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Paul Grimes Obituary
He was born in Kingston, on June 5, 1947, a son of Mildred Harrison Grimes of Wilkes-Barre and the late Joseph Grimes. He graduated from Meyers High School in 1965.
Following his dream of becoming a disc jockey, Paul worked throughout the valley at various radio stations, beginning in the early 1960s and was known as “The Fat Cat of Record Land,” which he was tagged in his early days at WPTS Radio.
He also spent time at radio stations WBAX, WMJW, WBRX and Magic 93 to name a few. His radio days lasted until just last year when he and his wife, the former Diane Patrick, co-hosted/volunteered a weekly live call-in radio show called “The Pet Show” at LCCC.
Caring very much for the environment, he had taken on the position of zoning officer for various municipalities throughout the area in the mid to late nineties and served as a volunteer Deputy Waterways Conservation Officer with the Pennsylvania Fish and Boat Commission for almost 14 years.
Paul was an avid golfer and was a member of the PGA. He proudly served his country as a major in the U.S. Marine Corps.
He was a 32nd degree F&AM Keystone Consistory and was a member of the U.S. Coast Guard Auxiliary Flotilla 5-15.
Surviving, in addition to his mother and his wife of 37 years, are a brother, Thomas; nieces, nephews; and numerous cousins.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Monday at 11 a.m. from the Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church, Lake Silkworth, with the Rev. Joseph Pisaneschi officiating. Friends and family may call at the church, from 10:15 a.m. to the time of the Mass at 11 a.m. Interment will be in Chapel Lawn Memorial Park, Dallas.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be given to his wife to help with past medical and final expenses.
His wife and mother extend a heartfelt “thank you” to the Hampton House staff, nurses and aides who helped keep Paul as comfortable and pain free as possible with a true compassion for his quality of life during his final days.
Arrangements are by the Curtis L. Swanson Funeral Home Inc., corner of routes 29 & 118, Pikes Creek.
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Memories and Condolences
for Paul Grimes
Debbie Weksner
May 14, 2010
Dear Paul,
It's so hard to believe that you have been gone from us for a year already. I still expect to see you sitting in your chair and hear "Hi Debs".
Love keeps memories alive Paul, you will never be forgotten.
Love always,
"Debs"
PS Please give my love to Mom and Dad
Diane
May 14, 2010
My Dear Paul,
This morning brought memories of one year ago today, when you were called home without ever coming home to us.
You are missed more than you know. We all love and miss you honey.
Barry Battista
April 26, 2010
Dear Diane,
Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Paul, I can tell he was a great person who will be greatly missed by his friends and family. I'm sure he is looking down on you with a smiling face knowing how much he was loved.
Joan Melberger
April 26, 2010
Paul,
This is very hard for me to do. You can tell--it has taken me a long time. I can close my eyes and see you and hear you being goofy, but I cannot seem to summon you back here. I suppose the message is that you are waiting for all of US. I cannot believe that Diane sent her Dad up this morning; but I suspect you two are back slapping and sharing your jokes. IF ONLY--as Diane said--Al Gore needed to add another element to his wonderful Internet....we'd be able to handle all this a little bit if at least we could CALL you every day. Can YOU work on that for us, please?
Well, here's a hug and a kiss. We believe you are well and we miss you so much. Love, Joanie
Terri Elmy
April 25, 2010
I miss Paul's smiling face! He always made me laugh. Paul and Diane always made my night when they would come to the "Manor". Always smiling, laughing, and in a good mood. Those were good days that I will always treasure. So glad he was a part of my life.
Diane
November 14, 2009
Today marks Six months that you are gone. You are missed so much, life isn't the same without you - your smiles - your jokes - your complaining (never thought I would miss that part)..
I hope my mom is taking good care of you!!!
Loving you now and forever!
Joan Roginski
November 10, 2009
Dear Diane,
I just came upon the guest book and would like you to know how sorry I was that you lost Paul. We can pray and ask God to help, but his ways are not our ways. He saw that Paul was suffering and needed his help.
I know it is hard for you to be without Paul but God will take care of you. You also have us when ever you need us you just have to give us a call.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and will always be with you. All our love.
