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Philip Zuchowski Obituary

ZUCHOWSKI Philip Michael Philip Michael Zuchowski, 16 years, of Temperance, MI died unexpectedly Sunday morning, April 15, 2007, in Toledo Hospital. Philip attended Jackman Rd. Elementary and was a sophomore at Bedford High School, where he played on the freshman golf team. Philip, "5-0", was born August 21, 1990, to Barbara and Raymond Zuchowski. He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Lottie and Joseph Zychowicz and Alfreda and Frank Zuchowski, and his cousins, David Schick and David Zuchowski. He is survived by his parents, Barbara Zuchowski and Raymond (Patricia) Zuchowski; his sister, Jane and his brother, Raymond. He distinguished himself as the 50th grandchild in the Zuchowski family. To know Phil was to know a unique individual. Phil seemed to effortlessly relate to people of all ages. His hazel eyes, his freckled face, and his dimples drew people in, and his good-natured sense of humor was his trademark. His home on Ernest Street served as a gathering place for Phil and his many friends who met for backyard pick-up baseball and football games and creek fishing or for indoor Texas Hold'em or videogames. Phil loved sports. He was a diehard Michigan State Spartans fan and loved the Indians and the Browns. He played on the Mt. Carmel softball and basketball teams, and he played and umpired 3B baseball in the Temperance area where his teammates affectionately called him "Philly". He enjoyed playing golf, especially at Bedford hills, where he worked last summer, and he liked the challenge of working to build his biceps at Super Fitness. He was also an avid outdoorsman. Camping, walleye and perch fishing with his dad, whom he jokingly referred to as "Mr. Lake Erie", were favorite summer activities. Phil excelled at bowling. He qualified for a spot on the GTBPA Junior All Stars, a traveling bowling team in the greater Toledo area. His doubles team won the Division A City Doubles Tournament with Phil bowling a 745 series. He finished third in the recent City Juniors Tournament, and he qualified for and was looking forward to bowling in the 2007 Ohio State Pepsi USBC Youth Bowling Championship in Columbus April 29. Proud of his 287 high-game, he was chasing after his first 300. He enjoyed competing, and he continually challenged himself to excel. When he faced temporary setbacks, rather than complaining about outside forces, he focused all the more on what he could do to achieve his goals. Phil had a true sense of sportsmanship. No matter how active he was with his friends, Phil always found time for his family. "Lad" enjoyed the traditions of holiday get-togethers and he could be found at the center of family gatherings. Phil's presence was a gift; his family and friends will miss him. Friends and family may visit Wednesday from 2 p.m. - 9 p.m. in the Bedford Funeral Chapel, 8300 Lewis Avenue, Temperance, MI where a Scripture service will be held at 7:30 p.m. Funeral services will begin Thursday at 10 a.m. in the Chapel followed by the Funeral Mass at 10:30 a.m. in Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church, Temperance with interment following in the church cemetery. Memorials may be made to Cystic Fibrosis or Ronald McDonald House or Charity of the donor's choice. Online condolences may be shared at www.bedfordfuneralchapel.com

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Published by The Blade from Apr. 16 to Apr. 17, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for Philip Zuchowski

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August 20, 2023

Happy birthday Phil. I suck at bowling and golf so you'd be kicking my butt and winning money. Thinking about you. Uncle Jim

Uncle Jim

August 21, 2022

Happy birthday lad. Think about you alot, especially on the 21st(our bday), and with bowling and football starting!

August 21, 2020

Lad Happy birthday, Joes Bar is getting ready to kick butt in fantasy, I'm trying to get ready to bowl. wish you were here to compete against like the old days Uncle Jim

November 22, 2018

Happy Thanksgiving Phil!

Joe's Bar

August 21, 2015

Happy Birthday Lad

December 31, 2014

Thinking a lot about Phil lately. Happy New Year Phil

August 27, 2014

Phil: Now that I'm old I don't remember so good. Happy belated birthday, sorry I'm late

Uncle Jim

Megan Urbanus

April 15, 2014

Love and miss you Phil. Just wanted to let you know you're on my mind.

December 25, 2013

Merry Christmas

Sondra Adams

August 22, 2013

So happy this guest book is still up to remind me of Phil. Miss you buddy and Happy Birthday

August 21, 2013

Happy Birthday Lad

August 21, 2012

Happy Birthday Phil

February 16, 2012

Phil:
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"Domination" dominated Monday night. We finally got one. Miss you lad

August 20, 2011

Happy birthday Phil

March 21, 2011

Thinking of Phil today. He is greatly missed.

jane zuchowski

November 11, 2010

i miss you so much little buddy, all the time. we just got done with our neuro unit in nursing school and i learned how severely critical you really were. i still dont know how it all happened, or why it all happened. all i know is that i miss you and love you and still know exactly what your voice sounds like. i miss you little brother.
love jane

October 19, 2010

LOVE YOU PHIL, ALWAYS IN MY HEART

August 21, 2010

Happy birthday Phil.

