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Chip Cox
June 24, 2018
RIP, old friend. Wish we had had more time together after college. A nice guy with a great career and family. But gone too soon.
February 4, 2018
Dear Mary and Family,
Loving thoughts and prayers for you all at this time. Cherish the memories of your loving husband and father.
Christine Schade
February 4, 2018
David was a brilliant and funny colleague and mentor when we worked together on education policy at the Rockefeller Institute, and I am grateful that he later reached out to connect me with the Public Policy Institute. I frequently quote his wise (and hilarious) words: Most problems are caused by solutions. He will be sadly missed.
Kathy Curran
February 3, 2018
Kathleen (and Family), We are so sad to learn of the passing of your Dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, The Curran Family
February 1, 2018
DFS ...
devoted family man,
brilliant writer and sage pundit,
talented photographer and advocate for nature,
shining moral compass for the state,
revered colleague and dear friend.
Your passage comes way too soon.
In humble appreciation for all you've done
for all of us,
Cynthia DeMichele
January 31, 2018
Mary,I'm so sorry to hear about David. He was a brilliant and unforgettable colleague. And I'm very sorry for your loss. Peg Breen
Alison Vitacolonna
January 31, 2018
Mary, Kathleen, Patrick and Matthew,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Much love to all of you.
Karen Falk
January 31, 2018
My deepest sympathy to Mary, Kathleen, Patrick and Matthew. My prayers are with you all.
Delmar Dolfin Board of Directors and Coaches
January 30, 2018
Our Delmar Dolfin family is saddened by the news of David's passing and we wish to extend our most heartfelt condolences to the Shaffer family.
Doug Gross
January 30, 2018
Mary, Kathleen, Patrick and Matt,
I was shocked to hear of Dave's passing.He had a huge impact on the Dolfins and on my time when he was our president. Please know he is in our thoughts and prayers. I'm sorry that I will miss his memorial because of, what else, the February Freeze.
Doug Gross
MIKE Hendricks
January 29, 2018
Mary and family. I am so so sorry to hear the news that David has passed away. He was truly a brilliant and good man. It was a privilege to know him.
Barbara Diamant
January 29, 2018
Dear Mary,
My heart goes out to you on the loss of your dear husband, David. I hold you in my heart and hope for solace for you and your family. May you find comfort in the love you all share. In deepest sympathy, Barbara Diamant
Dick Chady
January 29, 2018
Dear Mary and family:
I am so sorry for your loss. David was a gifted communicator and loving family man who made the world a much better place. He enriched us all. Best wishes.
January 29, 2018
Mary - Josh and I weep for you. A kind and gentle person, a thoughtful person, a curious person - we are too too sorry
George Frangos
January 29, 2018
I am saddened and shocked to learn of David's death. I remember him as a bright and friendly presence. My sympathy to dear Mary and her family.
Karen LaJuene
January 29, 2018
It was an honor working with David at The Business Council for so many years. Rest in Peace my friend. Condolences to the family.
Lisa and Joe Tornai
January 29, 2018
Dear Mary and Family, I had the privilege of working with David for over 10 years at The Business Council. His intellect and sharp wit were beyond compare. He truly was the embodiment of the quote, the pen is mightier than the sword. We are sorry for your loss, but take comfort in the knowledge that he made a difference in so many lives.
nancy ploeger
January 29, 2018
Dear Shafer Family,
I am so sorry about David's passing. We all in the chamber world, thought very highly of him. He also led our annual hikes in the Adirondacks every year at the BC Annual Meeting at the Sagamore. He is loved by us all.
It is very hard losing our loved ones no matter how or when. When I lost my mother, I received this poem and I hope you find it of comfort to you. I know I did and believe this today:
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there - I do not sleep.
I am the thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints in snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
As you awake with morning's hush
I am the swift-up-flinging rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there - I did not die.
I will always picture him leading us through the beautiful, peaceful Adirondack woods and am sure he is walking the trails every day now.
Nancy Ploeger
(formerly Pres. Manhattan Chamber of Commerce)
Annie Beigel
January 29, 2018
Oh Mary, I am sorry for your loss. I only met David a few times, he was such a kind man. My prayers are with you and your family. Annie
January 28, 2018
May God grant you comfort and strength during this difficult time. My deepest sympathy to the Shaffer family.
J F
January 28, 2018
I am so sorry for your loss. May you be comforted by dear friends and knowing Our Heavenly Father truly cares for your family. 1 Pet 5:6,7
Karin Kasparian
January 28, 2018
Mary and family,
I am so extremely sorry... What a remarkable man.
Words fail me - I am just so sorry.
Karin
Jacqueline Baird
January 28, 2018
...Mary And Family...My Thoughts And My Prayers Are With You.
Matthew Cox
January 28, 2018
I will miss you, Dave. You made a lasting impression on me when I was a young reporter. Mary, I am so sorry for your loss.
Ray San Fratello
January 28, 2018
Mary and family - I was shocked and saddened to hear of David's passing. He was truly a great man - in his family life, professionally, and as a friend to so many. I learned much from him in my NY days involvement with the Business Council. He was really a NY State treasure whose legacy will live on.
Peace and blessings on him and your family.
Mick Fleming
January 28, 2018
David was my mentor for 35 years. He took a chance hiring me and coaching me at BCNY and that changed my life. Long after I left Albany, he helped me with my toughest decisions (what would David do?) and most important writing projects (don't bury the lead!). Neighbor, leader, friend whether near or far.
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