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CARROLL DALE Obituary

CARROLL MAY ALLEN DALE Lived life intensely. She was a keen observer of life and people, expressed in her award-winning and humour-filled writing. Born in Oxbow, Saskatchewan on May 24, 1927, daughter of Glen Allen and Harriet Schram Allen, Carroll grew up in the prairie railway station houses where her father was Stationmaster. The Great Depression shaped her values: the men who rode the rails looking for work were supported by the family and her father co-founded the Co-operative Commonwealth Federation along with seven others, including Tommy Douglas. These aspects of her early life formed her lifelong sense of social justice and fairness. She broke new ground for women in many ways, including as one of the first women members of the Toronto Press Club and as a Co-Founder of the Jean Tweed Centre. She read and edited fiction, essays and poetry manuscripts for Maclean's Magazine at an early age. She was a Journalist with the Toronto Telegram, the Toronto Star, the Globe & Mail and later as a Freelancer for a variety of publications, including for Chatelaine Magazine, Canadian Living and Homemakers Magazine. She was both Food Writer and Senior Editor for Recipes Only, editing and co-writing two cookbooks. She taught journalism at Ryerson Polytechnic (now University) - magazine writing was her specialty. She relished this stage of her career, mentoring countless budding journalists. She won several National Magazine Awards and garnered the respect of her peers across Canada. She died suddenly and peacefully just before her 89th birthday at 7 p.m. on April 5, 2016 at Christie Gardens surrounded by all her remaining family: her grandchildren Robyn Andrea Dale Ellis and Adrian Michael Dale Ellis, daughters Amanda Barbara Allen Dale and Lisa Carroll Allen Dale and their partners. Carroll's life was marked by a series of personal tragedies, including the youthful deaths of her two sons Matthew Martin Allen Dale and Jamie Frederick Allen Dale, the loss to breast cancer of her much-loved niece Gail Allen (Chambers) and the tragic loss of her adored nephew Glen Allen. Their brother, Carroll's nephew Gene Allen survives her. Carroll never stopped missing the brothers who died when she was a young woman - writer, editor and author Ralph Allen and Financier John Allen - and her parents, who died within a few years of each other while Carroll was a young mother. She lost her sister Barbara Kathleen Allen Leacy more recently, in 2012, at the age of 93, leaving Carroll the last of a generation of the storied Allen family. Despite decades of separation, Carroll chose to be interred with her late husband H. Frederick Dale, Toronto Star Garden Columnist and Author. The immediate family will mark her passing quietly and privately. Donations can be made in her honour to The Jean Tweed Centre or PEN Canada.

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Published by Toronto Star on Apr. 9, 2016.

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Susan Wadsworth

April 15, 2016

My sincere sympathy to all of the family. My sister Martha was a childhood friend of Amanda's. It will be 20 years this December that Martha passed away. I have very fond memories of Carroll, she was always so kind to all of us kids. Sorry for you're loss. Susan Wadsworth

Ro, Daniel and Sophia Sinia-Rondon

April 14, 2016

We have so many memories of Carroll. One story will always stay with us that defines her as funny and engaging and headstrong. Some years ago at Amanda's birthday party Carroll decided she wanted to go home ... it was late, it was cold, it was snowy ... a typical night in January. She insisted in taking a taxi. Amanda wanted to drive her, Anja did too, but Carroll didn't want to pull the hosts away from their party, so she declined. Other friends offered, but again, Carroll graciously declined each offer. No one wanted Carroll to take a taxi, but she wouldn't have it any other way. That is, until my Belgian husband said I can take you home if you don't mind. Without hesitating, Carroll grabbed her purse, bid farewell to everybody and said OK, Daniel, let's go. We had a good laugh, wondering, did she just get tired of saying no? Was it the accent? We will always remember Carroll fondly.
Our love is with Amanda and Anja and the rest of the family during this difficult time.

Ro, Daniel and Sophia Sinia-Rondon

April 14, 2016

We have so many memories of Carroll. One story will always stay with us that defines her as funny and engaging and headstrong. Some years ago at Amanda's birthday party Carroll decided she wanted to go home ... it was late, it was cold, it was snowy ... a typical night in January. She insisted in taking a taxi. Amanda wanted to drive her, Anja did too, but Carroll didn't want to pull the hosts away from their party, so she declined. Other friends offered, but again, Carroll graciously declined each offer. No one wanted Carroll to take a taxi, but she wouldn't have it any other way. That is, until my Belgian husband said I can take you home if you don't mind. Without hesitating, Carroll grabbed her purse, bid farewell to everybody and said OK, Daniel, let's go. We had a good laugh, wondering, did she just get tired of saying no? Was it the accent? We will always remember Carroll fondly.
Our love is with Amanda and Anja and the rest of the family during this difficult time.