January 26, 2010

I love you Phil. I wish I had known you better. We all really miss you.

Uncle Jim

December 24, 2009

Merry Christmas Phil.

November 26, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving Phil. We miss you.

August 22, 2009

Still love ya Phil, I'm always thinking about you


- Joe Renda

August 21, 2009

Happy Birthday Lad.

June 30, 2009

missing you so terribly

April 23, 2009

I can't believe it has been two years. I still think and pray for you often

August 21, 2008

Happy 18th Phil- We miss you!! You are in our thoughts often.

Happy Birthday!!
The Sharps

July 28, 2008

Thinking of Phil alot lately. miss him and love him.

May 8, 2008

I love you Phil.

sarah groves

May 1, 2008

omg i miss him so much. i just reached over a year and i didnt even leave my room. i sat and cried because i miss him so much. i know i will see you again someday. my prayers still go out to ur family. i love u buddy.
sarah

Lindsay Beard

April 15, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you today.

April 15, 2008

Zuchowski Family,
Just wanted to let you all know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

April 14, 2008

Thinking of the Zuchowski family today and always. Phil is greatly missed and loved.

March 3, 2008

You are greatly missed by the many people you touched here on earth.

February 28, 2008

Miss you so much Phil.

Mrs. Sharp

February 7, 2008

Phily- You have been on my mind so much lately. May you rest in peace....

January 15, 2008

I can't believe it's been 9 months since Phil's passing. Always in our hearts.....

Debbie zuchowski

January 1, 2008

Happy New Year Phil
Hope you and the rest of the family had a rip roaring time
Love Aunt Debbie

Uncle Jim

December 25, 2007

Merry Christmas Phil.

Marilyn Sharp

December 24, 2007

Zuchowski Family

Thinking of you this Christmas eve. May God fill each of your hearts with peace.
We miss you Phil!!! I know your watching over us.

Much Love, The Sharp's

December 7, 2007

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

November 26, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with the Zuchowski family and all of Phil's friends during this holiday season. He is greatly missed.

November 22, 2007

Phil:

Happy Thanksgiving! You are missed.

November 17, 2007

Sending thoughts and prayers to the Zuchowski family. Phil was a wonderful young man who had many friends who are missing him. God Bless

November 15, 2007

I check this website every week and there are always new entries. Even thought Phil was only on this earth for a short time, he touched the hearts of so many. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Zuchowski family.

A Mom...

November 12, 2007

This goes out to all of Phil's family.....I can't even imagine what your family is going through. I only wanted to tell you that I am a Mom of someone that Phil touched very deeply with his friendship. I still check this website from time to time and there are always new additions. What a remarkable young man. My daughter still has a hard time and loves the memories she has of Phil. Please know that he is loved and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family ALWAYS!!!

Adrienne

November 9, 2007

Phil-
its been almost 7 months since you've been gone and i still find it hard to image you not being here. we were never good friends, but you could always find a way to put a smile on my face when i was really up set. and the one time i went bowling with you was fun. your in everyones thoughts, and you always will be.

we love you and miss you philly.

Norma J. Mock

November 1, 2007

Dear Barb, Jane and Ray Jr.,
I was shocked and saddened to hear from my Chrissy tonite about Phil's death. He was such a cute little kid, and a pleasure to be around. Barb, I've never lost a child, so I can't know your feelings, but please know that my prayers are with you and the kids.
My Deepest Sympathy,
Norma (Hopkins) Mock

Abby Stengel

October 27, 2007

Phil
I miss you i hope you are still having fun up in hevan i know that there are lots of people that miss you i am hoping that you are having fun well i love you and i miss you .......Every day you will be rembered

jane zuchowski

October 15, 2007

6 months.... how is this even possible? God I miss you.

Taylor

October 12, 2007

We miss you more and more as the days go by. Keep watching over us and we will continue to think of you and hold the memories in our hearts. Never forgotten....

A Friend Missing You

October 4, 2007

Sometimes I wonder what you're doing up there....are you looking over all of us? Are you perfecting your bowling? Lounging around on a fluffy cloud? Whatever you're doing, know that you are dearly missed by everyone who knew you. Always in our hearts......

Jane Zuchowski

September 22, 2007

Always on my mind, in my thoughts, and in everything I do. I love and miss you more than I ever could've thought possible. UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN... enjoy your peace.

~your sister~

A Friend

September 20, 2007

Phil,
Not a day goes by when you are not thought of or brought up in conversation. Your warm smile and contagious laugh is missed.

Angela Symanzik

August 21, 2007

Happy Birthday, Phil!! Hope all your wishes are coming true in Heaven!

Uncle Jim

August 20, 2007

Phil:

Happy Birthday. It'll always be our day.

