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Joseph LaMantia Obituary

McAllen - On Monday, June 14, 2021, Joseph LaMantia Jr., loving husband, father, grandfather, and great grandfather passed away at the age of 88.

Joe was born to Joseph and Verna LaMantia Sr. Joe was a first-generation American, with deep roots in South Texas and began his successful agriculture career in Carrizo Springs in the 1950s. In 1965, the Rio Grande Valley became home for the LaMantia family and headquarters for the growing business ventures of which Joe oversaw. In 1977, Joe diversified his business interests when he ventured into the beer distribution industry as a wholesaler of Anheuser-Busch products. That was the beginning of the family-owned and operated business of L&F Distributors. Many speculated that it was cheaper for Joe to buy the distributorship than to keep buying his children's beer. The company began in 1977 in McAllen, Texas with 11 employees. Today, L&F Distributors has grown to employ 1,091 individuals, with 7 locations serving 53 counties in Texas.

A champion of educational opportunity, Joe established one of the first scholarships for women athletes at the University of Texas-Pan American, the Ann LaMantia Outstanding Woman Athlete Scholarship. The scholarship was named in honor of his wife of 30 years, Ann LaMantia, who passed away in 1983.

Under Joe's leadership, L&F Distributors formed a partnership with the Hispanic Scholarship Fund in 1994 and raised over $5 million and awarded over 2,600 scholarships in eight years to the students in south Texas.

In 2002, upon joining forces with his family and respected business leaders from the community, Joe established Stars Scholarship Fund, which awards scholarships to students from south and west Texas. This initiative was prompted by the conviction that an educated citizen is essential to the growth and future success of South Texas. As Chairman and Founder of Stars Scholarship Fund, Joe oversaw the disbursement of over $35.1 million in scholarships, to assist over 17,074 students in the community.

Joe participated in numerous other civic organizations including the Rio Grande Cancer Treatment Research Foundation, the American Heart Association, the Rio Grande Council Boy Scouts of America, the South Texas Communities for Youth Service, Lion's Club, and the Special Olympics. In 1974, Joe was appointed by Governor Dolph Briscoe to the Board of the Texas Department of Corrections where he served for 15 years.

Joe's many accolades include being named Border Texan of the Year, Distinguished Citizen by the Rio Grande Council Boys Scout of America, the President of Excellence Award Citizen of the Year by the University of Texas Health Science Center at San Antonio's Regional Academic Health Center Medical Education Division. The University of Texas-Pan American awarded him their Bridge Builder Award in 2006 and the Hispanic Chamber of Commerce awarded him the Golden Eagle Award. Washington's Birthday Celebration Association honored him as Mr. South Texas. Joe received an Honorary Doctor of Humane Letters Degree from Texas A&M University-Corpus Christi and a Life Service Award from the National Beer Wholesalers Association.

Family was the core of life, joy, and success for Joe LaMantia, Jr. Joe had a passion for history, hunting, and ranching. He was known for his quick wit, no non-sense approach to life, and caring spirit.

He is survived by his loving wife of thirty-six years Derrelene, his five children, Val (Guy), Joe, III (Marilyn), Greg (Laurie), Steve (Linda), Tony (Jennifer), and two stepchildren Jennifer and Lori (Felix), plus numerous adoring grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

He is preceded in death by (parents) Joseph and Verna LaMantia, (wife) Ann LaMantia (sisters) Marie, Ann, Shirley, Verna, and Joan. Maria LaMantia, Phil LaMantia, and Grant Peisen. Visitation will be held Thursday, June 17, 2021, from 5pm - 7pm at Kreidler Funeral Home (314 N 10th St. McAllen, TX 78501). A Celebration of Life will be held on Friday, June 18, 2021, from 11:30am to 1:30pm at McAllen Country Club (615 Wichita Ave, McAllen, TX 78503).

In lieu of flowers, the family prefers donations to be made in Joe's honor to Stars Scholarship Fund, P.O. Box 3068, McAllen, Texas 78502-3068.

A special thank you to Rick Fernandez Healthcare LLC., Jerry, Jose. Domingo, Ayhan, Josh, Megan & Jessica.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Monitor on Jun. 16, 2021.

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Kathleen Lovell McGahan

October 27, 2024

My sincere condolences to all my LaMantia cousins and family.
I have fond memories of him in Michigan and in McAllen before Aunt Renee passed. We ate Elk for dinner he got on a hunting trip. Rest in peace Uncle Joe.

Lic. Mónica Patricia Pérez Higa

August 11, 2023

Les acompañamos en su dolor, y les compartimos que todos estaremos con el rey de reyes, y tendremos vida eterna, les recomendaría ver,"Violines en el Cielo"

Deanna Longoria

November 9, 2022

Val,
I did not know about the passing of your father. Due to Mundo´s passing and now the Pandemic I seem to be out of the loop. I was seeing where a La Mantia won the election and remembered you and your father since I had not heard about you all in a long time. I am so sorry to find out that he passed and I did not know to acknowledge this and express my condolences. So sorry to hear about your loss. I at home, still isolating, so if you ever need anything I am always here.

Deanna Longoria Ramirez

Kim (Moore) Kidd

August 11, 2022

Val, I´m sorry to hear of your Dad´s passing. Sorry to respond so late. God bless you and the LaMantia family.