Jamie Lee

April 13, 2016

I met Carroll when I was in my twenties. She made an immediate impression on me with her incisive observation and humour, and later on -- as I came to know her better -- with her determination and strength. Recently, as a father I came to know yet another facet of Carroll when she took a thoughtful interest in my two young girls -- Amanda's God-children. All three of us are enriched by knowing her and her remarkable family. Our hearts go out to you all.

Andrea Meeson

April 13, 2016

Amanda, Lisa, Robyn and Adrian - thinking of you all. The legacy of Carroll lives on....the very best of her shines in all of you! xxx Andrea

April 12, 2016

I wish to thank everyone not yet mentioned here, who has sent warm and kind words of private tribute to me about Carroll, and lending great words of support for all those of us close to Carroll. Thanks to Dar and Carey French, Kiyomi, Ben and Evan, for their perfect words with flowers; to Brenda Hogg for her kind words and tribute donation to PEN; to Jim Chambers and Colleen; to Jesse, Vanessa, Wendy Allen; to Norma and Brian Grier; John & Joanne Eagles; to Rachel Mercer; Akemi Mercer and Dirk Niewohner; Carlene and Bill Mercer; Roger Shimoda and Dawn Anderson; to Uncle Frank and Aunt Miyoko. To Gene and Erika who's words, as always, resonate well. All these words greatly sooth.
And I know there are many many others mom touched deeply, who simply don't yet know she's gone. Such a large personality leaves a wide path in passing. Lisa

Wendy Allen

April 12, 2016

I was aware of Carroll even before I met her since Glen loved her so much. Auntie Carroll was the only Allen of that generation that our children, Vanessa and Morrison, ever got to know. But that meant that they got a good idea of how exceptional that generation was.

I have so many memories of her from family gatherings -- of her interesting conversation and great sense of humour.

She also had influence well beyond the family. As a columnist in Homemakers, she didn't just write about food but also about seeds and preserving diversity --she was way ahead of her time.

We will remember her with admiration and affection.

My condolences to Lisa and Amanda and their partners and to Robyn and Adrian.

Susan Martin

April 12, 2016

As a childhood friend of Amanda's, Carroll was always warm and welcoming and I have fond memories of time spent in the Allen/Dale home. My mother, friend of Carroll's as class parents, and I send the family our deepest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Warm regards,
Susan Martin-Munro & Donna Martin

Gene Allen

April 11, 2016

Carroll was a very good friend to me, funny, wise and deeply concerned about the world around her. I'll miss our conversations. My sincere condolences to Lisa, Amanda, the other members of her immediate family, and everyone else who knew Carroll and will miss her too.

Alana Shields Barker

April 10, 2016

Carroll made a huge difference to me in my early thirties when I came to Toronto. She was a huge influence and I learned so much from her about life! My sincere condolences to Amanda, Lisa, Robyn and Adrian. Thinking of you.

April 10, 2016

My partner's Aunt Carroll would have shone as a woman of remarkable achievements in any generation of journalists and socially-engaged citizens, but is especially notable for what she achieved, given the strictures of her own time. I met Aunt Carroll less often than I would have wished, but always found time spent with her engaging and engaged, full of energy and humor and trenchant observation. My sympathy to Lisa and Amanda and their partners and to Lisa's children for their painful loss, and to all members of the family, as well as her friends, all of whom will keenly miss this singular and complex person and will never forget her. Sincerely,

Erika Ritter

Maureen LeBourdais

April 9, 2016

I have so many childhood memories of Carroll as the mother of my best friend, her daughter Lisa. I also recall several lively political discussion with her when I became an adult. I can see her clearly in my mind's eye from when she and her daughter Amanda came out to see Lisa and me in Vancouver. Thinking of you all - Love, Mo

Alicia Renault Blanco

April 8, 2016

Querida Amanda, so sorry for the passing of your Mother, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Melinda Smith

April 8, 2016

My condolences to Amanda and family on the passing of your dear mother. May her loving memories live in your hearts forever.

Marcia Cannon

April 7, 2016

My condolences to the family. Carroll was a trail blazer and made the world a sharper place. What a beautifully written tribute.

April 7, 2016

A significant loss. I only knew Carroll briefly, but admired her for her strength of character, passion and sharp wit - traits that I cherish daily in her daughter Amanda.

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