Uncle Jim

June 12, 2007

Lad:

Sorry it took me so long to put this together, but I don’t have the words to say how much I miss you and the void your passing has left in my life. You were a special young man. As I was driving past the BGSU stadium the other day I thought of all the games we went to over the years with your friends. How many games we adults (your mother, Suzie and I) sat through that were freezing, lopsided, boring so that you and your buddies could play on the field after the game. Great times. These thoughts triggered many other memories that I wanted to write down.

Some of My Memories of Phil

Easter 07--what a great day. We had the usual meal, ham, kielbasa, carbs--watched the Masters, rooted for our fantasy golf team, played cards, slept. Suzie brought the quilts (pierjina?) down for everyone, and everyone hugged when you went home. You, Raymond and Jane started fighting--per usual--and your mother yelled at “youse guys” to quit. You explained that since Ray moved out this was the first chance you had to fight because “you loved each other.” I know you did. The relationship you and your mom had was cool. She always took care of you and looked after you, and as you started maturing into a responsible young man, you started looking after her. It was a cool relationship.

Your good nature, smile, positive outlook, enthusiasm, and ability to get along with everybody, young or old. You had the knack to make everyone you came into contact with smile and feel better for knowing you.

How hard you would work at something once you set your mind to it. Hitting golf balls on the range for hours when trying out for the golf team, or bowling 30-40 games a week to get the most out of your bowling ability because you were bowling with the best junior bowlers in town and you wanted to excel, working out 5 days a week when you decided to get in shape and lose weight, but most importantly realizing the importance of education and improving your grades in school. You mentioned to your mother you were going to get all A’s spring semester and I believe, because of your determination, that you would have accomplished this goal.

Your kindness towards Anna.

“50” in the Zuchowski family; you were always special.

When you were a tot and you took a few steps so Busia could see you walk even though you didn’t start walking a lot for a couple more months. You always had the ability for making people feel better.

The Thanksgiving in 2001 when you spent the night at our house and ate most of the leftovers (and all of the dressing, mashed potatoes, and gravy) the next morning when Suzie and I were gone forcing us to cook another turkey dinner because Jane and Ray were mad because there were no leftovers.

Monday night at the Glass Bowl. I looked forward to seeing you come in. You would always spend a few minutes joking with Mr. Worley and Terry before you went down to practice--you were the King of lane 18. You always had the knack for coming back and ragging on me when I was struggling, but when I was bowling good you never came back around.

The Monday night when you came to watch us bowl and you ate most of the shrimp Brian always brings for our team at Christmas. Every year since, Brian jokingly tells me not to tell Phil that he’s bringing shrimp so the rest of us will have some shrimp left. As usual you took this good naturedly, and this past year you brought some beef stick and crackers.

Ahnie, Go, Zee, Jax

8-21: Our Day

How much fun we always had at our family get-togethers.

The marathon 500 Rummy games we played at holiday parties. As you say it was our “tradition.”

Another tradition: the Memorial Day putting competition at Bedford Hills (The Club). The first time we did this you had just started golfing, and in your mind you were better than Tiger Woods. In typical Phil fashion, as you started losing, every bet got bigger, from a quarter to a dollar, and every putt was double or nothing. When it got dark you were $27.00 down. This was no big deal to you; you were going to sneak in your house and pay me with your Confirmation money. We settled on a couple of weeks of free
grass cutting.

VIP Day at Jackman School. You met me in the lobby and walked me back to your room. On the way you stopped at every room and waved hello to the teacher, and every teacher would stop and acknowledge you with a smile. When we got to your room after a few minutes, you got antsy and you and your friend Danny, who didn’t have a VIP, talked the teacher into letting the two of you show me around the school grounds. Once we were outside, VIP was no longer needed and was encouraged by the boys to leave.

I loved to watch you bowl. You had talent, confidence, and a beautiful release (when you stayed behind the ball and threw it out on the alley like your dad taught you).

All the games we went to over the years. The games you played in and the games we watched. MSU, BGSU, Mudhens.

Every spring when you and your buddies started fishing in the pond behind Uncle Paul and Aunt Jan’s house we would joke that you were on a first name basis with all the fish because you have been catching the same fish year after year.

Taco Tuesday at the Speedway Lounge.

Building the “bump” and “stacking out” at the gym.

Phil, these reminiscences brought you back to life in my mind, it’s hard for my old mind to realize that you’re not with us anymore, but it also forced me to realize what a special person you are and how fortunate I was to be this close to you for 16 years. Thanks.

Uncle Jim

Marilyn, Jim, Travis, Trevor Sharp

June 12, 2007

Hey Philly,

There is hardly a day goes by when we dont think of you. Seems like one of us are always bringing your name up.
The guys on your baseball team have a moment of silence before each game out at short stop for you, they even had your intials put on the sleeve of their baseball shirts. You will forever be remembered Philly!!!
Last week when I was coming home from Trevor's game I saw a deer standing in the road right near your mom's house. What a weird place I thought. She jumped over the fence and hid in the little bit of woods that were there while I drove by.
God Bless my friend!! Hope your having fun bowling and playing ball and doing some golfing up there. I've made it to Little shack a couple times so far and of course I think of you everytime I walk into the place or drive by.

