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Betty BUSSEY Obituary

BUSSEY, Betty - Passed suddenly at home on Wednesday, August 20, 2014 at the age of 68. Beloved wife of Stan for 50 memorable years. Loving mother to Tamara (Jon) and Deborah (George). Devoted and loving nanny to Joshua and Zachary. She will also be remembered by her dear brothers Frank, Lorrie, Lloyd, Beven and Gary, plus many nieces and nephews. She will forever remain in all of our hearts.

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Published by Toronto Star on Aug. 23, 2014.

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Joshua with his son, Isaac.

Tamara Patenaude

May 3, 2024

This morning I woke up and was thinking of you on your birthday, dad.
We all miss you, mom and Deb terribly. It just isn't the same without you! All of you would have loved little Isaac. I hope that the love of God keeps you all filled with joy and peace until we are all together again. Love Tam

Deborah Bussey

May 3, 2021

Happy Birthday Dad. So many good memories and I am sad to have to call them all memories. Wish you were still here to make new ones. I have attached a photo of Josh's Baby K (Kyrie). She is adorable and you and mom would have loved her!!!! Here she is with a crocheted bunny that Tam made for her. Tam and Jon are so proud and are spoiling her already. George and I are good and I'm sure if you are watching over us you know all about this Covid-19 crap. We're all healthy and have not heard of any family coming down with this illness. Most have been vaccinated with their first shot - I'm due for shot 2 on July 21st. The federal and provincial government have made a mess of all of this. Well, have a great day with mom and wish you were both here to celebrate. Enjoy happy baby K.

Deborah Bussey

December 23, 2020

For My Parents in Heaven this Christmas
They say there is a reason
They say that time will heal
But neither time or reason
Will change the way I feel.
Gone are the days we use to share
But in my heart you are always there.
The gates of memory will never close
I miss you more than anyone knows.
Hope you have a great Christmas together!!
Love you Mom and Dad.

Tamara Patenaude

July 30, 2020

We miss you everyday mom! Happy Birthday, mom.

Love Tam, Jon, Josh, and Zac

Deborah

May 10, 2020

Happy Mother's Day!!!!! Missing you today and every day. You would hate it right now with Covid-19 - no shopping and people are so aggressive out there! We'll get through it. Hope you and Dad are together doing something fun today! Always thinking of you. Love Deborah

Deborah Bussey

May 3, 2020

Happy birthday dad!! I hope you and mom are on a nice beach together somewhere having a big piece of cake. I miss my trips in to visit you. Love you, baby Bussey

Mother's Day 2019

Tamara Patenaude

May 2, 2020

Happy Birthday Dad, We all miss you everyday! Special memories of you make us smile and laugh.
Love Tam, Jon, Josh and Zac

January 10, 2020

Well, the holidays are over and there was a big empty space in my heart for you, Mom and Dad. You gave us so many great Christmas memories and it is our job to make sure that Josh and Zac and their little ones, down the road, know who you were and how much you meant to us. Merry Christmas and I hope you are having a fantastic New Year - together.
Love Deborah

September 29, 2019

Mom and Dad,
Keep an eye out for Simon as he past on September 28th, 2019. He will be greatly missed by all, especially poor Tam.
Love Deborah

Deborah

September 29, 2019

Mom and Dad...
I heard your voice in the wind today
And I turned to see your face;
The warmth of the wind caressed me
As I stood silently in place.
I felt your touch in the sun today
As its warmth filled the sky;
I closed my eyes for your embrace
And my spirit soared high.
I saw your eyes in the window pain
As I watched the falling rain;
It seemed as each rain drop fell
It quietly said your name.
I held you close in my heart today
It made me feel complete;
You may have died...but you are not gone
You will always be a part of me.
As long as the sun shines ...
The wind blows ...
The rain falls ...
You will live on inside of me forever
For that is all my heart knows.
Author - Unknown

Deborah Bussey

July 31, 2019

Happy 73rd Birthday Mom - hope you're celebrating with Dad this year! XOXOXO

Forever in our hearts.

Tamara Patenaude

July 30, 2019

Happy Birthday to a great mom, nanny, and wife!
Love Tam, Jon, Joshua, Zac, and little Simon.

