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Dolores Hays Obituary

Hays, Dolores A. SCHENECTADY The story of Dolores Ann (Nickel) Hays starts in 1929 in Schenectady, N.Y. "Dolly" was born at home to Dorothy (Hatji) and William Nickel and was the youngest of eight children; two sisters and five brothers. She was raised in Schen-ectady and "off the trolley stop" in what is now Colonie, attending the one-room schoolhouse, the Maplewood Union Free School, and Nott Terrace High School. After graduation, she began a career as a beautician. In 1954, she met a dashing young Army man from out west, James H. Hays. They fell in love and were soon married. Moving about to different posts, children soon followed, Paula Hays Fanning of Malta, N.Y., David Wyane Hays of Miss., James H. Hays Jr. of Malta, N.Y. and Thomas Hays of Ga. In 1961, they settled in at 71 Elder St., Schenectady to raise their family. In addition to raising her children, "Mom" was a communicant of Trinity Lutheran Church, Furman Street. Mrs. Hays voluntarily served on several committees with the church, schools, the city, manager of the boy's baseball training league and president of the ladies auxiliary. Dolly was an avid bowler such that when she injured her right elbow she switched to the left, maintaining a respectable average from both sides. She was the director of the junior bowling program in Clifton Park for over ten years and manager of the traveling bowling league. During this time, she took up driving instruction and taught at the Easy Method Driving School. With the birth of her first grandson in the late 1970s, she added the role of grandma and was actively involved. Dolores was an early neighborhood activist in the Central State Street area and fought hard for a police community center, where she also served on the board. She was instrumental in the formation of Schenectady United Neighborhoods (S.U.N.) and was its first elected president, serving for many years. She also served as driver and beautician with the Ellis Hospital Outpatient Mental Health Clinic. She continued with S.U.N. in the 1980s, fighting successfully to keep Schenectady's Central Park forever wild. With the birth of a granddaughter and then more grandchildren, she loved and nurtured each in turn. Dolores Hays was awarded the prestigious title Schenectady Patroon in 1995 for her many years of service to family, church and community. Dolly, Dolores, Mother, Grandma, Mrs. Hays was known for her quick wit, humorous nature and kind spirit, in addition to her strength under adversity. She always had a kind word and soft touch for those in need and was willing to help any and all who needed. After 39 years together, her husband, Msg. James H. Hays (Ret), passed. She spent her remaining years enjoying her family and the company of grandchildren and great-grandchildren. On September 17, 2007 she was joking with people and, when left alone for a few minutes, was called home and peacefully passed. Her story continues in her one brother, children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren and family and friends who survive her. Funeral services will be Friday morning at 11:00 at New Comer-Cannon Family Funeral Home, 343 New Karner Rd., Colonie (Rt. 155-south of Central Ave). Calling hours will be Thursday from 4:30 to 8:00 p.m. at the funeral home. Interment will be in Memory's Garden, Colonie. Memorial contributions may be made to Trinity Lutheran Church, 35 Furman St., Schenectady, NY 12304 or to a charity of one's choice in memory of Dolores A. Hays. To leave a special message for the family online, visit www.NewcomerFamily.com

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Published by Albany Times Union from Sep. 19 to Sep. 20, 2007.

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Sgt Major (R) Edward Komac

November 9, 2007

Hays Family. Your mother was a lady in all sense of the word. She supported your father in his military career and always made this young soldier feel welcome when I visited. She is in our thoughts and prayers.

Louise Uccio

September 22, 2007

Jim,
I am so sorry for your loss, you and you family will be in my prayers.

Louise

KC & Joanne Kelly

September 21, 2007

Jim, Paula, Paul & Family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jackie Stellone

September 21, 2007

Your Mom will live on forever through all her good works and the legacy she has passed to her family. In addition to the love you all shared she has been a shining example of how we should all live are lives. I didn't know her but after reading of all her accomplishments in service to others I know she will live on in the hearts of an uncountable number a people who will remember her for her good works and deeply mourn her passing. My heart goes out to all who knew and loved her.

Walt Hancock

September 21, 2007

Jim, I'm very sorry for your loss. May God be with you and your family during this difficult time.

You've become an icon for fathers everywhere, which speaks volumes for your family and how you were raised.

God Speed,

Debby Fellows

September 20, 2007

Jim. I have known you for such a short time relative to reality. In this time I have got to know a strength that doesn't come too often in life; one parallel to my own. I knew you had to come from a special place the very moment you and that southern preacher friend of yours came-a-knocking.
I understand now and you're right - your Mom's legacy will live on long after all those she personally touched have gone.
What a sweet thing to leave behind....

Donna and Jim Halse

September 20, 2007

Dear Paula, Paul and Family:
Jimmy and I extend our sincere sympathy on the passing of your mom. She was (and will always be in your hearts) quite a lady. What a beautiful tribute you written for her. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this time.

Norine Karins

September 20, 2007

Dear Paula & Family:

I remember your Mom as fun-loving, with a keen sense of humor. She was always fun to be around. You have my most deepest sympathy at this most difficult time in your life.

September 20, 2007

LTC & Mrs. Fanning:

On behalf of the 27th Brigade Combat Team, our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family.

CSM David Piwowarski

Mark and Sharlene Emerson

September 20, 2007

To Jim, Paula and other members of your family:
We were happy to meet your Mother once at Marlene and Jim's wedding. She sounds like she was a very interesting and active woman....a woman before her time. We were especially touched by her love and energy given to Central Park.
Her life and memories of her are the basis of your lives. May she rest in peace and be remembered every day.

Susan Suarez

September 20, 2007

Dear Paula and Family,
The world has lost a wonderful woman with your Mom's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Sue Cara, Skyla and Justin

Marlene Hays

September 19, 2007

I would have liked to know you better. Until we meet again, may you rest in peace. Marlene Hays

Jim Hays

September 19, 2007

On behalf of the family, thank you Mom.

You have all my love.
Jimmy

Vern & Ginger Sharp

September 19, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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