You are "SO" missed by so many people. We were ALL so blessed to have had you in our lives.
Until next time-

Jane Zuchowski

June 7, 2007

Little Brother:

"the only thing that gives me hope
is i know
i'll see you again someday...."

i miss you so much.
i love you.

Aunt Sue

June 6, 2007

Early Phil memories

Jane and Raymond—

Do you remember any of this? I’m thinking you both might have been too young. But I know your memories are like steel traps—especially Raymond’s, and especially both of you on specific details when either Uncle Jim or I have done something dumbly funny. For this entry I had to mine my own memories and then ask your mom and Uncle Jim for some clarifications on specifics. So this entry represents a group collaboration in remembering Phil.

I remember the day Phil was born: August 21, 1990, in the evening, at St. Vincent Hospital--on a Tuesday, I see from checking an old calendar. He was late coming, and your mom’s doctor decided he was getting too big and he needed some prompting. Your mom went to the hospital in the morning, so Jane went to Busia and Dzia Dzia’s and Raymond came to our house for the day. I was working at the writing center at UT then, and Raymond and I went there for the morning. We were both excited about the anticipated arrival of the new baby, and I remember how Raymond entertained the director of the center, Joan Mullin, and the writing center staff with stories about how he was going to be a big brother. That was back in the day when Raymond refused to wear a certain color of striped tube socks--was it the white ones or the grey ones? This week at our Taco Tuesday spot, we couldn’t be quite sure. Dzia Dzia and Busia used to buy them by the bag, and they tried to cajole their grandson into wearing them. But Raymond, you stood firm in your convictions of what constituted fashion do’s and don’ts. I remember somehow that sock issue figured into how you packed your suitcase to come to our house.

We stayed at the writing center for awhile, and then we went home to make a birthday cake for Uncle Jim. I remember he said what he really wanted was a chocolate cake (I imagine he must have gotten tired of the pistachio marble cakes I always made), so Raymond and I decided we’d get on the job and whip one up. We made it from scratch with those bitter tasting bars of non-sweetened cooking chocolate. It took a long time to make, with lots of chocolate-stirring over a low flame, cake-flour sifting, and lots of mixing, alternating dry and wet ingredients. When the cake came out of the oven, it deflated like a punctured tire—a real floperino. But it didn’t matter because when we got the word that the baby had finally arrived, we ended up shoving it aside for the real celebration: going to see the new baby.

So in the early evening Uncle Jim, Janie, Raymond, and I ended up at Dzia Dzia and Busia’s house, and from there we all trouped up to St. Vincent Hospital to meet your mom and dad and check out the new Zuchowski bambino. You two both kept calling the baby “Toonces,” from the Saturday Night Live animated skit Toonces, the Driving Cat. I thought you just called him Toonces at the hospital, but as Uncle Jim remembers, you started calling him that before he was born because your mom and dad had chosen the baby's name but wanted to keep it a secret. So probably knowing that you two wouldn’t/couldn’t keep a secret, they decided to keep you out of the loop on the official name. Being the creative kids you always were, you came up with your own pet name: Toonces. So it was only on the day he was born that Philip officially became named Philip. And as Uncle Jim remembers, your mom emphasized, “That’s Philip, with one l, not two l’s” to differentiate the spelling of Philip’s name from her cousin Phillip Kolinksi, whose parents spelled their son’s name with two l’s.

So there we were, the bunch of us admiring Phil: lots of hubbub and lots of pictures of your beaming mom and dad and you guys in white gowns holding Philip. Lots of mugging and joking around with Uncle Jim, who was pretending to be miffed because he said Phil deliberately chose to be born on August 21 in order to steal his birthday. That became a running joke between Uncle Jim and Phil. And to be sure, Uncle Jim was right: Philip did steal the day. In 1990, we didn’t celebrate Uncle Jim’s birthday on August 21. When we finally pulled out his cake from the freezer days later, we ended up throwing it away. Although Uncle Jim really wasn’t upset about Phil’s choice of days to be born, you know he got a lot of mileage out of telling Phil that he stole his uncle’s birthday.

Amie Kissinger

June 6, 2007

hello to all
i waz a student at Jackman Rd. Elemntry when I knew Phill (a Long time ago) but i waz in 3rd grade and he was in 4th i just remember it being that i moved to a new school.. He was like the only person that would even talk to me when i knew no one and was in a strrange place.. I will never forget Him for that..

Aunt Susie ("Zee")

May 25, 2007

Phil,
Okay, this posting is way too long, but since time isn’t supposed to exist in heaven, I’m sure my going long is not an issue. It’s been a little over a month since your accident, and I’m still finding it hard to realize that you aren’t here where we all want—and need—you to be: right here, right now, with us where you belong. I keep listening to the lyrics of the song by Snow Patrol that Jane and Raymond chose for your video, and the lyrics seem to fit well: “I don’t quite know how to say how I feel” and “I wish we had time to waste.” But most of all, “I need your grace to remind me to find my own.”