Lorrie Matchett

June 19, 2019

Hi Betty, it's a said day here on earth as you must already know, another loved one has fallen...Stan has finally got his wish to be with you...God be with you all, we will meet again one day!!!....Lorrie

MY LOVE- MY LIFE

May 28, 2019

May 11, 2019

TO MY DARLING WIFE-HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY MY LOVE.I LOVE,AND I MISS YOU SO.EVERYONE IS FINE AND DOING WELL.YOU DESERVE ALL THE THANKS FOR OUR TWO GIRLS GROWING UP TO BE SUCH FINE WOEMEN.YOU WERE THE HEAD OF OUR FAMILY AND RIGHTLY SO.I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WOULD OF DONE WITHOUT YOU.MY DARLING,WAIT FOR ME,WATCH FOR ME,I WILL BE WITH YOU ONE DAY IN HEAVEN.ALL MY LOVE.STAN.

Deborah Bussey

May 11, 2019

Happy Mother's Day! Wish you were still here to share in all the family moments. Zac graduating, Josh getting married, Tam and Jon becoming empty nesters and George and I travelling and gardening. And, of course, Dad - you are always top of mind!! You are missed, honoured, and, most of all, remembered with love. Your loving daughter, Deborah

February 13, 2019

TO MY DARLING WIFE-TOMORROW IS VALENTINE'S DAY AGAIN.I MISS YOU AND I LOVE YOU. I DON'T HAVE ANYONE TO BUY CANDIES FOR ANY MORE.JOSH AND TINA HAVE SET THIER WEDDING DATE FOR JULY 6TH.SHE IS A FINE GIRL,JOSH LOVES HER AND YOU WOULD REALLY LIKE HER.SHE REMINDS ME OF YOU MY LOVE.DEB HAS HAD SOME GOOD NEWS ABOUT HER TUMOURS,THE DOCTORS SAY THAT THEY ARE GONE.I KNOW THAT OUR LORD HAD A HAND IN ALL OF THIS.REST IN PEACE MY LOVE AND I WILL SEE YOU SOON.UNTIL THEN,WATCH FOR ME,WAIT FOR ME,ALL MY LOVE. STAN.

December 21, 2018

TO MY DARLING WIFE- TODAY IS THE 21ST OF DECEMBER AND ANOTHER CHRISTMAS IS UPON US.THIS IS THE 5TH CHRISTMAS THAT YOU HAVE BEEN GONE.I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU.JOSH FINALLY PROPOSSED TO HIS GIRL TINA.SHE IS A FINE GIRL,YOU WOULD LIKE HER.ZAC GOT A JOB AT THE ROYAL BANK AND HE IS LOOKING FOR A PLACE TO LIVE.EVERYONE IS FINE. DEB IS NOT DOING SO GOOD, TUMOURS HAVE COME BACK, BUT THEN YOU KNOW ALL THIS. MAYBE YOU CAN ASK OUR SAVIOUR TO HELP DEB.GOING TO DEBBIE'S PLACE FOR CHRISTMAS THIS YEAR,NOT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU,MISS YOU MY DARLING.I KNOW YOU ARE HAPPY IN HEAVEN WITH YOUR FAMILY AROUND YOU.I WILL SEE YOU ONE DAY, UNTIL THEN,WAIT FOR ME,WATCH FOR ME MY LOVE.GOD HAS TOLD ME, IF I BELIEVE IN HIM I WILL SEE YOU AGAIN ONE DAY.ALL MY LOVE STAN.

November 12, 2018

MOM AND NEET'S MONUMENTS

September 16, 2018

ZAC AND POPPY

September 2, 2018

TO MOM FROM DEB

September 2, 2018

August 20, 2018

TO MY DARLING WIFE- TODAY IS AUGUST 20TH,AND YOU HAVE BEEN GONE FOUR YEARS TODAY.I MISS YOU SO.ZAC HAS FINISHED HIS SCHOOLING AND HAS OBTAINED HIS DEGREE IN ACTUARIAL SCIENCE.I AM SO PROUD OF HIM,HE IS A GOOD MAN.JOSH HAS ONE MORE YEAR TO GET HIS PHD.EVERY ONE IS DOING FINE AND WE ALL MISS YOU.I HAVE A LITTLE BENCH ON ORDER FOR OUR PLOT, IT SHOULD BE INSTALLED BY OCT.I KNOW THAT YOU CAN SEE EVERY THING GOING ON FROM HEAVEN,GOD I MISS YOU, I LOVE YOU.WAIT FOR ME,WATCH FOR ME,ALL MY LOVE.STAN.

