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Rudy Crew
November 5, 2022
It´s only now that I learned of the loss of Dan. I so remember his warm smile, genuine hand shake and giving soul. He was so bright, kind and generous in all he did for teachers, children and the district. He will long be remembered as the best of the best.
Jack Barkley
April 2, 2019
He was my mentor and he always said how he wanted to see me grow up and become my own person. It kills me every day knowing that he never will get to see it happen. He would want me to remember the jun times a had with him and the advice that he gave me I will always remember my favorite grandparent and my mentor.
Warren Carlson
November 6, 2017
Dang. I hadn't spoken with Dan in years, but twice yesterday I thought of him. Anthony Bourdain did a "Parts Unknown" program on Lagos (I highly recommend), and the winner on Jeopardy was a person from Lacey who as a State Department brat had been in Nigeria. If he was school age, the odds are high he went to AIS. I was looking Dan up to tell him about the above. Wow. So sad.
I had no idea he had passed. I have only wonderful memories of all my interactions with Dan and Jill, beginning maybe in Athens in 1975, but for sure in Nairobi in 1977 and Lagos thereafter. He was as classy a guy as I ever dealt with. Warm, wise, great sense of humor and a wonderful sense of the sublime. Being he and Jill's house guest was a genuine treat, every time.
We saw each other every few years related to AIS Lagos or other educational stuff, and spending time with him always brightened my day. His generosity of spirit was particularly special. I was working on establishing a scholarship in the name of a mutual friend and called Dan since I was aware he knew how the Lagos Foundation handled things. He gave good advice and in the end offered, "If you can't find any other way that works out for taxes and all, I'm sure we could run it through the Lagos Foundation."
That's just how he was.
His family and the Tacoma community have lost a truly special man.
July 15, 2017
Time passes, fond memories linger. Dan left a wonderful legacy to all the staff at the Tacoma School District. I feel very fortunate to have been one of those staff members to have worked with Dan.
Irwin Krigsman
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Renee Hale
July 11, 2017
July 11, 2017
Dan Barkley...What a wonderful man he was. Always so nice and always so caring. I worked with Dan for about 5 years and respected his leadership. It was great to know him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Sunny Cairns
July 10, 2017
Dan will be missed. He made a lasting contribution wherever he went. Our family will always be grateful to him for our experiences in Lagos at AISL. In addition, his wise counsel, support, and insight made the opening of the Tacoma School of the Arts possible. Dan's positivity made changing education look easy. We are forever grateful to him. He is gone far too soon. Sunny, Steve, Daniel and Ian Cairns
Kimi Irene Ginn
July 10, 2017
Sorry to learn of Dan's passing. His dedication to working collaboratively and building coalitions to ensure our Tacoma youth reach their academic and career goals will live on. Graduate Tacoma will continue to move forward. May he rest in peace! Kimi Irene Ginn, Interim Director - Vibrant Schools Tacoma
Kimi Irene Ginn
July 10, 2017
Sorry to learn of his passing. His dedication to the success of children will live on as a result of his hard work and his ability to maintain a process for many to work collaboratively to ensure our Tacoma youth reach their academic and career goals. May he rest in peace. And may Graduate Tacoma continue to move forward. Kimi Irene Ginn, Interim Director for Vibrant Schools Tacoma
Bob Green
July 9, 2017
RIP Mr. Barkley. I only knew you two years at McIlvaigh but you were a big influence in my life. You and Karen Noren opened up a new world of inquiry to me for which I am eternally grateful. Many thanks and it was a pleasure to know you. My prayers are with your family.
Rick & Debbra Long
July 9, 2017
Our condolences to Dan's family.
He was a good person and someone always to look up to.
Rick and Debbra Long
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