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Robert Merges Obituary

Merges, Robert J. DELMAR Robert J. Merges, 79, entered eternal life on Wednesday, November 4, 2020. Born in Albany, Bob was the son of Frank J. and Ann Clark Merges. Bob was the third of five sons in Frank and Ann's family. He shared many fond memories of growing up with his brothers near Hackett Boulevard in Albany, and their adventures in the neighborhood. These early adventures led to a lifelong interest in science and the natural world. After meeting his dear wife, JoAnn Lillibridge, Bob graduated from Siena College and Texas A&M and went on to teach science for 35 years. He was very active in the North Colonie Teachers Association during his 31 years at Shaker Junior High School. Later in his career he held a seasonal, scientific testing position for N.Y.S. D.O.T. After retiring, Bob volunteered with several local service organizations, including the Sister Maureen Joyce Center Food Pantry and Bethlehem Seniors Transportation. Bob enjoyed photography throughout his life, particularly during his many visits to the National Parks with JoAnn. He also took up woodworking and made treasured gifts for family members. He was the beloved husband of 55 years of JoAnn Lillibridge Merges; dear father of Kevin Merges (Amy), Mary Ann Merges, Daniel Merges, and Elizabeth Christine Malone; cherished grandfather of Hannah and David Merges, Ruth and Malachy Snow; brother of Bruce Merges (Barbara), Richard Merges (Barbara), Paul Merges (late Barbara) and Frank Merges (Renee); many nieces, nephews, cousins and former students survive. Relatives and friends are invited to visit with Bob's family on Tuesday, November 10, from 8:30 to 10 a.m. at the McVeigh Funeral Home, 208 North Allen St., Albany. Please only enter the funeral home from the rear parking lot doorway; masks and social distancing are required; and 40 visitors at a time will be allowed in the funeral home. Funeral services will follow the visitation on Tuesday at 10:30 a.m. in the Blessed Sacrament Church, 607 Central Ave. (Father John Bradley Way), Albany, where his memorial funeral Mass will be celebrated. Please only enter the church from the Hunter Avenue parking lot; masks and social distancing are required; 150 visitors at a time will be allowed in the church. Those wishing to remember Bob in a special way may send a contribution to either the Sister Maureen Joyce Center Food Pantry, Capital City Rescue Mission, Friends of Five Rivers Environmental Education Center, or the charity of your choice. To leave a message for the family, please visit www.McveighFuneralHome.com



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Published by Albany Times Union from Nov. 8 to Nov. 9, 2020.

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Paul Gecewicz

November 11, 2020

JoAnn and family,
Deepest condolences from the Gecewicz family. Bob was a unique individual; an independent, giving, intelligent man of integrity. We feel lucky to have known him over these many years as both a neighbor and a friend. His life is an example we all would be well off to follow; and who knew Bob would agree that he left a positive impact on our world.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.
Nancy, Paul, and family

Joe Stenard

November 10, 2020

Bob was always a gentleman. He and JoAnn would share their stories of the national parks while we would volunteer together at Blessed Sacrament. We sure had some good laughs. It came as a shock to hear of his loss and we pray for you and share your sorrow. We lost a really great guy and we will miss him.

Ray Doring

November 9, 2020

Jodi
I am sorry for you and your family at the loss of Bob. Your happiness was evident to all and envied by many. You all are in my prayers.

Debby Falzano

November 8, 2020

JoAnn, my sister Sharon Waters and I , Debby Horigan Falzano have fond memories of Bob & you! We want to give you a virtual hug and convey our deepest condolences. Bob was my science teacher back in St Teresa’s and the students loved him! Know that we are thinking of you and your family. We’re so sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Debby & Sharon

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Memorial Events
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Nov

10

Visitation

8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m.

McVeigh Funeral Home

208 North Allen Street, Albany, NY 12206

Nov

10

Funeral service

10:30 a.m.

Blessed Sacrament Church

607 Central Ave., Albany, NY

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208 North Allen Street, Albany, NY 12206

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