Tamare Patenaude

August 20, 2018

Today, August 20th, has terrible memories for us all, but we stop to remember all the wonderful times spent together and the caring things you did. We do this because we loved, love, and will always love you mom/nanny.
Love always, Tam, Jon, Josh, Zac, and little Simon

July 26, 2018

TO MY DARLING WIFE-ON MONDAY THE 30TH YOU WILL BE 72.IT HAS BEEN A LONG AND LONELY FOUR YEARS WITH OUT YOU. I PRAY EVERY NIGHT THAT OUR LORD WILL COME AND GET ME AND TAKE ME TO YOUR SIDE.I KEEP OUR EARTHY SITE AS BEST I CAN WITH FLOWERS,LIKE THE ROSE.
SOME SAY LOVE,IS LIKE A RIVER
THAT DROWNS THE TENDER REEDS
SOME SAY LOVE, IS LIKE A RAZOR
THAT LEAVES YOUR SOUL TO BLEED
SOME SAY LOVE, IT IS A HUNGER
AN ENDLESS ACHING NEED
I SAY LOVE,IT IS A FLOWER
AND YOU, ITS ONLY SEED
WHEN THE NIGHT HAS BEEN TO LONELY,AND THE ROAD HAS BEEN TOO LONG
AND YOU THINK THAT LOVE IS ONLY FOR THE LUCKY AND THE STRONG
JUST REMEMBER IN THE WINTER,
FAR BENEATH THE BITTER SNOW
LIES THE SEED,THAT WITH THE SUN'S LOVE
IN THE SPRING BECOMES MY ROSE.
MAY GOD KEEP YOU IN HIS LOVING ARMS.I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART. WAIT FOR ME,WATCH FOR ME MY DARLING.STAN

July 2, 2018

TO MY DARLING WIFE-TOMORROW IS JULY 3RD AND WE WOULD HAVE BEEN MARRIED 54 YEARS.I MISS YOU AND I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.I FIND THE TIME SO LONG, BOTH DAY AND NIGHT.I MISS YOUR HUGS AND KISSES.I KNOW GOD TOOK YOU HOME FOR SOME SPECIAL REASON.I HAVE TO STAY HERE WITH DEB,TAM,ZAC,JOSH,GEORGE AND JON FOR A LITTLE WHILE,BUT I WILL BE COMING TO YOU SOON.WAIT FOR ME, WATCH FOR ME MY DARLING.WE WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN,I PROMISE AND GOD WILLING.ALL MY LOVE IN MY HEART.STAN.

May 13, 2018

I Miss You Mom
I thought of you with love today,
but that is nothing new.
I thought about you yesterday,
and days before that too.
I think of you in silence,
I often speak your name.
All I have are memories,
and your picture in a frame.
Your memory is my keepsake,
with which I'll never part.
God has you in his keeping,
I have you in my heart.
Happy Mother's Day!
Love Deborah

May 12, 2018

TO MY DARLING WIFE-TOMORROW IS MOTHER'S DAY AGAIN. AS THE QUOTE READS"WHAT THE BRAIN CAN'T REMEMBER,THE HEART NEVER FORGETS".I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU WITH ALL OF MY HEART. YOUR LOVING HUSBAND,STAN.

February 14, 2018

TO MY DARLING WIFE- HAPPY VALENTINES DAY MY LOVE.I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU SO MUCH.I PRAY EACH DAY THAT GOD WOULD TAKE ME HOME TO BE YOU.I GUESS GOD ONLY KNOWS WHEN IT IS MY TIME.I MISS YOUR LOVE SO BADLY AT THIS TIME OF YEAR.I KNOW THAT YOU ARE HAPPY IN HEAVEN,THAT IS THE MAIN THING.EVERY ONE IS FINE AND WE ALL MISS YOU.I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY YOU HAD TO GO SO SOON,I GUESS GOD HAD A SPECIAL PLAN FOR YOU IN HEAVEN.NOW YOU HAVE NO MORE PAIN OR SUFFERING AND YOU ARE FREE FROM EARTH'S TORMENTS.I WILL BE WITH YOU ONE DAY,GOD HAS TOLD ME SO.UNTIL THEN MY DARLING,WAIT FOR ME,WATCH FOR ME.ALL MY LOVE,YOUR DEVOTED HUSBAND.STAN.