Joan and Frank
Carol Shilling
August 15, 2009
Dearest Diane,
I don't deal with death very well - human or animal - especially when it is someone younger than I. It has taken me this long to compose my thoughts and sign this guest book.
You are an incredible person and I always enjoyed Paul dearly. My heart went out to him for all he endured in his final months. Just didn't seem fair.
But he is at peace now and no longer suffering - and in a much better place.
Please know that if there is ever anything I can do for you, just call and I'll be there.
As much as I don't like rhyming poetry, this is something I found years ago and find it comforting. Hope you will, too:
I've been blessed with many things,
the best of all is YOU,
a friend unlike all others
with a love so strong and true.
As the days go slowly by,
I'll watch you from above,
guiding with a gentle hand
and never-ending love.
When you need to feel me near,
look to the starry sky . . .
For the twinkle that is brightest
is the love within my eyes.
Much love and peace to you, my dear friend . . .
Jenny Collins
June 9, 2009
Dearest Diane and Mrs. Grimes -
I met Paul through my Aunt Margie many years ago. He fought many a fight on our behalf with cell phones, but always leaving me with a smile from one of his goofy jokes. Together, Paul and Diane shared their beautiful lake with our children and many good times "feeding the ducks". I am so sorry for your loss, he was a kind and thoughtful man.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal." ~From a headstone in Ireland
Liliana and Ed Davies
June 6, 2009
My dear Paul:
I have been sitting in front of your Guest book a hundred times. I wanted to wish you a happy birthday yesterday. I have read all the condolences and memories and I was wondering: what are these people talking about, our Paul?? I just could not think that you were not with us anymore. I have so many memories with you and Diane that it would take more than one guest book. I remember the day the three of us met at the airport for the first time after almost 40 years, I cannot take that image from my mind. My dear friend, I want to thank you and Diane for your friendship, for being for me when I needed you guys, and over all I want to than God for sending me as an exchange student to Meyers and had the priviledge of meeting you, and after 40 years be married to the love of my life.
I hope you had a happy birthday!! with your mother in law; my God, that is being lucky??
You will always be in my heart with that big smile!!
Love
Lil (sorry) Liliana and Ed
Joseph F. Lee
June 6, 2009
Diane-I just came back from Missouri and expect to see you at church on Sunday, our usual meeting place and one where you, Paul and my family regularly saw each other. Our deepest sympathies go out to you and yours. It will be lonlier
at mass without Paul and Elynor but that will be where we will get our strength to go on with them in our hearts and minds. Joe & The Lee family
Adam, Denise & Daniel Stefanowicz
June 5, 2009
Dear Diane and Mrs. Grimes,
We just wanted to write and say that we think of "Mr. Paul" often and miss him very much, especially his buddy, Daniel. Paul made a lot of people happy by being a friend. We remember going to his 60th birthday party and how much fun we all had. We know it is hard for you not to be with Paul this year on his birthday but we hope you take comfort in knowing that he is spending it with the Lord. Draw strenghth from the wonderful memories that you have of him and please know that your friends will always be here to help and support you. We know that someday we will all be together again, and what a party we will have !!!!!!!!! May God Bless You. Love, Adam, Denise, & Daniel
Debbie, David & Dana Weksner
June 5, 2009
Dear Paul/Uncle Paul,
All suffering is gone. Now you are at peace with Our Lord and Loved Ones who have also passed. We want to say "Happy Bithday" and how very much you are Loved and missed.
Love,
Debbie, David & Dana
P.S. Give Mom/Nonna a big birthday kiss from all of us.
Diane
June 5, 2009
My Dear Husband,
Today, June 5th, is your birthday.
It's sad that I can't give you your gifts in person, so please take all the thoughts, prayers, love and well wishes from me and everyone else, to heart. Happy Birthday Honey!
Also, please tell my Mom Happy Birthday tomorrow on her day? I know you have 'contacts'!
We miss you both so very much and there are a lot of sleepless nights since you left us.
We love you! We miss you!
It's just not the same without your cracking jokes, the 'oldies' just sit collecting dust because it is too painful to listen to all our old songs - I hope you know how much you mean to everyone.
