Susan M. (Servidio) Delmonte
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Susan M. (Servidio) Delmonte, 82, beloved wife for 62 years of Charles J. Delmonte, of Maggio Avenue, Westerly, passed away at The Westerly Hospital on Saturday, Aug. 25, 2012.
Born in Westerly, she was the daughter of the late Pasquale and Immaculata Servidio.
Susan was a communicant of Immaculate Conception Church and a member of the 3rd Order of Mary. She especially enjoyed spending time and traveling with her family.
In addition to her husband, she leaves a son, Chuck Delmonte, and daughters, Brenda Smyth and her husband, Bill, and Connie Birkbeck and her fiancé, Steve, all of Westerly. Sue is also survived by her eight grandchildren, Jessica, Jackie and Kati Smyth; Kristen, Sophia, Phoebe and Charlie Delmonte; Lauren Birkbeck; and one great-grandchild, Tyson Thrash. In addition, she leaves behind her sister, Elizabeth Simons, of Virginia Beach, Va., and two sisters-in-law Sadie and Evelyn Servidio. Susan was predeceased by her six brothers, Sam, Al, Ben, Frank, Carl and Joe Servidio, and two sisters, Minnie DePlacido and Eleanor O'Donnell.
Visiting hours will be held Wednesday from 4 to 7 p.m. at Gaffney Dolan Funeral Home, 59 Spruce St., Westerly. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in Immaculate Conception Church, 111 High St., Westerly, on Thursday at 10 a.m. There will be no procession from the funeral home. Burial will follow in St. Sebastian Cemetery, Westerly.
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Published in The Westerly Sun from Aug. 28 to Aug. 29, 2012.
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September 7, 2012
TO: Grandpa, Mom, Uncle Chuck, and Aunt Connie,

As her oldest grandchild and mother of her only born great-grandchild I'd like to tell you all the truth...

She didn't take me back to school the day I got my braces off,(back when I was in 7th grade and 12 years old) instead she took me on a shopping spree.

Was she not the hippest and beautiful at that!!!! ALWAYS in style!!! Giving us tips on how to stay that way!!!!
Grandma I miss you!!! RIP in Heaven!

I will remember you forever!!!
Jessica Smyth
September 5, 2012
Dear Mr. Delmonte, Brenda, Connie and Families,
I was so sorry to learn of your loss. Reading through some of the comments in the guest book, I could not help but think of what an extraordinary person your wife/mom was. What joy she brought to all whose lives she touched. And what a legacy for your children and grandchildren. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Carolyn Longolucco
September 2, 2012
Dear Connie, Brenda and all the Del Montes,
Sorry this is a little late but I just saw this today. I met your mom and dad by chance one day a few years back and she was very warm and friendly (so was your dad for that matter!) When we found out we had a connection it made the evening that much nicer. So sorry for your loss. Take care of each other... especially your Dad. My deepest sympathies are with you all.
Ann Smith
August 31, 2012
charlie, I'm sorry for your loss,Susan was a very kind person,it was alway's a pleasure to have known her,I wish I got to know her other then her comming into the store to shop.may God Bless you and your family at this sad time. Debbie B. ( formally of Shaw's)
Debbie Burdick
August 30, 2012
Charlie,Chuck & Family,

Sorry to hear about your recent loss, my thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.
Thomas Morrone
August 30, 2012
Dear Connie, Lauren and all of the Delmonte family,

May God hold you close at this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

With Love,
Pat Leonard
Pat Leonard
August 29, 2012
Brenda and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Believe in heavenly gain.
The hand of Our Lord was waiting to welcome her home.
She will always smile down upon you.

Francine Boyd
Francine Boyd
August 29, 2012
Charlie & family,
So sorry for your loss, our prayers and thought are with you all.
Larry & Judy(Cozzolino)Bridges,Palm Bay, Fl.
August 29, 2012
Nate, so sorry to hear about your aunt. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. The Delaney's
August 29, 2012
Connie & Lauren-We are sadden by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Rick & Patty Cole
August 29, 2012
Chuck and Family,
There is worse time than the loss of a mother. I know what you are going thru in losing what is the single most important compass in your life. Your mom touched so many people's lives, and I know all were enriched by it. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Katie Raithel Falls
August 29, 2012
So sorry about your mother. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ann Delicato
August 29, 2012
Connie,Lauren and Family. We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you all.
Ed and Kim James
August 29, 2012
Chuck and Family,
I am sorry to read of your Mom's passing. My deepest condolences and Prayers for you at this time.
May the arms of CHRIST always be around you and yours.
Stephen Laudone
August 28, 2012
Dear Connie-my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Memories of your Mom will keep her close to you always.
Kathy Santos
August 28, 2012
My Aunt' Sues' smile-
If you knew my aunt then you knew my aunts smile.
Some of us were lucky enough to see a lot of them.

Some of her smiles included an infectious giggle. Especial when she heard some of our not so practical family jokes.
Some with a little bit of a warning letting us know she found it humorous but perhaps not funny or proper enough to repeat. Whatever the case it was always a loving honest smile that made us feel special.

Along with her talent for making us feel special were the best ice cream soda's ever! Fancy glasses, straws, and cherries, like her love she left nothing out. She also made the best breakfasts ever. I never understood why the waiter at a restaurant would look at me funny when I ordered “auntie sues eggs”

She stilled smiled after cooking delicious meals, packing the car ,spraying us with mosquito spray as we all went off on our Sunday picnics to “NOWHERE”!

She had a contagious smile.
When I got older I always stopped over at Christmas. She would make me a high ball so strong my smile lasted well into the New Year!

Later her loving smile was there not only for me but for my children and grandchildren.

I will always smile when I think of her.
Gloria Barber
August 28, 2012
Dear Charlie, Brenda, Connie & Chuck,

Sorry for you loss.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May your memories bring you comfort.

Thinking of you all.

Love John and Rita Penzo
August 28, 2012
To Chuck and the Delmonte Family - Please accept my condolences for the loss of your mother.
Pat Ryan
August 28, 2012
Connie and family,

I am so sorry for you loss. Have strength during this difficult time and know that your mom is at peace.

Lori Siciliano
August 28, 2012
Brenda & Family, I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers and with all of you. Sheree
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