My prayers go out to the family and I am so sorry for your loss. May God heal your loss as He is still healing me with my loss.
My husband Joseph Anthony Siravo passed from cancer in Feb 2012. We were married 32 years. We knew about your loved one from my husband's family in Providence RI. My husband's cousins who live in RI mentioned to us the actor your loved one. My Joe and I researched everything about him to see if we were related. We found that Joe wasn't but We were blown away. How often does that happen not being related with the same name. This is a unique coincidence.
Again I am so sorry for your loss and I send you all my love and prayers.
God bless...... Shirley Siravo