Joe and Cathy Wenzel
June 3, 2009
Dee and Mrs. Grimes - We were saddened by Paul's passing, however it is a blessing that he will suffer no more. I met Paul shortly after transferring to the NE region in the early 90's. He was quite a pistol! On several occasions he had me on a radio talk show and I always enjoyed those times. He was always eager to help in a time of need and wasn't shy about introducing people or steering in the right direction. He was one of a few folks that contacted me when I was going through a rough patch and for that I'll never forget him. Ill also never forget his big birthday bash at the Alden Manor - what a hoot! We're thankful that we got to know Paul Grimes and we will miss him too.
Ed & Mary Anne Gallew
June 2, 2009
Diane, we are so sorry for your loss. May these writings bring you peace and smiles.
Bob and Linda Buynak
May 29, 2009
May 29, 2009
Dear Diane and Mrs. Grimes,
Paul was my friend starting when we were teenagers. Always kept me laughing. He even had me do skits on his radio show with him. Such fun. I remember when he had all the strutters come to the station, and gave us air-time to talk about our Meyer's experiences. He was one of a kind. We reconnected four years ago, and we picked up where we left off. Then I had the pleasure of becoming friends with you Diane. Bob and I will miss Paul's big smile. Now he is at peace. Looking down, and smiling again watching his loved ones. We love you Paul, and Bob and I will miss you. You were truly a good friend.
Nikki Walton Stone
May 29, 2009
Diane,
Paul was my second boss in radio at WBRX. My mother just told me of his passing today. I hadn't heard, otherwise I would have paid my last respects. Last I saw Paul is when we worked at Citadel together...over six years ago. I had heard your radio show on SFX, and had no idea about his illness. I fondly remember his laugh and smile. My condolences to you Diane and Mrs. Grimes. May God Bless you and your family.
Jeffery Stewart
May 26, 2009
Diane and Paul
It started with a fire on the Hwy. 1998 and then we had a fire 1/1999. Since, we had many good times. We will miss Paul very much. You and Paul where always there to help out. ie. (making delievers,bartending,anything)
Thank you
Jeff and the staff from The Alden Manor
Joe Rasimas
May 26, 2009
Dear Diane and Mrs. Grimes,
I am so sorry for your loss. The pain of losing a spouse is terrible; the pain of losing a child is unimaginable. My heart goes out to both of you as well as the rest of your family.
And to you Ole Buddy, Paul, may you find the heavenly reward you so richly deserve. The pain and suffering of this temporary life are over for you and you now get to wait for the rest of us in a much better place.
I'll remember the great, funny kid from elementary and high school for a long time. You'll be missed Ole Buddy.
Bob Yonker
May 26, 2009
Dear Diane and Mrs. Grimes,
I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers have been with you for months and continue to be.
Paul was one-of-a-kind, but I don't need to tell you that. I first met Paul at Moon Lake Park. He was talking to May Livesey and was in his fish warden mode. I don't recall the exact drink that he mentioned, but he told me that I looked like hell and that I could use one. That was my first encounter with Paul Grimes. Little did I know that I would soon be working closely with him and seeing him in action. I never knew anyone who had as many acqaintances and friends as Paul and he eagerly introduced them all to me. He was never afraid to introduce himself to new people. He tried to instill that quality in me, but I was a stubborn student. The few years that we were able to work together were amazing. So many things happened, both good and bad. But, Paul made even the bad more bearable. Paul was instrumental in several life-changing decisions in my life. I will always be thankful for his insight and humor.
I was so glad that I was able to see him when we were back in PA a couple of years ago. I was planning on visiting him this July when I came home again. It was not meant to be, but I know that he is watching and knows that I am thinking of him. I smiled when I was thinking of him the other day and I told him, "Now you finally know what New Mexico looks like and you can see why I like it." I really felt his presence that day. I think he is making his way around to all of his friends. That in itself could fill all of his time in heaven. I missed him when I moved to New Mexico, and I am saddened that I will not see his again in this life. He was a good friend to me and I will never forget him.
Diane, you take care of yourself now. Go ahead and cry, get angry at him, scream at him. He can take it. Just know that he is at your side always, loving you, and probably cracking one of his jokes.
Vern & Terri Perry
May 26, 2009
Diane, My deepest sympathy for the loss of Paul. I only met Paul once or twice, but I know your missing him greatly. You may find that days are long and empty but rest assured that you are in our thoughts and prayers, and never more than a phone call away. Like the "helping hands" you gave to me not so long ago, mine are here for you.