Thinking of you not being around at the kitchen table, in your yard, at the Glass Bowl, at our family gatherings seems incomprehensible. As Busia used to joke as she imitated one of the ciocias, “Who’d a thunk it?” As Jane wrote in her blog, “My little brother was gone, just like that.” And what keeps echoing in my mind: “In the blink of an eye…” If you were here, we’d joke and say we’re in Bizarro World, and you’d come zipping into the family room and IM-ing your friends on Raymond’s computer in Raymond’s room (“What, me go in Raymond’s bedroom? Never,” you’d insist.) or from playing baseball in the yard with a slew of your friends. And you’d label the scene saying, “This is ray”--using one of your favorite expressions that I can’t post here (but your friends can identify) and off you’d dash. Wishing we had those days back seems to be a major theme for us lately.

For reasons that we don’t understand, this is our life now. Time seems to be divided between “before the accident” (we all seem to be having a difficult time saying: “before Phil died”) and “after.” It’s like our old joke of B.T.B. for “Before Taco Bell”: like “you were alive then? Who can imagine a time before Taco Bell?” Only for us, now it’s becoming “who can imagine a time after/without Phil?” It seems impossible and just plain wrong, like the blurb under two drawings that reads “what’s wrong with this picture?” You—and your baseball bats, your bowling balls, your golf clubs, your Taco Bell wrappers, your Clamato bottles, and all your friends busting out from the background (what Zok used to refer to as “the Phil Tornado”)—are in the first drawing, but not in the second. We can trot out the bromides about it always being darkest before the dawn or how we should look for the silver lining or count our blessings. Pure and simple: you were one of our biggest blessings—from your birth you had that particular Phil-charisma—and you will continue to be our blessing, only not in the way we had prayed for in the boat room at Toledo Hospital.

To say you were such a cool kid sounds trite and hyperbolic—but only to someone who didn’t know you. And you were just that: a cool kid who was funny and fun-loving, a cool kid who at the same time was incredibly well-grounded and focused on doing well at your favorite sports, a cool kid who had started looking ahead to use that bowling scholarship money you’d been earning for college. You were easy to like and fun to be with. As Jane used to say, “Who could not like Phil?”

I loved hearing stories that showed how you were intuitive and thoughtful and quick to include others in your circle of friends without making a big to-do for other people’s notice. We heard stories that demonstrated what we had known but had not heard others articulate—that you had a center of gravity and a grounded-ness and a certain sweet natured-ness that was just you: Phil being Phil; authentically personable and kind without being smarmy. You always seemed more mature, even in your ability to get jokes (as one of your grade school teachers mentioned), than your chronological age or average kids your age. But then you were never an average kid at any age. From your Mr. Microphone “Achy Breaky Heart” renditions when you were two to your recent bowling achievements with your 289 high game and your 745 high series, you dazzled us with your personality, your ability, your good humor, and your ability to fit in with whoever you were with. When you showed up anywhere, you had a way of lighting up the place: younger people and older people always seemed to have more fun. And everyone ended up with stories to tell about something remarkable that happened when they were hanging out with Phil.

So I told Zok that I was going to add multiple guest book postings with Phil-memories. He said he thinks I’m going to get a jump on him and steal his material, but I know he’s got plenty of stories to tell. So he’ll have to take the challenge and add his own stories or his twist on my memories of events. I’m hoping other people who knew Phil will do the same.

One/Two Memories
I remember how much fun it was to go to BGSU home football games with you, your mom, and the friends you’d invite to go along. On I-75 you guys would point out all the “dig outs.” (Where did that term come from, Zok and I have wondered. I hope one of your friends will clear this up.) When you first started going (way back in 2000, Zok remembered), during the games you and your friends would throw your football around in the area beyond the end zone waiting for the “Ziggy Zomba” song and your turn to run passes on the football field. I remember how we laughed (afterwards) when the campus police officer escorted you and your friends across the field to where we sat on the visitors’ side when some kid you didn’t know broke his glasses playing football with you and your pals. Another funny memory: when you came to a game wearing Raymond’s Bedford High School letter jacket and how you sat in a section with some fraternity guys who invited you back to their frat house for an after-the-game party. You thought you’d run it by your mom (“Pshaw, right” as we used to say “back in the day,” as you’d probably say). Such good times, so many good memories. More stories to come…

Matt Glenn and Ricky Sedlar

May 5, 2007

Philly, you were the best friend anyone could ever ask for. The thing i am going to miss most about u is your smile that could light up a whole room. Another thing that i'm going to mis most about you is the off the hook bond fires at your house and the crazy stuff you used to do. I'm going to miss you. Rest in peace.