Deborah Bussey

December 28, 2017

A poem I just came across titled: Missing You at Christmas

Every day without you
Since you had to go,
Is like summer without sunshine
And Christmas without snow.

I wish that I could talk to you
There's so much I would say,
Life has changed so very much
Since you went away.

I miss the bond between us
And I miss your kind support,
You're in my mind and in my heart
And every Christmas thought.

I'll always fee you close to me
And though you're far from sight,
I'll search for you among the stars
That shine on Christmas night.

Miss you mom.

December 22, 2017

TO MY DARLING WIFE- ANOTHER CHRISTMAS IS HERE AGAIN.THIS IS THE FOURTH ONE SINCE YOU HAVE GONE.I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU MORE THEN EVER.EVERYONE IS FINE AND WE ARE ALL DOING WELL.I HAVE MADE US A HOME HERE ON EARTH SO WE CAN BE TOGETHER AGAIN AND ONE DAY OUR HEARTS WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN IN HEAVEN.I MISS YOUR LOVE,YOUR TOUCH AND KISSES.GARY,LORRIE,LLOYD AND FRANK ARE DOING GOOD.YOU WOULD BE SO PROUD OF ZAC AND JOSH,THEY ARE ALMOST FINISHED SCHOOL.I WILL BE WITH YOU ONE DAY,I PROMISE,UNTIL THEN WAIT FOR ME,WATCH FOR ME.ALL MY LOVE.STAN.

October 6, 2017

TO MY DARLING WIFE-TODAY IS OCTOBER 6TH AND ANOTHER THANKSGIVING IS HERE AGAIN.WE ARE ALL FINE AND WE LOVE AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH.I WENT THE OTHER DAY AND PUT SOME MORE FLOWERS ON NEET'S AND DONNA'S GRAVES. I MISS THEM SO.I MISS AND LOVE YOU SO MUCH,I DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH LONGER I CAN GO ON.I HAVE ONLY MY MEMORIES AND PICTURES OF YOU.IT'S NOT ENOUGH,I NEED YOU,I WANT YOU.THE NIGHTS ARE SO LONG AND LONELY WITHOUT YOU.PLEASE FORGIVE ME FOR NOT LOVING YOU MORE WHEN YOU WERE HER WITH ME.I MADE SO MANY MISTAKES DURING OUR 50 YEAR MARRIAGE.PLEASE FORGIVE ME.WAIT FOR ME MY DARLING,WATCH FOR ME,I WILL BE WITH YOU SOON,GOD WILLING.TILL THEN ALL MY LOVE.STAN

Deborah Bussey

August 20, 2017

Oh Mom, Today is such a difficult day for all of us here. We try to keep busy but you are never far from our thoughts. I hope you are somewhere celebrating your 3rd year reuniting with Nan and your sisters. If you are have a blast but don't forget that we still love you! Debbie

August 20, 2017

TO MY DARLING WIFE- TODAY, THREE YEARS AGO YOU WENT TO HEAVEN.WHY DID IT HAVE TO BE SO SOON? I MISS YOU SO, ILOVE YOU SO.YOUR FAVORITE SCRIPTURE WAS "IN MY FATHER'S HOUSE ARE MANY MANSIONS".I KNOW WITH ALL MY HEART THAT YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL PLACE IN HEAVEN.I PRAY THAT YOU ARE HAPPY THERE WITH ALL YOUR FAMILY.ONE DAY WE WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN,I PROMISE YOU MY DARLING.ONLY GOD KNOWS WHEN.UNTIL THEN,WAIT FOR ME,WATCH FOR ME.I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART.ALL MY LOVE.STAN.

Deborah

July 30, 2017

Happy Birthday Mom. Not sure what to say - but - we all miss you and wish you were here to come this week with Dad. You'd enjoy the adventures we have planned and the drive out with Dad. I hope you are celebrating today with Nan, Grandad, and your sisters. Love you always. Your Deb (George, Jersey, and Buddy also say hi!)