Rich
May 26, 2009
Dear Diane,
I have known you about 10 years since I was transfered to the North East Region. Thinking back I don't believe I ever actually met Paul? But I do know how much you cared about him in the times we talked, he was a lucky guy to have a devoted wife as you are. It would have been even more difficult for him had you not been there.
May 25, 2009
Diane and Mrs. Grimes I am so sorry for your loss. You know what good friends we were. Paul always kept me laughing and I miss him. I will be praying for the family.
Pat (Fahey) Lawson Class of "65"
Lorena
May 25, 2009
Dear Diane,
Upon the news of Paul's death, I started searching in an old box something about you & Paul I was sure I had: your marriage pictures.
Although I was only 11 at the time, I remember that the dress you wore was bought here in Italy, although I'm not sure if it was your late mum choice or Nonna's.
It was supposed to be a warm wedding dress because you and Paul were marrying in October, so the choice was made carefully.
I clearly remember looking at this beautiful dress, neatly folded in its box that soon was to reach you, and to my surprise it had fur on it, instead of lace as wedding dresses usually have.
I also have fond memories of my overnight stays at your house, back in 1974. My English was so poor that I barely understood what Paul was trying to tell me, and I also remember how he liked to dine with a glass of lemonade next to his plate. You also led a lively social life and I met many nice people at your place.
I can't believe that the man of your life now has left you a widow, because no husband or wife should ever be on his/her own after a long life together.
Dear cousin Paul, may you rest in peace.
Dear cousin Diane, now it's your turn to be strong and brave. There will be times when you feel lost, times when you think you can't carry on. When you do, turn to these pages and remember that you are not griving alone.
I send my deepest heartfelt symphaties to Mrs Mildred, too.
A big hug from
Cousin Lorena
Gary Parick
May 25, 2009
Hey Brother, always thinking of you. Make sure you listen to Flausti. It always made me feel good whenever I saw you and you would call me brother.
Your Brother-In Law Gary
THE GOOD OLD DAYS-WPTS 1970
May 23, 2009
Betsy Searfoss
May 22, 2009
Diane, what can I say...I am glad I was able to know Paul's wit, even for a short while! He will be missed.
Your Surprise 60th Birthday Party! 6/5/07
May 21, 2009
Bonnie
May 18, 2009
Paul will be missed by many and our Class of '65 won't be the same without him. He was one who made us laugh and remember the good times. I am sorry he left us so soon. I will always think of him when I hear the "oldies".
Rick Ostopowicz
May 18, 2009
I worked with Paul at Magic 93, and he was a great person to know. May he rest in peace.
Peter Maher
May 18, 2009
Diane, my deep sympathies go out to you for this loss of a larger than life personna that was Paul. Paul was more than a classmate to me, as my father ( Francis Maher ) was Paul's godfather, so in many ways he was "family". I always enjoyed talking with Paul whenever I was back in W-B to visit my parents in the 70's & 80's. Unfortunately, my career has taken me far South, so getting back to W-B hasn't happened for 20 years. So it was great that I was able to get your phone number last year, and get caught up and to make your acquaintance. Even now,I'm sure Paul's telling a joke or a story to my Dad, just as he would all those years at Pat Prior's barber shop, or at the Times-Leader when he would see my Dad. The world has lost a "really good and generous person"...he will be missed. God Bless you Diane.
Mrs. John Margis
May 18, 2009
My memories of an eager to learn young gentleman at WBAX radio, he would hang around the station on Saturday nights and my late husband was only too eager to train such a talent in the DJ field.
God bless and may we hear your beautiful voice forever.
Don Berman class of '65
May 17, 2009
Diane,
Sincere sympathy on the loss of Paul. I feel so bad.....I shared a passion for broadcasting as Paul did, and I remember him on WBAX and WPTS. I know you both played a huge role in our very successful Meyers 40th reunion, and I was pleased to be there and share the mike with Paul. My thoughts and prayers are with you, as heaven's broadcast industry has now been duly enriched by one of the great ones...
Clem
May 17, 2009
Now that your long struggle has ended may you have the peace you so rightly deserve. I will always remember you as an old friend and zany fun-loving classmate.