Hey bud this is Ricky Sedlar now i miss him alot more then i can explain he was the best of the best friends anyone could ever have i know weve done a lot of stupid stuff lol that no one knows the half of the late nights messing with people getting chased and tackled by people for smashing there pumpkins. Most stuff i cant right on here but you was alwasy the one I could trust. The one i always knew was just two houses down and if i needed to talk to someone you was always there. Im going to miss all that. Idont know whos going to help me do stuff this summer messing with peoples houses remember stank butt that was funny as hell but i cant even begin to describe what a guy he was you didnt even have to know him for long to like him he could get along with anyone he was always someone you could lean on to me he was like family two houses down for the past ten years over to his house everyday with matt and people for that whole ten years he helped me throught someofmy loses he was there for me im glad i got to have this ten years with him god bless his family they know im here for whatever they need i love you bro R.I.P fat bros for life and beyond

kathryn redding

May 4, 2007

Hello my name is Kathryn and my daughter passed the same day as your son. I know the pain of it all and my heart goes out to you.
the crowd of people showed you how well he was liked. and his pictue showed me he was a happy , smiling , maybe a little michevious
Boy . Im sorry for your lose. . our prayers are with you
kathryn

Ariel Fortman

May 2, 2007

Hey Phil Ariel Here... I miss u soo much u were my best friend and a very close one I remember in elementary when u and josh use to hang with me and u and him were the only friends i had then.. when i met kayla u would tease me about josh so i can laugh and u told me no matter what u be there for me when i needed help from u and u gave me all the help i needed i just didnt want u to leave my side at all and u no what u havent left my side cause i no ur my angel and ur always watching me and protecting me from harms way I miss u Phil and Love ya..

Love Ariel Marie Fortman

Darla Smith

April 29, 2007

Barb,

May God bless you and your family in this sad time. I did not know your son, but I pray for him and you at this most difficult time. Be blessed and comforted.

Eric Stanish

April 27, 2007

I am so sorry to hear what happen. Phil was a good kid a very funny one at that. I was his coach about 2 years ago in 3b when he was on the cubs. He was the best one that I coached. Always made me laugh. When he would do something bad I would always have him run out and hug you guys. I'm so sorry again.

Sarah Collier

April 26, 2007

I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. HE WAS A GREAT PERSON AND I TRUELY MISS HIM WITH ALL OF MY HEART. I COULDNT MAKE IT TO THE FUNERAL BUT MY HEART WAS WITH YOU IN YOUR DAYS OF NEED. I ALWAYS LOOKED FORWARD TO GOING TO 7TH HOUR SO HE COULD PUT A SMILE ON MY FACE. HE ALWAYS KNEW WHAT TO SAY TO MAKE ME HAPPY! I WILL FOREVER MISS HIM AND HE WILL FOREVER BE IN MY HEART. I LOVE YOU PHILLY-POO... SEE YOU AGAIN SOME DAY, I KNOW YOUR LOOKING OUT FOR ALL OF US! XOXOXO
-SARAH JANE

Mary Valentine

April 23, 2007

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Zuchowski, I am so sorry about your son Phil. I did not know him, but he sounds like a wonderful person! I was Robbie Zuchowski's confirmation mentor and have remained good friends with him and his family over the years. In fact, your son sounds a lot like Robbie, just a really good person. Please know your whole family remains in my prayers. Love, Mary Valentine

Marks Pat

April 23, 2007

Dear Barb and Family,

You are in our thoughts and prayers. It was truly amazing to see all of Philip's friends and family at the funeral. He and your family are certainly cherished by a lot of very caring people.

Not working at one location has its drawbacks during times like this. Please know that you are in our hearts and prayers.

Pat and Glenn Marks

Joe Renda

April 22, 2007

Hello Mr. and Mrs. Zuchowski, I am Joe Renda. I was a long-time friend of Phil's, ever since I moved to Bedofrd in the 5th grade in fact. My friend Derrick Smith gave me a call the other day to inform me of this catastrophic event that has occured. I was absolutely crushed that I couldn't make his funeral because I have just recently moved away to Kentucky, but I was thinking about him every moment. Phil was one of my first friends when I moved to Temperance and he welcomed me perfectly to Michigan. He was always one of the most popular kids in school as I'm sure you can see by the hundreds of other comments left on this page, and an excellent friend to every single one of those people. Although Philly is not with us physically anymore, his spirit lives on and he will be remembered forever by every single person that knew him because of his amazing persona, and because he was flat-out an excellent human being for all of his tragically shortened life. There's no doubt he went straight to Heaven. As a tribute to Phil, and as an offer of apology for not being able to attend his funeral, I wrote a poem for him. I hope you will like it and find it appropriate:

He was always the most popular in school, he made friends with ease.

He was the heart of every class he was in, cracking jokes and entertaining like it was a breeze.

Outside of school, Phil loved to hang out with all of his friends, he would love to play sports with them too.

We all stuck with him, as each of us matured and grew.

His life was cut short, for reasons we can't perceive.

Although he is gone physically, our memories of him will never leave.

Sometimes lives are ended quickly, by some sadistic twists of fates.

But we will all see you later Phil, meet us at the Pearly Gates.

