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September 26, 2009
HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN RAY
Dan Wheeler
April 10, 2009
David, i just heard about your Dad and want to tell you how sorry i am to hear of his passing . Your Dad as everyone knows was one great man my favorite memories are when he used to stop by the shop just to shoot the breeze talk fishing or just to bust my chops!I am sorry that i just heard or I would have been there . If you need anything you have my number . I will call you in a few days . Again im gonna miss him as im sure everyone will.
talk to you soon
Danny Wheeler
Lisa Harder
March 27, 2009
David, I am sorry I did not hear about your fathers passing until today, I am so very sorry for you and your family, but I know Ray,Jr and Pat were there at Heavans gate with open arms to greet him. God Bless you and your family. Lisa Harder
Meggy Kerpens
March 23, 2009
To the Family of Mr. Fish;
May he rest in peace in the reunion of his other beloved ones. He was a funny gentleman and will be missed here at Hyatt Regency Aruba as well.
Mal Langley
February 25, 2009
Margaret & David, Jim and I were so sorry to read about your Dad. We have known your parents for over 30 years and we remember every summer as your Dad would back the trailer in the yard and your Mom would be cleaning an already clean cottage at the Cape. We would sit at the beach all day talking about our children and then our grandchildren. I do miss my daily talks with your Mom. Ray was a special person with a wonderful sense of humor and love for his family and friends. Jim and I want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and we love you both. Mal
Nancy Fratianni
February 24, 2009
David and Margaret and family:
I just heard of your Dad's passing. I loved the time when you lived next door to us. Your parents were the best and I will never forget them.
They were just very special people who welcomed us as their new neighbors...I remember your mom inviting me in for coffee and your dad leaning on the fence making sure all was well with me and the kids.
I remember you two babysitting my kids who are now grown and I wonder where the time went.
Well, a person has lived a good life if they leave behind many people who miss them and love them and whose lives they've touched in so many ways, and Ray certainly did that.
God bless you all.
Jane Quinlan
February 23, 2009
Laura, Scott, Olivia and Clint and all members of the Fish family, we just heard about your Dad's passing and are so very sorry. I know that the pain is great and sometimes unbearable right now, in time I hope that the happy memories will make the painful times a little easier.
Love,
Jane, Rob, Sean, Cam and Robbie
Joey
February 22, 2009
Daddy, I miss you so much! We always had a good relationship, but it became so much more when we were able to work together. I will always treasure those times. If only they could have been longer. I was always so proud of being your son. I am even more proud of you now after watching you deal with death. I only hope I will be as strong as you were. My heart is broken and I feel all alone, but I know that I am not. You are watching over me and all your family just as you did before. You and Ray Jr. will finally be able to hug again since he passed.
Remember when you gave us rides in the REO, they were a kids dream. The ambulance rides were the best, to think this is my Dad.
You are at peace now and finally able to sleep. You used to say that, "I'll be able to sleep when I'm dead" now you can and don't feel bad. Things down here will get done because you taught us all how to get things done. Michele will remember coming home not sure if there would be anything left or not. Nicholas always watched out for Poppy's truck and I have never seen a child smile so big when he saw you coming. My face and heart would light up when I saw your face smile and light up at him. His memories may be hidden in his young age but I am very glad he had them all the same. Michele and I will do our best to keep those memories alive and strong in him.
I am glad that we had the time together to learn who we were and how much respect we had for each other. You taught me many things that I don't think you even tried to. The silly ways you would joke with the kids, always got them going. Nicholas always got so mad at you when you would call him David on purpose. Then he would give you a Fat hug and all would be good again.
Dad there are so many people with great memories of you and that is the best we can ask for. Your life will never be forgotten because of those fond memories. I look forward to being able to share them with people as long as I live. With much Love and great heartache Your son Joey.