Vince LaMantia

July 22, 2022

My sincere condolences to the passing of Joe Jr as my dad referred to him. I unfortunately came upon the news after trying to reach out to him to notify him of the passing of my father, Vincent LaMantia of Tucson, AZ back in November.

They were first cousins and their father's started LaMantia Arrigo Bros Produce in Chicago. My grandfather is Philip LaMantia. My father would always talk about his time spent on Uncle JV's farm by Lake Michigan. He sure could detail a tornado that hit the farm 80+ years ago!

Again my condolences on Joe Jr's passing.

Patricia Power

June 10, 2022

It is hard to believe that it has almost been one year since your passing on Flag Day. Considering the positive contributions you made to this country, it is appropriate to pay respects on this day. God bless you, Mr. LaMantia, for the gift of such a wonderful family and for all the good works they continue to as your legacy.

Quincy Cooper

January 6, 2022

I received a flyer in the mail today from a Morgan LaMantia & I recognized the last name instantly and then noticed a picture of her and Mr LaMantia on the back..
Upon googling her name to see who was her parents I came across the obituary for her grandfather..
I worked for L&F Distributors from `96-2000 out of the Alice/Beeville location and had a pleasure of meeting Joe jr on several occasions. My sincere condolences to the family & prayers sent up

LAZARO O CAMARILLO, III

June 23, 2021

Our condolences to the family of the Joseph "Joe" LaMantia, Jr. there is no word to say about your loss of a great Man that I knew back on 1983 in McAllen Texas, we just become friend long, long, time ago, to our brother-in-arm he will never be forgotten RIP from the Lazaro O. Camarillo, III family Brownsville, Texas AIRBORNE!

Susan Rankin Whittington

June 21, 2021

Family,

So sorry for your loss of a good man, husband, father and grandfather.

Rosalie Weisfeld

June 20, 2021

My heartfelt sympathy to the entire La Mantia family Joe was a maverick. Throughout the years I felt privileged to work with him on campaigns for candidates and good causes. May the family find comfort in the legacy Joe leaves here on Earth and in knowing that he lived an exemplary life, a good and full life.

joel jimenez

June 19, 2021

Our prayers, thoughts and condolences from Joel Jimenez Family from Wichita Falls Texas and my ancestors from the Dolores Ranch. Love you Steve and Linda...................Joel

David LaGrange

June 19, 2021

I'm so sorry for your loss. Joe was a great man. I have such wonderful memories of him and all the family. You all made me feel like family. God be with you all.

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Joseph Rodriguez

June 18, 2021

A fine man with a powerful spirit. Condolences to the family members in their hour of need. God bless.

Sallie Gonzalez

June 18, 2021

My sincere prayers and condolences on the loss of Papa Joe. Wonderful man with the kindness of hearts. Watching a peaceful death of a loved one reminds us of a falling star; one of a million lights in a vast sky that flares up for a brief moment only to disappear into the endless night forever. Papa Joe you were that beautiful Star in the sky that never stopped given to the less fortunate. May you Rest in Peace. May the Lord give each of you strength knowing he is rejoicing with our Lord Savior. Judge Sallie Gonzalez

Patricia Power

June 18, 2021

My deepest condolences to the La Mantia family on the loss of this fine man and family patriarch. He left a fine legacy in his children and his grandchildren; and he graced the world to make it a better place for all of us.

Glen Jackson

June 17, 2021

Have loved working with the LaMantia family on varios projects....Joe’s legacy will live forever.... thank you for our friendship. Rest now my friend.

Douglas J Nichols

June 17, 2021

My condolences and sympathy to my cousins I hope Uncle Joe can have creole with my mother Verna in heaven again my prayers are with you
Love
Cousin Doug Nichols

Douglas J Nichols

June 17, 2021

I offer prayers and sympathy to my cousins Uncle Joe can share his sister and my moms Vernas cerole in heaven

Dorothy and Sean Williams

June 17, 2021

No words can express our sorrow in hearing of Joe’s passing. He was a good man and always good to Henry. May OUR LORD hold each one of you in HIS loving hands during this time of your grief. REST IN PEACE JOE.

Rep. Bobby Guerra

June 17, 2021

We have lost an icon who truly cared about our region and taught his children the importance of giving back to their community. He will be missed and his legacy will be forever remembered.

Roberto Musquiz Jr.

June 17, 2021

Rest in peace Mr. Joseph LaMantia Jr.
My condolences to all of the family.

Thomas Szuszalski

June 17, 2021

Rest in peace Joe. Its a great privilege for me to be part of the L&F/FB family.

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Matt Jordan

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Ray Williams

June 16, 2021

So saddened to learn of your great loss. Please know that the entire Lamantia family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Juan J Barreto III

June 16, 2021

I was just a child when Mr Joe and my dad were partners. I have very fond memories of Mr Lamantia and family. My condolences to all of the family. He was a great man, may he Rest In Peace.

Joe Williamson

June 16, 2021

Sorry to hear of his passing. He always treated me fairly and he was an honest man!

Santos & Coach Saldana

June 16, 2021

Thank you for your community services. LaMantia Family has done so much for RGV Familias. God Bless you

Dwight Dorsey

June 16, 2021

Very sorry to hear of Papa Joe's passing. My deepest condolences to the family. I will always remember how kind and generous he was to me growing up in McAllen on the swim team.

American Heart Association

June 16, 2021

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Lauro and Leigh Guerra

June 16, 2021

Very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Holding you all in our hearts and prayers.

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