Colleen (Cobb) Johnston-Kibler

April 22, 2007

To Phil's Family & Friends -

My son Zachary had already written; but, I wanted to add to what he wrote.

I thought it was important for you to know that coincidently Zachary had just sent a MySpace "friend request" to Phil on Tuesday, 4/10. Zachary was trying to get ahold of him to catch up on things, when shortly thereafter,we heard the news of Phil's accident. Zachary was deeply saddened that Phil never got a chance to reply to him and upset with himself that he hadn't sent his request earlier.

Phil and my family (including my parents) shared many great times, mostly at 3B games and practices. Both Zachary and Phil alternated as pitchers for their Diamondbacks team during the summer of 2005. They truly complimented each other!

Phil was such a wonderful young man, with such personality!! He was funny and kind and always involved. I was so pleased that he quickly became Zachary's friend, after having recently moved to town. He truly helped Zachary's transition and warmly welcomed him to Bedford!

We will definitely miss Phil and he will be fondly remembered amongst our family. Zachary finds comfort in knowing that Phil surely knows now of his intent to contact him.

You're in our prayers and in our hearts...

Liz White #1

April 21, 2007

Dear Barb, Ray, Jane and Ray Jr.,

We are so very sorry about Philip. His smile, oh, what a smile! We will never forget his smile, nor will we forget him. He will remain in our hearts forever. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. We love you.

Terry, Liz #1, Matt and Mike White

Judy Wyckoff

April 21, 2007

Barb,

I feel really sad for the loss of your son Philip. My prayers are with you.

God Bless.

Rachel DeGue-McManus

April 21, 2007

Dearest Zuchowski Family,
I am so terribly sorry for your loss of such a wonderful family member, Philip 5-0. He was an amazing young man who had so much life! I will always remember his sweetness and love for adventure and new experiences. I love you all.

Eileen (Burns) Kearney

April 21, 2007

Dear Barb and the entire family
I was so shocked to hear the news that Philip had died at Toledo Hospital. My thought, prayers and support are with you. May the Lord bring you His peace.

Joan and John Klear

April 20, 2007

We are so very sorry for your loss. You will all be in our prayers.

Cayla Reinhart

April 20, 2007

i really miss phil already. ive only known him for about 2 years....but those were an awesome 2 years. he always had a smile on n he could always make me smile. he was one of my best guy friends, n i could talk to him about anything. he was always there for me like i was for him! im gonna miss him so much. R.I.P. buddy; i love you....see ya someday, okay.

-cayla

Jenni Willinger (Mrkva)

April 20, 2007

I am terribly sorry about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Charis Zuchowski

April 20, 2007

Five-O,
I see you smiling and sitting around the fire, waiting for the rest of us to join the party. My heart goes out to your parents, Ray and Jane. May they be somewhat comforted by the fact that you are in good company up there. We will never forget you, cousin.

Caroline, Todd, Grace & Grant Eckel

April 20, 2007

We really liked Philip a lot. He was our little ringbearer. He was such a cutie in that little tux. As he grew up that smile and those freckles didn't change. His smile and his happiness were infectious. Todd enjoyed all the great volleyball games he shared with Phil and his ability to "at least hit the ball up" when he was just a little guy. He was such a competitor. I was pretty proud of him when he won the Zuchowski Family reunion horseshoe tournament with his Dad in 2006. I know that he was met up there by a whole bunch of Zuchowski family, I'm sure Philip gets them to sit around a bon fire with him, and they have a wonderful time, but he will really be missed around here. We love you Phil!

Keith Rohrer

April 20, 2007

Zuchowski family

Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family at this most difficult time. Philip's outgoing personality and passion to compete were undeniable. His memory live on in all of us.
Keith, Kristi and Mitchell Rohrer

Andrew Zittleman

April 19, 2007

I'm so sorry for your loss. Even though I didn’t know Philip personally, it is heart wrenching to hear of a class mate’s passing on. I hear he was an awesome person to be around, and he had a smile that could lift a person’s spirit no matter how bad of a day they were having. Philip and your family will always be in my prayers. God bless.

Sally and Pat Plicinski

April 19, 2007

Our family reunion is where I saw Phil once a year. We enjoyed his happy nature when he came to our house looking for Robbie a few years ago after a reunion. We don't know why you were picked to endure his loss like many of us have. It's not easy, but we carry on with the gifts God has blessed us with in our surving children. May they love you and comfort you during this sad time of your lives.
Our love and hugs to your entire family. Peace be with you.

Jeff Dojcsak

April 19, 2007

Man, im going to miss all those memories that we had together. Here are some of them: playing football, baseball, kickball, and soccer; ohio skate parties, creamer, nerf gun wars, pool parties, playing with the golf cart, playing with ricky and tony, riding our bikes thinking we owned the world, slime ball, hide-n-seek tag, playing video games, and catching fish with our bare hands at the creek; there are many more to add but not enough room. - rest in peace--Jeff

Andrea Welch

April 19, 2007

I know i've already singed this, but i cant stop thinking about phil i miss him soo much i know we didnt really talk this year, but we have our memories during elementary, you always trick or treating at my house grabbing alot of candy and just running.. Im gonna miss you so much its not the same.. Just watch over ur family for us there having a tough time.. Phil i miss you so much watch over me plz. Bye bud.

