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Raymond Lee "Ray" Carci

Raymond Carci Obituary

Raymond "Ray" Lee Carci COLUMBIA - Raymond "Ray" Lee Carci, 63, passed away peacefully September 16, 2016. He is survived by: Denise McCaston (partner), Adrienne Marie Carci (daughter), Stanford William Rhuland (stepson), Ashley McCaston (stepdaughter), Jamie McCaston (stepson), Stevie McCaston (stepson), eight wonderful grandchildren, two nieces and great nephews. He was predeceased by: Ralph Charles Carci (father), Alice Marie Armstrong (mother), Charles Ralph Carci (brother). Ray attended The University of Maryland and Baptist College, playing basketball for both schools, and was an avid supporter and fan of The University of Maryland. FEAR THE TURTLE! Ray worked for Special Olympics South Carolina and was dedicated to helping the thousands of athletes in South Carolina. He truly believed that everyone deserves a chance at a happy and purposeful life. The celebration of life will be held on Sunday, September 25, 2016, from 3:00 to 6:00 at Thirsty Fellow Pizzeria and Pub, 621 Gadsden Street, Columbia, SC 29201. Ray was a beloved partner, father, grandfather, co-worker and loyal friend to many. He touched so many lives and had a gift for making everyone smile. He will be missed by so many. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Special Olympics South Carolina, 109 Oak Park Drive, Irmo, SC 29063.

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Published by The State on Sep. 21, 2016.

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Sarah

December 5, 2016

Denise came in my work yesterday and told me the news about Ray. He was such a wonderful person and will be missed by many. He touch so many peoples lives. My Heart and Prayers go out to all if you. God Bless. We were so fortunate to have met such a great person.

Sam Beals

October 6, 2016

Ray was one of my long-time customers and a good friend as well. His contributions to Special Olympics and the Columbia community were tremendous and he will certainly be missed by so many.

My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and those closest to him during this difficult time. May God fill you with His presence and bring comfort and peace.

Kayla

September 28, 2016

Ray will be missed by so many people. I loved seeing him every morning it was the highlight of my morning. It's heartbreaking, but I know he's in a better place.

Mac McLendon

September 27, 2016

Oh my this is truly heartbreaking . I feel bad for not knowing sooner . May Ray and Joe Pellicci take care of all the special Olympians there with them. Know for all here the two of them will see you at the finish line.

September 25, 2016

Our son Lee adored Ray and enjoyed hugs at every Special Olympics event. He finally learned to say his name! Our other son, Ross will always cherish the autographed "Gary Williams" basketball that Ray personally delivered to him since he was an avid fan. Guy always chatted Maryland sports with him at every meeting since they both "feared the Turtle!" I will miss his great wonderful hugs and working with him for the Greenville Gala. We will all remember Ray for his smile, big hugs and relentless dedication to all the athletes of Special Olympics South Carolina. He was amazing raising money for our kids will be greatly missed. Our condolences to Denise, Adrienne and all the family.
May God wrap his loving arms around you for the weeks ahead and may be have comfort in the memories and good works of Ray's life.
Guy, Cathy, Lee & Ross Harrison

cindy hull

September 24, 2016

I had the pleasure of working with Ray on SC Special Olympics events. He was a true gentleman with a kind word for everyone. The world was a better place with him in it.

brett buckler

September 23, 2016

ray is good men . he have good heart to special olympics athlete. ray special friend to me

Katie Flanagan

September 23, 2016

I was lucky enough to work with Ray on the Special Olympics gala in Greenville for several years. He is an incredible person and I consider myself lucky to have been able to get to know him. He will certainly be missed by many!

Andrea

September 23, 2016

You have my condolences on your loss. May God bring you comfort.

Joe Quick

September 23, 2016

You are the sun, I am the moon. You are the song, I am the tune...PLAY ME!!!!!! That was our song Uncle Ray...you'll be sorely missed by so many. Fear the Turtle. R.I.P. old friend.

Martha Mann

September 23, 2016

My thoughts and prayers will be with all of you, during these very difficult times ahead.
Ray was unconditionally committed to Special Olympics , every athlete and volunteer.
He was notorious for his beautiful smile, hugs and handshakes!
God bless you, Ray. You will be forever in the midst of the games, and in our hearts.

Gerald Frazier

September 22, 2016

Ray Carci was a very good man that I ever known. He is like a father figure to me and my fellow Special Olympics South Carolina atheletes. He is also my mentor and my fellow Special Olympics South Carolina athletes. He will be missed a lot. R.I.P. Ray Carci.

Tom Ryan

September 22, 2016

Ray was one of the most generous and kind person I have ever met. He will be truly missed and my heart goes out to his family. Love ya Ray.

Donnna Barton

September 21, 2016

Denise - Ray was a great guy. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and the family.

Cathie Boulware

September 21, 2016

Denise,
I met Ray thru my sons, Brent & Brandon Cooler while in college at USC and working at John Pauls. I can remember his big smile and him bragging to me about what good boys I had raised. But what I remember most is the admiration my boys both had for him and all he did for others and those with special needs. May God comfort you and his family during this difficult time.
Cathie Boulware

Glenn King

September 21, 2016

RIP Ray.......Fear the Terp.....

September 21, 2016

Ken Dear

Michelle Rawl

September 21, 2016

I was very lucky our paths crossed and we were able to spend a day by the pool with Ray & Denise with great friends. You will be missed.

Amanda Gadson

September 21, 2016

Publix(1095) will never the same you came in every morning with that big Smile getting your lottery tickets big coke and cigarettes you never left without giving away your big HUGS!!! We Really goin Miss My Friend Sleep In Peace!!!!

Warren Peper

September 21, 2016

Always enjoyed being with Ray. First met Ray on the basketball court in college. Always ready with a smile, he was a kind and gentle soul. God's speed, Ray..

Lea Cooper

September 21, 2016

Ray you will be missed by many. I will certainly miss you jokes and thoughtful text that always put a smile on my face. My heart goes out to Denise and all your family I can't imagine you not in our life anymore. Cheers Ray Carci.
Lea Cooper

September 21, 2016

Denise,
My heart goes out to you in this time of sorrow.
Britt

Robin Harris

September 21, 2016

Denise and family,
Keeping you all in my prayers during this difficult time. Love and hugs.

September 21, 2016

goodbye to a great man and friend say hello to jack for all of us peter maher

Skeeter Whitman

September 21, 2016

Miss you Friend! Save me a court side seat and a MILLER LITE!

Kay Rhoden

September 21, 2016

We don't understand why these things happen but rest assured that our Father has us in the hollow of his hand. He will give strength when it seems we can't go on and will never let us down. Prayers for Ray's family and friends. He will not be forgotten.

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