Joe and Colleen Berrios
February 21, 2009
Dear fish family, My deepest sympathy goes out to your family. Your dad was a great man. I have so many stories of him down at foley/hoffman field in Albany working the sidelines giving me his advice on calling plays to him giving his time before or after a game flipping burgers in the concession stand. He will be truly missed.
WILLIAM L & MARLENE HAMMOND
February 20, 2009
TO THE FISH FAMILY,
WE SEND OUR SYMPATHY AND PRAYERS TO YOU. WE ENJOYED OUR TIME WITH RAY AND WILL ALSO MISS HIM. HE MADE US LAUGH AND WAS A GOOD FRIEND. RAY WAS ALSO WILLING TO SHARE HIS FLOWERS WITH US.
LOVE,
BILL AND MARLENE
Cheryl Gabel
February 20, 2009
David & Margaret, we were so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. He was such a wonderful man. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Cheryl, Judy, and Ed Gabel
Cindy Signer
February 20, 2009
Davey and Margaret, I just learned of your Dad's passing, I am so sorry. He was such a special man to me and my family. I have such great memories of our times at Westland Hills working the Concession Stand. He will be greatly missed. Cindy
Marilyn and Dan Wilson
February 20, 2009
Dear Margaret and David so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. He was a great man and person. He was a funny man and always got you to smile. I know you will miss him dearly. You now have another angel with a name, to watch over you all. In time the pain will ease but the memories will last forever.
Mary-Jane Forte
February 19, 2009
I had known Ray for quite a few years. I am very sorry to hear of his passing. He was a very special person. God Bless all of you. If there is ever anything I can do, please contact me.
Darlene LaQue
February 19, 2009
To The Family Of Ray Fish
Ray is the sweetest most gentle caring man anyone could have the pleasure of knowing, He would tell me stories that made me laugh til I cried, I will miss his jokes (I believe he is the only man that ever made me blush). He spoke so much about his family the love that he had and how he needed to get back home to get the grandchildren off the bus, how much he enjoyed that.
Ray rest in peace and enjoy your enteral life & Aruba
Love your Gaming Host
Darlene
Dan,Tina & Brad O'Brien
February 18, 2009
Margaret, David and Chris we are sorry for your loss. Our memory's of Ray will always be of his love of life and laughter. He was always quick with a story or phrase to lighten up any gathering we'll miss this most. Our prayers are with you.
Boo
February 18, 2009
Margaret and MacKenzie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May it bring you comfort knowing that your dad/poppy is watching over you from above.
lulu
February 18, 2009
daddy,
I saw you for the last time today. it doesn’t seem possible. somehow i thought you would always be here with us. i am so lucky that i got to spend time with you the last few years, we needed to catch up. i just thought we would have more time. i will miss you every day. thank you for everything you did for me and everyone else that ever had the privilege to meet you. you did so many things for so many people. listening to father bradley today in church made me realize that you set a great example for all of us to follow. and we can all make a difference in this world. you taught me how easy it is to make someone smile if you just take the time. from the mailman to the waitress in the diner, you could brighten anyone's day. i will try to follow your path of kindness and generosity.
to my sisters and brothers, i love you all and can’t thank you enough for taking care of daddy. and now i hope we will continue to take care of each other.
to mommy, thank you for being his friend.
be happy
Claudia Birch
February 18, 2009
Dearest FISH Family & Loved ones:
Always remember how much he loved all of you, he will be forever in your hearts and you will be forever by his side.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, Love leaves memories that no one can steal.
Those we Loved don't go away they walk beside us everyday for love can not be forgotten.
For everyone who knew him was truely blessed to have known him.
Poppy truely touched so many peoples hearts and produced a lasting smile to remember him forever.
May you find comfort and strength in your precious memories for he shall never be forgotten.
With my Deepest Sympathy and Prayers.....
Lynn Yeager
February 18, 2009
Joe,Michelle and family-I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Alicia OBrien
February 18, 2009
Margaret, Chris and David, we're so sorry to hear about the passing of your dad...he is in so many of my family memories! All those family weddings and get togethers, he was the life of the party! I'm sure he battled until the end, that was his personality....stay strong, keep working and move ahead, he never seemed to slow down. Now he is sharing a laugh with your mom and my dad...he could always make us laugh, couldn't he?