Lots of busy friends.

July 30, 2017

Another beauty.

July 30, 2017

A beautiful flower for mom's garden.

July 30, 2017

A busy pollinating bee, like mom busy looking after her flowers.

July 30, 2017

Happy Birthday mom, we miss you everyday day! I am posting some pictures I think you would have liked to be in your beautiful garden, at this time of the year.

Love Tam, Jon, Joshua, Zac and little Simon (still hanging on)

July 30, 2017

TO MY DARLING WIFE-HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEETHEART.I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU.TODAY YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN SEVENTY ONE.EVERY ONE IS FINE AND WE ALL LOVE AND MISS YOU.I PRAY EVERY NIGHT THAT OUR LORD WOULD TAKE ME HOME TO YOU.I HAVE MADE A HOME FOR US HERE ON EARTH SO WE CAN BE TOGETHER UNTIL THAT DAY I WILL SEE YOU IN HEAVEN.THAT WILL BE ONE GLORIOUS DAY.WAIT FOR ME,WATCH FOR ME,I WILL BE THERE SOON,GOD WILLING.I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART.ALL MY LOVE.STAN.

MOM'S ARTIST--TAMARA

July 15, 2017

July 3, 2017

TO MY DARLING WIFE- TO DAY IS JULY 3RD AND IT IS OUR 53RD WEDDING ANIVERSARY.I LOVE YOU SO AND I MISS YOU SO.IT SEEMS JUST LIKE YESTERDAY THAT I SAID "I DO" TO THE MOST WONDERFUL GIRL IN THE WORLD.YOUR MOM AND DAD MUST HAVE BEEN SO PROUD TO HAVE SO LOVING A DAUGHTER. I THINK OF THEM OFTEN, AND I KNOW THAT YOU ARE ALL TOGETHER IN HEAVEN, ALONG WITH DONNA,JUANITA, GERALDINE,SHARON,BEVEN AND LITTLE RONNIE.WE ALL MISS YOU,AND SEND YOU OUR LOVE.PLEASE FORGIVE ME FOR NOT BEING THERE FOR YOU MORE OFTEN.I MISS YOUR KISSES AND YOUR ARMS AROUND ME.TILL I SEE YOU ONCE AGAIN IN HEAVEN--I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART.ALL MY LOVE.STAN.

MOM'S DEBBO

June 20, 2017

Deborah Bussey

May 14, 2017

Read this today, so appropriate for Mother's Day. Went to the garden centre for my annual flowers - wish you were there with me!
Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue. She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: Many women have done excellently, but you surpass them all. Proverbs 31:25-30

May 14, 2017

TO MY DARLING WIFE- HAPPY MOTHERS DAY.I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU.WE WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN SOON.ALL MY LOVE. STAN.

Deborah

March 8, 2017

It is International Woman's Day today. I think every daughter and son should nominate their mother as an example of an important and powerful female figure in their lives. I do ! Deborah

GARY-LLOYD-MOM-FRANK-LORRIE-DANIELLE

STAN BUSSEY

February 13, 2017

GARY- GERALDINE-MOM-DONNA-FRANK

STAN BUSSEY

February 13, 2017

MOM AND JUANITA

stan bussey

February 13, 2017

February 12, 2017

TO MY DARLING WIFE- HAPPY VALENTINE'S MY LOVE.I REMEMBER,EACH VALENTINE'S DAY AFTER WORK I WOULD GO OVER TO THE MALL AND BUY YOU A BOX OF YOUR FAVORITE CANDIES.AS SOON AS I WOULD OPEN OUR FRONT DOOR, YOU WOULD BE WAITING THERE,AND YOUR EYES WOULD LOOK TO SEE IF I HAD A GIFT FOR YOU.SEEING MY PACKAGE, YOUR SMILE WOULD LIGHTEN UP THE WHOLE ROOM.SOMETIMES I WOULD HIDE THE PACKAGE UNDER MY BIG COAT.WHEN YOU SAW NOTHING, YOU WOULD SAY"YOU DIDN'T BUY ME ANY CANDIES"? I WOULD ANSWER"I FORGOT". YOU'D SAY "THAT'S OKAY"BUT I COULD SEE THE HURT IN YOUR EYES.LAUGHING, I WOULD PULL THE PACKAGE FROM UNDER MY COAT,AND I WOULD SEE YOUR BEAUTIFUL SMILE AGAIN.I COULD SEE ALL THE LOVE IN YOUR EYES.OH GOD,I MISS THOSE TIMES.MY DARLING,I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU,WAIT FOR ME AND WATCH FOR ME,I WILL BE ALONG SHORTLY, GOD WILLING.ALL MY LOVE.STAN.

