Search by Name

Search by Name

John Demmler Obituary

John H. "Jack" Demmler, 88, of Longwood at Oakmont, formerly of Fox Chapel, and a lifelong resident of Pittsburgh, died Sunday, Nov. 29, 2020. Janet, his wife of 55 years and the love of his life, died in May 2012. Their three children, Richard (Nan), of Bellevue, Wash., Ralph (Karen), of Yardley, Pa., and Carol Carty (Michael), of Sandpoint, Idaho; as well as six grandsons Alex, John, Mitchell, Thomas, William and Samuel, survive. Jack is a graduate of Shady Side Academy (1950) and Princeton University (1954). Following two years of service in the Army Field Artillery, primarily in Korea, Jack graduated cum laude from Harvard Law School in 1959. Jack was admitted to the Pennsylvania Bar in 1960 and practiced corporate law as an associate attorney and then as a partner at Reed Smith in Pittsburgh until he retired in 1995. Jack served on the Alumni Council, as a board member and as chairman of the Board of Shady Side Academy. He was a trustee emeritus of Shady Side Academy. Jack also served in a number of other volunteer positions, including as chairman of the Fox Chapel Zoning Hearing Board. Jack and Janet were avid travelers, having set foot on all seven continents. Their adventures were often to view wildlife, from polar bears in the Arctic, to lions on the African Savannah, to penguins at the South Pole. Even after Janet's death in 2012, Jack continued his travel and ventures that included a trip to Greenland and a solo drive across the Western United States from Washington to Idaho and on through to Douglas, Ariz., where his wife, Janet was born and raised. The burial service is private. The family will hold a memorial service at a future date. Arrangements were made by BURKET-TRUBY FUNERAL HOME CREMATION & ALTERNATIVE SERVICES INC., Oakmont. 412-828-3535. The family appreciates contributions in Jack's memory to Shady Side Academy, 423 Fox Chapel Road, Pittsburgh, PA 15238, or Western Pennsylvania Conservancy, 800 Waterfront Drive, Pittsburgh, PA 15222.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Triblive Online Only on Dec. 6, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for John Demmler

Sponsored by Burket-Truby Funeral Home Cremation & Alternative Services.

Not sure what to say?





3 Entries

Diane Baumgartner Mooney

November 30, 2021

Rest in happiness and peace my friend.

Diane Fisher

December 8, 2020

Dear Richard, Ralph and Carol, What a treasure your dad was to me! We were SSA Trustees together and he was my chosen partner each year as we processed in for graduation. During my tenure he gave me unflagging support, including several thoughtful notes of support when I needed it most. He was a true gentleman and we shared a mutual affection for which I feel so fortunate. I hope you will smile when thinking of all the wonderful memories you must have of him.
Diane Fisher

Diane Mooney

December 6, 2020

Demmler Family,
So sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Prayers and hugs being sent your way.
Diane and Mike Mooney

Showing 1 - 3 of 3 results

Make a Donation
in John Demmler's name

Memorial Events
for John Demmler

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Burket-Truby Funeral Home Cremation & Alternative Services

421 Allegheny Avenue, Oakmont, PA 15139

How to support John's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor John Demmler's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more