Angela Giugliano
May 17, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about Paul. He will truly be missed. You two have always been like the fun aunt and uncle we were always excited to visit. Not to mention for as long as I can remember you guys have always been there for me whenever I needed you to make me laugh, and you always inspired me to appreciate all animals. =) I have so many great childhood memories of Paul. I remember when I was a little kid and mom made me call into the radio station when Paul was working on the air, and after he talked to me for a little while and played a song for me I felt like a super star! Also, every time we'd come to visit, I'd always try to learn a new joke to tell, because I knew Paul would definitely have a new doozy to tell (alot of which I still keep in my repertoire to this day). I really wish I had the chance to visit more, and I am so sorry that I hadn't done so within the last couple of years. I'll always keep all the fond memories close to my heart, and I wish you all the best. If there's anything you need please don't hesitate to call me.
Belle Giugliano
May 17, 2009
Diane,
I"m so sorry for your. We will miss Paul very much. Love you my prayers are with you.
Sandy Sutton
May 17, 2009
Dear Diane and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Paul. He was one of a kind with the same sense of humor! I had known and worked with Paul many years and he had helped me get my FCC license and I had worked with him at WPTS and during the 60's and 70's.I had known him in high school and he always had everyone laughing with his jokes or pranks! He will be missed.
Keep those oldies turning "Tall Paul!"
Take care Diane!
Sandy Broody Sutton
LINDA RUSHTON
May 17, 2009
I was very sad to hear of the death of Paul. We knew each oher for over 40 years. He was a great person. I will always remember him in a good way
Trish
May 17, 2009
Diane:
I am so sorry for your loss. I know Paul had been suffering for a very long time, but he will suffer no more.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
ED SAYLOR
May 16, 2009
I was very sorry to learn about the death of Paul. He was a great guy and an unforgetable character when we were growing up. We grew up together as kids in elementary school, and I lived on Maffet Street around the corner from his house. My sister, who lives in W-B told me about Paul's obituary. I am very sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Ed Saylor
Dana Weksner
May 16, 2009
Uncle Paul,
I love you so much and I miss you. I loved your jokes and the funny memories we shared together. You were a wonderful uncle. Make sure to say "Hi" to everyone up there for me, ok?
I love you so much,
Dana
Dana Weksner
May 16, 2009
Aunt Diane,
I'm so sorry this happened. My sympathies go out to you and Mildred. I'm so sorry for your loss. I love you so much. I miss and love you Uncle Paul.
Love,
Dana
Debbie Weksner
May 16, 2009
My Dear Brother-In Law Paul,
You will truly be missed by all of us who love you. I Pray that soon the memories of your suffering will be replaced by those of how you made us all laugh. Your ability to tell a joke, a story, a tall tale or carry out a gag were what endeared you to everyone whose path you crossed. You made me, a 12 year old little sister, feel welcomed and important rather then a pest hanging around. I will always remember and cherish playing 500 rummy to 1,000 with a double deck of cards at the kitchen table when you and Diane were dating.
Love,
Debbie
Ron Reino
May 16, 2009
Paul will be missed on WSFX-FM (LCCC). We appreciated his efforts with Diane to use the airwaves for positive community broadcasting.
He was a gentleman and a great communicator for both animals and people.
Ron Reino, WSFX Supervisor
Diane
May 16, 2009
Pauly, It's been a long haul, you suffered enough, we've been through so much more than most people but I am so relieved knowing you are finally at peace.
Don't give my mother a hard time, ok? When she says eat- You eat! Enjoy your time with Dad and Grandma's chicken pot pie. Play some oldies and keep them all entertained.
We all love you and miss you!
Remember our song from the 70's..."Thank you and Good Night"
Love ya, Tiger
Art Harrison
May 16, 2009
Thomasine and I along with all of our children send our deepest heartfelt sympathies to Diane and Aunt Mildred. I will never forget Paul's very early interest in radio when he would take me to the 3rd floor of their home to show me his HAM radio set up. His love for broadcasting grew from that and I was so proud back in those days to brag to my friends about my cousin Paul the DJ. Thanks for all the years you have been there for your mother and my aunt. May you now rest in peace
Your cousin
Art Harrison
Granger,IN
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