Alicia and George
Shawn and Pam O'Brien
February 18, 2009
David, Chrissy and Margaret,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. We only found out a few minutes ago. Had we known, we would have been by your sides. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Kim and Ashley Sprague
February 18, 2009
Caitlyn and family,
We were very sorry to hear about the loss of your grandfather. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Kim, Ashley (Sprague) and family
Lori Mendel Hart
February 18, 2009
To Margaret, David and all the Fish Family; everyone always says how much of an impact people can leave on others lives. Well your Dad left so much more..he left us with great memories of his laughter and so much of his compassion for life and thoughtfulness. It never mattered in his eyes who you were he always was there in more ways than one to help out. My parents truly treasured his and your moms friendship. We all grew up looking as though we were all family. I am fortunate to be one of the many who knew your Dad for the man he was. We'll always love you Ray; keep an eye on that great family you left here. They were very lucky to have a Dad like you. Thanks for the memories. Love ya Lori Mendel Hart
Cindy Graham
February 18, 2009
Margaret, David and Family. It will take time to heal but comfort in knowing your dad is at peace and very very happy to be with your mom and Ray JR. I will never forget all the picking on me he used to do, and me calling for my dad to help out, and when daddy would get on him about it he would say come on JR do you think I would do something like that? Always remember the good times. My prayers are with you.
Your 2nd cousin( Patty's cousin)
Cindy
Margaret Young
February 18, 2009
Margaret, David and all the Fish Family. I was so sorry to read about your Dad passing away. He was a good man. And so proud of his family. Now he and your Mom and your brother are all special angels watching over the ones they love. You are in my prayers and may God Bless each one of you always.
Colleen Solazzo
February 18, 2009
Dear Margie,and family
I'm so sorry for your loss, It's been many many year since we last show each other at St. Josephs in Albany, But i do remember your father. I hope all else is well. Sincerely, Colleen Solazzo (Allen).
Christmas Fish
February 18, 2009
Poppy , Poppy, Poppy
What an incredible man !! In the18 years we have spent as Father and Daughter in-law, My life has been enriched in ways my words will never express. Your boys (Tyler and David) will be Greater men because of your presence in their life. The girl (Courtney) will be a strong and powerful woman because of your presence. Tommy and Danielle will always remember your unconditional love. In the years before me, I am sure you were a great Dad and a great grandpa and even a great husband, but I have no doubt your are the GREATEST POPPY ever !!! After MiMi passed away you did something I did not think was possible. You took over MiMi s role and made it your own!! You took the hardest time of my kids lives and made it ok. You gave them what NO ONE else could have. They lost so much and I mean so much when MiMi passed . And you became a constant where there would have been no doubt a void for the rest of their lives. They are older now and understand more. Dave and I will not have to keep you alive for them to remember you. You will stay alive in so many things they say and do. I take comfort in knowing when they have children of their own, they will no doubt share stories about their Poppy!!!
With a heavy heart in years to come I will ask you in prayer time and time again,
How do I tell my husband everything is going to be ok? What will I tell my kids the next time they need Poppy? How do I go into your home and cope with the silence? Who will I talk to in the morning? Who will say,” leave my boys alone?” Yes I will even ask…….What will I do the next time Dave cannot fix something. And Most important who will bring my coffee? No need to answer Poppy….I will remind myself that I am blessed for even being able to ask……For everything I have to love and all that love me is because of you… Thank you for my life and know that I will miss you forever!!!
Chrissy
Vince Foley ,Albany Pop Warner
February 18, 2009
To the Fish family,
I am deeply saddened by the passing of Ray. There are not many men in this world that measure up to him. His thoughtfulness, kindness and good nature have affected the lives of all who came in contact with him. You in my thoughts and prayers.
