aloha to you & your family. Scotty, Linda, Kristen & Kyle Scott.

Paul Scott

June 4, 2012

Karen and Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Kids your dad was an amazing person that truly cared about your success and about the many others that he came in contact with throughout the years. It was truly an honor to get to know him and share many found memories roaming the sidelines together at the soccer games. Karen, if there is anything at all we can do please let us know.
Mark, Michelle, Brent, Colby and Zach Taber

June 4, 2012

We were all drawn to him because of his passion for life...and as he leaves us...I hope he knows we're all better for having him in ours. Deepest sympathies to Karen and family.

Eric Phillips

June 4, 2012

We are so saddened to hear of Pauls passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with Karen and his children and his Mom and siblings. Paul has shown so many acts of kindness toward our family throughout the years and that just shows what a great person he was. The world has lost a wonderful man. Audrey and Roger Simmons

June 4, 2012

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Paul was a wonderful person and shall be missed.

Sally Priester

June 4, 2012

Karen, Benn, Jay, Alec and Anna,

I am heartbroken to hear of Paul's death. I so admired Paul's great love for his family and community and the passion and energy behind his every activity and action. I am praying that God fills your hearts with his peace.

William Torrey

June 4, 2012

My condolences to Karen and the Bartishevich family. I have many fond memories of Paul as a fellow classmate while growing up in Lyons. I always admired his passion and pursuit of his career in media. I know we all will miss him. God Bless

Tom Marshall

June 4, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are will you and your family.

David & Patti Rockefeller

June 4, 2012

Karen and family....so sorry to hear about Paul, I have such great memories of him from our time in High School. He was a great guy.

Rob Nicholson

June 4, 2012

Karen and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Karen- you & Paul were there for me at times when I needed it with just a few simple words or a hug and I'll never forget your kindness. Heaven is now blessed to have him.....Janine (D'Albano) Woodrome

Janine Woodrome

June 4, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Bartishevich family. Paul and Alec have been an influential part of my son's life as well as ours and he was a huge supporter for Trumansburg sports. Paul will be greatly missed.

Russ Maracle

June 4, 2012

Karen,
Praying for all of you during this unbearably difficult time. Our hearts break for you. When I think of him, though, I can only see a laugh or a smile on his face. He was so special. I'm glad you had each other.

Susan Wild

June 4, 2012

Karen and family,
The heart stops briefly when someone dies, a quick pain as you hear the news, and someone passes from your outside life to the inside. Slowly the heart adjusts to its new weight, and slowly everything continues sanely. I wish you all the strength in the world as you negotiate this road in life's journey. You are in our prayers and if a hug from afar can make any difference at all, you have it from us. We wish you only support, understanding, and strength.

Scott and Maggie Simmons

June 4, 2012

as a class mate of Paul's my condolances to the whole family. a great person and always kind.

Donna

June 4, 2012

I'll always be grateful for Paul's kindness to me at the beginning of my career as well as his dedication to his family and community. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Chris Allinger

June 4, 2012

Alec and family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.
Paige & Tim Rumsey

June 4, 2012

No one can truly know what you are experiencing at this time of loss. Please accept my condolences and know that you and your children are in my thoughts and prayers.~

Mary Lou Bassett

June 4, 2012

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Paul was a wonderful man and will be missed by many.
Eric and Wendy Yettru

June 4, 2012

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