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Heather Durham

1972 - 2019

Heather Durham obituary, 1972-2019, Tacoma, WA

BORN

1972

DIED

2019

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Tuell-McKee Funeral Home - Tacoma

2215 Sixth Avenue

Tacoma, Washington

Heather Durham Obituary

Heather Durham July 13, 1972 - February 24, 2018 Heather was a beloved daughter, sister, mother and friend. Heather Durham left this world unexpectedly at 46, on Feb. 24, 2018. Born in Las Vegas, NV July 13,1972 to Thom Durham and Nancy Miller(Goldsmith), Heather grew up in Tacoma, WA, where she attended Wilson High School. Heather has two wonderful children Lilly (17) and Henry (14) Durham whom she adored. Heather was passionate, a lover of the arts, classic cars and listening to music. She was the constant comedian, outgoing and vivacious. We will always remember her infectious laughter, beautiful blue eyes and her caring personality. She will be sorely missed by all who knew and loved her. Heather was preceded in death by her Grandparents Mary and Gordon Goldsmith and Norma and Arthur Durham. She leaves behind her parents, sister Nellie and Nellie's husband Jonathan and their children, sister Christine, Brother Tony; brother Lane; sister Maggie; daughter Lilly and son Henry, aunts uncles, cousins and friends. We love you and miss you so much Heather/ Mom! Funeral will be held Liberty Baptist Church, 909 Dartmouth St. Tacoma, WA 98466 at 5 p.m. Flowers delivered 9-4. Sign the online guestbook at tuellmckee.com

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Feb. 28, 2019.

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Mason

February 22, 2025

I miss you every day Heather I will always have our memories and will always love you it gets harder every year I hope we will get to see each other again I really do love you heather

Henry Durham

October 9, 2023

I miss you mom

Chriskris Framke

May 1, 2023

Heather, I can't believe times gone by so fast since we seen each other . I was going through things iny garage when I came across Henry's favorite stuffed animal that he left here . We laughed how he kicked my brother square in the nutty buddies , well actually we rolled and laughed so hard we almost cried . I've not seen either your kids, but I'm sure they are doing ok with as tough as they were .
I miss you my friend , I truly do . Not as many of the North end folks left , Tacoma's gone and growd itself all up like the fancy , shmancy way .I'm sure you and my dad , Kurt Palmer , Aj LaChapelle ,and the rest are saving a spot near the water for the rest of us , undoubtetly we'll catch up one day . Until then make sure Chris Cornell,and Dimebag Darryl know I'll be expecting them to be ready to raise the roof ,or cloud.
Raindrops in my head ,the neverending pain , tears fill my blind 3rd eye , asking God if I'm insane. Looking in her soul,
the clarity became crystal clear.
While supergluing your broken heart , he found his image in your mirror . Ck2023 StoopidQ-pid
chriskris

Jaime Russell

February 22, 2023

Girl still miss not see you. I vsnt believe it's been 5 years already. Jose and I still talk about you all the time. We all had some good times. Wish you were here still so much to say so much has gone on.

At the storage there is a dragonfly that always flies around we always say it's you. So everytime Shyla sees it she says Heather's come to see us. Love ya and miss you. Jaime, Jose, and shyla

Cynthia Seaman

March 21, 2019

Hi Heather it's Cyndi I can't believe this wow you will be missed a lot you always were the kind of person that when you had your mind set on something there was no stopping you I always enjoyed your company you really crack me up a lot of times rest in peace girl I will remember you always...

denice Zimmerman

March 15, 2019

henry...your mom loved you so much. as you grow strong you can protect the children in ways only you know need fixed.
lily...your mom loved you so much. i have faith for our future knowing women like you will be running things.

Jaime Russell

March 10, 2019

Heather I will truly miss you. You are a good person. You were a good friend and I will cherish all the fun memories we had. I hope you are looking down and realizing how many people loved you even if you didnt know it. We never tell people how much we care until it's to late. You were a true friend to me. I'm very sad that you left us so early. I know you are watching over us and your family.

Mason Dix

March 4, 2019

Its weird not having u walk this earth heather i will always miss you and love you may u R.I.P HEARHER

Larry Palazzo

March 2, 2019

Rest In Peace Heather

Jennifer Kalning

March 1, 2019

I was shocked to hear about your passing. It's been years since I seen you but have great memories of our kids together. You were such a free spirit and didn't care what anyone thought. You used to crack me up with our conversations. Lilly and Henry if your seeing this, I hope and pray for strength and comfort for both of you. RIP Heather.

Keenan Pete

March 1, 2019

I'm sorry for all who loss this beautiful lady . I'm proud of herfor hernstrengjt and courage. You will be missed truelyand I Love You Heather Durham

Theresa

March 1, 2019

You will be missed my friend!

Anthony Gillis

March 1, 2019

Sorry for your loss, my condolences!!!!

February 28, 2019

Sorry for your loss. May God give you comfort and peace at this time.

A. Santos

February 28, 2019

My sincere condolences to family and friends. I am so sorry for your great loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn," sustain your family during this challenging time. Isaiah 61: 1, 2

A. Santos

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