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Timothy Poyer Obituary

Poyer, Timothy M., Sr.

Timothy M. Poyer Sr. 48 of 310 Floral Ave. Ithaca, died Friday March 22, 2013 at the Cayuga Medical Center. Born in Ithaca, NY son of the late Raymond and Joyce LaBarr Poyer. Survivors include sons: T.J. Poyer and Torey (Lindsey Harrell) Poyer of Newfield; former wife and friend, Bonnie Hockenberry; sisters: Robin (Bob) Lampman and Becky (Chuck) Kenyon; brothers: Ray (Sue) Poyer, Rusty Poyer and Wes (Stephanie) Doty; also several nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and cousins, and special cat "Bailey". A special thank you to all his caregivers. Funeral services will be held Wednesday March 27, 2013 at 12:00 noon at Bangs Funeral Home with good friend Lenny Whittaker officiating Friends may call from 11:00 A.M. to 12:00 noon prior to the service. Burial at Grove Cemetery will be delayed until later in the Spring. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to either the Brooktondale Fire Department, Slaterville Ambulance or Gadabout service.

Published by Ithaca Journal on Mar. 25, 2013.
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Godspeed my friend, lots of great times, till we meet up again.

April 9, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to you, Tracy and Bonnie! Sending love and condolences!

Michele Peabody

April 1, 2013

SO Sorry for you loss Robin &Becky and family. Tim and I had lots of great times growin up . God Speed my friend , This Buds 4 you my friend you;ll never be forgotten !! James Tome

March 31, 2013

So sad,you were a good friend in high school sorry to hear of your passing.

Desiree Ferris

March 31, 2013

So sorry to hear of Tim passing, we went to school together and he was a great guy! RIP my friend! Matthew Arthur

March 30, 2013

To Ray and Russ Poyer sorry for your loss of your brother.love, your long time friend, debbie marshall,Richford ,NY

debbie mrashall

March 28, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of Timmy[s passing. You were all are a part of my life growing up on Stone Quarry Rd. The older I get the more I see of folks passing who were once part of my life. It's just very sad. Take good care of each other, sending hugs to you all!

Linda McCord-Roberts

March 28, 2013

Robyn and Becky sorry for your loss hold on the memories.

Sharon Cooper

March 27, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss! He was a wonderful Guy, R.I.P Tim

shannon waterman

March 27, 2013

Tory, TJ and Family
Sorry for your loss, our door is always open for you
Tammy, Brandi, Bobbijo, & Jack

Tama Budinger

March 27, 2013

Our thought and prayers are with TJ, Torey and Tim's family during this difficult time. We will cherish the memories we have with Tim.
Jim, Tina, Cale and Sierra Henry.

March 27, 2013

Bonnie, TJ & Torey ... I'm so sad to hear this news. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love to all.

Joanne Brandt

March 26, 2013

sorry for your loss

David Sack

March 26, 2013

I'm sorry to hear of Tim's passing
my thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Augie Adams

Augustine Adams

March 26, 2013

May God bless and give you all a special peace during this time.

Bob & Carine Kenyon

March 26, 2013

Condolences to the family. I went to grade school with Tim. I will always remember his smile and the twinkle in his eyes.
Debbie (Ackles) Mahool

March 26, 2013

R.I.P. Tim

Mike Knapp

March 26, 2013

Im sorry to hear of Tims passing .My condolences go out to bonny and family ..

Mike Knapp

March 26, 2013

Robin and Family, Sorry for your loss, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love Aunt Marlene and your cousin Kathy Duffy

March 25, 2013

We shared alot of laughs growing up in middle school. Rest in peace my friend.

Michael Longo

March 25, 2013

To my cousins Wesley, Robin, Becky and Tim's family. No words can heal your pain. But he is at peace now. With alot of Love,sympathy and prayers.

Lilli LaBarr Yopp

March 25, 2013

Tim, I will always remember that smile of yours, RIP my friend, you will be missed.
Barbie

Barbara Reed

March 25, 2013

Torey sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you!