Margaret Shellenberger
February 18, 2009
Daddy,
Wow..what do you say to a man who is as special as you. You gave your love unconditionally to everyone...especially your children and grandchildren. For that reason, I will forever be grateful.
People always say that any man can be a father, but it takes a very special man to be a dad. Well let me tell you...you are not just a Dad..You are the Daddy. You are the Man...so I guess that makes you the "Daddy Man"
You have given me so many wonderful memories in my life that it is hard to narrow it down. So here are a few:
I remember getting rides to Blessed Sacrament School in an ambulance. The kids really thought that David and I were cool. The concession stand at Central Babe Ruth, the family vacations to Cape Cod and Aruba.
How about all our backgammon games (I think I was the better player). The Sunday drives with Mommy. We would just get in the car and go. Sometimes we knew where we were going and other times we had no clue. We always had fun though. That party you threw for Mommy. When you threw a party...you THREW a party.
My graduations, my marriage to Terry and the birth of Mackenzie. Your teeth in your pocket, the rubber River Rats in Mommy's pots and your episode with that chipmunk. I will always remember, sitting there watching you trying to catch that darn thing. I don't think you ever did, but you sure had fun doing it. I will remember you pulling into the day care lot to show me your catch of the day "Squirrel". You would take them to Mommy. Daddy, "why are you taking them there" your answer was always the same.."so they can't find there way back to my house". The list could go on and on and on. We had so many wonderful times.
We have had some sad times too. When we lost Ray Jr. and when we lost your love and soul mate Mommy. We stood together and made it through those times. It made us stronger people.
I know that things haven't always been perfect between us, but I know that you Loved me anyway. I was, I am, and I will always be Daddy's Little Girl.
You are in heaven now with Mommy. I would much rather you be here, but I know that you are looking down on us. I'm sure Mommy has already given you a "honey do list"...and you will finish that list with a smile. The same way you finished everything else.
You fought a hard battle and for that I am very proud of you. For all your accomplishments, and for the legacy you have left behind you will always be a hero in my eyes.
Thank you for all the memories, the patience, the guidance and most of all your LOVE!!
Daddy, I Love you and I always will. I know that I have another guardian angel to watch over me and Mackenzie.
Love always,
MARGARET
p.s. please give Ray Jr. and Mommy a big hug and kiss from me.xoxoxoxoxo
Barbara Agneta
February 17, 2009
Dear David, Chris & Family, So sorry to hear about your Dad. He was a very good hearted soul who took good care of his neighbors on West Street. We will miss his great sense of humor. My thoughts and prayers go to you and your family at this time.
Tom & Marlene Frankovic
February 17, 2009
To all of the Fish Family near and far... Ray has lived life to the fullest. He has accomplished so much in life. He loved all of his family and treated his friends like family. He always opened his heart to all whom were around him. We were lucky to be welcomed into his heart as part of that family. We have shared lots of good times together, and will cherrish them always. Memories last a life time, His love will last forever in all of you as well as us.
Ann foley
February 17, 2009
Ray was a great friend of Albany Pop Warner FootbaLL. hE DEVOTED MANY OF HOURS TO HELP OUR KIDS AND MADE EVERYONE FEEL MORE SECURE BY HAVING THE AMBULANCE AT OUR FIELD. hE CERTAINLY WAS A WONDERFUL AND KIND PERSON. ;Please accept our sincere symathyand appreciation. Sincerely, The Foley Family and Albany Pop Warner
Shane Weidman
February 17, 2009
To the entire Fish family,
Ray gave me my first job in EMS. I truly enjoyed working with him. He was a fantastic man and I will never forget what I learned from him and what he did for me.
levi houston
February 17, 2009
sorry for the loss but I must say thanks to him and all his family for treating me and my family like there own I remember watching him throwing bread to the city chickens those were his other kids and the time I first ate cold pizza at capital district made me feel like one of the guys playing in the yard with all the ambulances I can never remember a time I was ever treated bad by anyone of his family or him as a matter of fact I never was rest in peace.