Deborah

February 12, 2017

Happy Valentine's Day, Mom

Mom's passport picture July 3, 2014

stan bussey

February 9, 2017

Deborah Bussey

December 27, 2016

Another Christmas has come and gone. Soon it will be a new year. Time passes so quickly. We're lucky that memories last forever. Love you mom. Deborah

December 24, 2016

MERRY CHRISTMAS DARLING-I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU.ALL MY LOVE. STAN

December 18, 2016

TO MY DARLING WIFE-TODAY IS THE 18TH OF DEC. AND CHRISTMAS IS ALMOST HERE AGAIN.EVERYONE IS FINE AND WE ALL MISS YOU VERY MUCH. YOU WERE LIKE YOUR PRECIOUS MOM,YOU MADE CHRISTMAS FOR ALL OF US.THIS IS THE 3RD CHRISTMAS YOU ARE AWAY FROM ME,I MISS YOU SO,I LOVE YOU SO.I PRAY TO GOD THAT IT WON'T BE MUCH LONGER BEFORE I CAN HOLD YOU IN MY ARMS AGAIN. I WILL NEVER LET YOU GO AGAIN.THE BIBLE SAYS THAT A PERSON SHOULD TRY AND MOVE ON,BUT I CAN'T STOP LOVING YOU, I CAN'T STOP WANTING YOU.MY DARLING WAIT FOR ME, WATCH FOR ME,I WILL BE ALONG SOME DAY.THIS WILL BE A BEAUTIFUL DAY.UNTIL THEN I WILL LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART.ALL MY LOVE.STAN.

MY BEAUTIFUL SWEET HEART

STAN BUSSEY

October 22, 2016

MOM'S BEAUTIFUL GIRLS

STAN BUSSEY

October 22, 2016

MOM'S DEBBO

STAN BUSSEY

October 22, 2016

MOM AND GARY

STAN BUSSEY

October 22, 2016

NANNY'S TWO BOYS

STAN BUSSEY

October 22, 2016

October 7, 2016

TO MY DARLING WIFE-TODAY IS OCT.7TH AND ANOTHER THANKSGIVING IS UPON US.I THANK GOD FOR GIVING YOU TO ME FOR 50 YEARS TO LOVE AND CHERISH.I THANK YOU FOR YOUR NEVER ENDING LOVE ALL OF OUR LIVES.I THANK YOU FOR THE TWO WONDERFUL DAUGHTERS YOU GAVE ME,AND OUR TWO PRECIOUS GRANDSONS.I AM SO SORRY THAT YOU CAN'T BE HERE WITH US NOW.I KNOW GOD TOOK YOU HOME FOR A REASON-IT'S PROBABLY TO WORK IN HIS GARDENS THAT YOU LOVED SO MUCH.NO MORE PAIN-NO MORE ACHES-JUST PEACE. I HAVE SO MUCH TO BE GRATEFUL FOR,BUT I CAN'T STOP LOVING YOU,I CAN'T STOP WANTING YOU.WAIT FOR ME MY DARLING-WATCH FOR ME,I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART-ALL MY LOVE. STAN.

MY BEAUTIFUL DARLING

Stan Bussey

October 6, 2016

MOM AND HER TWO BOYS

Stan Bussey

October 6, 2016

FRANK AND BETTY

Stan bussey

October 6, 2016

GRANDAD AND MOM

Stan Bussey

October 6, 2016

TAMARA AND MOM

Stan Bussey

October 6, 2016

GARY AND BETTY

stan bussey

October 6, 2016

MOM AND BETTY

stan bussey

October 6, 2016

ZACH AND NANNY

stan bussey

October 6, 2016

JOSH AND NANNY

stan bussey

October 6, 2016

Deborah Bussey

August 20, 2016

Two years today. Yet, it seems like yesterday when you were here. We're trying to keep an eye on Dad and keep him from being too lonely. I think of you often and miss you. Give Molly a hug. Debbie xoxo

We're all thinking of you and we miss you. Love Tam, Jon, Josh, Zac and little Simon.

