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Sylvia Cumming Shively Obituary

Sylvia B. Cumming Shively beloved wife, mother, friend, and the second to last living member of Sherry Club, passed away at home on April 6. Sylvia was born on July 7, 1920, in London, England to Sarah and Charles Brookman. She attended Selhurst Grammar School for Girls in Norbury, England. After completing secretarial school in London, she was employed as the personal secretary for Professor Alfred Pippard at London's Imperial College of Engineering.During WWII, Sylvia met George Cumming at a tea dance in London. In 1947, she left family and friends in England to marry George Cumming in Kitchener, Ontario, Canada. They made their first home in Vancouver, B.C. In 1948, they immigrated to California, living in Burlingame and Redwood City before moving to Vacaville, in 1958. While raising four children and two Labrador Retrievers, Sylvia was active in community organizations, including The Saturday Club, Sorority, Monte Vista School Library volunteer and PTA, Intercommunity Hospital Guild and Candystripers, Vacaville's Blood Bank Drive, GVCC Women's Golf, Cub Scout and Brownie troop leader, and Vice-President of Sherry Club. After George's death in 1974, Sylvia worked as a teller at Vaca Valley Bank and played golf at GVCC. Sylvia met Alfred Shively on the golf course and married him in 1980. In retirement they enjoyed snow ski trips, golf, and entertaining their grandchildren.Sylvia cherished time with her family and friends, reading, gardening, playing bridge, dancing, ocean walks, and the beauty of nature. She welcomed stray cats and visiting wildlife to her garden. Sylvia was the wife of the late George C. Cumming and the late Alfred C. Shively; sister of the late John Brookman; aunt to the late Ingrid Rogers; mother of Carolyn (Steve) Garcelon, Kenneth Cumming, Holly Nordhues, Lisa Cumming, and Daniel (Shari) Shively; grandmother of Lauren (Adrian) Medina, Michael (Sandy) Shively and Gillian Shively; great-grandmother of Maddox and Skylar Medina, Madelyn Shively, and Carter Bruguier. Sylvia requested no services.She supported charities that benefitted animals and humanitarian aide. Donations may be made in Sylvia's name to the SPCA of Solano County (solanospca.com); Southern Poverty Law Center (splcenter.org); or Doctors Without Borders (doctorswithoutborders.org). An old Spanish saying "When you came into the world everyone welcomed you with smiles. Live your life so that when you leave, everyone is crying".
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Published by The Reporter on Apr. 16, 2019.

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Randy Hartman

May 31, 2019

My sincerest condolences to all of Sylvia's family. A beautiful person both inside and out, I'm going to miss stopping by her house, her opening the door and saying, Hello Randy, how are you dear? Peace

kate skinner

May 26, 2019

Dear Cummings family, please accept my condolences... very sorry to hear of your moms passing i so enjoyed growing up as a kid and enjoying her friendship as a neighbor and with my parents a really neat lady.

Regards,
Kate Skinner

John Frechette

May 15, 2019

Lisa & family,

So sorry to hear of your mom's passing! Every story about her displayed her innate "classiness"! She had such a rich life with such enthusiasm for all it offered her!

I always appreciated how eager she was to 'play' a secret agent when we met for the first time in London!

My sincere condolences to a very loving family!

John

Karen Priebe

April 27, 2019

What a beautiful life Aunt Sylvia lived.
I'm very so sorry for your loss of your Mom.
I grew up listening to the memories of my Grandparents Betty and Wilmer and their letters, and trips to California to visit Aunt Sylvia and her children.
My Mom, Linda and Aunties would frequently talk about the letters and updates from Vacaville.
I wish you peace and comfort as you grieve the life of Aunt Sylvia.
Cousin Karen

Karen Priebe

April 26, 2019

What a beautiful life Aunt Sylvia lived.
I'm very so sorry for your loss of your Mom.
I grew up listening to the memories of my Grandparents Betty and Wilmer and their letters, and trips to California to visit Aunt Sylvia and her children.
My Mom, Linda and Aunties would frequently talk about the letters and updates from Vacaville.
I wish you peace and comfort as you grieve the life of Aunt Sylvia.
Cousin Karen

April 25, 2019

Sylvia wa one of the most gracious, fun, and attractive women of my mother's friends. I loved conversing with her. She led a full and active life right up until the very end. She was admired , and cherished by all who knew her. I offer my deep condolences to her family., Love Suzanne Smith-Hammerli

April 25, 2019

The world will miss this extraordinary woman. A very dear friend to my mother. Peter Orr and family

Linda Wren

April 19, 2019

Dann and Sheri. What a beautiful obituary for a gorgeous woman of many talents. Sending our sincere condolences.
Linda & JJ Wren

Brian Law

April 19, 2019

We lived next door to Sylvia for years. We could not have asked for a better neighbor. She was a wonderful, loving person.

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