Pam Trombley
February 17, 2009
Arlene, and family,
I am so sorry to hear about Ray. I know your hearts are all heavy now. I wish there was something I could say to help. Just know my prayers are with you all. My love to all of you.
Ron & Sue Goldfarb
February 17, 2009
To the Fish Family: Ray was the sweetest, kindess person to everyone he met. He was always there to lend a helping hand without any praise or any pats on the back. All the years he helped out at Westland Hills Little League and Central Babe Ruth will be rewarded now. May all your happy memories of Ray get you through this hard time. I am sure he is smiling down on his family from above. God bless all of you.
Mena Domnik
February 17, 2009
To the Family of Ray Fish I was very sorry to here about your loss I will cherish the memories and the laughs we had together. Especially when ray would sit on my Niagara Mohawk box waiting for the grand kids to come home from school. My prayers are with you. Love Mena
February 17, 2009
Dear Margo,
I'm sorry to hear of your loss.
Maureen Reilly Albany
Ed and Denise Ward
February 17, 2009
David, Chrissy, Tommy, Danielle, David Jr, Tyler and Courtney,
So sorry to hear about loss. Poppy will be missed and you are all in my heart and thoughts!
Ed and Denise
Debra (Mendel) Terrell
February 17, 2009
Dear David and Margaret, So sorry to hear of your loss, your Dad was an amazing man and I have many special memories of him and your Mom, hopefully the sympathy from others will be a comfort to you. Much love
Jean (Jordan) Mauger
February 17, 2009
I met Ray when I worked at Albany County Mental Health. A wonderful gentleman and very nice to do business with. My prayers are with his family.
Ophelia Houston
February 17, 2009
Dear Fish Family,
Myself and my entire family send our condolences to the whole family.. God Bless
Ophelia Houston and Family
Kandace Fish
February 17, 2009
Dear Chrissy and David and kids,
Please know in your hearts that Ray Sr. is finally able to rest, please take comfort in knowing he is with Pat and Ray Jr...
Dear Tyler, David and Courtney,
Please know your poppy will be watching over you your whole lifes and keeping you safe..
Love,
Aunt Kandy
Kandace Fish
Peter Dudo and William Osborne
February 17, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of your fathers passing. He was a wonderful neighbor for many years. May His Memory Be Eternal.
Richard and Rosemarie Fahd
February 17, 2009
Margaret, Rosemarie and I are very sorry to hear about your dad. I worked with him on the Fire Department many years ago. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Donna Ruczynski
February 17, 2009
David, Margaret I am so very sorry for you loss . Although I cannot be there but my thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. Uncle Ray will always be in my heart.
Deena Howard
February 17, 2009
Ray was a good, kind man....... I will miss our long talks, and all the kidding around he used to do.... I will miss my friend...
My thoughts and prayers are with all of his family at this time.
Deena
Clifton Park, NY
Rachael Angelini
February 17, 2009
Margaret, David and Chris,
I am so sorry to hear about Ray passing. I very fond memories of him. He always made me laugh. All of you will be in my thoughts
Love Rachael
Joseph Lennox
February 17, 2009
My condolences to the entire Fish family. Ray will be missed.
Brian Ridner & Family
February 17, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Gina Hanley
February 17, 2009
Margaret,
I am so sorry to hear that your dad passed away. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Gina Hanley & Family
Denise O'Brien
February 17, 2009
Margaret, David & Chris - I am so very sorry to hear about your Dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Much Love,
Aunt Dee
Matthew Woelfersheim
February 17, 2009
To the entire family,
Ray Fish is one of the kindest men I have ever had the privledge and honor to work with. I am so fond of all of the memories of working along side of Ray. No matter how busy the day he always took it in stride, with a smile on his face. I am reminded of the relationship Ray had with my daughter when she was just a little one, and how he always made her giggle and her face light up. Our family will never forget all of the things he did for us.