August 20, 2016

August 19, 2016

TO MY DARLING WIFE-TOMORROW WILL BE AUG.20TH AND YOU WILL HAVE BEEN GONE FROM ME FOR TWO YEARS.I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU.I DREAM OF YOU MANY NIGHTS,WISHING I COULD HOLD YOU IN MY ARMS AGAIN.WHY DID GOD HAVE TO TAKE YOU SO SOON? EVERYONE MISSES YOU SO MUCH.JESUS SAYS THAT IF WE BELIEVE IN HIM,THAT WE WILL SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN IN HEAVEN.UNTILL THEN I WILL LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART.WAIT FOR ME-WATCH FOR ME-ALL MY LOVE.STAN.

Deborah

July 29, 2016

Happy Birthday Mom. Wish you were with us tomorrow to celebrate. You'd love the little town of Gravenhurst. Miss you so much!! Hopefully Molly is there with you to keep you company until we're all together again! Lots of Love ALWAYS - Your daughter, Debbie

July 29, 2016

TO MY DARLING WIFE-HAPPY 70TH BIRTHDAY.I LOVE YOU-I MISS YOU.I MISS ALL YOUR LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING.YOU HAD SO MUCH LOVE FOR EVERYONE THAT YOU TOUCHED.EARLIER THIS MONTH I WENT TO MONTREAL TO MINE AND YOUR PARENT'S GRAVE SITES.I LEFT SOME FLOWERS AND I THANKED YOUR MOM AND DAD FOR GIVING ME SUCH A WONDERFUL DAUGHTER TO LOVE FOR OVER 50 YEARS.I CAN'T STOP LOVING YOU-I CAN'T STOP WANTING YOU.WAIT FOR ME MY DARLING-WATCH FOR ME.I WILL BE COMING SOON-GOD WILLING.I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART-ALL MY LOVE.STAN.

July 2, 2016

TO MY DARLING WIFE- TOMORROW WOULD HAVE BEEN OUR 52ND ANNIVERSARY.I LOVE YOU-I MISS YOU-I NEED YOU.I MISS YOUR TENDER KISS IN THE MORNING BEFORE GOING OFF TO WORK.YOUR AMAZING LOVE WAS SO UNENDING-IT WAS MORE THAN I DESERVED.YOU WERE ALWAYS SO EASY TO FORGIVE ME.I DON'T HOW MUCH LONGER I CAN GO ON WITHOUT YOU.WAIT FOR ME MY DARLING-WATCH FOR ME-I WILL BE ALONG AS SOON AS GOD WILL ALLOW IT.I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART-ALL MY LOVE STAN.

MY BEAUTIFUL DARLING

STAN BUSSEY

June 2, 2016

mom's flowers love tamara

May 8, 2016

May 8, 2016

Deborah Bussey

May 7, 2016

Tomorrow is Mother's Day and, as I'm working on the lawn, can't help but think of you. Our trips to the garden centres and how you always made your lawn like a green carpet. Miss our outings together. Miss you. Deborah

February 13, 2016

TO MY DARLING WIFE-ANOTHER VALENTINES DAY IS HERE AND I MISS YOU-I LOVE YOU.YOU GAVE SO MUCH ALL YOUR LIFE AND ALL YOU WANTED WAS SOME ONE TO LOVE YOU. I FAILED YOU.PLEASE FORGIVE ME.THEY SAY-TILL DEATH DUE US PART-BUT YOU ARE WITH ME NOW AND WE WILL BE TOGETHER FOR ETERNITY IN HEAVEN.WAIT FOR ME MY DARLING-WATCH FOR ME-I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART-ALL MY LOVE STAN.