My prayers go out to his family.. Im soo sry for your loss just give it time and everything will get better.

Amy (Walenczak) Holmes

April 19, 2007

Zuchowski Family -- How deeply sadden I was to hear about Philip. I remember Jane & I coaxing him into saying "Heavy Duty John" all the time. He was pure entertainment at such a young age. He had such a contagious smile. Know that there a many prayers be said for you.

Kim Lemay

April 19, 2007

Dear Zuchowski Family,
The tragedy that you are ask to endure is beyond our earthly comphrension. Our Father says He will never give us more than we can endure. Some how you must hold on to that and pray that His need to have Philip home with Him was greater then his need to remain with you.
We are good freinds of Debbie & Robert and although we did not know Philip personally we truly want to extend our sympathies to Philip's family.
May God be with you in this very difficult time and may He give all of you strength and comfort.
Sincerely,
John & Kim Lemay

Ashley Yarnboon

April 19, 2007

I was so shocked & still am to hear about Phil. We met at Ohio Skate and became really good friends. I also became friends with some of his friends. I cant believe this could happen to such a great person who had so much going for him. I was at the showing. Im totally devestated because I have not seen Phil in a few years and never knowing that those few years ago would be the last time seeing him. He is in my prayers and also the Zuchowski family. Philip will be missed so much!

kayla savett9

April 19, 2007

i will miis you big guy you always put a smile on every body face peace and love

Malak Taweel

April 19, 2007

We will miss phil terribly. I've known him since second grade and he will never be forgotten. I'm just glad I got a chance to get to know him well. He is in a better place now. peace and love to the family

malak danielle kathryn taweel speral topelian

April 19, 2007

we will miss you so much and hope your in a better place you were like a brother to malak and danielle you will always be in our heart. peace and love to you and your family

malak danielle kathryn taweel topelian speral

April 19, 2007

Kathryn Topelian
Malak Taweel
Danielle Speral

Dawn Hinojosa

April 19, 2007

To the family of philip :my heart is so deeply distressed over your loss my niece and nephew goes also to bedford and knew your son, there are no words for your loss , but the god of all comfort can comfort you all at this time . Matt:5:4 blessed are they who mourn for they shall be comforted.

Cory Wilson

April 19, 2007

Ray and Barb. My name is Cory Wilson and i was a good friend of Phil. I first met him in drivers ed class and we have been best buds ever since. I will never forget his great bowling style in the Jr. Travel League. I have bowled with him before and i don't know if you remember me. I am deeply sorry for you loss and your family will be in my prayers.

Barb Wilczynski

April 19, 2007

Dear Zuchowski Family, Wow, what a shock. We cannot express in words the heart ache that we feel for all of you. As I read the other entries about Philip I can believe what they say about him is true. Our memories are of Philip sitting in a stroller at the RC softball games. Jane was the funniest little girl ever, so much fun. What a great family Philip has. His life on earth was good. I believe he can do great things for his family and friends from his new home. We may never understand why something like this happens. We can only have faith that he is happy. God Bless all of you. Best wishes.
Barb and Dan Wilczynski

Al King

April 19, 2007

Ray and Barb, I am so sorry to hear about Phil. I just saw Wednesdays paper and saw that he had died. I wish I would have seen it before today so I could have paid my respects to you. You are both in my prayers. May God bless all of you and welcome Phil into his arms. If I can do anything for you call me.

Marianne Nehls

April 19, 2007

Jane and family: I'm so sorry for your loss. Phil truly was an amazing person. I'll never forget his smile, his laugh. Stay strong. With love.

Mikayla Whitson

April 19, 2007

Phil,

Man dude im gunna miss you soo much! It kills me to see you goin like this. Its a shocker! I still dont want to believe that its really real. I went to your showing.. but im sorry that i couldnt go to your funeral. That really kills me.. like totally! I hope you have fun up there and wish us luck down here. I love you Philly and ill miss my little ChAmPiOn! =)=)<3

p.s. I hope that they have a Lil Shack up where you are!! ;)

Zach Johnston

April 19, 2007

The Zuchowski Family
Phil was one of the best friends i've ever had.he was always nice even if he was in a bad mood and everyone loved him...Even though i only knew him for 2 or 3 years..he always had that ability to make me laugh and he was always fun to be around...he made school fun to go to for me..i also played baseball with him.he was really good at baseball......we always messed around and talked alot..but i was always the one that got caught by the teacher ..there were so many good times with him that i deffinately will never forget...i will never forget him....he will be missed...

Jamie Saltzman

April 19, 2007

My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I'm here for you if you need me.

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