Scott n Debbie Brazo

March 25, 2013

For TJ, Torey, Bonnie and family - “Perhaps the stars in the sky, are loved ones letting us know they are near, by guiding us through the night”
Author Unknown

Shawn & Karyn Little

March 25, 2013

Words alone can never ease your pain, but time will help, and so will your memories...the way he looked, the way he smiles, and all those traits that were unique to him...these will live in your heart, and he will always be a part of you.

Barbara Mix-Kone

March 25, 2013

Becky, TJ and Torey sorry about your loss of Tim. I remember him from when we were younger.

Amy Westmiller

March 25, 2013

Robin,Becky & family,Very sorry to hear of your loss.keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Cindy (howard) Meddaugh

March 25, 2013

thoughts and prayers to the family

from the Zavaski family

March 25, 2013

Robin, Becky and family,
So sorry to hear of Tim's passing.
My sincere sympathies
Bonnie Lee Compton

March 25, 2013

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss! I hate to admit that I hadn't seen Tim in far too long but have only fond memories of him!

Randy Miller

March 25, 2013

Robin and family so sorry for your loss God Bless

Vickey Schmidt

March 25, 2013

TJ Our thoughts are with you and your family.We are very sorry for your Loss.
Julie Jim Bettie.

March 25, 2013

T.J. and Torey,
We are sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Thoughts and prayers......
Sue, Dusty and Heather Marshall

Sue Williams

March 25, 2013

Robin and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Much love, Casey & Michael

Casey & Michael Moore

March 25, 2013

To my cousins Wes, Robin, Becky and Tim's family you have my deepest sympathy and prayers.

Warren (Jim) Teeter

March 25, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to Tim's family, we have some great memories of having fun times with Bonnie & Tim years ago, he will be greatly missed. God bless. ~Ken and Denise Budinger

March 25, 2013

Bonnie, T.J., Torey and family, I'm so sorry for your loss! It's hard to lose a loved one at such a young age, especially your father. Find comfort knowing that he is in a better place, and cherish the memories that you've shared!

Renee Monroe

March 25, 2013

Bonnie, T.J. and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May prayers and support of friends comfort you at this difficult time.

Sarah Dean

March 25, 2013

God has another great angel.rip my friend

Shane Waterman

March 25, 2013

Thoughts and prayers to family - blessed be

paula neff

March 25, 2013

Tim was a great friend of our family, the derr's of slaterville. Our prayers are with his family. We had lots of good times with Tim over the years. God bless

barbara derr smith

March 25, 2013

So sorry to hear of Tim's passing - he was such a cute kid when we were growing up- my thoughts and prayers are with you Robin and Becky.

Jennifer Tome-Gemini

March 25, 2013

RIP dear Timmy, no more pain and suffering. You will be missed by many. Thoughts and prayers for your sons, God Bless.

Kim Whittaker

March 25, 2013

I never saw Tim without a smile, He will be missed, Our prayers go out to the entire family,

Randy Smith

March 25, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to Tim's family. A coworker and i where talking about Tim just the other day. Alot of good memories.God-speed my freind.

Rob Boynton

March 25, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to TJ and Torey and the rest of the family. RIP Tim.

Kasey Spada

March 25, 2013

TJ, Torey, Robin and Becky and family ~ We are so sorry for your loss, may you find comfort in the good memories you have shared. Hugs to all !

Tim & Charlotte Barnhart

March 25, 2013

RIP Tim, no more suffering. You will be missed by so many. You will never be forgotten. Our deepest sympathies to his family, you have lost an angel. God Bless!

Dave & Debbie Maycumber

March 25, 2013

So sorry to read of Tim's passing. Sincerest sympathies.

Linda (Poyer) Fetherbay

Linda Fetherbay

March 25, 2013

Went to school with Tim and he was one of the good guys.Rest in Peace Tim.Sorry for your family's loss Becky.

Steve Palmer

March 25, 2013

Robin, Becky and family,
So sorry to hear of Tim's passing.
My sincere sympathies.
Sally Partridge

March 25, 2013

I have wonderful memories of Tim. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. Sincerely BJ (Drake) Watson

March 24, 2013

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