December 8, 2015

TO MY DARLING WIFE- TODAY IS DEC.8TH AND ANOTHER CHRISTMAS WILL SOON BE HERE.DEB.TAM.JOSH.ZAC.GEORGE AND JON ARE ALL FINE.WE ALL MISS YOU VERY MUCH.I MISS YOU BEYOND WORDS CAN TELL.I ONLY LIVE FOR OUR FAMILY AND THE DAY THAT I WILL BE ABLE TO HOLD YOU IN MY ARMS AGAIN.WAIT FOR ME-ALL MY LOVE STAN.

STAN BUSSEY

August 22, 2015

TO MY DARLING WIFE- AUG. 20TH YOU WERE GONE FROM ME FOR ONE YEAR.WE WERE TOGETHER FOR 50 YEARS ON THIS EARTH-WE WILL BE TOGETHER FOR EVER IN HEAVEN.MY HEART CRIES FOR YOU- MY HEART CRIES FOR YOU. ALL MY LOVE STAN.

Your daughter, Deborah

July 29, 2015

Tomorrow is your birthday. If I could make a wish it would be that you were here to celebrate it with us. Always thinking of you xoxo

July 2, 2015

TO MY DARLING WIFE-TOMORROW IS JULY THE 3RD AND WE WOULD HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 51 YEARS.GOD SENT ME YOU ALL THOSE YEARS AGO TO LOVE AND CHERISH.WE WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN ONE DAY.ALL MY LOVE STAN.

Deborah Bussey

May 10, 2015

Today is Mother's Day. Wish you were here to go for brunch or to a spa. I miss just having a mom to call and chat with. I hope this day is special for you wherever you are.

May 9, 2015

Missing you.
Your loving daughter Tamara

February 14, 2015

TO MY DARLING WIFE -- IT IS FEB 14 AND IT IS VALENTINES DAY.YOU HAVE BEEN GONE ALMOST 6 MONTHS AND I LOVE YOU MORE THAN EVER. ALL MY LOVE STAN.

Deborah Bussey

October 2, 2014

Missed so much - every single day! Mom and me in Bermuda, a very good day.

Christmas with Nanny & Poppy

Tamara,Jon, Josh and Zac Patenaude

September 14, 2014

As the days go on, I miss your daily calls and conversations and think of you often. You were the most caring and giving nanny to Josh and Zac and they will miss you forever. We pray and wish that God takes care of you and shares his eternal peace and joy.

stan(loving husband) bussey

September 14, 2014

I will love you forever nanny.untill we meet again. your loving poppy.stan.

stan (loving husband) bussey

September 10, 2014

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Kim Barton

August 25, 2014

We are so sad to hear about the the passing of Lou. As we all know she was the information pipeline for the family. I will miss her dearly. She was a wonderful aunt, mother, wife and sister. My heart breaks for you.

I firmly believe those sisters are up there, sitting around a kitchen table, getting all the latest updates from her.

Much love,
Kim, Joe, Jordan and Owen

Kim, Joe, Jordan and Owen

August 25, 2014

We are so sad to hear about the passing of Lou. As we all know she was the information pipeline. I will miss her dearly. She was a wonderful aunt, mother, wife, and sister. My heart breaks for you.

I firmly believe those sisters are up there, around a kitchen table getting all the latest updates from her.

Much love.

Louise Tremblay Matchett

August 24, 2014

My sister in law, Betty Lou, was one of a sisterhood of five. She needed a sense of humour to outdo Donna's, but she did have this! I just remember good times when I was able to watch the Matchett sisterhood have fun together, all of them! Betty Lou is the last sister to leave us. I will always remember her with Love.

Michael Aubin

August 24, 2014

I was shocked and so sad to hear about Lou's sudden passing. She is with all of her sisters now and they will take care of her. She will be dearly missed.
I am so grateful that Tammy organized the family reunion last year and I got to see everyone again. Keeping you all in my thoughts and in my heart at this sad time.
Love Mike, Kristee, Sarah, Jessica and Christy xo

Lorrie ( brother ) Matchett

August 23, 2014

My condolences to her family...

Lorrie ( brother ) Matchett

August 23, 2014

Peace forever...

Lorrie ( brother ) Matchett

August 23, 2014

A caring and loving person that will be in our hearts forever. One day we will meet again, but not right now because I still have some unfinished business to do...Love you forever...

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