Nikki and Dave Melfe
February 17, 2009
Dear Fish Family,
Uncle Ray was an amazing man who brought us so much humor and LOVE. We will all miss him so very much. Hold your memories close to your heart and know that he is in peace now with Aunt Pat. You are all close to our hearts and in our prayers.
Mackenzie Shellenberger
February 17, 2009
To poppy:
I will miss you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I love you always! You are the best poppy ever. You are now with the best MiMi in the world.
Love, Mackenzie {Your Doodlebug}
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Love
Bev & Joe Locci
February 17, 2009
Joe, Michele, Arlene & Family,
Joe & I are sorry for your loss. We hope the time and memories you all spent togehter will comfort you in the years ahead. He is at peace now and will be wathching over you all. If we can do anything for you, please ask.
Love you,
Aunt Bev & Uncle Joe
Kelly Marx
February 17, 2009
David, Christmas and Margaret-
I am so sorry for your loss. Uncle Ray was one of a kind, he made every special occasion that we spent together that much more special. At least he is in heaven now with his angel Aunt Pat. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love Kelly
Sarah Senger
February 17, 2009
so sorry to hear of your loss. ray was such a sweetheart, he will be missed! thoughts and prayers go out to your family!
Lisa Damiano
February 17, 2009
Dear Arlene, Margo, Mary, Laura and Joey,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Mr. Fish. What a wonderful, kind loving man he was. I have so many memories of him at different sporting events with the ambulance. May God comfort all of you in his loving arms. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
margaret shaffer
February 17, 2009
rick im so sorry to hear about your uncle.this is margaret from delmar,ny.my thoughts and prayers go out to your hole family.god bless.
Karen Dupuis
February 17, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. May it comfort your family to know that Jr. will be there to welcome him. It was a pleasure to know you.
Jonathan/Rita Kipp
February 17, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Tricia Savoca
February 17, 2009
Margaret,
I am so sorry to hear the passing of your dad. You have gone through so much and I am so sorry. He is now with your mom and both will be looking down on you and Mackenzie. Love you!
Tricia
Leonard Pinkowski
February 17, 2009
Dear Fish family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time. We thought the world of him. He was a good and generous man. May he rest in peace. Love and prayers Jean & Len Pinkowski
Kerri Yarter
February 17, 2009
David & Christmas & Families.
We are so sorry for the loss of your father.
The Yarters
Fran , Dan Puckett
February 17, 2009
Margaret,David May the memories of your Dad always be of joy and comfort. Ray was a special person to several people. I will always remember the kind man he was. He will be missed. Our Heartfelt Sympathy to all your family.
Fran Puckett
February 17, 2009
Margaret,David May the memories of your Dad always be great loving memories. And comfort you in your sadness. He was always there for anyone that needed him. I will never forget that's the Ray Fish I knew.
Lisa and Bob Strubel
February 17, 2009
Michelle and Joe,
We're so sorry to hear of your loss. You're in our thoughts and prayers. Let us know if we can help you with anything.
Colleen Armer
February 17, 2009
Dear Margaret, Terry, Mackenzie and Family,
We are so sorry for the loss of your father & grandfather. We certainly know how you are feeling. Just know that we are always here for you. We hope you'll always know that!
Love, Coll, Steve, Stevie and Sally
Michelle Vann
February 17, 2009
Mr. Fish we at Latham Med Ped will miss you... Thanks for the food that you brought to us at times when you felt better. RIP Michelle
Carol Jewell
February 17, 2009
So sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in God and in your memories.
Carol and Becky (31 Harwich)
Twiggy Collen
February 17, 2009
Laura,
Condolences to you and your family for the loss of your dad. Our thoughts are with you and yours.
Joseph "Casey" Fisher
February 17, 2009
David, Margaret and all of Rays Family, I am saddened at the news of Rays passing, He is finally at rest and reunited with your Mom, He was a good friend and great man and will be missed.
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